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📚| Live. Love. Laugh. Lover of people and God🤍 Heb 11 :1 🌱 - Proof of life. 🍁
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There is nothing glamorous about doing life alone, hyper independence is a trauma response, you are not a burden, you derseve to be loved by people and be taken care of, held and loved in abundance. You deserve to be told "I love you , we care". Community is what we all need.
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A sexually disciplined man is going far in life. Once you have that part of your life tamed you are going far as a man. Nice thighs, nice bodies and beautiful women are the downfall of many.
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I realised its not laziness or procrastination, when you reach a certain state of depression you get so detached from reality and you don't wish to participate in anything in life, you just want to sleep and wake up and actually not speak to anyone.
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Ever thought you forgave someone but on some days you look at them with so much resentment and anger? Healing is indeed not linear
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Maybe I am interpreting things wrong but this picture is so dehumanizing .
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Male previlage in black households is a thing and it hurts.☹️
Our childhoods were different our male siblings were having a full blown teenage social life at 16, while girls at 16 were found scrubbing floors, cooking and taking care of everyone depriving them of childhood.
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As I grow, I am realizing that it's easier to run dysfunctional relationships than healthy ones. Dysfunctional things are run from a place of comfort, non-confrontation and unspoken rules while healthy relationships require work, confrontation and uncomfortable conversations.
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I cannot imagine doing life without Jesus . I love him so much , I am so grateful to have given my life to Christ ❤️
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It scares me so much that how another person chooses to treat you is purely in their hands. You can't do anything about it. You could be having pure and good intentions and that's just up to them to decide how they are going to reciprocate no matter your intentions. Yoh.
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Tips for any girl, who wants to start being sassy. Mention everything ladies, from restaurant manners, fashion anything.
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I just want to heal, study further, marry the love of my life, make more money, travel and just love each other. ❤️
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I remember being on a first date with a Zulu gent 😭, I took out my card to pay for my share of the date ( wanted to score points as an independent woman), he said "Haibo sisi with all due respect, ngicela ungangijwayeli kabi" 😭
He paid for everything and decided to ghost me 🤣
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No one is chopping life currently like the 27 - 35 group from the CA(SA), medicine and the (Law) LLM career streams.
They are eating life these ones! 🔥
Love it for them so much 🥺❤️
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The way my luck is placed? I don't participate in such.
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Dating a gent from kasi isn't the problem.
The problem is dating a gent with a kasi mentality and he isn't teachable.
Like imagine your kasi boyfriend saying "Ke dilo tsa makgowa" to picnics and all other cute stuff? All he wants you is to come over to his house?
Nna nka lla.
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Varsity gave me the best years of my life. What a fun experience it was especially for my inner child. I had so much fun in university, the sleepovers, the outings, the girls trips, unlearning and learning, crazy nights out, academics, decision making, clothing of my choice.
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I've reached a point where I don't even know what to say to God, 1 minute in prayer, I decide to stay silent and hope that even if I just cry and don't speak, he hears what my heart has to say at least, life has taken a toll on me lately and I don't even have words anymore 🙏🏽.
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Working in a black small company is risky, the salary payment methods are just vibes! It's suppose to be pay day and I am scared to ask where the salary is 😭, since it functions on moods. Ey bandla.
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I remember when my parents said no I couldn't go to my friend's graduation parties, I was so devastated because all my life I was the kid who explained why I missed their events 💀, not these people fully showing up with gifts even for my grad. What kind of love is this?
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I respect people with masters degrees and Phds wow. You guys have my respect.
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I hate people who don't buy food after errands because why aren't we going to spur or any takeouts after shopping?
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I hate it when people assume that I am not a lover of things, thinking I am a simple girl, haibo I am not, I don't have money. 😭🙏🏽Wait for me to have money you will see my true colours!!
"wena you don't like weaves and nails like di slay queen." Haibo? I don't have Money!!
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I am naturally funny and kind . I promise you I am not your soulmate ❤️
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The depression after studying psychology for 4 years in SA and realizing that actually, I might have wasted 4 years of my life on a passion . Also the costs of the alternative routes included and the lack of emotional support from family during this time, is devastating 💔😔
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I want my relationship with God to take greater heights, I desire to go back to God. Like I was before, it's gonna be hard but I desire that for myself. Intimacy with God.
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The more I grow, I truly realise there is no better way to put this but life needs balls bro. You need to be brave. You need to cry for a little while and fight back. You can't allow everthing to get to you, you need to develop a thick skin. Life needs you to be brave. Yoh.🙏🏽
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I hate poverty, look at me thinking 3 bedroom apartment is luxury, sies. 😭
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Dreams delayed are not dreams denied is really easier said than done. The heartbreak that comes with knowing what you've always wanted might not happen now or even anytime soon hurts. The self doubt, the breakdowns, tears and feeling like a failure that comes with a delayed dream
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I don't think it's ever entirely about money, it's about the man with a plan, the man who's not comfortable with suffering, the ambitious man, the man with a good character especially Kindess , the one with a vision. It's truly about that.
