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Mother. Partner. CS (FP) Skills Educator. Learning Support Specialist. Sports Admin. MEd (RD) Candidate.

South Africa
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@SechogelaPhadim
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I don't think that I will ever go back to the Hospitality industry, it was my first love but I'm afraid that the Education sector has consumed my life and Special/Inclusive Education to be specific, has captured my heart. I thought that I would go back to my first love, or at…
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I hope the #NationalShutdown includes getting rid of the '18-35 years' restriction placed on job & training opportunities. A lot of people lost jobs over the past two years for this discrimination to continue.
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My mother promised her relatives that I, Naledi, would cook for their event free of charge. This was done without my knowledge, they even have a menu & have bought ingredients. Unfortunately for them, andizi.
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So after assembly one of my little ngwanas rushed to me saying there is an emergency in class & he quickly ran back, I rushed there & was welcomed by a Happy Birthday song and this gift😍
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Wow, my brother committed suicide 10 years ago and our cousin is only telling me the reason now. I'm shattered💔
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@khanyi_lusy He'll have to break up with me first because I didn't get him anything either.
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This is not even about money. I need all of them to not make such decisions on my behalf.
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@SechogelaPhadim
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@mahwele Delulu is definitely not the solulu 🤣🤣🤣
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@Beelebrity @RevonniAdams What if you are already pregnant? 🤣🤣🤣
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@Kim_Khandashisa A friend of my mom's husband left her when their son was a new born,after he had convinced her to resign while she was pregnant. He proceeded to divorce her and went to be with another lady & takes care of kids that ain't his but doesn't even have a relationship with his own son.
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I will not rest until I find the girl, she didn't have to go through this trauma alone and if the child is alive, shouldn't be raising him/her by herself.
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That there is a young lady who might not have been able to reach her full potential because she had a child at a young age. It might be 10 years later, but she deserves to be heard.
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The side hustle vs the Profit
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@SechogelaPhadim
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@Lush_Beauty1 Don't stay loyal to one man while he is dating multi of you, condomise & prevent. Always choose you.
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@SechogelaPhadim
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@_HeRo112 You sound like a disrespectful parent.
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@Seroetsana2 A hungry man and a fed man are two different people.
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We were supposed to unveil his tombstone next month but have decided to postpone(due to Level 3 restrictions). Little did I know that this would be revealed. I'll do my best to delay it until we have found the mother & child.
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@lisa_maliee To those asking what he was doing during the day/after school, he was playing, as he should because he is a kid. Imagine spending hours in class then not refreshing your mind with some play time. Kids are supposed to be kids.
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@SechogelaPhadim
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@busiswx Baby girl wants to go and scream out 'Last Last' 😭🤣🤣🤣
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@GodessOshun Now baby daddy can't steal the picture and claim to be taking care of his son😩🤣🤣🤣
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@_LeratoMabuza She self sabotaged, that's on her. You didn't have to be kind but you were and she let her unresolved emotional issues cloud her judgment.
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My younger brother hanged himself with an extention cord because he had gotten a girl pregnant. Eish💔😭
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@SechogelaPhadim
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@Musa_Khawula It's your bravery for me, one that qualified journalists do not have.
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I have a slight idea of how to find her and I will find her and help her in every possible way I can.
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@sonkiie Waste: of sin, time, & energy.
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@SaziMba I'm obsessed about my satisfaction and 'on top' is the only way to ensure that I get what I want. Di fracture tsa batho di tla ema nyana.
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@NgwenyaMpumz Getting married to a man you know cheats & is expecting kids from his ex, again, while dating you, is not strength, it's desperation. I would rather be unmarried than desperate & an intentional Bari.
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This was all I needed😍 I'm 31 ya'll🍾
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There is a possibility that my late brother's child could be somewhere out there.
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@AngieYammie I honestly don't understand why they are like this, okare they want to be liked at our expense.
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@jmapelle_Max @oficialMajorT 1 Peter 2:9 'But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a dedicated nation, [God's] own purchased, special people, that you may set forth the wonderful deeds and display the virtues and perfections of Him Who called you out of darkness into His marvelous light.'
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@Humanity_B Babe, I don't even want to know. The other day she baked for them and left nothing in the house for the boys, not even 1 Scone.
