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@KatyjustCANnot

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Co-CEO @PlayWildcard w/ @paulbettner matchmaker & host of sober spaces in chaotic situations “so smart & so fun & so bitchy in all the right ways”

McKinney TX & NW Connecticut
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Katy Drake Bettner
4 years
Since miscarriage is a big topic right now I want to remind you that there is a woman headed to the Supreme Court with views SO extreme that we risk women being investigated and criminally CHARGED for miscarriage.
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Katy Drake Bettner
2 years
@annecashton @Swilua I REALLY enjoyed the reveal on this thread.
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7 months
@Swilua How I love this generation.
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Katy Drake Bettner
6 months
I think a lot of men misunderstand the reasons women are SO into the Taylor Swift & Travis Kelce romance. 🧵
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4 years
@poshgrl517 There were 72 women being held in jails or institutions in an attempt to keep them pregnant.
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Katy Drake Bettner
6 months
Here is the thing. He is visibly impressed by her ambition, her talent, her success, HER POWER. Not because he wants to use it, not because it does something for him but because he sees her & celebrates her. THAT is the thing that women my age see.
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Katy Drake Bettner
6 months
Here is a man who has the dream. NFL career, cultural cache, money etc and instead of looking for a woman who will follow him around and be whatever makes his life & his dreams work, he is flying to Argentina to be Taylor’s biggest, cheesiest, cringiest love story fan.
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Katy Drake Bettner
6 months
If nothing else, I hope some small town HS football players see Travis and emulate THAT instead of the kind of man that pedastalizes a woman’s unending sacrifice while they vote for the guy who brags about grabbing women by the pussy. (End 🧵)
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Katy Drake Bettner
6 months
For over a decade we have watched powerful men try to force women to take less, be quiet, stay small & try not to attract the attention of dangerous patriotic white men. Now we have a front row set to the earnest pursuit & open adoration of an ambitious powerhouse.
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Katy Drake Bettner
6 months
No resentment visible, no jealousy. Just that kind of dreamy adolescent fantasy of a man that is totally secure in his masculinity without letting that define him choosing a woman that outshines him and enjoying it.
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3 months
@chaser_bait the most surprising part about this story is the "he".
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Katy Drake Bettner
6 months
Travis on SNL solidified it. But a vocal & public crush on a woman who is & will always be FAR more famous & powerful than he was? Yes, it IS like a hallmark movie & it does put a sparkle in that Americana nostalgia but that’s not what is giving women my age palpitations.
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Katy Drake Bettner
6 months
Taylor with her die hard connection with her parents & Nashville start feels like the more aspirational parts of All American. She aligns with unions, takes care of her employees, takes no prisoners with her lyrics, activates voters and is unafraid to be “cringe”.
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Katy Drake Bettner
6 months
Those Kelce brothers though. They seem to be all the good things about traditional midwestern masculinity w/o the bullshit election denial. I mean, I fell in love with them during their brothers playing against each other at the Super Bowl arc.
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Katy Drake Bettner
3 years
For @cmclymer and all the Ann Richards/Molly Ivins fans. This is what Texas needs. We need our women back in power.
@MollyIvinsFilm
Raise Hell: The Life & Times of Molly Ivins
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“They never held anything back, whether it was calling out racism, calling out sexism, and they did it in a way that was incredibly effective.” Watch Molly Ivins’ roast of Ann Richards in this exclusive clip from #MollyIvinsFilm . Own it now:
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Katy Drake Bettner
10 days
@RiotGrlErin I am officially her super fan.
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Katy Drake Bettner
6 months
I KNOW I got lucky in my marriage. @paulbettner is obsessed. I consider him a rare find for his level of success. So it is thrilling to watch, from the bleachers, as TS gets to be seen & adored…not just because she exists in the service of her man’s dreams.
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Katy Drake Bettner
6 months
The term “All American” & patriotism in general has been increasingly co-opted by the most far right, christian nationalist, racist, misogynistic, xenophobic, homophobic set of voices out there. All ‘America First’ & anti-vax.
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Katy Drake Bettner
5 years
@GennHutchison @latimes What the HELL is wrong with these “journalists”?????
