Lerato ❤🇿🇦 🇵🇸
@lerrykins_
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Opinionated| Socially awkward| Dreamer | Mommy to 2 love bugs| I dont regret anything that once made me happy| I love Sindi Dlathu and The Boks 🏆🇿🇦
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Came to the office looking all kinds of cute today😍😊🥺
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Me watching Dr Musa and Liesl’s anniversary vacation content 😍
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I’m a mom to a whole graduate you guys, my baby is going to grade 1 next year 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
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Happily married women don't see the need to want to convince everyone to get married, let alone shame single or divorced women. they go about living their best lives, loving and being loved by their husbands. kodwa the bekezela queens want everyone to suffer like them
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Just deleted my Tinder and Hinge accounts, the dating pool is the bottom guys. Being single in your 30s is a lot, please work things out nabantu benu, for my sake please 🙏🏾😭
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Guys 🥹🥹🥹😍😭🙏🏾
Anyway tomorrow I’m fetching my baby’s school report and I just know she did well, she’s my child kalok
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The real question here should be, why are your children so easily disposable to you for this to even be a consideration?
This is one of the hardest topics
If you get Married do you leave your Child at home, or uhamba nayo ?
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@MazikodeThah
And when you try and bring it up, they gaslight you and you end up holding to some hope that you imagined the hate, only for them to repeat the cycle
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Last year I’d be broke, bills not fully paid and touch and go with food. This year, I’m still broke but my bills are paid, stationery and uniform sorted for the kids, and we have food at home. Yhooo I’m grateful to be at a better place 🙏🏾
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Honestly speaking, I hate people who highlight their Im-the-exception-to-the-rule life experiences when systematics issues are raised. We tell you patriarchy is harmful, you tell us you have great dads and brothers, we tell you marriage as an institution was not built for women..
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Mna guys my ex hubby said I was confused about the nature of our relationship, as in ndaphazama about why his uncles were at my fathers gate 😭😭😭😭🤚🏽
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People literally walked from the cbd to townships izolo and this is your focus? Asina media, sine clowns
FRIDAY BRIEFING | Mussolini or Madonna? Julius Malema takes the political stage
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I’m watching the Mihlali episode of
#Unfollowed
and her demeanour is reminding me of a younger Nonhle Thema.
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There's nothing cute about amadoda enu wasting imali on the "wrong" grocery as if abatyi nabo. someone called it "weaponized incompetence" and we have to fight it ngandlela zonke
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Izolo I went to fetch lay-buy ye mpahla for my kids and I was filled with so much pride. That EYE did that 🥹😍
Mdali is seeing us through kancane kancane and I’m eternally grateful and so proud of myself
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My likkle family and I finally did a photoshoot and I'm in awe of what beautiful babies I have 😍😍😍😍❤❤❤🥺🥺🥺
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Zoleka Mandela’s passing has hit me in a way I never expected. I hope she’s at peace, I pray she’s finally resting and reunited with Mama Winnie, Mam’Zindzi and her daughter
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Watching the interview between Enhle and Zinhle made me sad for Enhle. She hasn't healed from the pain and its evident from how she kept looking for similarities between her and Z's story. You do that when you haven't dealt with pain, you look to others to validate your pain
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I don’t mean to brag but my daughter has been invited to the prize giving at her school. I want to cry because this year has been so hard and my kids just seem to bring me pockets of pride and joy.
And I did it alone, bethunana 🥹😍
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My unsolicited take on
#RHODurbanReunion
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Sane is a pathological liar and she can’t be helped
I’m a ho for Annie Sorisha Slee friendship
Ruan is a spineless joke
Feel sorry for Maria
Jojo and Nonku deserve each other
Slee is gorgeous and I forgive her for la 6 years 🫣😭😩
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Thinking about Babes and the power that man has wielded over her life, how she knows nothing else and he's been able to cash in on her and exploit her nkosenofefe. I pray society gives her the compassion she will need the day she gatherers enough strength to leave him
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I'm really struggling with this narrative that Qhawe is also inlove with Hlomu. Before yall come for me ngo "inspired by" my issue is how this storyline kills the closeness that I imagined for Mqhele and Qhawe, the love, the loyalty, the fondness.
#TheWifeShowmax
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Isibaya will always be goated because it was the blueprint of how all SA telenovela were told. It was the bar, before Chri… ayi futhi cut cut 😩😭😩
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Months later, when the other lady was pressuring him to leave me, he told her that I threatened to hurt myself and my child if he leaves so he can’t😭😂
Married men and lies Sana🤚🏽😂
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Farewell
#TheWifeShowmax
The evil you brought into our lives was enough.
What a monumental disaster, may we never get to experience such in our lifetime.
