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Eradicating the façade of happiness, one day at a time. Be warned, I have tattoos.

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@vxzfeels You're either a romantic person or not, it's in you or it just doesn't exist within you, and if you know you aren't, that you truly can't even fathom the romance sense of love, please stay clear of me, cause I live for that shit, and if you can't give? Please walk.
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@BALUCIAGA I'd never regret the things I did for my partner when we were together, or the things I did in the name of love. I loved you how you were, I can't use the same to make you feel bad cause I was there right along with you, i would be insulting myself too.
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@iAmCroe You really have to consider your partner in every decision you make no matter how minute. How it would affect them, how it would make them feel. It's false when "they" tell us we owe nothing to no one, because we do, we owe respect, decency and courtesy. It's a role most forget.
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@NisforNora Yes,softness isn't just about getting your nails and hair done,it's more about living life softly,putting down all the weight you've carried your whole life,not being harsh with yourself,putting up boundaries,being in tune with yourself and all these require you put in the work
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@pengtinglee @Dreymwangi There's always better, there's always more, the things you begged for? Another will do them without you even asking. You can always find your person at any juncture of your life, may take a lifetime or a second but you'll find them and they'll find you.
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@b0inolo Yeah, cause you tend to feel like you shouldn't be jealous cause y'all aren't an item yet but also you should feel jealous cause I mean you're talking to me, why are you giving another your time? Attention? Very confusing honestly.
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@LeArielleSimone Yes! This is it exactly. You wake up and choose to be happy, even in chaos, or when it's painful, you choose to be happy, smile a little more, it doesn't mean you're ignoring the other negative emotions, you're just actively choosing to be happy in the midst of them.
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@Oluwadunnii No, I think you should be worried that you aren't correcting something that your partner is consistently complaining about, why isn't it important to you? That is what you should be worried about, not that they stopped complaining but why you aren't changing.
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@thandoau Only way I've made it in life is by being delusional, cause I'm a princess and everything will and must work for me, no way around it really.
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@Naeto__ This is why I don't accept "sorry too easily", I need to know what you're apologising for and if you understand the need for the apology. Cause what is important isn't the sorry but the correction of the mistake.
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@_KayNatalie I enjoy spoiling my men tbh, if I can afford it? It's yours babyyy😂😍
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@NoKizzyLane Most don't realise that real comes with manners, you have to be disciplined, you have to have morals, real challenges who you are within, real peels off the layers of who you are as a person, you have to be vulnerable and most run away from that.
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@carltonkitheka1 Why is it that most of you(men) are so inclined to make judgement of our(women) intelligence based on your own areas of interest/expertise?
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@SamkeloS___ I believe being a good person is a choice, you choose to be good even in situations where it would be understandable if you were to be bad, and as choices have consequences, the consequence of being good is that you'll face some bullshit, but you'll still choose to be good.
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@bhericherib As the eldest daughter, it was really hard for me to put myself first, till date I find myself shunning my wants and desires, putting others first, apologising more than i should, It's a struggle but I'll get here. I will.
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@anthea_grace Wanting a life partner is perfectly valid, wanting to be loved irrevocably is also very much so valid. We are humans, we crave human connection, it's nature. You'll find them, it may take a while but you'll find them and they will be looking for you too.
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@Keylo__ Most I do is two people each day,😂 and they are the same people the next day and the next and the next...
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@essonnaaa It's crazy how your brain is a part of you but it seemingly chooses to be against you more often than not. Like, we are a team, why are you doing this to me?
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@bratzgorlss Like when I just decide to even put in a little more effort, I go off the charts, stunningly! God was really in his bag when he made me. Took his time fr.
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@belizeanmamas Girl, if I speak...😂😂 I refrain from these conversations cause I'd really get my man whatever he wants. If I can afford it? Man, he gon have it.
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@mikangobeni_ You so real for this, cause once I remove my glasses, I can only see by faith😂😭
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@NoKizzyLane This is the only way it should tbh, this or nothing!