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Katy Drake Bettner
6 months
As such, 1/2 the voting members of the American population are cool with that if it keeps taxes for billionaires down. That (among other things) has created an ick factor about Americana that is pervasive for this small town Texas girl & others like me.
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Katy Drake Bettner
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@EliMcCann Fun parents have to fun parent. 🤷🏻‍♀️
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Katy Drake Bettner
11 months
Sometimes I see a thing and it so infuriates me that I need to take a nap. Today’s “thing”:
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Katy Drake Bettner
6 months
When fans rejected respectful BLM protest, I mourned is as another casualty of an increasing disconnect between an already fractured middle class. Obviously, football is problematic outside of politics but it is a part of this Texas girls nostalgia for childhood.
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Katy Drake Bettner
4 years
@yashar “In the end, Trump did what he said. He built a wall around America and made the world pay for it. He just never told Americans that they’d be stuck inside.”
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Katy Drake Bettner
4 years
20 years ago today I called my parents to tell them that I was crazy and that I needed them to put me in a hospital. They said, no, you are an alcoholic and you need to go to rehab. Me: “ok, but like don’t get me a flight till tomorrow..” 1/
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Katy Drake Bettner
2 years
@NotNikyatu Most accurate description of having children
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Katy Drake Bettner
5 years
Juuuuust a reminder that there were 83 ethics cases against this drunken red faced frat boy. Eighty-three. One more time for the people in the back. EIGHTY-THREE.
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Katy Drake Bettner
4 years
Who wants to rent an electronic billboard and play this on repeat with a slide that says “you coulda had a bad bitch” between rounds.
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Katy Drake Bettner
4 years
They do come true. They do. Tomorrow will be the 20th anniversary of that last drink and Wednesday will be 20 years sober.
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Katy Drake Bettner
5 months
Winning Games Choice @GAM3Sgg_ awards from the skies! @PlayWildcard
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Katy Drake Bettner
4 years
I. Will. Always. Repost. This. Thread. ALWAYS.
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Not sarcastic at all. Life insurance, laundry, hand washing — these are all far better ways to protect your family than a gun. If that idea seems counter-intuitive to you, try this thread:
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Katy Drake Bettner
4 years
@yashar This is a powerful community service.
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Katy Drake Bettner
4 years
Brilliant use of edit.
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Justin T Brown
4 years
Wow!! When did #Tucker become Antifa???
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Katy Drake Bettner
23 days
Uh. Monkey Man was AMAZING
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Katy Drake Bettner
5 years
At Scouts I had them pick a community “church” and tell me a problem they see there. My 8 year old said, “women can’t be bishops”. The world run by people born post 1980 can’t come soon enough.
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Katy Drake Bettner
11 months
@EikiMart @BoredElonMusk @stillgray Dear God. Will there be less games that cater to a very specific demographic’s fantasy? Whatever will you do? Might you be forced to play or look at women you do not find attractive? Might you have to play a hero character that does not match your self expressed identity?
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4 years
@cmclymer @BlueBoxDave @thisfishy I’m ready for a “sweetheart”.
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Katy Drake Bettner
4 years
Y’all. Y’alllllllllllll there is no legitimate reason to oppose ratification of the ERA.
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@mexopolis “We can make it low budget in animation”
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Katy Drake Bettner
4 years
Mixed in my airplane Apple juice bottle was nursed from ATL to Dallas on Feb 4, 2000. That was my last drink. My life has not been perfect but it has been exciting and full of love and peace even when things feel overwhelming. 5/
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7 months
@Swilua No way.
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Katy Drake Bettner
2 years
Oh, hello 22.
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@jimmycthatsme MASS comes very close
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Katy Drake Bettner
5 years
If this round was all we had running... Delaney, Tulsi And De Blasio should drop out. Inslee for head of EPA. Tim Ryan for senate. Klobachar for secretary of the interior. Booker for AG. Beto for senate. Warren/Castro ticket. We will see how tomorrow goes.
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Katy Drake Bettner
4 years
Mapping US police killings of Black Americans | | Al Jazeera
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Katy Drake Bettner
4 years
One of the very best things we are able to do thru the foundation is matching grants. We are thrilled at how quickly and completely this came to fruition! If you haven’t donated yet please do. Democracy requires real journalism and @19thnews is real.