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I am at a point where I want to block/mute everyone who says they are upset that the series is different from the book...bathong, would we still watch it if there was no element of surprise? and shm
@dududube
said the series is inspired by characters and events🙄
#TheWifeShowmax
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I watched the Enhle video and shm I’m happy she did that, Nina niqhela abantu kakubi and want them to play u bigger person, just to protect isdima somntu who harmed you! That man had 2 children while married to her, 2 you honour!😳😳😳
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You guys so badly want to believe that it’s the (single) female friends who are a threat to marriages when in fact it’s the philandering husbands.
Anyway my own friends who encouraged me to love myself carried me and are still carrying me 🫶🏾🫶🏾
If you are a woman and your friends are advising you to leave your marriage and home for whatever reason, DO NOT LEAVE, unless you are certain that those same friends would carry you in the days, months and years ahead because it sure is going to be bumpy ride.
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..you tell us how your husband was there through your 3 degrees. We tell you black people are still economically excluded, you remind us about one or 1 billionaires that have made it.
It’s disingenuous to remind us about your exceptionalism in the face of structural failures
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Your great marriages and good relationships with males in your life will not undo the systemic harm that these things were designed to mete out
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Sana the batch we are left with? 😭😭
They hate it when a man is a present and active father and they equally hate a man loving his wife. They like toxicity so badly and want everybody else to subscribe to these low standards
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Balloons on my profile! 34 years ago today, an angel was born. Happy birthday to me!🥳🥳🥳🎉
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@MazikodeThah
I want to buy those stickers from Checkers and fill them out throughout the year so I can have for food and stationery in Jan. Imali mna ngiyayibhubhudla shm
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@sindivanzyl
Still going through it. Some days I think I'm ok and over it, but other days it hits me like a ton of bricks how my life has changed in a space of 2 months
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This time last year I was in a relationship with a man who hated me, lol. and I was jumping through hoops trying to salvage a dead connection. I never thought I'd recover and looking back, I'm glad it ended. He broke my heart but I healed and I directed all that love to myself❤
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@khayadlanga
@zozitunzi
I'm not a fan of beauty pageants but I recognize the amount of power and influence that the reign brings. I'm emotionally invested in Zozi's win because, in country like SA, representation is so important. This will validate so many girls, I'm here for all that!🙌🏾
#MissSA2019
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I can only conclude that it's pretty privilege that makes people want to humanize and feel sorry for Dr Nandipha as if she's a victim..because why is it so hard to comprehend that she's an accomplice and has equal culpability and benefit in
#ThaboBester
's crimes?
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@Mank_Mandla
I always say never underestimate a man's level of cruelty once he loses interest. yhooo the nonsense I put with, the unkindness bawo 😭🥺
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@JamilFarouk
I was not the smartest kid in class, not even top 10. I was ok ish but I grew up thinking I'm awesome because my parents made such a big deal about my report.
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@Zizipho_ZA
I think one of the main factors is lack of support from the fathers. Women bear most of the responsibilities and tend to adjust to a new way of life where men simple become bystanders in their own children's lives. I know very few unmarried couples who survive that transition
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He said his uncles came to hlawula for our daughter, that time she was born almost 2 years after the fact 😂😂😂😂
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She is right though, in general bethunana! Doesn’t mean YOUR marriage is a setback, kuthethwa nge trend
Marriage is really one of the biggest setbacks for women and I wish they’d see that. Woah
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@vsobudula
@Neo_url
this is so hard to watch, honestly. it's so layered and I pray she gathers enough strength to get herself out before it's too late.
She reminds me off Thando ka Siyacela
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Celeste Ntuli said Penny is the only person on the panel who has a Duku-duku award and I’m howling!😭😭😭😭
#RoastOfMinnieDlamini
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@Lulama_
Old enough to remember that the cast was divided but my queen Sophie collected her coins
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@Neo_url
Did this bit by bit over the years and yesterday I was the girl mixing gin and tonic for my cousins and I. I have exercised my dominance, taken up space and cemented myself as someone who drinks 😂
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@NotYetUhuru_
One of my favourite things I love observing with my kids is how they interact with each other. A conversation I overheard 👇🏽
Zin(8): I love you Mange, you are the best brother in the world
Mange(5): I love you too sis, you the bestest big sister in the whole world
Haibo 🥺😍❤️
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I have a theory about people who’ve been groomed; that they are emotionally stunted therefore ababhadlanga and their reasoning is lacklustre. Mimi, LaC, Babes
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@sindivanzyl
comfortable house, nice car, a job that requires my labour for maximum 3 days a week, ability to take 2 overseas trips a year, one solo and one with my kids. being able to give my kids a childhood free from any form of financial worry and anxiety
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once saw a doccie on his killing spree. he "seemed" rehabilitated but the criminology expert said something about this type of serial killer always having the urge to kill n in prison he has no motive or opportunity (duh) so he would definitely commit the same crimes if released
"Nasrec Serial Killler" Lazarus Tshidiso Mazingane who was sentenced to 17 life sentences + 700 years in prison for 21 charges of rape, 16 murders & 20 counts of robbery in December 2002.
has completed his 25 years imprisonment & has applied for parole.