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@farhiiiyaaa___ Reminds me how someone complimented me recently, I was told, " you have a nice body, you look amazing", I replied, " thanks, wanna have it?"😂😂 it came out so rude and it was awkward I just...😭😭
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@aprettygirlxo Right...cause I don't want to love whilst checking myself, I want to love intensely and purely, I want to be intentional in loving them, I don't want to be embarrassed or get a grip. It's loving them wholeheartedly or nothing.
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@1nigeriangirl Expecting your ex to do poorly in life and suffer after y'all separate is a lot of pressure on yourself actually. Whether they do succeed or not, you should trust yourself enough to know that the decision you made of leaving at the time was the best decision for you.
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@tsitsitema As long as I exist? I know real lovers exist too, we are just yet to find each other ❤️
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@crzmriee Explains why I'm into words of affirmation cause I have to be reassured all the time. Even on the smallest things, I'll find myself looking for comfort, on the best of things, I'll look to be affirmed and I hate it so much, cause I'm an adult why I'm I like a child too!?
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@maui_w In a world where we are overwhelmed with choices, I want them both as well. Neither need is above the other, both exist harmoniously.
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@krisxtyy This question is actually very important to me as well. Cause for me, I am loved at home, I'm not about to entertain someone who isn't, since that is trauma I'd never be in a position to understand, and we will always clash at that.
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We aren't meant to do this life alone. We are meant to be held down by our communities, partners, friends and families. Life is too complex to be done single handedly. Get a friend, a neighbour, a genuine human connection, it's what reminds and ties us to our sense of being.
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@NalediMOfficial Like! My man will have it good. I enjoy taking care of people that I love. Through food or whatever way they feel loved. Just have to find him first.
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@bysosa_ And it's such a good excuse to not being outside>>>
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@NalediMOfficial Fr. Only my man and my parents have this privilege. Rest of you? Please be dying when you're making that call.
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@SoulPassionLove It's mad how someone expects you to put your life on hold for them, simply because they are fighting their own demons and going through something, omo, we are all going through something, but you don't see me putting you through hell and back and expecting you to stay.
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@UndeniableLOVE7 When two lovers meet, magic happens, flowers bloom and when I find my person, I'll be off these streets with a quickness.
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@prettychild_ Cause why are we taking weeks and months "talking"? If I'm down bad for you, and you are for me, let's just get down to it.
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@naomiitshepiso For someone who isn't papered yet, I like fancy things, I have many preferences, prefer class and style, (sigh)...I set the bar so high already.
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@frau_ug When he can't keep his hands to himself>>>
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@NOTNYAMBURA Girl...I get it!!! Cause I did too and...🕯️🕯️🕯️
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@AnnieDrea_ But I keep on saying! Court them, woe them, create a platonic connection before anything else, so that on days it's hard to be lovers, the friendship will spark you back once more.
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@rawrarereal Bumped into this man a while back, stumbled and was profusely apologising for bumping into him, he did a little bow, kissed my hand and told me not to worry my pretty head about it. Safe to say, in my head? I already have kids with him😂😂
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@sociaIrate To love someone, and to have them love you back, in the same measure if not more, passionately and irrevocably, is to feel the sun shine on you from both sides and finding rest.
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@dbcxptures You can never really know someone, as humans we evolve, our takes change, with new environments, comes new experiences and hence different opinions, and just repeat. You'll never really really know them. You can hope they keep the good character, but even that isn't guaranteed.
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@_carramello I swear, being talked through it would make me fold real quick.
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@gufydox There was a time I was really bothered by this. I thought I had missed out, since I just woke up to realise I have been really living in my own bubble, only to realise later, I didn't miss out on anything. Out there? It isn't worth it at all.
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@vxzfeels Seeing my parents laugh together unabashedly in their 50's, my dad still helping in the kitchen, gifting her, still taking her out every week and all these has continued for years without fail, i know this is the only way, the bar has already been set so high.
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@_shwabade_ If I love you, I want to love you completely, not leaving room for disappointment or doubts, I want to utterly fall for you. Cause I'm a lover and loving you whilst still expecting the worst from you? That wouldn't work for me.
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Mom went on a solo vacation recently. Dad was so happy about being left alone in the house.24hrs later, he tells me to call my mom and tell her to come back home since it's not good for a man his age to be left alone😂 he really folded hours later.This is the yearning I long for.
