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Pro-mask mandates, transit, cats, 🇮🇱, fresh air, food forests, rep Anti-ABA, terf, pipelines, fa Opinions could be anyone's, same handle on sky, he/him 🏳️‍🌈

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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
6 months
Twitter is a terrible place, filled with terrible people, more of whom I sadly unfollow every day. If you support trans rights, N95+ mask mandates, and Israel, give this comment a like. Despite any other differences, I'll almost certainly follow you instead.
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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
6 months
I'm a queer, non-Jewish person in Ontario. This is a disgusting statement to release. Pride Toronto doesn't speak for me.
@PrideToronto
Pride Toronto
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To read our full statement, please log on to
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@KMKTweetsNow @SocialFuzzer @MissErikaGallo @elektrogal @emoleechen @AskLyft @CDCgov "Message us" from a corporate PR account literally just means "we want fewer witnesses to this conversation". It's not a defense.
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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
2 years
As an #ActuallyAutistic child, I couldn't read the books about autism that my mom had around the house. Not because I couldn't read, I was tested as reading at university level, but because they were too painful. They were filled with words & passages that dehumanized me. 🧵1/9
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@BenPetkau
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2 years
I'm always so disappointed seeing people with ' #LandBack ' AND ' #FreePalestine ' in their bios. Israel is the most successful #landback initiative in history. Leftists are sharing antisemitic propaganda created by literal Nazis & neo-Nazis. Re-examine your info sources.
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2 years
@SpoffordStuart @uyarakq I've been here. These artifacts are not displayed educationally. Pieces from wildly separate cultures are mixed, there's almost no context or background given on any of it, they don't even sort by time period. It's just a dragon's hoard, random peoples' stuff piled everywhere.
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@raniawrites If it were me I'd be petty enough to show up, tell this story to his whole class, then leave.
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2 years
@lostblackboy Since 1981? Article's gonna deeply impact a lot of people.
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@BenPetkau
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2 years
I read that I lacked empathy. I would become violent. I'd never be independent, find love or make friends, I didn't have a sense of humor. I'd die young, prob by suicide. These were *books*. That got *published*. That a curious autistic CHILD picked up to learn about himself. 2
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2 years
I want to stress how untrue these things were. I don't lack for empathy or humor. I found friends, found love. I lived independently, and now live with my partner. I went to university. I managed political campaigns. But at 9 years old, I didn't know about any of that. 3/
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2 years
@UnionTyler Tomorrow you should video the whole 2 minutes for us all. :)
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Ben Petkau
1 year
Shame on @CTVNews . They took down their first tweet from the backlash they were getting, then doubled down and reposted the article with the same ridiculous 'debate' framing. Just like their Josef Tesar interview yesterday. CTV News runs interference for fascists.
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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
2 years
So when #AutismMoms write a commentary about how important it is to use hurtful and dehumanizing language in autism research for 'scientific accuracy' without having to hear criticism from THE PEOPLE THEY'RE WRITING ABOUT, it makes my blood boil. 7/
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Ben Petkau
2 years
But like, lots of bad things were progressive. Food withholding. Shock 'therapy'. Institutional 'care'. Wait, no, these things are still happening to autistic children today, my bad. (Yes, we get shock tortured in North America today. Look up the Judge Rotenberg Center.) 5/
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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
2 years
The language that autism 'researchers' use, the false beliefs they hold on autistic people, & the trauma inflicted on autistic children, are causally linked. These 'scientists' created a social environment where hurting us is acceptable & 'mercy'-killing us is understandable. 6/
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2 years
What these scientific bigots are asking for is for us #ActuallyAutistic former kids to shut up. The tragedy, in their minds, is that we weren't *prevented from being born*, & the least we can do is stay out of the way while they figure out how to prevent more people like us. 8/
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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
2 years
I should add that I've had a great family support network which has helped me to succeed in all of these ways, and I don't blame my mom for leaving these books around. Really, they were fairly progressive books for the time. She was never an #AutismMom . 4/
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@BenPetkau
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2 years
Fuck that and fuck them. #AutismMoms don't understand us & don't speak for us. These 4 women built their careers dehumanizing & eradicating people like their own kids. They had years of opportunity to learn from #ActuallyAutistic people & change, & didn't. They're just bigots. /9
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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
2 years
It was so much worse than we saw. The NDP leadership cheated. They cheated from the start. They did it deliberately. They did it to protect oil and gas. #bcpoli
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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
2 years
@ask_aubry I searched his handle. This guy has been creepy to her for YEARS.
