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when u see someone braver than u, ur first question should not be, “what invisible privilege do they have over me that made their bravery and resilience possible?” but instead “how can i learn to be as brave as they are, when they were once just as if not more terrified than i”.
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the ethical gooner seems to free his mind at night.
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why do young trans people think “you’re so gender” is a compliment.
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gay guys be like when i was 14 i met up with 80 year old men from craigslist snorted meth off their wrinkled balls and LIKED it.
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this idea that trans guys in history only took hrt and passed as men for “safety” reasons has broken some of your brains i fear. what if i told u some of us were genuinely happy living as and being men and even got phallo like lou sullivan. we’re not all jess from sbb!.
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because gay men are all a type of woman.
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people love to do the whole trans men aren’t men they’re Trans Men schtick while also realizing they can’t say trans women aren’t women they’re Trans Women without coming off as an obvious transphobe.
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saw a tiktok where a butch on t recounted a twink at the grocery store hitting on them with shock + revulsion at the prospect of being read as a gay man by him it’s like 😭 i dont mean to be insensitive but what did u think would happen when u started t my dear. .
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@dollarbillbluez you know it’s a party when the 100 benadryl a day guy shows up on your post.
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this idea that phalloplasty is less accessible and “underdeveloped” are both false transphobic myths. it’s just as accessible as vaginoplasty and is incredibly well developed especially after the past 10 years of developments in surgical technology and procedures.
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the concept of a trans man with bottom dysphoria is so alien to some of u that u start talking like c1s people. incredible stuff cooking here
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she’s right tho lol she didn’t blame nb people point blank she’s talking about the people who act like being transsexual and needing hormones/surgery to live is somehow less evolved and assimilationist somehow.
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easiest form of protest? dressing up like the gonzo cosplay israeli ftm detransitioner!.
"the easiest form of protest? consumption!"
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30 year olds who fuck 18 year old kids are the polar opposite of emotionally mature LMAO.
when i was 18-23 i routinely hooked up with men 30+ years old and it smoked. fully furnished apartment AND emotional maturity. 10/10.
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like do trans women not get to be young innocent women who are victimized by misogyny on the daily? or is that exclusive to wombyn havers.
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omg ur a trans guy who feels that your attraction to women is still gay NOT het in some inexplicable way having nothing to do with internalized transphobia and being called a lesbian for the majority of ur life? noooo wayyyy that’s so interesting and an entirely unique experience.
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it’s so funny when people say stuff like this it’s like advertising that they’re in a hetheyfab bubble without trans women.
in such a butchfemme bubble sometimes i forget about lesbians that are both girls. shout out yall fr.
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imagine if i said misogyny isn’t the root cause of women’s oppression and that the true root is class based oppression. it’s technically true but also incredibly reductionist and ignores the experiences specific to women that working class men don’t experience.
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@blackendbrain extremely annoying and cringe imo especially when i see it directed at “binary” trans ppl who are obviously trying their best to pass.
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like they r going to read u as a man is that not the desired result??? why take a masculinizing hormone if not?? they went on to say they were married w a wife and that’s fine whatever but it struck me as so odd to react w like borderline disgust at a gay man thinking ur hot 💀.
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a cisbi girl having sex with a straight trans man isn’t queer either but are you all ready for that conversation.
homegirl is writing a full dissertation on her tl over me thinking its silly cisbi girls think having sex w cįs guys is queer. mamita get a hobby.
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the reality is a lot of ppl have preferences that won’t align with your presentation once u change it significantly but that shouldn’t stop u from pursuing ur truth, life isn’t all about desirability plus staying in a body u hate just so ppl will wanna fuck will make u miserable.
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wheres that one post thats like “does your straight boyfriend know he’s in a queer relationship”.
i know vivi has been getting people be real odd to her for this frankly sahara-desert-dry take, but id love to one up her and say the “one person is queer, the relationship isnt” also applies to enbys who date men when said men are adamant about “not being gay”. truth nuke ig.