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You guys out here saying Katlego’s baby mama is trying to destroy his life kodwa he’s the one who won’t pay the fees and refuses for the child to go to a cheaper school? Am I hearing you?
Hayi inene
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My least favourite thing on here is you guys gatekeeping???? So what if we don’t know rugby? Are we not supposed to get joy from our national team all because we didn’t attend hoerskool what what? Niyadika shm
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They ruined the most important story of Hlomu, reduced Nkosana and Zah's story to sex and gangsterism, and gave us skinny Naledi. they've ruined it. mabayeke
WORD IS: The Wife series to reflect the book
Looks like your reactions to the
#TheWifeShowmax
series have not fallen on deaf ears.
The murmur is that the third season of the series will veer closer to the book.
New season still in pre-production.
#KgopoloReports
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@Busisiwe_PR
@justlats
this worked wonders for me too. I quickly let go of the man he was in the beginning and faced the truth about who he was NOW. and that alone was enough to convince me that I deserve better 😌
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At this point, they might as well create more chaos and kill Hlomu (killed by Mqhele phofu for drama andithi Stained 🤣🤣🤣), because no one else will be able to replace Mbali. No one else could be Mahlomu, please!
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The inconsistencies between episodes 1 and 255 of the wedding day is unforgivable 😩😭 Paulina was at the wedding, Zolani and Emma were still together all lovey. even Andile n Njabulo
#TheRiver1Magic
Guys this is a lokshion bioscop
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I will forever be grateful to you and your books for reigniting my love for reading. Its been quite a journey, i have laughed, i have cried, i have learned so much and met incredible women who I can call friends through this journey. THANK YOU
@dududube
#HlomuTheEnd
❤️🥺
How it started v How it is ending...
It's been a whole 8 years...one heck of a journey, so eventful I might one day write a book about.
Thank you to everyone who has been part of this.
Most of all, thank you to black women.
#HlomuTheEnd
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What a beautiful picture 😍😍🔥
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@NonhleBeryl
it's false sense of exceptionalism and wanting to hold on to being "the only black" so the more access black people have to certain things, the less likely they are deemed to be exceptional.
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@Jabu_Macdonald
I'm not even a fan of the show and this pissed me off, everything about it screamed Opportunitist from the guy and I wanted so much better for her
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This was not even Peak Isibaya and man did they deliver season after season.
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@tshepanglerato
i think I saw this thread too. it also went on to say that the husband thought wives were "supposed" to look stressed and worn out.
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I finally have my own place that I share with my kids only and I am so happy.
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@iamkagi_styles
This is what we mean when we say patriarchy will not reward you for all the times you fought for it. I
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Those who hurt you will go on and live happy lives beyond you. No such thing as karma, divorce yourself from also waiting for an apology. Try to move on
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@mfazomnyama_
I've been asking myself the same question kodwa I'm scared that kuzothwa im too poor to understand 😭
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And this, ladies and gentlemen, is how men avoid accountability and cry mental health
Seemingly, men’s mental health only matters in the extreme cases of suicide. Anything less than that seems to not need any attention.
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Yhoooo I've muted this 😭 I was never ready for how much this will blow up (in my standards lol) especially from men telling me nge value yam decreasing because I'm in my 30s and have 2 kids.
Nibe safety there arguing with them, andizi✌🏾😭
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John Steenhuisen is so obsessed with the EFF, it’s shocking. Instead of working to win over votes with a positive campaign, he is running on a scare mongering tactic that alienates an opposition party. Who is advising this man?! I can’t wait to see him n Gog Helen suffer in 2024
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I think
@__Shezi
is right, every talking stage/attempt at a relationship is a gamble. and like any gamble, it's by sheer luck that things actually work out. it's like finding love on the internet or tinder, some people have success stories and some get burnt. Luck yodwa sana
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Wanting to answer all moral questions based on the law is flawed. That’s a low bar, slavery and apartheid were once legal. I need y’all to leave the “legally she was within her rights” because in the face of trauma, was that the right response to this?
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That PR machine drive for S*miz* is really out of this world sana
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Related/unrelated:
You shouldn’t be raising your voice at children either
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@sindivanzyl
#IWasInFirstYear
in 2006
I was also at Tukkies (University of Pretoria)
I stayed in a flat in Arcadia but I frequented Huis Madelief and Klaradyn because I had friends there.
My favorite hangout was Marabastad and the student center
I loved the cinnamon Chelsea buns!!!
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I can’t wait for Liesl to phoxa you guys making unfounded speculations about her womb.
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