James Escobar
@do_be_better
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Rock Bottom - Mar.19.2019 - I KNOW weakness. I’m here to inspire myself & others. While I’m at it… I might as well change the world 🌎
Joined August 2024
“Never apologize. It's a sign of weakness." - John Wayne. Why he was wrong. Average people cannot do this. If they don’t apologize they’re seen as arrogant, self centered. By many standards today people value a person who shows they care for others, which apologizing is.
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@NJBeisner Physically… that’s the relative easy part. The other emotionally and mentally… She will never be the same. The video looked simply sad. One of the truly saddest things…. Shame… one of the most powerfully dangerous emotions… it’s gonna weigh her down. 🙁.
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@NJBeisner Our bodies can endure physical pain easier than emotional suffering. Child birth, working out. Doing sports you simply push through the physical pain. But with this… it’s not like she was physically in pain. (Most likely) She simply had to endure the acts. But that’s where the.
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@WD69869049 @TonyGriffonbrx @AntiCommieBecca @NJBeisner Or…. It’s a commitment to acting in a better way. By not having the option to delete a post it forces you to make better decisions. You see it as pride because your worldview dictates that if you acted in this way it would then be prideful. But that’s a limited way of viewing.
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@sleepycoquette The form of birth control known as “abstinence” is actually 💯 percent effective. 😋.
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@AntiCommieBecca @NJBeisner Ya I realized that after I typed it that specific point was wrong cuz I’m tired falling asleep on this one but I don’t delete posts.
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@danishacarterr @verymoisturized Have you attempted to talk to men how they would accomplish the task of addressing mental health?. As a man myself, the prescription you’ve described is very based in a woman’s perspective. A very feminine way of addressing this problem. I’ve dealt with my own mental health.
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@LatinaCasanova Some things don’t need a response. No animosity. No fear of missing out. No need to worry about something that simply won’t have a future. But there’s more important things to consider than what you say. The main thing is in this is there’s something wrong in this dynamic.
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@pearlythingz Guys will simply look for smash and disregard everything else. 🤨 “Tunnel Vision”.
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@Cluffalo A great example of how people get in their own way. “Don’t tell me what to do”. If you love and trust that person then when they suggest something you go with it. If you don’t trust them…. Why be with them??.
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@verymoisturized This seems to be part of the reason why dating and marriage has gotten so out of whack. Studies have proven that men are more attracted to women at certain times of their cycle simply by smelling their clothing. By disconnecting our natural bodily processes to the opposite sex.
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@jess_ann_pin @NJBeisner Shame is both internal and external. It is Delusional thinking to control the thoughts and actions over the entire world and how humans have acted over thousands of years. Realistic is to dictate her own feelings towards her internal shame. That’s empowering and viable.
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@TheEcho13 It’s projection. They want others to be in pain, fail, be miserable, broke, beaten down, silent because they have/are that in their own personal lives.
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@guideforlovers Jes (and yes that is spelled correctly). The number triggers a physical response inside men. It completely changes perceptions. And how much respect to give or not give.
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@Impactingright @healthychangez I never do “drinks”. 😂 I will do anything and everything that involves talking and moving around. Shopping, hiking, outdoors, events. Anything involving movement. So much easier to connect with someone when their body is in motion, brain is engaged, and mouth is moving. 😁🙌🏼.
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@meghaverma_art “Girls don’t post pretty pictures… for men”. “She looks back… as reassurance to help her calibrate.”. You’re saying a lot of words and dancing around the issue. Women post pictures for validation. Men validate those pictures. Women post — To get validation from men. For.
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@hollowearthterf It’s either a manipulation tactic or projection. But either way it’s low class to say anything like this to a woman.
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@guideforlovers Eventually… Guys realize that the peace which comes with a woman who doesn’t have an ego and respects you… Is the best recipe for a happy relationship.
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@sleepycoquette There’s the men who need their woman to satisfy their sexual urges in order to NOT cheat. Then there’s those who channel their sexual urges through something else outside themselves. The difference is having a bigger “purpose”. Or the lack of it.