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ok great value buck angel tell me again how saying trans men are just androgenized females isn’t a full on terf wolf whistle lmfao come on
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obsessed with all the gen alpha tiktok transmascs in my mentions accusing me of stoking “infighting” which is their favorite word to use when you point out transmisogynistic microagressions. next thing you know they’re gonna say we all just need to make out.
why do young trans people think “you’re so gender” is a compliment.
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i think a lot of trans guys secretly want to be in a gay relationship but know gay guys will reject them so they live vicariously by trying to project that dynamic on trans women they date. i’ve noticed a similar phenomenon where “lesbian” trans women will pursue trans guys.
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not all of us desist or go back to our lesbian community and denounce being an “assimilated man” some of us enjoy it and it doesn’t make us traitors to queer liberation or whatever terf nonsense u all try to push on us.
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it kinda reminds me of how strongly ppl reacted when i told them realistically transitioning would make them less attractive to some lesbians simply bc the majority of them r more likely to read u as a cis man in passing regardless of whether u id with lesbianism still.
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some people will say lesbian is a gender before they admit trans men are men.
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it’s so funny when lesbians get mad at gay guys for saying dyke only to turn around and call them fags 💀.
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@KurtVonnefaggut random stranger said this to my friend once in a lecture hall unprompted i had to pick my jaw up off the floor.
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i wish more people understood this. if you immediately fold on your values as soon as your creature comforts get threatened you’re definitely not making it in the revolution lmao ur gonna be fighting on the side you so vehemently claim to be against.
@MudandMayo @mdashaldebaran I think you’re proving OP’s point by saying you stopped masking mostly due to social cost. What leftist values (such as protecting vulnerable people) are you willing to abandon due to social cost? If it becomes costly to stand up for trans rights, will you drop that, too? Etc.
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@LOSERLABRYS it’s too on the nose not very well produced very a24 slop and i feel like if it were about anything else peoples feels blinders wouldn’t be on about it.
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when trans women call themselves tboys this is what i assume they mean.
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the thing i find so disingenuous about the im not touching you!! im only attracted to lesbian trans men!! chasers is like. when they see a man they find attractive do they make him fill out a questionnaire that determines whether or not he a. has a penis and b. is a lesbian man.
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every friend group i’ve known that does this messy af.
everyone needs to make out with their friends more.
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there’s this one “lesbian” trans girl i used to be mutuals with who would constantly thirst over cïs and trans men but would insists she was only lesbianlly attracted to lesbians trans guys and NOT “binary trans men” like ok girl so are u like quizzing them at the bar b4 u hit.
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i wish more people were this open about their thought process lmaoo at least she admits she just sees us as women.
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*rhetorical position identical to that of a terf* erm, im not transphobic 🤓just too woke for your binary mind to comprehend. read any queer history lately, buddy? how about a book written in the 80s about a detrans woman who thought wearing vests in a buzzcut made her a man?.
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a lot of trans people themselves do not have this trait lol or i guess reppers specifically and they interpret our bravery as privilege.
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this framing is so odd to me too because it works under the assumption that a fascist is going to look at a fully stealth post op trans man and go nah you know what you could still go back to being a woman if you want, you’re not so bad!.
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some of u on here u unironically be like im a fagdyke!! yet r openly homophobic and have no gay/queer men community irl whatsoever lol.
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personally i would choose to just skip over the pronoun bit and say my name and endure the dagger glares from sock.
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fuck queer history i believe in queer present and future.
pov idk shit about queer history.
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what is the point of saying shit like this.
maybe some of you were mutilated by puberty but i’m just tall and a bit clocky with it idk what to tell you.
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customer was a shitlib, and treatlerite. one night she orders grubhub, drunker than usual. kamala harris had lost the election. i delivered chipotle as a male driver. she didn’t like that. not. one. bit.