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@unathi_ Broke my heart that one. We real lovers really have it rough. You'd be into someone so bad and you'd be told to "get a grip" or something. Or having to apologise for being so into your feelings for them.
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@imberongggg I ask myself this and each time I come up blank. Sometimes things get so heavy, so weary. A shoulder to lean on would be nice, a person to help easen the weight, but it's just yourself and a cup of tea against the world.
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@Rashousmane As a girl I agree😂😂 The best we can do is some sex innuendo hoping you'll get it. We need to learn game tbh.
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@noheartinhim I root for myself even in poor decisions, nobody got my back like I got my back.
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@thelordbaeIish Yes! Cause how do my workers support and raise three kids with the same salary as me!? And it's barely enough for me as a person? Something has to give fr fr.
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@t_lashay24 I can't be out here fighting the world then get home and fight you too. If I can't be safe, peaceful and warm around and with you, I'm sorry but I'd have to let you go. The world is already harsh enough, I can't have a harsh partner.
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@its_tiidoo I'll take any chance I get to be alone. I enjoy my own company, and it has really killed a lot of friendships and connections I've had over the years. Either way, I still get to be alone, a win is a win😂
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@Murerwa_Writes @carltonkitheka1 You're assuming everyone is exposed enough. Also, I could be well versed in the politics that are within my country, and quite shallow in those of other countries, this doesn't mean I'm not intelligent. I just have no interest in that and it should be okay.
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@Mayowathefirst Could be curled up on the couch next to you, doing nothing, no plans or anything but there's no place I'd rather be.
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@youloveleona You never know if they are there for your body ama they genuinely want you 😭
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@_shwabade_ That life is balanced,it may not be in the scales you'd like but it's balanced. In some areas of your life,you're content and happy but in other areas,you're so sad you can almost drown in your own tears,without one,you wouldn't appreciate the other. It's just...perfectly salted.
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@softbfbvnny Play Adorn by Miguel>>>
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@sharipotterr @Osama_otero Like!!! I like a man who'll teach me things I would have never even figured them out by myself. It's 50/50, he teaches, I listen and take notes.
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@heavensbvnny Yes! Consent is so fucking sexy, cause I'm giving you access to my body, entrusting it to you and vice versa, then we get to have a good time? I mean, what tops that!?
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@EphemeralElegy It's really difficult for me to express myself, especially on things that are pressing me, and when I try to explain myself, it's just so damn hard, I just leave it altogether. I avoid confrontations too. Unless I get a really patient partner, I'm doomed!
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A little over two weeks 😭😔 I fumbled fr. I'd embarrassingly take him back any moment.
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3. how long did your shortest relationship last?
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@nelimahh A bald man will hurt you in the worst ways, sijui ni bitterness ya kukosa nywele 😂😂
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@OwanghB That's the only way it should be, we are so focused on competing, who is doing what first, who should be the one to do so and so when it really could just be so simple.
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Okay, I admit, I need help!😂
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@ShishNickie
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This sunset burst from raiin always has me on a chokehold 🥺🥺, never fails to put a smile on my face.❤️
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Have you sent/received flowers this week? 💐
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@Xokalled @KokonatFire Yes, Sex is also a skill, you learn it, you learn what pleases your partner, you learn what turns them on, you master their body and vice versa, it's pleasure, it's passionate, that's all it should be...pure chemistry.
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@TheOhEmmDee Can't catch me with that bs tbh, he trash? He going to the bin with a quickness regardless of whether he good or not. There's always better if we are being real!
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@thatwasofetchh How can I be this mature please 😂😭 My former talking stage posted he is ready to fall in love and i was puking blood😂😭😭
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@heavenbrat People forget that if you don't love yourself, it's going to be really hard for another to love you, and if they do, it is going to be really hard for you to perceive their love for you. Give yourself the world before someone else gives it to you, then you can share it together.