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@hollowearthterf Because you’re referring to weaker men. If a man can’t handle the pressure then they want a woman who will take on the strength that they lack. To say “every man” in this context is simply willful ignorance on your behalf or your takes are getting more grounded in your own.
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@Rach4Patriarchy Actually I see the it. Their shame and guilt resonate so profoundly that they feel they need to be absolutely denigrated and subjugated that Islam is a very attractive choice. Temporary and ultimately inauthentic but makes sense.
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@SWENGDAD It’s projection. Her post made him feel all his insecurities. Which of course means he has to retaliate….
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Pepe! - He’s a Goffins Cockatoo. About 40 years old. He suffers from FOMO. He screams if you leave him alone for too long. 😑 First day and he’s very sociable!! 😂
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@ZELLKLUMPEN @USP_Match Tumor. Using a term which is something that has literally negatively affected, mentally tortured and killed thousands of humans. Mine… almost cost me my life. Crazy to even relate the two in the same comparison.
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@LatinaCasanova If you’re not going anywhere, why would a girl want to get in your car with you?. Become a man women want to follow.
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@_mercurianmind @gethmann_luca @AntiCommieBecca @NJBeisner I’m not a woman. I’ll defer to women on this.
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I wrote this after my suicide attempt. Wrote it down almost a thousand times and repeated it in my mind MUCH more than that. Hard ≠ Impossible .—————————. Today, I Dictate My Destiny. I Am The Unbreakable Rock.In The Situations Around Me. I Am The Essence Of True Masculinity.
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@sleepycoquette The thing that is the most importance thought is this…. Orgasms release physical energy. That’s why men don’t want to do anything afterwards. Imagine how much energy and drive you can have building up inside by not releasing that energy. This sexual energy and can be focused.
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@hollowearthterf Men need a cause. A reason to wake up in the morning. A differentiating factor in their lives to reach their greatest potential. A lot of the time that comes in the form of a love with a woman. With that… They can conquer the world. Without that… masculinity becomes of very.
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@guideforlovers This is a perfect understanding of how men and women are different & complement each other.
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@harsha_irugu @NJBeisner There are ALWAYS secondary and tertiary repercussions that people don’t consider when making decisions. Your question is definitely one of them.
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Be back on X, May 1st-ish. Going on a Top Secret Mission to Egypt to solve the secrets of Aliens with the pyramids.🤫. When I get back I’ll be asking a girl from here on a date! I’ll need everyone’s help to make it MAGNIFICENT! 😏. Until then… BELIEVE in yourselves you.
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@Vin__Weasel @reddit_lies I think… exactly what you are going home to do is what’s wrong with these people. They literally didn’t get enough love growing up. So now they fill that void whatever is easiest.
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@MoussighiLaw I know you can read so I’m rooting for you!!!! ✊🏼😁.
If you are reading this, I’m rooting for you.
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Stop being who you were and become who you are. -Paulo Coelho.
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@thegenesisbl0ck Pretty sure a guy needing to go for a cup of coffee because he’s “not ready” for the day/moment is more disqualifying than you may think… 😂. I’ll be fine with my bat, gun, and self defense skills. No coffee needed. ✊🏼😂.
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Ding! Ding! 🛎️ 🚨.
You’re sitting around waiting for her to reply, . But you’re not doing anything to make your own life interesting. Why would she want to join your world if you’re not even excited about it?.
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🫶🏼 Talk to others like you’re looking them in the eyes. ✊🏼.
This year, one of my strongest supporters told me I saved his life by being kind and taking time to talk and give him ideas about how to change his life and to find more happiness. He told me he had planned to end his life when we finished the conversation, but didn't because of
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@Prolife_Texan__ It’s a human but because we don’t want to give it “rights” then it’s not a human. Ahhh yes… that makes sense now.