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u can’t seriously be blaming workers for their own exploitation. do u genuinely think people enjoy not getting paid.
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obsessed with when a trans misogynist trans guy goes how can i be transmisogyny when i have trans women friends? ah yes, trans women, a monolithic group that certainly doesn’t contain a large number of women wracked with self hatred and iwnbaw mentality.
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to the trans women lesbians ik even the butch ones their womanhood is extremely important to them so like…. huh lol.
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shut the fuck up you moron i am talking about trans men with internalized transphobia idgaf about transmasc lesbians plus you have no idea what you’re talking about lol. sit this one out, chaser.
the binaries have rotted your brains! ⭐️.
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all my “transmed” opinions must be bc im a c1s man dickrider but as soon as im like no idc about them rly and i don’t fuck they lose their minds and assume i must be lying bc why else would a trans man demand to not have his transition be diminished by people who haven’t? hmmm.
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but every transmasc in my mentions is here acting like it’s the 90s for some reason. guess what some guys STILL got it knowing the science then wasn’t “perfect” yet went on to live full happy penised lives. sounds like a skill issue for most of u im ngl.
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bc transmasc is the woke version of tomboy as a cultural signifier and identity prove me wrong.
Why does the term transmasc not imply a trans man but transfem implies trans woman like 99% of the time.
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the idea that non transitioners have some deep innate understanding of our experiences as transsexuals on account of us both being trans is so funny bc like. no you don’t lmao.
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this is true but also ignores the fact that a lot of the trans women i’ve dated have expected me to bottom for them even tho im a top so i think a lot of it is the bottom dysphoria vs no bottom dysphoria gap.
unironically if you’re t4t but refuse to top a tgirl, you suck !!.
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LMAOOOO no fuckin way a lesbian with a cïs boyfriend. i really could not make this shit up some of u are brain broken beyond repair like did u even try to be normal.
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@filterflowers and yet you still thought of him as a woman. so interesting i wonder why that is.
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people saying this isn’t real just join your local dnd group or community college.
theymabs already exist and they're just normal guys using different pronouns because they want to bang women with pink hair.
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white woman autism is so fascinating.
cashier at 7/11 pointed to this and said “is that your dad ?:)” and i just said yeah
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18 year olds don’t magically develop adult brains because the law says so LMAO so much for resisting fascism.
This is why the "it's predatory to 'go after' a 23 year old as a 28 year old no matter what" discourse is concerning. Do not capitulate to fascism by baby-ifying yourself into not being a real adult between 18 - 25. also that factoid about brain development isn't even true!!.
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hello?????.
@fanonomenon This guy was being insanely transmisogynistic, had rape allegations resurface, and made the trans guy he was targeting go private under threat of doxxing ~3 months ago. Already back at it for the love of the game
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they always gotta have those ugly ass bridge piercings like it’s a uniform or something.
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@filterflowers is this u btw u sound like a creep i would warn my trans friends to stay away from bc this is chasery and dehumanizing as fuck
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@filterflowers @popbase12345 fuck off my post already you and your hetero bf are both ugly as shit.
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the way some of u freaks talk about gay trans men is indistinguishable from the way u talk about bi women bc u see us all as silly hetero women in denial. newsflash some of us actually transition and look like men and go on to date gay men. cry about it idk
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idk how much this is true bc anecdotally my weight fluctuates a lot but i was pretty stable a few years on t and my boob fat shifted elsewhere to the point when i got top surgery i had basically just a tiny bit of loose skin moobs to cut off lol.
recently found out that hrt doesn't move existing fat around, it just locates new fat based on what hormones you're using.
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im getting laid exponentially less bc i started to actually be honest with myself about my crippling bottom dysphoria.
You should be getting laid more post-transition.
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my thing is that poor innocent 18yo theyfab coming to trans women crazy bc of misogyny trauma isn’t somehow more deserving of grace than a young trans woman who has to deal with shit like afab only housing when at risk of homelessness getting short with people who perpetuate this.
