Saying wretched things about wretched people since conception. Creepers need not apply. *My private opinions. But I’m not wrong.*
#survivor
#coercivecontrol
I COULD stay up and work, but I am tired. And Ancient Aliens is on a marathon. Smirk. I am NEVER bored by that show. Mostly because I'm puzzling through the logic (or, lack thereof) and LMAO. Props to Giorgio and his fantastic hair. I love that guy!
@Ryan_Daigler
We need to start treating this abuse for what it is: a liberty crime; fraud; torture; economic, psychological, and emotional slavery. It should be prosecuted as a criminal offense and annulment should be an option.
@ask_aubry
Sis? You and your kiddos aren’t being treated right. I understand. My ex preferred to do things like buy himself a $500 bespoke hat, but he didn’t think he should pay any child support. Be well, girl. 🫂
@AndrewCicchett1
I stand as a witness. Right now. It’s easier to believe that a woman is crazy than that a man is abusive. Fortunately, I have proof. That’s not much comfort during the process. It’s hard. It’s painful. I am also telling the truth. No reconciliation with anyone without the truth.
@drjenwolkin
"You're so mean (You're so mean)
When you talk (When you talk)
About yourself, you were wrong
Change the voices (Change the voices)
In your head (In your head)
Make them like you instead"
@Pink
@AndrewCicchett1
@SarahMc_G
I would add, if you were moved cross-country in the context of
#coercivecontrol
you didn’t do this for love. You were, in reality, removed in space and time from your support system. This was calculated. This was not your fault.
@sorrowfulwrites
That’s why I studied politeness theory. I didn’t understand the games people played. I’m not always “nice.” But my heart is always in the right place.
@shadows_control
An abuser pushes a victim to the breaking point—a point of actively protecting themselves and their loved ones from any more abuse? Telling the truth is neither aggressive nor petty. It’s protective behavior. An abused animal will eventually bite back. 🤷♀️
@MedeirosAndrew
@insultsrare
And you’ll just have to accept that the closest you’ll ever get to big breasts and stringy thighs is the poultry section, bruh. 🙄
@Ryan_Daigler
When things come to light in which they are clearly in the wrong, they refuse to accept the consequences and turn a very real sense of injustice into DARVO. It just doesn’t make any sense. SMH.
@Autistic_Lia
Yes. It’s very useful. I accomplished an incredible amount of work in a very short time period. I also can’t be interrupted or I get a little grouchy. 🤣🤷♀️
@Ryan_Daigler
@karenmitchell__
If they have such a serious problem with her findings, then they are free to provide alternative evidence. If they’re resorting to ad hominem attacks rather than good evidence, then they appear to be the problem, imo.
@AndrewCicchett1
I am struck by it, yes. I think that her legal team was simply outmatched. To overcome the power differential, she would have needed the legal “dream team.” I wonder what would have happened if she had that level of advocacy and power on her side? Parallel. 1st man re 1st woman.
@shadows_control
When that anger finally appears? Please stop telling people to “forgive” the abuser. “Forgiveness isn’t just for the abuser. It’s for you!!” How a victim feels is their own business—nobody else’s. Staying in your own lane just might be what the victim needs most.
@shadows_control
The abuser and his latest supply were so toxic to me and my child that I had to go on beta blockers. I don’t need them anymore. Justice is better than any medication. Just saying.