What do you ladies think?
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Certain stages in a man's life need him to decline other things that may hinder his growth and focus on building, as part of building you need to sacrifice your urges and focus. Certain mistakes are hard to bounce back from, FOCUS!
Women are everywhere. Opportunities are not.
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Kanti guys where do your boyfriends get money? What do they do for a living, to be able to afford beacations, MacBooks, iPhone's and all that?
*Re Squeezeng in, Re lokeleng. 👀
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One thing about me I'll think about an embarrassing moment that happened 4 years ago and still cringe.
I hate embarrassment yoh 😭
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We were coming back from a church conference it was around 7pm, he made a 14 year old pay for petrol & I didn't pay for anything & then on top of that he dropped her by the taxis which are a bit far when he could have dropped her for safety reasons , I saw a loser in him.
What ended your feelings for someone you were once madly in love with?
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I get so embarrassed, when I think of the past. We really settled, begged for the barest minimum and gave people who actually didn't derseve us a chance.
We know better now and we will act like we are the prize!
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One thing I am learning as I grow is that I can not pray myself out of God's divine timing, even if I climb the highest mountains and fast for weeks, when I am not ready to receive the blessing or the open door then, it will all be in vain. Hence God's time is the best. 🤍🙏🏽
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Linda Mtoba won the in law Olympics, Paris with the in laws and not doing hard labour until until is a dream.
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One thing about me, I love the finer things in life and I am truly on the path working hard to afford myself a comfortable life. I love fine things. I desire fine things. I will have fine things. Fine things for me through and through
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I was very insecure because I was skinny, I had small boobs and bad grades. Few years later I have a banging body, fat a** that fits so perfectly with my small boobs, not wearing a bra is heaven and I actually graduated 2 times with a cum laude from tuks, almost on my 3rd degree.
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I am such a dreamer , I always imagine myself in the best highest possible places . I think That's what keeps my focus and resilience during the hardest days because I dream.
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Someone once said high standards will save you from a lot of low quality experiences and they didn't lie. Easy access and bare minimum breeds a lot of disrespect, you find yourself going all out for people who don't even move an inch for you .
Reciprocate or f*ck off. 🙏🏽
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Guys is it me but being single for too long you end up being too choosy and having dizzy standards? Also man ke bhorega fast!
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Isn't there a remedy to tone down your feelings for someone?
I suspect ngizolimala la.
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People will literally show you that relationships are not a beauty contest or an academic field, people choose who they want. Even if you prove yourself, they will go after who they want, degree or not, looks or not, people go for who they want to be with.
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Personally, when you come to me woman to woman, please be kind because we were both lied to by the same dog. Unpack your side of the lie, I will unpack my side. Don't come at me sideways with a condescending tone, over a dishonest man pls 👍🙏🏽
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I may not know what happens in the background but then I think Bontle Modiselle married a good man. She is fiercely herself and thriving in a career most traditional men would love their partners to tone down on. But every year she is elevating and listen I love it!! ❤️
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Not everyone has sinister intentions, you derseve to be treated right because you are deserving. Not everyone who treats you right has an agenda, that is trauma speaking because you had to prove yourself and you worked for love. Now it's time to relax and be loved for free. 🌸
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Andile Mpisane just showed us that it is very important to ask yourself " Uthini yena umfana" before you confirm anything .😭😭💀💔
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- I always fantasize about luxury . I love soft , what ever soft is to me , I desire that .🤍
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As I grow, I am starting to understand the importance of not letting my feelings for someone lead me more than the reality that's right in front of me, how you feel about someone won't change who they really are.
Emotions won't change reality. 🙏🏽
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Guys quick question, how do I make sure the car doesn't slide back when there are other cars on a steep hill? Please it's urgent 😭
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A partner is found at a funeral, wedding, church, university especially UCT / Tuks and Woolies around 5pm on weekdays.
Don't say I didn't plug you 🙏🏽
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I need a study to be conducted on why do we love people who do not love us back or do not prioritize / love us the very same way we do!
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Friendship dates are so soothing. Even when they are indoors, just tons of vulnerablity, being yourself fully with no judgment, tears there and there and love all round.
I love friendships so much ♥️
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I promise you I wasn't a victim. I chose him.