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@spicedliver This is oddly specific 😂😂
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@KokiWabule I started training myself to use my right hand when I'd scare everyone else away when I whip out my left hand to write or do a certain chore with😂
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@MuneneInc Could be you👉👈
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@Pandaheauxnium Yesss! They be thickkk asf. Thicker than peanut butter even😂😂
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@spicedliver This is it, this is the tweet!!!!
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I absolutely adore my parents but those people introduced me to a lifestyle I can't afford on my own. I had to start working early to just support some of my preferences. The bar was set so freaking high, I get dizzy sometimes.
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@_Humphreymugo @KhalifKairo @kai_and_karo Saw that job post and immediately thought of you and your works. Rooting for you>>>
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@olwethundlanya_ As someone who takes two good photos each year, I highly relate😂😂. Being camera shy is some work!
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Being a loner is only cool in movies.Woke up recently to realise half of my life is gone, it's just been my books and I. The good thing is, you aren't involved in any drama but also, you aren't involved in anything. It's really getting to me atp cause it can get pretty lonely.🥺
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@musakuru45 I can relate😂 I'm always hit with "kuja utupikie vyenye wewe upikanga😂" and that's how I've been a slave in the kitchen for yearsss.
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@anakinra It's actually pretty shallow for anyone who thinks they are intelligent to measure anyone's intelligence by what they are well versed in. If you think that someone is "dumb" because they lack in a topic that you yourself know by thorough reading, clearly, you're the one who's...
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@lovvewolf This is so triggering, Lord!
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@curtiske6 Had me in the first half ngl 😂😂😂
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@jjustFinn_ Beat you by 1,027 more😭😭, eeh, when "they" said simps huona dust, they were talking about me😭😂
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@spinx_tyranixz The harsh reality of life huh?
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I have my life going on for me, I'm happy really, it's not luxurious or anything, but it's decent. What I'm lacking and divinely looking for; is an apartment with natural lighting and genuine soul connections and interactions with good people.
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@nontow_queen Yess! Quite embarrassing actually 😂😂 How do I tell people that I have met the love of my life but I've never met the love of my life?😂💔. You end up looking delusional.
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@Murerwa_Writes @carltonkitheka1 Yes it would. So many things make appearances on these platforms, so much is available, does it mean we should all have something basic to write home about simply because the information is readily available?
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@girlymemes Your head on my chest, kissing your face, telling you everything will be alright>>>
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@IndicaBadddu Yes, it's not such a big deal, you're just not their cup of tea, and that's okay. If you're so bothered by someone blocking you, then you can clearly see why they did that, I mean...?
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@RachealBakunzi Agreed, you let it hurt and hurt till one day you don't think of them as much, seeing them doesn't ruffle you, you just become unbothered all of a sudden, the pain isn't as sharp anymore, it's more of an ache and it eventually subsides.
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@shaayee_ My mom saw my tattoo and almost had a heart attack,😂 she prayed endlessly for dayssss that "God will let me into heaven since haikuwa mimi, ni shetani" shetani alikula strays ajab that month and all along it was my decision.
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Update; I've come to realise I have to unfortunately give up on one of these. With much trial and error, the scales heavily tip on having genuine soul connections and interactions with good people, since those are apparently rare to find.
I have my life going on for me, I'm happy really, it's not luxurious or anything, but it's decent. What I'm lacking and divinely looking for; is an apartment with natural lighting and genuine soul connections and interactions with good people.
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Being attractive and camera shy is really one of the worst combinations to ever exist, cause no one believes you when you tell them you don't have your pictures. Yes, I haven't taken a photo in 9 months, pls leave me alone. 😂😭
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Yess!! I promise not to leave out any detail while narrating the story to you. Please and thanks.
@roving_thinker
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Unrelated, but if you're a rich person on my TL and you want to know what happens in a book without reading it, I have an idea. You can buy me books and I tell you ALL that happened in them. Are you interested? Please send a DM.
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A feral cat is stuck at my window, it found its way to my home. Anytime I get near, it hisses viciously at me. I can't live in fear at my own place, one of us has to leave. I'm currently packing my bags to go to my parents house😂
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@heavensbvnny There's nothing real about being courteous, respectful and kind. Putting bare minimum on a high pedestal is what is messing y'all up.
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