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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
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As a queer person, I support Jewish people. Jewish people have been involved in every successful social justice movement of the last century. Magnus Hirschfeld, the original trans rights activist, was Jewish. We were murdered side by side. (2/
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But @PrideToronto would rather side with an actually-genocidal religious death cult. A society where women are property & gays are a disease. A regime that slaughtered its own political opposition and pays teens to get shot while stabbing pregnant women at bus stops. (3/
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@BenPetkau
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2 years
Struggling to come to terms with having governments that want me to kill myself. #cdnpoli #ODSPoverty #MAID
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1 year
@AutisticCallum_ 'Very complicated, serious and/or unsettling' Yeah, a fun fact. That's what I said! :)
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2 years
Context for people outside the discourse: 4 high-level leaders of major autiphobic orgs had an article published yesterday, complaining about the autistic community having opinions about the language they use for us, citing... mean tweets.
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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
1 year
@CTVLondon Are you seriously doubling down on this ridiculous framing of a legitimate debate? He called her fat and threatened her family. Here's your 1st attempt, which you had to delete within minutes because of backlash. You're not going to get less backlash with this. @RachelGilmore
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Ben Petkau
2 years
If the #BCNDP had allowed the 2/3rds of their party @AnjaliApp signed up to vote for her, she'd have won. And with the $10B in unbudgeted revenue they knew about (and we didn't), her platform would've been funded. They could have given us a better BC. Oh well. #bcpoli #canpoli
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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
2 years
@Lujan588 @TheWharfDC Probably the same sign they've had for eight years or something and the min wage worker involved didn't feel empowered to say anything to their boss.
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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
1 year
@Browtweaten Worth pointing out that since people mostly seek out tweets from people they agree with, right-wingers mostly see tweets that won't get ads. In other words, just like in society at large, liberal users on this site are subsidizing conservatives.
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Ben Petkau
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@havivrettiggur I feel like it's really not talked about enough that the existence of Hezbollah in south Lebanon near the Israeli border is against international law and the terms of the ceasefire from 2006, that the UN was supposed to force them back, and that it doesn't even try.
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Ben Petkau
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This is abject moral bankruptcy from my community. Our behavior the past 6 months, exemplified by @PrideToronto , ruins our moral credibility on every issue we stand for. Now, our society is about to regress, for us, and it's going to be out own damn fault. Shame on you. /4)
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@alex_abads @notimmediately If I'm ever dying of dementia, and preserving the judicial system of my whole goddamn country relies on me continuing to sit in a chair voting yes, I'd want my staffers to prop me up like a puppet too. Consider this my forward consent.
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Ben Petkau
2 years
Re 6/, the mercy-killing part refers to how the lead author once told an Autism Speaks documentary crew, in front of her young daughter, about her struggle one day in traffic not to murder-suicide her. How she ultimately didn't because her normal child was in the car too.
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Ben Petkau
2 years
It's not colonialism. Jewish people were persecuted and forcibly expelled in the first place. They've maintained their own culture and ethnic identity ever since, in the face of overwhelming oppression for literally thousands of years.
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1 year
@LauraFMcConnell When you claimed you wanted a child but secretly just wanted a child labourer.
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Ben Petkau
2 years
The IHRA doesn't call criticism of Israel antisemitic, it calls *disproportionate* criticism of Israel antisemitic. Look at this list of ongoing armed conflicts. Look how far down Israel is. When's the last time you yelled at an Ethiopian on the street?