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19thnews
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We have some great news! Thanks to the nearly 750 new members who joined today during our The #19thRepresents programming, we've fulfilled our latest $25K match and then some. YOU did it! Thank you to The Drake Bettner Foundation for their generous support. We are so grateful.
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Katy Drake Bettner
4 years
Hi. Just a note to say that worshipping God is not something that has to happen in large groups. #asformeandmyhousewewillawaitavaccine
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Katy Drake Bettner
5 years
@Kid_melodie @ByCommonConsent Here’s what I can’t quite wrap my head around. This is a religion that refuses to use the cross as a symbol of its faith but its young people can find a way to be ok with the confederate flag which is literally a monument to slavery and the pride cycle? Y’all. Yallllllll. 🛑
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Katy Drake Bettner
8 months
@Forrest4Trees Molly Ivins would be having a field day. In fact, I would pay money to read a daily wrap up on it written in her voice.
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Katy Drake Bettner
5 months
My dad has to remind us of our wedding anniversary EVERY YEAR. 😂
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Katy Drake Bettner
8 months
The @PlayWildcard memelords are my very favorites. I asked them to do this one and they DELIVERED so damn fast.
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Katy Drake Bettner
9 months
@yashar What AI thinks a Utahan looks like.
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Katy Drake Bettner
3 years
Y’all. Who wants to get arrested with me giving water to people in long lines in Georgia waiting to vote? @Janefonda @ruthannharnisch @Suzanne_Lerner @patmitchell @abigaildisney you coming?
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Katy Drake Bettner
3 years
Really interesting point: “If you’re a U.S. person and you’re interested in constitutional rights, this legislation should terrify you, whether or not you support abortion rights. Why? Because if this works, it provides a template for state governments to circumvent the 1/5
The Texas Abortion Ban and the Death of Constitutional Rights
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Katy Drake Bettner
8 months
@TisStef @Elijah_Bryant3 Tell me you’ve never been anything BUT Mormon without telling me you’ve never been anything BUT Mormon. Across the board those who leave orthodox community or practice share about it as a form of healing, connection or empowerment. As is their birthright. No one way to mormon.
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Katy Drake Bettner
2 years
@TexasTribune & @19thnews are crucial models for sustainable, high quality journalism. I will match up to 5k in donations made today. DM me your donation screenshot or comment with it below. HBD @eramshaw
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Katy Drake Bettner
3 years
@NicoTortorella @RheaButcher These are my favorite tweets and I wish more people would share such things.
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@shayla_who @paulbettner told a group of Mormon kids that God has to be a black woman. They kept talking about it and one of the kids says, “God is a tall guy with white hair and a white beard.” to which my husband replies, “uh, I think you are talking about Santa Claus”
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Katy Drake Bettner
3 years
I am worthless as a parent rn. How DOES ONE PARENT DURING AN ATTENPTED COUP?
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Katy Drake Bettner
4 years
In her final words, Ruth Bader Ginsburg said-- "My most fervent wish is that I will not be replaced until a new president is installed." She held on as long as she could for all of us.
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Katy Drake Bettner
4 years
My mother joined Twitter. I gave her fair warning that she should not follow me because I tweet like I talk in private whereas I used to Facebook post like a middleaged mother of 3. Welcome to the fucking neighborhood mom.
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Katy Drake Bettner
4 years
So. @ewarren should be the nominee right?
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Katy Drake Bettner
5 years
@TimRyan is speaking my language on the whole mental health and trauma informed care!!!!!
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Katy Drake Bettner
4 years
I keep seeing people talk about how AA isn’t built for women. Maybe not, but it saved this woman’s life and continues to do so 20 years later. 6/
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Katy Drake Bettner
3 years
I have been screaming this one into the void for YEARS.
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Katy Drake Bettner
5 years
@JesseDavidFox @joshgondelman Can you EVEN imagine? The Donald would literally explode. In a sense, Barack would be, once again, serving the best interests of the country. #barackandmichelle
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Katy Drake Bettner
4 months
@SupernovaMomma Mr. Rogers energy. ❤️❤️
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Katy Drake Bettner
2 years
As we say in my house, “what, your popsicle doesn’t taste good anymore just because your brother got one too?”
