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@WingsScotland @mattxiv @JakeNiemeyer It seems pretty unlikely that the people who proposed this bill are trans activists.
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@itsjohnny81s Part of what makes this scene so wonderful is that it’s gay and it’s folkloric and it’s gay and it’s immigration and it’s gay and it’s American and it’s gay and it’s brown and it’s gay and it’s aspiration and sacrifice and family and gay and
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@CaelanConrad “I know family therapy is ‘important,’ but so is betraying my kid’s trust so my Internet friends can be proud of me.” They already even had therapists that weren’t very affirming and it didn’t help their cause. It’s so sad and pointless.
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@elle_carnitine @wholelife180 @EJXD2 I mean that’s what I think when I hear frozen meals, but it looks like some of the snark is still focusing on leftovers. I’m sorry. There’s a lot of fancy talk over there to justify being a jerk.
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@123itsmeMary @ManhttanMetsFan It does seem more cost and time effective to give more families the resources they need than to go through the process of splitting them up and rehousing kids.
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@SuperMutantSam1 Yes! “How dare you complain. Die!” Sounds familiar.
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@DonutHolschtein Lots of people found your post who have big feelings but none of them seem to say yes he has other qualifications. Weird how that works.
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@NotFjord @CRShort81 You really have no proof it’s unconditional love or that it’s the most important love that will be received in someone’s life. It’s hard to help your family hide your own body.
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@MATHLOV41395855 @CS_Jack_B @davenewworld_2 I’m not sure why you’d assume a renter who misses a month is a deadbeat but a landlord who doesn’t have a month saved up is not also a deadbeat.
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@trevorshowvan @TableBoston @EaterBoston @infatuation @TimeOutBoston @bostonherald @BostonFoodDiary @resy It appears one of the restaurants that uses your service is stalking and posting personal information of customers who use your service to book reservations. This has been pointed out to them, but they replied by just turning comments off and leaving it up.
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@LolOverruled Oh, the governor decided what’s legitimate protest? Didn’t realize that was in their job description.
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@Ronenl @The_sigma_fem Homo = same. Hetero = different. Bisexual = attraction to both people the same gender as you and not the same gender as you. That’s the two parts of the bi, not necessarily two genders.
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@Holtwood06 @judyblume Well, no. That’s both a misrepresentation of what she wrote and a misrepresentation of trans folk.
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@mattxiv The skin tone ones are so wild because it’s been talked about for decades, so they’re really just mad someone got something they wanted.
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@teaminney @chriswb71 @meghanttucker It sounds like you know it isn’t actually more confusing and just want to be right when you’re wrong about how rare your preferred method is.
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@CaelanConrad *whispers* They put that in the resume because if they didn’t, and you hired them, you’d act like a raging jerk and disrespect them every chance you got and working for you would be a nightmare, thanks for playing.
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@CaelanConrad Gotta love when they explain how they totally do understand misgendering, that they dislike it, and that they know how to handle it, but it’s more important to them to seethe about trans people.
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@AriDrennen The way some people define free is so weird.
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@Digitab7 @KAINONAUT I mean it’s definitely “heavy handed” to me, but also, the amount of silly people who don’t seem to get they’re who this is a caricature of suggests it can’t be too heavy handed. I just take it as part of the genre that this is gonna get hammered home. I mean, Saturday morning.
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@pbandbsandwichs @KatyMontgomerie Well, as we all know, the sexual organs of a skeleton are intended for reproduction. If you can’t sex a skeleton you can’t do your part for the lich-general’s undead army and that’s a sin and a crime.
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@ProximaCB55 @ziltoid1991 @ErinInTheMorn Yep. People who aren’t trans get misgendered all the time, accidentally or intentionally as an insult. But the people who think it could never happen to them mostly just wanna think they’re too (whatever) because (whatever) makes them somehow more special/valuable.
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@KRutlidge A sad number of them start by saying it’s about empathy for victims, but change that pretty quickly when asked about how they’d treat, for example, a trans rape victim, or how the legal system could better handle things, or such.
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@slade_tex @fuzzychub85 @empanadadaddy23 Weird you say that, because the only people I’m seeing complain are ones who did not attend and did not come into contact with him. Those people all seem pretty much fine. But it’s cool you hate it or whatever.
