“glorious being of light & miracles” Phd in trading cards & Cold War America/eastenders/baseball/cats/sneakers. terminal CHF. they/them/ace/aro🏳️⚧✊🏻
@harriekd
At my therapist's recent request, I wrote a new blog post on .... Helping the unhoused and treating everyone with compassion, kindness, and good old basic human dignity
@BrittanyMeansIt
I derived similar joy from calling the vet and when they asked my cat's name I’d say “boobs” and they’d ask me to spell it because surely I didn’t mean “boobs” like *boobs* did I? Well yes, I did. He’s gone now but it was never not funny while it lasted
@electra_rhodes
@ElinHeron
I am in a similar boat now (“weeks to months” according to the doc) and my friends have been helping me make stuff happen too. This thread really rang true, even if mine and Pink's lists differ wildly
@Joyce_Karam
I find the set up of someone standing half behind him talking to him really weird. it gives him the chance to do what he’s doing, just nodding his head with his eyes closed as if he’s in a meeting about bus timetables or something.
@RoboticoEl
I feel you. I put buttons/pins on my bag, but on their own they’re prone to falling off. So I superglue them on. I usually end up with at least 4 fingers glued together and bits of kitchen towel stuck to the rest of them. glue is finicky and gets everywhere! Bag looks great tho!
@adamhewitt198
@Mantia
@sacralised
@lynneguist
it is now. dictionaries describe, they don’t prescribe (or maybe more accurately, they should and shouldn’t.) if a formation gets wide enough traction to be generally understood, it, well, doesn’t necessarily stop being wrong, but does become accepted use.
@jlizhill
@danidonovan
yeah, I'm in the midst of heart failure and they weighed me every morning in hospital and told me I have to do so at home. I looked at the doc like "really??" and he said "it's because we can see water retention trends. we don't care what you actually weigh, just how it changes"
@nchanter_x
@apontious
@BrittanyMeansIt
It kind of suited him really. It stuck right up until he died aged 13. He was a lovely boy :) thankfully his sister (more normally named millie) is still going strong
@thomas_violence
@LAWHilton
ditto us brits (I’ve really had to tone down my use of the c word since moving to the us; but hey at least I could shoot people* who disagree I guess 😫😫😫)
* no. I’m not planning to shoot anyone. it’s a horrible thing to do and guns should be less easily available
@thegratefulgran
@LWVancouver
@NomeDaBarbarian
@reidconnord
I’ve wanted stuff done in the past that would’ve affected my fertility and was refused point blank every time. this is not uncommon. women have to fight at every stage to get any kind of medical control over their own bodies.
@JoyceWhiteVance
I think it’s arbitrary in the sense that he is just flinging pardons about with wild abandon and no regard for due process. But they’re not entirely arbitrary, he’s picking the types of activities he’s pardoning in a quite focused way, i think.
@Momof3gngrs
@MrFilmkritik
also the property brothers’ charm is weirdly compelling. I just can’t look away ponce they’ve dazzled me with their shiny smiles and kitchen peninsulas
@Esqueer_
Yeah there was a video that went around a few days ago of a woman vilifying locals for suggesting all trans people are groomers. She said she’d never been abused by anyone in the lgbtq+ community but had been twice by people in the church. It was a good little speech
Fox News host proposes separating homeless people from the rest of "civil society":
"We cannot mix with nomadic tribes that are unsanitary and harmful to themselves."
Oof, ok then. I have 2, but as a rare braggart, i feel I’ve earned it:
1: I outlived a 9months to a year prognosis by 4 months (and counting!) i will die fairly soon but not quite there yet!