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@sk1tguru Nah, I blame him for not cooking. All this could have been prevented.
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@VhoJudith The problem with kids is that they sense when you want tlof tlof so they won't even sleep on time tonight & they will cling to you for dear life.
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I understand why he couldn't tell us, I was pregnant at the time & our dad was angry at me & wasn't even talking to me. So maybe he felt that he too would be treated that way & decided that the best thing was to take his own life.
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@SechogelaPhadim
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@Am_Blujay I think the point here is that she used to have harsh opinions about other people's bodies and yet she is here, not maintaining the body standards that she had set.
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@Ms_Mashishi Love yourself first and loudly.
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Called my cousin to find out if she is ok. She says she has been dreaming about my brother a lot lately and felt that it's time to share the little that he had shared with her.
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@GusMulondo Submission shouldn't be at the expense of my business, time and peace of mind. It shouldn't be decided for me either.
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@haniwa_45 @Craazy_Nerd Bubbles and Banele sitting on the tree
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@mbakhokho I'm glad that you didn't compromise, otherwise they would have thought that you are a money maker. It's our duty to teach parents boundaries.
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So basically my brother had gotten someone pregnant and only shared the name of the girl and area where she stays. They then agreed that they would meet the following day to talk more about it. Unfortunately my brother decided to take his life before they could meet.
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@SechogelaPhadim
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@tsitsitema Firstly, you shouldn't be asking your bf if you can come with, it should be a given gore you are the plus one. If not, that's the first red flag, second one is him saying he is going with his female friend.
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@GodessOshun And nothing happened to him right? No arrest nothing?
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@CeliStewart Another reason why I fear marriage, I wouldn't want to be this graceful and matured. I would leave and let them have each other. This is too deep🙌
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@IamCamaroM @K_AGISO Not him wearing Wimpy colours🤣🤣🤣
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@Somi_Thinga @khanyi_lusy Sis, this day has never been part of our relationship. No amount of noise is going to change that. We appreciate and buy each other things on any day. We spent the afternoon together just like all Sundays.
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@Dzubhar You can't be forced to cook for free all in the name of God. I stopped helping at my previous church when they would pay outsitters their full price but wouldn't do the same to me.
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@bonkers_bee My boyfriend 😍 Like dude will even call me 'Love' through out the fight, be all lovey dovey, offer me a drink, etc I hate that he fights gently & mindfully.
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@MsMamma_ Isaiah 60:22 'When the Time Is Right, I,the Lord Will Make It Happen'
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@DinnyMazibuko Please don't, relatives like taking advantage. And it's usually the ones that would never help you when you are in need.
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@2meleng What? 😲 She wants peace ka chelete ya mang?
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@MLanga19 Nop, I don't attend events I wasn't invited to or last minute invites. I'm going to buy myself beer & enjoy the food in the house.
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@DonCorleANN I am fatherful and still wouldn't let a guy tell me what to do with my life.
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@SOWETO_food I don't understand how someone would doesn't want to eat meat would want their food to resemble meat. What is the point of being vegan if you will be spending your time creating meals that look like what you 'hate'?
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@Bonisile_RMS That time the aunt was the one who paid for them while the husband was spending his money on side chics or even taking care of his siblings.
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@andile_mbuqu Mma Tikane SID Teacher Consumer Studies & Hospitality Studies
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@kgosatsana27 Not to sound mean or discourage you in any way but the images look like they were taken straight from the internet and maybe that might be creating a trust issue for most. Please take pictures of the bags that you have in your possession.
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@MuriukiEugene Used to be like that until I met the person I'm with, he patiently taught me that arguments are part of the partnership and how to rather fight right than pull blame games on each other.
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@SibaAtSea The worst part about this is that it's women who bash other women.
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@cherideluxe_19 Nah babe, if I do what they want, they will think I am a walk over.
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@AV__Comp Perhaps it's not that he wasn't rich but rather didn't appear rich and might have been saving and investing for moments like these.
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I've been removed from the Staff trip group and my deposit returned, I don't know why. I think I'm blocked too. What's funny is that the person who removed me is the one who had approached me, I had not asked to be a part of the trip, hell I wouldn't even have known about it.
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@SidimaMM @lerrykins_ Church? I would rather go pick someone straight from the deep pit of hell. Church men will dribble you in the name of God.