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@AssignedMale Also uh, I know this isn’t the point, but I really like your drawing/style/appropriatetermhere.
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@JUNlPER @Sandernista412 Some people even think straight people should be allowed to teach. In public school. Can you imagine?
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@pogostickfan @elle_carnitine @KhullainPaints It sounds like you haven’t or won’t think this through. Let’s say someone can’t get out of bed. Okay. Well, for their health, they’ll probably need to be moved every four hours or so. They can’t work most jobs, so they can’t afford a carer. So, friend, partner, relative.
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@MUNCHRIH I dunno, the people who have told me my whole life I deserve to die because of the sex I have would disagree, as would the people who made pride events as a backlash to that.
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@drdevonprice “You get two excused absences and whatever medical you need.” “What documentation do you need?” “I’m not asking for your medical records.” “What keeps me from just lying then?” “You are unlikely to pass a class you never attend.”
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@RadReputationXX @sacha_coward For a lot of those people, “I was fine and supportive” means “I was not actively attempting to harm you,” not “I was actively trying to prevent harm.” It’s classic “give me a cookie for not destroying you”
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@lonelyspeck @jpbrammer There are definite undertones of “now, don’t you think you should be grateful I’m not doing that to you right now? because I could, I could”
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@ErinInTheMorn Always frustrating to see people go “well, there’s not a lot of history” about people whose history was intentionally scrubbed or forced to be hidden.
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@JakeNiemeyer @WingsScotland @mattxiv I think some of the time they just don’t want to grapple with not knowing how to stop their oppressors, and it’s easier to be snarky or blame someone else.
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@Dreadful4Tymes Don’t forget the gays and lesbians that also just, yanno, have had kids. I wish they would just let their relationships be special and stop trying to compete. We get it! Hetero folk are people too.
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@Iisasjoint You mean NYC pride, where kinksters work their asses off to help create the pride events for people to attend?
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@pogostickfan @elle_carnitine @KhullainPaints Work has to happen sometime or there’s nowhere to live. One person usually can’t work full time AND go home multiple times a day to do meal prep or serving. Even with all family hands on deck it can be exhausting. Why are you so eager to be a jerk about this?
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@KcTexan @ErinInTheMorn She does use the appropriate one.
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@QadoshKyrie I remember hearing about a combo my father and mother had when I was little. “But he doesn’t like what I like.” “He’s your son. Have you tried doing anything he likes?”
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@finngalkn Cracks me up when people act like a spiked collar is something to gasp and fall over about. Like that is standard hot topic fashion, where have you been?
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@trevorshowvan @TableBoston Holy shit. Even everything else aside, they’re mad that you took it up with your credit card when they… told you to…
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@colynelliott Oh my. “Fluid” by itself is a great example of how words can have so, so many connotations and denotations.
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@CentristFellow @JUNlPER @ImMayBea The entire world saw footage of republicans trying to overthrow their own government, but an Alex Jones fan would deny that while downplaying people being ousted from government yeah.
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@KcTexan @ErinInTheMorn I know you think you’re being edgy and clever, but it’s mostly predictable and unimpressive and incorrect.
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@BeardedChrisP @AriDrennen My understanding is that as information came up, friends and the like said Nex was preferring he/him at the time, so a lot of people have shifted in an effort to honor that.
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@SleepyTea4Me @Aiden_Domino @KatyMontgomerie @madixeliza They do, though. Like, this isn’t hypothetical, there’s extensively documented connections between neonazi activity and groups that advocate against trans people. Besides, they don’t have to agree on *much* because their goals are often to harm others, which is enough.
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@_celia_bedelia_ You’re literally advocating for women to advocate for more genuine and sincere healthcare, but they’re too hung up on the anti-trans meme from weeks ago to just… get on with life.
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@violet_octopi It’s nice when we give someone a chance and they actually seem to have been sincere. I’m happy work is going well on that front for you!
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@LauraGr31918310 @sacha_coward Bisexuality doesn’t even require “only two genders.” He’s gay, and insisting otherwise doesn’t do anything about it. Lots of gay people happily date or fuck trans people, and it’s fine.
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@brettburgoyne1 @confusedaaron_ Anti-woke people keep saying they want the best people for the job. If the best person for the job also happens to be an amputee, well, the best person for the job also happens to be an amputee. It’s nothing to complain about.