2: i finished my PhD👨🏼🎓🎓⭐️
@ERnurse86
that’s such a shame and so common. i used to volunteer at homeless shelters run by the interdenominational collab of churches. My dad was the “lead” priest and banned any form of coercion into religion from it. Someone literally got fired for trying to pray with/convert clients
@JaneyGodley
@laprofe63
I came into hospital with an exacerbation of heart failure on Thursday. They thought they’d fixed until Sunday night when I had a major fever spike. Turns out I’ve picked up a staph blood infection. Chances are I’ll still be here on Xmas day, I suspect. Endless IV antibiotics
@JoyceWhiteVance
In that it’s crimes either that his cohort are in jeopardy of being charged/convicted of, or its stuff that is like, to use the overused phrase, red meat to the base.
people defending this saying it's "just" a Sid vicious shirt. well yeah and wearing a swastika to be deliberately antagonistic and prattle about "reclaiming" it wasn't cool when Sid did it either🤷🏼
@varsha_venkat_
Yeah I read the op as “kids are so online now they don’t do these things that involve physically doing something”
I agree that parents can/should teach these things, but they’re just not really necessary life skills like they used to be. I think that’s what they’re lamenting
@Nysteveo2AOLcom
@WilcoMeThat
more on this, apparently "fans" in KC were upset at the anti trump stuff at the show. how can you be a floyd fan and not expect politics?!
@Nysteveo2AOLcom
@WilcoMeThat
brilliant! i'm going to the chicago show, and he's given his OK to the group wanting to fly gold inflatable pigs outside trump tower here :D
@OppenheimerFoto
@heatherwritesss
I usually have some in my pockets/bag, along with a few other bits; hand warmers (winter,) a bottle of street (summer,) hand sanitizer, masks & 5-10 bucks that I keep on me for people who are on the street or whatever. it’s important to look out for folks.
medical update: as most know I was given a new medication, delivered thru iv infusion. The doc told me the prognosis was “9 months to a year” (and after that, a crapshoot.)
That was July 21 last year. So I’m now officially in the crapshoot stage of my terminal illness. Go me!
@NyashaJunior
all those things you think you’re weird for feeling and are trying to suppress, and all the things you’re doing to “prove” yourself normal - stop doing that, you’ll be much happier for it
@ellle_em
yep, my cat boobs was incredibly communicative, and when he died, his sister, who had theretofore been almost entirely silent, started being communicative too. I think that before he died, she knew she'd get the same result from him doing the work so just sat back and let him :)
@DeeLaSheeArt
@E_D_B_G_
Usually when I look over my cat is judging me. But she really is lovely to have around and really helps me to feel calm and reduces anxiety. She is great!
Well, twitter. Today is my birthday. Normally I don’t care all that much but this year I was meant to be dead by july... Outliving a prognosis is a weird situation (esp because of some of my neuroses) but I might as well enjoy today, right?
#letsgocubs
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@Genevieve_Marie
@MeghanMcCain
interesting that Mccain so often tweets angrily if anyone says anything about her dad - which is fair enough, but doing so should preclude using the same rhetoric about other people
@babyappalachian
the bit about calling the cops because they were "too quiet" is mindblowing. this woman clearly needs to have a serious rethink of her priorities. at least.
@tammigaw
@AdrienneLaw
@BreeNewsome
yeah they seem to not grasp that by suggesting they can’t be around women, they are objectifying all women as sex objects around which they just can’t control themselves.
@AdamParkhomenko
I just got back to mine after almost 2 weeks in hospital and grappling with some very major decisions. Returning to her made me smile, hope it will you too👍🏻
@JerryFalwellJr
@realDonaldTrump
you do realize that it’s trump acting like royalty and demanding to be treated as such, right? “if you disagree with me, I will smear you, end your career, and set my minions on you until any credibility you may have had is shredded. to see people who call themselves patriots and
@jlizhill
@danidonovan
I'm not sure it will by much but we can try! and yes, it definitely made me feel better about it. I am now dutifully weighing myself daily and can even see the water retention trends myself now which is quite cool
Heeey owing to my circumstances (that is, being terminal and likely not far from hospice) northwestern is allowing me to go to the hooding ceremony. I’ve wanted the silly Ph.D. Regalia since i was little so this is super special for me
@lagunderson
@nchanter_x
@apontious
@BrittanyMeansIt
Haha it should!! I’d watch! I did watch for 13 years. Now it’s just the millie show, she’s grown up and become wiser and now has a talk show dispensing advice on when to feed her, pet her and so on
@AnaMardoll
and this is why I have the house in zelda. I just go there to grab the rare weapons on the rare occasions I need them, then carefully replace them. can’t have my expensive guardian stuff break on me because I forgot it was equipped when I bashed a moblin on the head😆
@vexwerewolf
clearly that person has never seen the life of brian. The whole reason that scene was funny was that latin grammar was incredibly specific. Gender, case, mood etc. you just can’t say “people called romanes they go the ’ouse” and get away with it!