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I just worked my butt off to pay off my very expensive student loans a few months ago. If Biden forgives student loans, I’m going to be livid.
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3 years
I would like my “stayed sober this week” medal please. Thanks.
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Katy Drake Bettner
4 years
@designmom @addyeB @ashleyn1cole Using HGTV to radicalize suburban moms? Sign me up
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Katy Drake Bettner
5 years
I want to put together a list of all mormon/exmormon/post mo/mo adjacent writers, directors, producers, DP/AD etc and etc and etc as well as musicians, actors, speakers etc. private list but one for a lil thing I am working on so if you are one or you know one please connect!
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Katy Drake Bettner
4 years
@ByCommonConsent It’s rude and mocking. It is not hate speech
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4 years
@eramshaw Oh they def don’t want like scientists or medical professionals in the room. Just a guy responsible for the largest swath of HIV infections in one state in the past decade.
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Katy Drake Bettner
17 days
I check my kids devices every day. Today I opened a text thread from my 10 year olds iPad to find this:
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Katy Drake Bettner
4 years
It’s the greatest hits! I whole heartedly endorse all 4 of these epic threads.
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Gabrielle Blair
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Hey there! I see lots of new faces. Welcome! Thanks for following. Here's a photo of my family. I've also prepared a handy list of my four most retweeted threads for you.
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Katy Drake Bettner
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@koswriter @rachelsteenblik When a group of women have to ask permission from a group of men for what they do it takes far longer to DO anything.
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Katy Drake Bettner
4 years
@DrGJackBrown @EvanMcMullin has a documentary called Active Measires that breaks this down.
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Katy Drake Bettner
3 years
Preemptive legislation is going to kill us all
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Andy Slavitt 🇺🇦
3 years
Arizona, Arkansas, Iowa, Oklahoma, South Carolina, Texas, Utah, and Vermont & Florida have banned schools from requiring masks. States that apparently believe in local control but really don’t. Neither protective nor principled.
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Katy Drake Bettner
3 years
In response to @GregAbbott_TX latest bullshit: Today my dad said, “Imagine how the healthcare workers feel right now. Like a weary forest fire fighter seeing a guy throw a cigarette out of his car”
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@peepsaregood I tried very very hard to want to be a stay at home mom.
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Katy Drake Bettner
4 months
So fun meeting up w/ @Animositas1 @DreamHack ATL
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Katy Drake Bettner
3 years
My daughters youth group is doing an inside line dancing activity on Wednesday. I HATE that a CHURCH consistently puts me in a situation where I have to decide between following basic public health guidelines and letting my kids experience life with thier peers. Hate.
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Katy Drake Bettner
5 years
I wish I could find some people from my intro to sociology class at BYU. The first week the professor said something about “unnatural (read:gay) sexual behaviors” and I loudly exclaimed it was bullshit. The entire class turned around to look at me.
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Katy Drake Bettner
5 years
Sitting on a flight to LA listening to a TV crew member(who worked on BOM musical) talk to a mormon missionary on his way to his mission home. They are both being so tender and timid and kind. A gem.
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Katy Drake Bettner
5 months
Being THE choice of the other game teams is the best win!
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GAM3S.GG
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Congratulations to @PlayWildcard for winning the 2023 Games' Choice Award! #GAM3Awards
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Katy Drake Bettner
3 years
I had no clue that year 20 would be the hardest one since the first year. I survived by the grace of god, the fellowship and my family. Special shout out to my TGIF group.
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Katy Drake Bettner
4 years
@propublica
ProPublica
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We interviewed experts and frontline officials from Italy, Germany, Spain, Singapore, Taiwan and South Korea. Of all of them, we found more commonalities than differences. So… These are the 7 things we must do before we open up America. A thread:
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Unlike ⁦ @paulbettner ⁩ I choose not to engage directly with that guy, BUT this ⁦ @notthreadguy ⁩ & ⁦ @BoredElonMusk ⁩ moment gave me a full throated laugh.
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