How old was your partner when you were 2 years old❓️
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You see these careers with board exams? Ey. Let's do nursing and teaching so that we can get out of the hood faster guys those people are actually stable stable at like 25 even. 👍🏾☹️
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My grandparents are a good example of for better or worse , my granny has been suffering from major depression & alziehmer. My grandfather cleans ,cook ,baths her ,feeds her ,prays for her ,takes her to he hospital. He said no to the old age home & opted to take care of his wife
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Brenden & Mpoomy are really building their empire, brick by brick, process by process & it's so nice seeing them elevate,the more we experience them,we experience them at a better & greater level than we did the last time,that's how committed they are to giving us quality content
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Starting over at 22 😭 by the time I finish I'll be 26 , I'll have to start building myself again at 26 , okay but what if I am gonna waste money starting this degree but then again I'll still be 26 in 4 years degree or not .
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I really need to get an iPhone because I am so beautiful and my current phone doesn't let you guys see what I am taking about. 😕
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These 2, give marriage the best PR bro, like they will make you want to settle down tommorrow
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I can't wait for an Era in my life where my hardwork, will pay me back.
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Marrying Zulu is actually expensive.
Umembeso.
Umkhehlo
The traditional wedding.
The white wedding.
Amahlabiso
Yoh
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Dating a groovist isn't for the faint hearted .
From Thursday to Sunday , y'all don't speak after 5pm . Only after curfew nakhona for a young good night and "Yeah it was fun babe " cycle ends Monday 8am .
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I am definitely treating my graduation, like a wedding, going all in and harder, hair, suit, shoes, nails, lashes. I deserve it. An honours with distinction? No chyle pls.
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I think my aunt is experiencing a mid life crises or some sort of self discovery at 42, almost 20 years of marriage and 3 kids later, she is going out with friends, doing her make up, liberated clothing sense but I get it all she knew was being home, church, got married had kids
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I've tried my best academically to get myself out of the hood, the only option left is to marry rich 🙂🙏🏽
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Shouldn't even have dated in the first place.
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3 bedroom apartment ne BMW is basic? Surely my standards are bottom barrel bethuna 😭.
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Downgrading on medical aid options, Cutting off dstv for showmax & Netflix, Sticking to rain network, Using an urn instead of a geyser, Driving the SUV to functions only and using the picanto everyday, Buying from legit shops only for important functions, seems like a good idea.
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One thing I hate about romantic dates is the anxiety that comes when it's time to order 💀😭, one thing about me I am not in my fine dining era yet, the thought that I just want a burger & chips while uGuy would be eating Risotto and stuff like that stresses me. 😭
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I desire soft landings . I desire to be handled with care. To cry and breakdown when needed. To be the softer and kinder version of myself. To be authentic. To have soft people around me. To have a saving grace. To love. To pray. To eat
I desire soft landings and soft circles ❤️
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Hear me out guys, I am willing to struggle through anything but not money and a horrible marriage pls.
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To those who are able o start over especially new degrees, where do you guys get the money?
Re squeezeng in 😐😭
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I just made the biggest mistake of my life and showed a parent my salary. I want to evaporate chyle.
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One thing I hate every heartbreak that comes with each dating experience is that it deteriorates you, now the next person can't experience the best of you because they might also trigger you in a way that you end up letting go of something that was potentially going to work out☹️
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"Wait on the lord", but your parents made a few calls?
No la bhora shame. 🧍♀️😭
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I want to understand the thought process of someone who knows that they lack the ability to be romantic and present but they still want to go for a relationship? Why
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Marks are out ! I greet you all as a University of Pretoria graduate 😭♥️✨
Class of 2021 .
I flew at UP 😭😭😭😭🙏
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📝Save him as Myeni Wam.
Got it.
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I need a sugar daddy but the one that will say choose any degree you want to study and I'll fund it till the end.
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I can't wait to come back home to someone I'll call my husband some day and build a beautiful life with him ❤️.
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I am going to have a very beautiful life. What ever beautiful means to me. I am going to have that. 🙏🏽
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Jokes really write themselves. Yoh.
I wish I could do life with this person forever . We are best friends and it's so fun over here, even during conflicts, "Good morning beautiful " after a conflict 🤣, I wanna do this with him forever. it's nice being in a healthy space 🥺❤️
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Bathong they like us in the beginning hle.
Please start dating people who actually like y’all. You shouldn’t have to suffer for love or beg for the bare minimum
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One thing about me I will gravitate towards the guy who takes the effort to make things happen for me. Idk man, I will fall for the one who makes thing happen and pushes mountain for me, the one who doesn't text back? I will eventually wean off him for the guy who chooses me
This man drove from CPT to see me 😭😭and the one I want can’t even answer my texts 🤡😂😂
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