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@Mingative All you are saying is that they should know their audience and address them accordingly or in their language. I don't understand why some people choose to focus on official languages and tribalism.
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@AamolemoSegoe Sis, you have more courage than some of us. Just thinking about my work environment gives me anxiety.
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Just spoke to my dad, said ne a le ko morakeng that's why I couldn't get hold of him. He is shook but said I should let him know if I find any more information or need anything.
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@RochelleBarrish I was told this as well, had a child and still had heavy periods. Contraceptives didn't help much, the injection & loop made it worse. But I didn't have any growth, decided to remove my uterus & that was one of the best decisions I have ever made for myself.
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@kekeletso_Ma And have zero interest to empower nor develop themselves, they are just there for the title and the salary.
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We haven't had electricity since 20:00 last night, I'm pretty sure this is Stage 10. I woke up to bake orders but obviously won't be able to because of Eskom.
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#Loadshedding #Stage6 Following the tripping of a generation unit each at Kusile and Kriel power stations, Stage 6 loadshedding was implemented effective 04:16. Eskom appeals to the public to help conserve electricity.
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@PhillipSibanda8 This is GBV, the man is being abused but of course we are not going to make noise about it.
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Attended my Graduation🥳🍾🎊🎉💃
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@SechogelaPhadim
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Qualification obtained🍾💃🎊🎉 I had taken a study break for 4 years to focus on motherhood, especially because one of my sons was always in hospital.
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@thisha_omuhle That's how they roll😂
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@Hathaway91Mo @Ursula_Joy @casspernyovest And yet they don't even help with a single cent. It's annoying.
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@KunoFresh @KutlwanoShai I'm very close to deactivating my Facebook account.
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@Makaz_Shunkie @SihleTumani Transport service rendered aow, ya gore there is no bread has nothing to do with him😅
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@IM_Ramushu I've never seen this much malana in my whole life 😳
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@_Takalo_M @ZeeRight Same reality every year🤣
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@KeaKhutsoane It was intentional, to give him time to pack & leave.
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@Cindyswa_M @I_Kimberraxie At this point, I don't even feel like I have friends.
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@ntshuni They want interns to fear them then call it respect, hai fok a re tlogeleng.
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@Vha_Firie Get a cat, plant wild garlic and lemongrass.
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I mourned my late brother's death for over 3 years, varsity kept me sane then I went to counseling for months, but I don't remember ever being mean to others. Don't excuse your meanness for mourning or dealing with heartache, other people are going through things too.
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@Hunadi_theHost @Patienc62882029 🤣🤣🤣 Even those working, the lesson should be 'do what makes you happy and stay in your financial lane'
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@ChockieMokoto @tamwoodsrsa My grade 9 maths teacher used to share her life stories, would tell us how her husband and her walk around naked. That woman was wild and a very great maths teacher too.
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@KeaKhutsoane And Home Choice
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I don't think I've ever been loved this much, for this long. I've always been made to believe that I'm a difficult person to love and be with but this guy has honestly changed the perception I had about myself, love & relationships. 😍
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@phiri_archibald I never do anything for the sake of peace because that steals my peace. I distance myself from anything that requires me to compromise myself, my peace & my values. I avail myself to people who value me and would 100% be there for me when I need them.
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@sindie_16 You are a Queen🥂
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@ApheleleJody We hired quantums and got out the windows while it was moving.
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Beef lasagne done & collected💃
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@Neliswa_Nelli Thank you for paying my son's school fees Sis❤️
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Bathong! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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@lithapelo_dee Clearly the mat was put outside for him😂
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@__greyyyy They were not taking care of the poor & needy, were not developing the youth in the church nor giving back to the community or even improving the state of the church itself. The church income was for the pastor and his family. Oh, I was excommunicated too.
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@Saneh_Mdunge Unnecessary pieces of cloth, wasteful expenditure.
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@lisakhat_ Can we move to information that will uplift us or better yet get us out of the mud that we are in as a country. Decrease of oil prices, etc.
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@JR_PJMR @Mary_JaneSA I went to court the other day because it's closer, wasn't aware that it's 13:00, needed to certify documents and I was told that they're on lunch. I asked if everyone in the building is on lunch, out of curiosity really and guess what the answer was, yes, the building was empty.
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