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2 years
This is eugenics. It's a violation of the social contract. Like, why should any of us even recognize the legitimacy of law or government that would prefer us to be dead?
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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
3 years
Singh will never cancel #TMX , he just doesn't want to say so. Just like Horgan was never going to cancel #SiteC , he just didn't want to tell us while we had a say. @CanadianGreens should be running this clip as an ad all across West Coast. #cdnpoli #ClimateCrisis #VoteGreen
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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
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@RoadSafetyBC I've been hit three times by cars as a pedestrian. All three times, I was in a marked crosswalk at a light with a walk signal. All three times, the car came from behind me after I'd stepped out so they could make a right hand turn. Where should my safety have started?
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Ben Petkau
2 years
There are tweets here from 2013. This guy has been creeping on his local weather reporter for a DECADE. And has the absolute gall to publicly complain that she blocked him.
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@ask_aubry
AskAubry 🦝
2 years
Hello FBI? Colleen Bready needs some protection from this dude... See how he says he emailed her believing she needed to explain herself to him? To everyone that says just BLOCK, I present you Beau Hajavitch.
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1 year
@ohshidt I just can't believe the founder of the company and a billionaire both decided to get into that can in the first place. Like I actually can't believe it, my money is on they all decided to fake their deaths.
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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
11 months
@1goodtern @IPS_Infection @SageHealthInfo @Sage_Publishing "Prevention cannot be the only cure for any infectious disease" - this article in the Journal of Infection Prevention, a publication of the Infection Prevention Society
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@PrideToronto Oh, and I'm not saying queer people are responsible for the rise in homophobia. I'm saying we're responsible for destroying our own credibility trying to combat it.
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bob's burgers urbanist 🐿️
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The corollary to "decolonization means massacring unarmed civilians at a music festival" is that you cannot act surprised when people decide that maybe they are not on board with decolonization
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@Esqueer_ He's just trying to protect children's innocence /s
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@Indianataxpros @waitbutwhy Okay but maybe get him some driving lessons
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3 months
@agraybee Sure, he's a perfectly normal, even progressive, democratic politician, but have you considered that he doesn't support the omnicause?
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Ben Petkau
2 years
@David_Moscrop I am Hard of Hearing. I support reintroducing the mask mandates, which have already been prematurely removed, and strengthening them to require N95s or better, not cloth.
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2 years
@POTSparty I hope you're showing her some of these replies! Personally, I'd start my first day with 'fire any board members who told the org they want to kill their autistic child'. From there, I'd move to 'survey autistic adults on their needs' and if there's still time, pizza party!
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Ben Petkau
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@seananmcguire It's not fair. I still have Ralph for a little longer, this is him over the last couple days.
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2 years
@richardzussman What an embarrassment.
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2 years
@WokeIndigenous @Melissa_Lem I think it's the World Conference on Forests for Public Health. International, in Quebec, 2023, photo on homepage, she's the only not-a-white-guy featured. Also described as 'board member' of CAPE, not President. They're WorldForests on here but I'm not going to @ them.
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2 years
@thePainSearch @SpoffordStuart @uyarakq I did. It's embarrassing how many objects have provenance listed as "Native N. American - prehistoric". Culturally identifiable & dateable pieces, in the hands of capable & informed curators. Embarrassing to see a swath of N.A. from Alaska to NFLD described as speaking Algonquin.
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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
3 years
Trudeau on July 2nd, to the people of Lytton: "We are here for you." Still no actual support for Lytton's rebuilding, four months later- and two weeks ago he described it as a town that *was*. He's here for his pipeline, not our people. He's got his donors' backs, not ours.
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Justin Trudeau
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I spoke with Premier @JJHorgan today, and let him know our government stands ready to provide any support the province needs - both to keep people safe now, and to help them rebuild in the weeks and months to come. To the people of British Columbia: we’ve got your back.
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@CTVLondon Well it's been half an hour, how you feeling about this one so far?