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When you're alone, watch your thoughts. When you're successful, watch your ego. When you've got problems, watch your emotions. When you're with the crowds, watch what you say. -Crypto Seneca.
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@guideforlovers Never accept that premise. Change it immediately. Ask her a question that changes the framework of the encounter. Even smiling and then pausing for a longer than normal amount is time is better than answering that. “Would you like some cookies to go with the milk?”.
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@NJBeisner That’s the irony isn’t it. 🤷🏻♂️. I’ve said it a hundred times and I’ll say it again. We are where we are because of WEAK men. In every history of society there was an initiation from boyhood to manhood. That no longer happens. We’ve replaced that with coddling, participation.
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There are two types of pain in this world: pain that hurts you, and pain that changes you.
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@pearlythingz Valid but not the truest indicator. I’d say a better indicator of happiness is someone who constantly demeans others lives isn’t happy themselves. Happy people are too busy being happy and don’t worry about unhappy people.
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Say Hi 👋 to “Kilo”. Somyed Breed - AKA. Fuzzy, dog shaped, teddy bear!. Every picture you take with this guy turns out perfect. 😂 You just wanna cuddle with his furry, four-legged, fun-loving, fantabulous friend!
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@EmilyLinds8504 @DonnieDarkened I think we tend to forget that God “allows” everything to happen. Is modern medicine a good or bad? If it saves people then isn’t it good? But if the people using it manipulate the system to their own benefit does it then becomes evil?. Is the Internet good or bad? Hasn’t it.
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Abortion is NOT the problem. Porn is NOT the problem. Bigotry is NOT the problem. The problem is Men. If a woman had a man she admires and loves whom she wants to be with for the rest of her life… She won’t choose more pain in the ending of her future baby. If men are rooted.
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@Philosophi_Cat Sound and compelling viewpoint. Don’t compare the two to each other. This is why equality is an illusion. Not that opposite sexes are inferior to each other but because they are simply different.
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Don't wish it was easier, wish you were better. Don't wish for less problems, wish for more skills. Don't wish for less challenge, wish for more wisdom. -Jim Rohn.
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You teach people how to treat you by what you let them get away with. -James Clear.
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Today is Jan 1st, 2025. We usually remember specific days that have a specific emotional impact on us. The stronger the emotion the stronger the memory. But do you remember a random day from 6 or 7 months ago? What about 6 or 7 years ago?. 80-90% + of the details of our lives
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Don't give up because of one bad chapter in your life. Keep going, your story doesn't end here.
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@NJBeisner Men are the problem. We always have been. Show me a broken aspect of society and I’ll show how men created the issue or enabled it. This is the cost of leadership. Be better men! ✊🏼.
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@ProffesorPubli1 @DisavowTrump20 @RepWexton @JenniferWexton A rule of thumb: The name of the bill is ALWAYS 🐂💩. 😂 I just love/hate how that’s always the case!.
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@Prolife_Texan__ “A clump of letters arranged in a way to give a specific meaning that is currently being used to dehumanize a certain set of individuals”.
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@BumpstockBarbie I remember when it used to be…. “Man and Woman have baby…”. The good ole days… Life is better when it’s simpler 😊.
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@_melinaed_ This to me is complete 🐂💩. Only for clicks. However… I’m open to hearing the reasons why. 🤷🏻♂️.
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@LadyJustice4512 It’s about your whole body of work. You make sure you do your part to help people feel good mentally, emotionally, physically, spiritually. You like as many responses as you can to ensure you know people care. You educate and take the time to be as thorough as possible. You hit.
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@_brainzilla_ @WomenBeingAwful That’s not a man. That’s a relationship similar to a boy pleasing his mommy. Simply disgusting. 😒.
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@SentinelSam1 @sleepycoquette Let’s get real here. Do you honestly believe the porn industry is a healthy path for the average person to use for personal consumption?. Your post is postulating that premise. Which is simply wild to even suggest. Even the majority of non-religious individuals would not.
