Man loses wife, remarries after 6 months. People say he's healed and the kids need a mother figure.
Woman loses husband, starts DATING after 2 years.
Society goes mental!
Being the ugly dark skinned friend has saved me from so much drama. I'm not a baby mama. I'm not u happily suffering in a marriage. Im not a divorcee. I'm not stocko.
I just work and make money, travel, have sex here and there and mind my own business. Enkosi man bra God.
@nathanmahachi
@Mlu__N2
I also think we need to unpack "attitude and disrespect". People take a lot of offense when they aren't begged for approval. A woman with her own things will keep you informed but not ask for your permission and this is(from my experience) what men call attitude and disrespect.
@SihleStan231
This is exactly why we shouldn't have kids. We'll become a burden and end up with depressed, suicidal kids just because we are needy parents. Or, we'll resent our kids for living for themselves talking about "I carried you for 9 months" lmao.
@MrBlackOG
"I've been following the growth and changes of this company since I got my degree. Over the years I've acquired 1,2,3 skills which align with the direction the company is headed"
@kulanicool
And the thing is I'm waiting to be dragged about what I'm about to say but you have no business having children if you're poor. It's not about you, it's about the kids and their experiences growing up. This is how we have adults with childhood trauma. Nxi.
@lendzie_
Babe when I started out in the hospitality industry my dad was livid coz he didn't know a single person who'd done the course or let alone works in the industry. I followed my heart and passion and I'm doing OK. Show him why you were the change your industry needed.
@gbennylola
I've watched this a thousand times and my conclusion is that when people don't like you they'll say just about anything at all to put you down.
@RudolfMosoma
I had this chat with mom. Like we're NOT gonna blame sis in law for my brothers behaviour. Hes irresponsible and thats on him. I hope more families see through their toxic son's pretences💕
@iamthobani
This. Minnie was probably going through the most and her friend was there for her but of course nizothetha ikaka. I dont see the same vibes ngo Quinton
@BonganiNtuli
Once men actively go on the pill we can have this chat. While the responsibilities lies on the women and all men do is talk, fetus deletus.
@thulasizwe
@Mlu__N2
Accurate. However if a higher earning man is disrespectful to his wife she's expected to bow her head. If she were to do the same it wouldn't be because she's just rude and disrespectful, her having more money would be the reasoning.