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what do these lesbian tboy chasers do when their object of affection comes out as a man? besides pressure them to detransition i mean.
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lesbian ftm chasers be like don’t u guys long for the good old days trans guys needed to call themselves lesbians lest they lost their already tiny support networks and had no access to medical transition and wanted to kill themselves. wasn’t that like so hot and butchfemme.
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extremely funny that people are making this about butchphobia but even funnier that people are rebutting with “she means men!!!” then why does it say masc? why not just say men if u mean men 😭 love everything about this.
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i think people who want all the spoils of dating a rich person fail to realize it comes at the immeasurable cost of having to date a rich person.
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if you haven’t experienced getting hrt taken away and will never have to worry about it bc u have no intention of medically transitioning i think it’s ok to sit this one out lmao it’s not gonna affect u either way bc ur comfortable inhabiting ur current body in its current state.
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me: i plan to treat my severe bottom dysphoria with phalloplasty and think there should be less fearmongering surrounding the process. buck angel fan club in my mentions:.
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and try and do the whole sapphic relationship thing with them lol. meanwhile the whole time both would be better off just dating the genders they are actually into but fear of rejection holds them back so they essentially end up doing detransitioner t4t.
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this is so hilarious bc theres so many butch lesbians irl who are cops/military 💀.
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this is what you’re all trying to do with homo/transphobia and misogyny. it’s nice to think you can wrap it up in a neat flat little analysis but i beg you to dig a bit deeper and see what conclusions you draw.
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none of us are fooled by that testoclit bullshit like this is what all your afab solidarity nonsense boils down to this guy is just too intellectually challenged and emotionally stunted to be a crypto terf about it. like have some decorum man at least attempt to be clandestine.
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@SQUIGGLEPHYSICS im gonna swirlie you and every other fumbass that replied some form of this shit.
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@androgynyfiend right like especially if they’re nice and respectful abt it idc who it is lol im so gagged tho at some of these ppl truly believing that they will never pass as men on t and instead be read as a secret genderfucky third thing by twinks at trader joes.
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just fyi 400 t levels is pretty low for a c1s man. most guys feel comfortable anywhere from 600-1000 and if ur provider gives u shit about it hit the bricks and get a new referral and im so serious.
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trying to pull that whole “does your c1s boyfriend know he’s in a gay relationship” thing on trans men who have been on t for years is hilarious. like yes he knows we met on sniffies and so does everyone else bc we look like a gay couple. what’s the issue.
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there ain’t no fuckin way.
@dykeviolence What if someone felt justified in using the n-word because, idk, they've been beaten up by a group of black men? Like sure, those guys were really shitty, but that doesn't mean it's a pass for being racist. 😓 The same rule applies here.
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man all parents who homeschool should be put on a watchlist tbh this looks like one of my siblings could’ve written this our parents were exactly like this it was nuts lol.
There's a heartbreaking crisis of abuse in "homeschools" across the country.
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so many transbians who desperately wanted me to be a woman lite bc i had the “right” parts and didn’t pass as well back then. like why not pursue an actual woman who wants to be lesbians with you lol irdgi.
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@dykeviolence i think i dated enough of this kind of person at 16–20 that i’m permanently conditioned to feel disgust when they start doing the whole self deprecation bit.
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they taste really disgusting when you’re kissing someone like please have a mint.
cigarettes are gross unless you’re hot.
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@androgynyfiend i made a post about this earlier but it’s literally just homophobia with a dash of transphobia for taste by acting like we hold a similar social position to bisexual women in our interactions with c1s men.
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@FaceOfMelinda01 im nothing if not consistent in my ideology. perhaps it is you that has changed.
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wishing hoping praying for everyone to realize that regardless of culture the idea that parents own their children’s bodies is an inherently fascistic one go argue w ur moms about it.
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