@KevinMKruse
I might be imagining it but after 3 listens I’m sure I heard the female voice in the background say something about “levrov” saying something. any possibility that was lavrov?
@AllisonRaskin
@itsa_talia
single at 42: hooray! no more worries about my space being invaded and my mother has FINALLY read the memo about me wanting to be single🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻
@MosheIsaacian
@Barbie
I recently met a marketing manager at Mattel, she gave me a tour of their HQ and a lot of Barbie and Hot Wheels stuff; we even talked about my dissertation (it was on kid culture in the early Cold War.) Anyway i agree wholeheartedly (and really hope I’m able to see it!)
I’m less than 10 mins into
#unbelievablenetflix
and it’s shaping up to be very good. utterly horrible, but good. what women are put thru by a system that purports to help after they’ve already been violated is horrifying.
Had an amazing private hooding ceremony and after party this afternoon. About 25 in the room and too many to count watching on zoom. It was really lovely to see so many people support me as I FINALLY got my PhD🎉🎉🥳🥳
@brexit_sham
@SovereignAnnie
@JasonNParkinson
this whole idea of "indigenous Britains" (which seems to be what he's getting at, and which is also cited sometimes by the likes of hatie hopkins) has really taken off lately. it's baloney. we're a mishmash nation and always have been. this kind of xenophobia is just horrible.
@oneunderscore__
there've been a few articles (one in particular that I can't remember the details of) on the way that mainstream medicine's reluctance to take women's health/pain seriously has driven women to wellness and thence antivaxxer/jade eggs type stuff.
@AnaMardoll
because that is what I’d do. I’d forget these things are limited and suddenly realize I had none left. it’s also why I have zillions of trunks in skyrim full of random ingredients I never actually seem to use but I know are super important and rare
@ultramaricon
This is definitely the most inventive method. And yes, all that’s missing is “ACME” on the bin and you’ve got the tom & jerry reboot on your hands
@thebluebirdgirl
@DrJenGunter
Ugh that really really sucks. I’m sorry. In person classes are clearly a really bad idea and all the people pushing it, especially those who also refuse to vaxx/mask are rendering all our efforts redundant and it’s infuriating
@davor999
@ruthven78
@BJGNSpicoli
@FabianNicieza
@jeremi_isaac
@GQMagazine
yeah I mean, we’ve never been called feminazis or witches or harpies or bitches or whatever. toxic masculinity is toxic because it holds power. over men and women (and NBs/transpeople/queer people too.) some facets of femininity could maybe be called toxic (the stereotypes of...
@LaurieInQueens
@SketchesbyBoze
I was wearing a t shirt (well, tank top but whatevs) yesterday that says "there ain't no party like a Gatsby party cause a Gatsby party don't stop until at least two people are dead and everyone's disillusioned with the jazz age as a whole"
@grillc0v3r
@karengeier
yeah, that's a really good point. especially because memorials by their nature are seen as being after the event. they're a form of closure, and don't really leave space for ongoing traumas.
Hey again friends. Just an update to say that unless there’s a pretty stunning change in events, I’ll be entering hospice the first week of jan. I just can’t keep going like this. The pain, the exhaustion, the gastroparesis, the nausea, and now angina to boot. I just *can’t*
@brentinmock
@ClaraJeffery
sometimes the length to which white people will posit that their long held, deeply systemically entrenched privilege and power are fragile and at risk, and the lengths to which they’ll go to cling to it boggles my mind (I’m not surprised, it’s predictable, but so weird)
@Nysteveo2AOLcom
@WilcoMeThat
just because the pigs are a copyright of his, from the animals album. but good for him. i can't wait to see them. or the show!
@indiaknight
Yep, I’m no royalist but the way Meghan has been treated by the press is appalling and it’s good to see someone with a bit of clout standing up to them