@KensBestLyfe
That is so tacky…and to put God’s name on it really bothers me.
God wants us to give our best efforts and you cannot convince me her habitual lateness is because of God. You simply cannot. Nor is it in His image…
Reasons a woman would take her purse to the bathroom:
1. She doesn’t leave her purse anywhere
2. She doesn’t trust you
3. She wants to freshen up
4. She wants to leave the restaurant without you noticing
5. She’s minding her damn business
6. She can, it’s her property
1. Social experiments like this continuously prove systemic racism is very much real and alive
2. We as black people have got to stop fighting to be accepted by folks who genuinely do not gaf about us
3. I want better for us…I do.
Yeahhhhhh I hate to agree with a man but…if someone has a clearly communicated request for their bday. You don’t get to decide they want something else.
Either get what they want or don’t do anything. It wasn’t even an elaborate request. I’d be annoyed too…
He wasn’t wrong though. B/c if the shoe were on the other foot we’d be talkin about weaponized incompetence lmaoo she should’ve either baked the cake he asked for or ordered one!
And most chapters and all regional and international offices have chaplains. Like huh??
Are you crazy?? D9 is heavily Christian with little regard for other religions. So if you’re gonna denounce for religious beliefs, don’t be Christian 😂😂
Just say I didn’t find balance…
Just thinking more about people denouncing the D9 for religious reasons and I'm still hollering cause ever chapter I know that hosts a "[insert org] Week" gon kick that joint off with a church service 💀
Like every. single. one. We is gon be in SOMEBODY church house.
I know plenty of Black women who cook for their black men.
It’s the dusty ones on twitter that don’t get treated well. And it’s probably bc their not likable or treat their partners like crap…meh. Oh well.
Yes! I want more black women to stop associating their value in this world to their labor outputs.
Why do you need to work hard just because??
Use the dishwasher. Hire the housekeeper. Book the massage. Plan the vacation. Do all the things…just because.
There is a woman on TT telling Black women that they should essentially ask for help as often as white women do, pay for help wherever possible and seek relationships that make your life easier.
Correct but be prepared for others - including Black women themselves, to...
And never a question of why don’t men have (positive) relationships with their kids? Or friendships (that aren’t sexual)? Or why are they unmarried?
Y’all treat the people around you like shit then expect them to gaf when you’re old and feeble…the jokes 😒
People have constantly mocked single women about how they're going to die alone surrounded by cats.
Now that it turns out men are the ones dying alone, it's "sad" and it's up to women to "take care of their fathers."
No matter men's problems, it's women's job to fix them huh
If you give him enough time and keep extending forgiveness…the abuse will 100% escalate
Either you leave or he will eventually take you out. There’s really no middle ground.
I have a married guy friend whose company I enjoy, and who I love to pieces. We’ve been friends for YEARS, since before the marriage. When we do link, it’s 97% innocent. His wife is completely hetero, yet he wants me to covertly assist him in attempting to persuade her to allow
The issue is not that they changed their minds.
The real issue is that when she noticed a shift instead of saying “you’re not the one” they come up with excuses…
Ladies, he wasn't wasting your time. He initially liked you, got to know and decided you weren't for him. Men are allowed to change their mind as well.
Sheree pointed out something important
Kandi has consistently been honest and time and time again when the truth comes out, it’s always been on kandis side
The reverse has been the experience with Drew.
Y’all can act like your character doesn’t matter…but it does 🤷🏽♀️
I usually loathe artists rhyming the same word multiple times…
But her. She different! Her pen is lethal…and her delivery is always icing on the cake 🤌🏾
I’m just a former divorce attorney, sitting here literally begging people to stop making the dumbest financial decisions in relationships of all time. Please do not give one spouse unilateral responsibility or control over your finances. Please.
And the restaurants that did well…he gave them praise and acknowledgement. And their businesses saw an increase in attention/patronage
Y’all really mad at the wrong person…
Not only did he NOT bad mouth them, there would be nothing to be up in arms about if these same businesses treated ppl better.
Y’all want Black people to settle for poor customer service, subpar food and crazy fees cause it’s a Black owned restaurant is crazy. 😂
Y’all do not need to be business owners. I ordered a little $14 shirt on 11/22. I got a shipping notification, the owner said I was going to get it, the tracking didn’t update, check my mail. Why I dispute it and now they’re like “oh it’s out of stock I was sending it later”?
I actually love this thread!
Parenthood and especially motherhood isn’t for everyone! I wish people had more freedom to openly acknowledge when it’s not for them.
We’d have a lot less childhood trauma if people accepted it wasn’t for them and proceeded to prevent pregnancy
I saw something on here that said if the only time your child gets your full attention is when they’re in trouble…they will continue to get in trouble.
This is how that looks as an adult 😬
While this is a cute challenge, there’s definitely something to be said about people intentionally yelling at this point. They remind me of kids that only got attention and felt seen from bad behavior. It’s more than just cringe behavior, it’s a character flaw.
And I’m sick of shows where the mom is smart, accomplished, and does everything around the house
Meanwhile the husband is lazy, accident prone, or excessively childish.