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At the root of all your problems is… Ignorance. Either because it already happened and you didn’t know, or there’s a possibility of it happening in the future and you don’t know what to do. Do you know to solve it? Of course not. If you did it would always be done. Accept.
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If one dream should fall and break into a thousand pieces, never be afraid to pick one of those pieces up and begin again. -Flavia Weedn.
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Today I woke up early like usual. 3am. Today I feel like giving up on my goals. Today I sense the heavy weight of the burden of responsibility. The thought of how it would be so much easier to be a weak, emotional man. One who has no expectations of himself and the others.
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The two MOST important women in my life. My aunt who raised me since I was 12. She taught me how to think. How to not accept the status quo. Simply because you feel a certain way, that doesn’t mean you have to act that way. Be Better!. My daughter who I’ve known for ALL her
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@ANTI_Bollox @NJBeisner In comparison to the emotional and mental pain that she will experience for the rest of her life??. Physically it’s one day. With that many men it’s going to be painful and uncomfortable but when comparing it to emotional pain. Completely different story. Emotionally she’s going.
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@guideforlovers He isn’t the problem. You are. Either you were never for her and she was lying to you and you can thank him. Or you simply aren’t at a level where you are strong enough, bold enough, good enough, funny enough to be with a woman like her. The solution?? Be better. Become the.
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I have a rooster who would love to meet you… 😂
Today, I identify as a chicken. Please respect me.🐔.
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@guzu_p No… Decide not to play the game. The duality here is an illusion you can simply reject. Think, Act, and Live in a way that you simply do not care about her judgements. If you don’t play her game. You won’t need to play a game in response. You can become someone she won’t be.
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@katiemg4747 @anymanfitness “Entitlement Mentality” and it’s not a good thing. Struggling and living in meager living teaches good character. 🙌🏼.
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Hands down Elon Musk will go down as the MOST influential man of this era. And it’s not even close.
Jonathan Turley on Elon Musk's firm stance for free speech:. “Love him or hate him, Elon Musk is, without question, the most consequential figure in free speech of our generation. I think he has done more for free speech than any living person today. In some ways, he actually
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@sleepycoquette Sex is a requirement for Medical School?… 🧐 . Everyone!!… Make sure to ask your current doctors if they’ve had sex before.
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If there is no struggle, there is no progress. -Frederick Douglass.
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It always seems impossible until it's done. -Nelson Mandela.
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@MoniFunGirl 🤨. You have to be able to trust the guy (girl) next to you because lives are in the line. There’s no way I’d be next to a person like that… Terrifying.
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@AdrienneAK Don’t be a frog! 🫡. What about… A Frog Prince? 🤷🏻♂️ That might be the exception? 🧐
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@Rach4Patriarchy @paleochristcon *Reads. Checks to see if it aligns with core belief/bias. *Nope. Disregard & Move on.
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@gethmann_luca @AntiCommieBecca @NJBeisner My point was acknowledging that she “could have” been in pain. Making definitive statements have to be rooted in reality.
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Sometimes I want to treat people how they treat me, but I don’t bc it’s out of my character.
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@white7rabbit7 @NJBeisner By treating it as not a spiritual experience and making it transactional then it makes the rest of your life transactional in nature. As in emotional detachment from your life. That’s the “no bueno” part cuz it reflects in everything else you do. 🙁.
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@guideforlovers False because then after pain and the heartbreak of those experiences he’ll eventually realize he needs to become an individual of “high value” to get what he wants out of life.
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@LatinaCasanova It’s human nature to want what you don’t have. This is that in practice. While I don’t concede the idea of being completely cold being the answer. It is simply irresponsible to not acknowledge this is at play in every person’s psychology.
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The most successful people in life are the ones who ask questions. They're always learning. They're always growing. They're always pushing. -Robert Kiyosaki.
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Sad that it had to come to that but there’s no way that doctor should be treating patients with that hostility.
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@LatinaCasanova There’s nothing more empowering then silently, patiently, waiting for someone while they are being a drama queen…. “Are you done yet?” 😊.
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