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@MrTaylorsMath @clhubes We all need to hear what this family was wearing at the time.
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2 years
@alaskastardust if it's a legitimate attack on human rights, the body has ways to try to shut that whole thing down /s
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1 year
@andrewaperez I can't agree with you enough. The response from most of my feed has been shocking. I'm a leftist & not Jewish, and I still don't know how I could work with these people again. How I could even trust them again. Do I have to tolerate antisemitism to be against oil pipelines?
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@Fairy_Godmegan @ramoumaaa Autistics are always low-key villain coded. In real life, too- NTs form negative judgments about us from body language and tone in less than 5 seconds.
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Ben Petkau
2 years
@euronewsgreen okay but why did they take the tortoise on a tour through the tortoise morgue
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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
2 years
@OCDSB Do school board trustees have no code of conduct which would apply to this situation?
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1 year
@Rachel87840565 @SleepyJim0 It's a real thing, the valve is one way. It only protects the wearer, not the oblivious plague rats around them.
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@CartoonsHateHer @onayxskull Holy shit I was only 0 in 1992, that's so old
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2 years
@thePainSearch @SpoffordStuart @uyarakq The British Museum treats Indigenous Peoples with about as much respect as the British did.
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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
2 years
This is now (for some reason) one of the most widely-shared/viewed threads about this article on Twitter. Which is cool but also terrifying. So uh, I think I'm supposed to ask you to follow and/or hire me for something now? (i really just want you to wear a mask in public tho)
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Ben Petkau
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@jewishstarlight You're not alone, and I'm not either.
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2 years
@coachcamg Please don't say 'was'. It's still happening and it will keep happening until we actually do the stuff to make it stop.
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Ben Petkau
2 years
@EwartJoanne @leaferi Um, okay, but have you considered a career change? McDonalds is hiring
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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
2 years
@richardzussman Sonia Furstenau
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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
2 years
@ask_aubry Here's more! All the way back to 2013.
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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
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@LoblawsON @cwilliamg Why do you need a DM? The cakes are on the shelf, he told you what store it was. You've heard from him. So what's the story?
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Ben Petkau
1 year
@ShreeParadkar It's hilarious and infuriating watching all these commenters just absolutely refuse to even read your article before sharing the talking points you debunked.
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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
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@Anne_Creighton
Anne Creighton
6 months
@PrideToronto This sickens me. No mention of Hamas who started this and is committed to the genocide of Jews. Who have turned down ceasefires. No mention of the persecution of Jews here. No mention of the carnage of October 7th and the hostages they still hold.
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Ben Petkau
2 years
@humservt @hellenkeniford "for it astonish to see the command under which their dogs are" Wait, he was insecure because their dogs were too well-trained? Am I reading this old-timey nextdoor post right?
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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
3 years
🧵It's not hard to figure out why O'Toole & Cons are so warm to a small group of far-right extremists the overwhelming majority of Canadians reject. In Q4 2020, Cons raised $7.6m (recordbreaking). In less than 2 weeks, #FluTruxKlan / #Fludatah raised $7.7m *so far*. #cdnpoli 1/10
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@TristanSnell This isn't a gotcha, it's a deliberate feint. "Now, look, we've always celebrated LGBTQ+ Pride", they get to say while they manufacture outrage against us.
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@Phatbut_imfine @hearts4keith But you just naturally used a singular 'them' correctly.
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2 years
Maia Arson Crimew is 23 and she's already been internationally indicted for hacking more than 100 companies/government agencies. What am I even doing with my life?
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@therobprimo1 @ShreeParadkar Oh no :( did being reminded that trans people exist trigger you? It's okay to sit with your feelings if you're having big ones
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@libertymama86 @neuroticjewgay I would simply choose not to use such a symbol in a conflict with a famous photo of someone holding up hands covered in the actual blood of the people I'm protesting. Be for real, the ambiguity is the point.