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@cheesebased @fuckyouiquit Okay. You can also, as a reservist or guard, deploy multiple times and still not get free college. It’s all very weird and more complicated than a sales pitch.
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@Rahll I wish more people would at least look into a little copyright history before they smugly mention photographs because there are decades of case history about whether and how to apply copyright to photographs and it’s an immediate indicator they just want to not care about artists
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@TheTitanOfLA Also the answer is just yes. Like yes, there are, but it’s crazy how happy lgbtq+ people don’t spend their time explaining their happiness to people who openly don’t tolerate them, lol.
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@UglaStefania I do think some of the “we can always tell” stuff is really “we are terrified of not being able to tell.”
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@slade_tex @fuzzychub85 @empanadadaddy23 Why do you have such strong feelings about something you don’t even know much about?
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@TanyaAn35180018 @watashiwajosei @stephenwhittle Nah, it’s nice when taxes go to help people.
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@mustangsart “But you’re disabled! How did you write for a game?!” *rubs temples and breathes deeply*
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@Nicllan It really doesn’t.
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@Mochichichi16 @AmericanDadTBS @TrevorProject @TBSNetwork Drag is a big part of LGBT history and culture, as is fundraising. So LGBT people using drag to raise funds is pretty normal.
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@theBrianaMills Wow, this one really brought out the “you think I should care about others? go die” people. Always amazing examples of reason, those folk.
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@AriDrennen Blocking and muting a lot of people here. It’s weird how when you glance at the timelines of many of these “it’s not anti-trans, it’s pro-woman!” people, they’re belittling women and obsessing over strangers’ genitals and making snide comments about gay people. Real “sincere.”
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@teaminney @chriswb71 @meghanttucker I mean sure, maybe it’s more confusing to someone not used to it. That’s normal. But why is it so hard to just say oh, I guess what I thought was universal isn’t universal?
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@OhYikes_exe @trevorshowvan @TableBoston Yeah, sometimes you just gotta sign off the Internet, not stalk patrons you know nothing about and insult them over the life choices you imagine they’ve made.
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@Scuttlecliff This was the episode that made me welcome Amy and Rory. I just got more from their story as companions who are with their friend than as an awkward love triangle.
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@CaelanConrad Most of my interactions with "LGB Alliance" is them saying horrible stuff out of nowhere as if it's a requirement to be lesbian, gay, or bisexual. How could they speak for me when they can't even get through a conversation without being awful?
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@TheLunarTears @tyleroakley Much of the stuff you see is already at events that aren’t for all ages. But, that said, if you’re complaining about clothing, you’re not really complaining about sex or nudity. There have always been kinksters at pride and if you don’t want to explain that, that’s your call.
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@LauraJedeed @tk59327166 The stuff I saw people doing at Mardi Gras (even with kids around) when I was just walking through was more sexually explicit than things I’ve seen happen at pride events, where I hang out with the kinksters. It’s all very silly.
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@ImRyanBlue Playing hardcore/honour/survival mode has taught me a lot about just letting it go, lol. Like ah. I just lost all my progress. Deep breath. Get some water. Okay, let’s try this again.
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@IndiaWilloughby It seems it might be really sad/hard to try and talk to someone whose work you have admired, only for them to be utterly unable to stop screaming about this stuff.
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@BenSargeant2 @fuckyouiquit Honestly? Usually people they don’t respect enough to think deserve to earn a living wage.
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@TheLunarTears @tyleroakley Again, much of that activity is not taking place where children are allowed. Now, I have defo seen straight people fucking at mardis gras, but whatever. You can take kids to kid-specific stuff if you want. Really! It’s okay!
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@Rosgakori I know different people are different, but I’m still surprised a person would look at that art and think there’s no social justicey commentary involved. Clerics with regalia, crosses, bombs, and gas masks?
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@arakkosuperstar “You must clear your mind, otherwise—“ “dude I have a factory job, believe me, I get real good at turning my brain off if I need to”
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@swifty_mcgifty @lincynity What are you responding to, exactly? Just someone expressing her opinion? That doesn’t mean your feelings were not considered. Did you read it?
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@oolon It's amazing how many people are replying with variations on "um, actually, I think harassing people is fine and I love to do it." Okay, then go do it. Just know there are consequences. Whatever.