Most sitcom husbands are 5s (if I’m being generous) and their wives are 9s or 10s and this fuels incels who think this reflects the real world and not fantasy
1. What is the concern about what she could possibly say without you present? I swear hit dogs holla every time
2. This is a safety precaution because some parents are their child’s abusers/bullies so yeah I’m glad this is a thing
3. I’d gladly welcome my kid feeling safe to
“I don’t want to get addicted to fame. Then when I’m no longer famous I won’t know what to do, and I’ll just seem desperate and lose my mind.”
— Beyoncé about the danger of fame (2004).
Videos like this prove that if you say “Beyonce can’t sing” You’re just a hater.
It’s okay to not be a fan of her work but you cannot deny her talent, her influence, and her business mind. Not without being a hater…
The idea that I can disappear from your life and be a shitty friend and you should welcome me back with open arms is toxic and should be discussed with a therapist
It’s always interesting when folks presume that because most government agencies be slacking that they can play with the IRS
Miss Mamas do not play that. She’s like the bougie rich cousin in a family of hoodrats. They are NOT a reflection of her 🤣🤣
Shonda is a baddddddd woman lol 😂
This and from Grey’s where Derrick is screaming “where is she” and his wife says “here I am, I’m fine”
Then someone points out that wasn’t the “she” he was talking about 😭😭
*Porsha rollin her eyes cause she knew she couldn’t spell it
*Kandi loud ass cackle
*Nene silently dyin
*Kenya devious lil laugh
*Andy’s smile
this was just an all around 10/10 moment 😭🤣
#RHOA
Also. Don’t ask questions you don’t want the answers to.
Asking in front of your kids then saying you’re embarrassed by his calmly presented honest answer. Big wild.
As someone who went to a PWI, this is definitely a thing.
They raise their daughters this way, but the important distinction is they raise their sons this way too.
In our community we pressure daughters to be mothers and wives while encouraging our sons to play the field.
it’s the people saying “ok the snake thing getting played out” that’s gettin me 💀
yall so used to female rappers giving you incohesive and lopsided rollouts/bodies of work that you get confused when you see a real one 😭
She’s your favorite legends’s fave 😩🥰
Literally every legend alive during her career loved her publicly. That’s why I don’t argue about her on the innanet.
It’s the south only by technicality.
As someone who has lived in the north, the south, and the DMV…the DMV is a place of its own 🤷🏽♀️
If I had to describe it, it’s a hybrid of the north and the south.
Functional depression is very real & we have to stop pushing the narrative that depression only looks like an inability to function.
The danger in that narrative is people are walking around depressed & have no clue. Because they believe it only looks like sleeping the day away.
Depression is also getting up & going to work everyday, keeping up with yourself, laughing, putting on makeup, going out with your friends. Functional depression is also very real.
For me it’s the “I don’t take this at home and I’m not gonna take it here” was the biggest gaslight. She gaslit her damn self.
Bc if you didn’t take it at home he definitely wouldn’t have tried it on national tv. Like who you tryna convince 😅
I don’t see where Kandi is “taking up” for Ralph. All she said is that if Drew can gaslight Kandi on something they BOTH know to be true, she probably gaslights Ralph, too.
That’s not a defense— that’s 1 + 1 equaling 2.
#RHOA
Looking down on her moms ability to set her up for success financially is nothing but envy
Ashley’s mom is a bill. Candace’s mom is a financial support. It’s pure envy..
It just looks crazy af bc Ashley is also not paying her bills, she just has to marry older men for it.
In the 2018 Whitney Houston documentary, there was a whole segment talking about how she’d be having a big career moment or just something generally going well for her and Bobby would act up, get arrested, etc
😩😩😩 I feel old even answering this question but alas…
Netflix started as a dvd rental service only. They eventually included streaming. And over time went to exclusively streaming.
Also! The internet was invented 40 years ago and made public 30 years ago 😬
@cop3hard3r
@lamariiiposa
Allegedly if the middle finger is longer than the ring finger…they’re well endowed
Since learning this I’ve looked at pics of men I can confirm. 100% accuracy, including men that are not endowed 😮💨
I don’t think he knew they were there tbh. Ain’t no way he knew they were there.
And good for her for having them and having the courage to use the footage. Because you cannot gaslight someone out of video footage.
Which I’m certain he would’ve tried to gaslight without it.
He had no clue Keke had cameras in the house. He couldnt have. Or he didnt think she’d give them to the court.
Thats why Sarunas is deleting 4 days’ worth of tweets and homeboy deleted his outright denial.
Now the narrative has to shift. Back to the drawing board.
You have a lot of negative energy for the parent who is actually doing the work of parenting.
It’s quite sad. And before you say “it could never be me”, tread carefully. Because it could always be you.
A father leaves or doesn’t step up and the mother who does is the problem?
That’s opposite of his entire process. He wants to be treated like a normal customer.
He actually goes through great lengths to provide reviews on a normal experience for all customers. Not someone with clout.
And that’s why ATL fails every time. They require clout for service.
I really hate that yall think it’s okay to disappear inexplicably & your friend is supposed to just accept it.
It’s childish & immature. Use your words.