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@MatthewDownhour This tweet got some serious this energy
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Ben Petkau
2 years
@CBCNews Wow, just when I thought this story's framing couldn't get more ridiculous. You had a chance to talk about the housing crisis and passed it up. Shame on you.
@koevoetsmikayla
mikie♛
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CBC cancelled my airtime to talk about the housing crisis and spun the story into a scandal about a ‘revenge video’.
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@havivrettiggur It's horrifying to see this happen in real time, to recognize the slogans being inverted and know the ways these stories are being distorted to do it, and to watch friends and loved ones participate, knowingly and deliberately.
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2 months
@camsgh0st @_lizharvey You know what they say about saying things ironically, eventually you start saying them for cereal.
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Ben Petkau
1 year
@maggiewittlin @stevesilberman This is the reading I have too. But, there's a disinfo/hate narrative that autistic people are manipulated into identifying as trans. In other words, denying autistics have the agency to know our own identities. So it's both auti- and transphobic.
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Ben Petkau
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@xxhornymom69 @MsBehavior @beauhajavitch #ActuallyAutistic man here. Harassment is not a difficult concept, and disability doesn't make hurting other people okay. This is not ableist. Y'all can keep right on shaming.
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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
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@ArnallLabrador @karenrestoule @CJPAC @CIJAinfo Couple things, 1. Her work biography, is from her. 2. You just called her a 'settler lover'. She doesn't owe you a personal conversation.
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@BenPetkau
Ben Petkau
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@CathyHeron That's a nice sentiment, but he literally represents your community. Your riding re-elected Cooper twice *after* he quoted a mass murderer's manifesto in Parliament, by huge margins. St. Albert's values have been fully reflected.
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Ben Petkau
2 years
@cee_tum @chadloder "People who stand with you" has a specific literal meaning derived from exactly this situation.
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@LevittMichael The idea that Israel should back away and leave the equivalent of Al-Qaeda's Long Island-based organization alone, and let them bring in however many missiles they want, is downright farcical. The only explanation I can credit is that these MPs know Canada doesn't matter.
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Ben Petkau
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@KristenBott
Kristen Bottema-Beutel
2 years
The premise of 'the commentary' is if researchers can't use ableist (and unclear) terms like "severe" or "profound", they can't accurately describe some autistic people. In our paper, here is what we suggested researchers do instead of using descriptors like severe: 1/5
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@loveCDNsalmon @JustinTrudeau @markhollandlib @viraniarif @DiLebouthillier @FP_Champagne @CQualtro @cafreeland @JennaSudds @L_MacAulay @MarciIen I love salmon. That's why I oppose polluting, disease-spreading in-ocean salmon farming, which is decimating wild salmon populations. Protect our ecosystems, support farming salmon on land.
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@agraybee TBF this was in fact a scenario where the kids were in danger, and this behaviour at the door would in fact be super sketchy even without hindsight. It's not paranoia if they're really out to drug your kid, etc.
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Ben Petkau
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"Many folks have found real joy in drinking and driving. Such people may be willing to accept some risk of car crash in exchange for not thinking about the effects of alcohol on the body. Particularly if they're young and have fast reflexes, it's not an irrational stance. (8/25)"
@Bob_Wachter
Bob Wachter
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Many folks have found real joy in living life as if Covid is behind us. Such people may be willing to accept some risk of infection in exchange for not thinking very much about Covid. Particularly if they're young and healthy, it's not an irrational stance. If they're... (8/25)
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Ben Petkau
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@AnthonyLacavera Nationalize the telecoms
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Ben Petkau
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@SeeMiaRoll I am HOH. Do not unmask to talk to me. There are so many options that don't involve you getting (me) sick. If worst comes to worst, we both have keyboards in our pockets.
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Ben Petkau
2 years
@maxwellaut Account's also tweeting overtly white supremacist and transphobic stuff, so, yeah.
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Ben Petkau
2 years
#AskingAutistics Has anyone else lost a pet and not been able to move on? It's been two months and I can't stop thinking about him, I can still feel him dying on my chest.
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