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@DragancaorGames jfc. I’m so sorry. I hope your hand will be okay.
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@itsjohnny81s The scene in the book is seared in my brain and I was so glad to see it adapted for the screen.
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@SneezyGremlin @_celia_bedelia_ @jesserker Have genuinely seen “raised her voice to me, like a man” used a justification for hurting women. It’s so fucking disgusting.
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@mandalore1228 As a dude who has had a headache to the point of not wanting to have sex, I think Kyle just is in for a rude awakening some day.
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@stopsayingbot @Ranting_Trans Wow, you hate trans people so much that you forgot not everyone in a company can order supplies for the company. Frankly kudos to these ladies for being like hey, we need to talk.
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@symmetrybr3aker @CryingIntoAbyss I love these. I used to feel ways about how the witch and the moon were jerks about it. But nowadays I see it as Gaiman’s thing where the gods are shitty but humans can be amazing to one another. So these mean a lot to me.
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@CaelanConrad Almost gotta wonder why they didn’t ask about these things at their interview before accepting the job. Of course they didn’t call you… you spent your first week ignoring policy, shouted at people, then pulled a no show.
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@FatLeon93 @RdlrtM86333 @Trey_Explainer Well, it might not be just to he contrarians or side with the underdog. What other possibilities have you considered?
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@beano_bananaman @Noise_Minis Have you read Wilfred Owen’s Dulce Et Decorum Est? You might disagree with it but it seems to address this. You may like it. As the war wore on, language around it became less flattering because the realities were sinking in.
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@LuluMcSideways Emojis can be fun but he replied to harassment he was receiving, and she immediately began calling him a liar, then began threatening his family, and demanding evidence even other assault survivors said was messed up to do.
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@LazStorm @KonbroA It’s amazing you think “no, we harassed him for other reasons that don’t even have to do with what this person said” makes anyone look good or better.
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@KatyMontgomerie Well, she does like bragging about how she just checks her net worth when people say things she doesn’t like. So it’s not like she is unaware of her uncommon wealth.
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@Samwitch11 I've found it to be a helpful prefix. Helped me understand the experience of trans folk I met a bit more. A lot of the time people need it to be a slur because they need to imagine trans people hate them in order to justify their own fear and anger.
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@Fossildaddy Well, they don’t care about being right. They care about being mean.
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@jessiegender I introduced a friend to Doctor Who and they pointed out that Martha literally saves the Doctor’s life in every one of her episodes. Which was pretty wild to have pointed out to me.
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@R3sid3nt3vil4 @VoicesByZane This is the thing for me. One of these locals most likely. Hopefully they’ve grown out of it, but like, who dares? (My bet is Sam, but I have no evidence.)
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@PanderShirts It’s funny because I have plenty of friends who don’t enjoy pissing on people or having assault fantasies. And it’s fine? Like, it’s not mandatory. But then you get to “with 5 STDs” and it’s like ah, there’s that sex negativity. Yep. Yeesh.
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@bobbitwyrm @VoicesByZane There’s so much literature about the connections between war and gardening too. And it’s not necessarily that, but I like Matthea Harvey’s “in defense of our overgrown garden” for some of that kind of tension.
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@CaelanConrad It reads like a tabloid piece on the royal family or something. Like okay, enjoy not forgiving people for something you decided they did but don’t even want an apology for? Moving on…
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@DazMaddison @JackDunc1 Oh, so you just think it’s fine and normal to want to throw children into open water and see if they die. Yeah, yeah, not extreme at all. Nope, nothing extreme here.
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@DndInk89114 @DeanSpencerArt That is extremely discouraging. When someone has a clear boundary, they’re rarely going to respond well to you just… trampling over that boundary.
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@HoneySo4 @Imani_Barbarin I think I had to step out of the theater for a moment during this scene? I’d just gotten back from Afghanistan. There’s a lot one can say about Tony’s arc, but it’s still weird when people hold this up as being a good and cool moment.
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@ChaosPixieMagic Once when I told someone I’d want their partner’s blessing she was like “why because he owns me?” and it’s like no, I just want us to make sure that we are all on the same page. Because sometimes people are dishonest or misunderstand things.
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@kai_atwood @PanderShirts And apparently the person who originally wrote that thing came back later and was like oh, oh dear, I was very wrong.
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