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Christ follower. Coffee lover. Informing, encouraging women in wisdom and godliness at https://t.co/1KljnS4HA5
Joined August 2020
Some believe they are "too bad" for God to bother with. You are not too dirty for God to clean up. The cleansing blood of Jesus is far greater and 100% effective. Come as you are. Allow Him to cleanse and change you. He did it for me and He will do it for you. 💜🙏🏾.
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@sleepycoquette Funny, I noticed the same thing! 😆. For me, it's character is first priority, but I notice appearance first. I want & need to be physically attracted. If I'm attracted, I want to get to know their character. If not attracted at all, proceed no further. I think it's natural.
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@dumbtwt_ Yes. Turned it into a sport, into a "conquest" thing with as many as possible, trying for no emotional attachment. Such a terrible distortion & perversion of what God actually designed for one man and one woman who are in love and married already.
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@hilcrowder It is a byproduct of misogyny that the stigma is primarily attached to being a single mother. The parent who stayed is ridiculed & blamed if it's the woman. Many single moms married or dated someone they thought loved them, but they were abandoned. The stigma is ingrained in many.
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@DoctorCumFart Maybe the idea of putting it out or letting it go was intimidating to her. He should have done it himself if he's just going to bark commands & become irritated with her. She clearly was nervous about it. Just because he wasn't nervous didn't mean she would be the same as him.
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I hope women who are smug & married early learn to be grateful while not criticizing the unmarried. I pray their marriages don't go South. Plenty do. I pray they're compassionate, praying for & encouraging singles who haven't yet found their spouses in their 20s, 30s or beyond 🤍.
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@VitallyMelanie This needed to be said. You are absolutely right. Sadly. Not acknowledging this is the reason women's health is not understood as well as it should be, is under-researched and there are many missing answers- especially when it comes to women's reproductive health.
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@healthychangez I could see her needing to stick to what she agreed with. But I think women need to stop accepting going out for drinks with men as "dates." . Those aren't dates. Not dates with men that can be taken seriously anyway. If he can't take her out on a real date why bother.
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Some of you who profess to be Christians are anti-Semites. This is displeasing to the Lord.
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@Tedoffthegrid @raspberryjellyy One of my favorite Christian mentors said probably at least 60 to 70% of men never fall in love with their wives. I think it's just something for them to do is get married. Idea of regular sex. Women must very carefully & prayerfully consider marriage in awareness.
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@hersoulpoetic Christians seem to still give too much credence to politics. Yes. God is in control and I think the mess that is happening now and the future messes will help people to refocus on God. Because no humans can help.
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@audrawrongspeak Spot on. Sound advice! Women in particular get themselves into a lot of trouble trying to play nice & downplay warning bells or flat-out ignore them. God has equipped us with powerful senses and we need to properly utilize them & stop rejecting them to play nice & get along.
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There is no such thing as casual sex. No matter how many people believe there is. Sex is not casual or a light matter in physical, emotional, or spiritual consequences.
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Please understand that when women are prayerfully selective & choose to remain single rather than marrying the wrong men, they are helping decrease instances of fatherlessness & divorce- two issues women are often blamed for . These women should not be shamed.
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@TheJollyBrawler Stop. Jesus was not a typical man. He was a man in that he came in the flesh but he was fully God. He wasn't a chauvinist bloke. He is God in the flesh, my Savior and Lord. He loved & respected women & didn't crack morbid, putrid "jokes" & gaslight women if they became upset.
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A soft answer turns away wrath,.But a harsh word stirs up anger. Proverbs 15: 1 NKJV.
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@tompawnbadil You didn't say untethered empathy originally. Empathy in and of itself is not wrong. I'm seeing people claim empathy is just bad, which is unbiblical, but yes unrestricted, misapplied empathy is bad.
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@Amanda___praise So true but many women play themselves because they can't accept hard reality. It's much more beneficial to accept the truth and move on. "Commitment phobic" means he's not interested in committing to her. "Communication issues" means he's not interested in communicating👇🏾.
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@The47thSamurai I hate that some men suffer and don't seem to get help, but a lot of them intentionally avoid getting help. There is help and people who care, so they shouldn't resist them.
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"Casual" sex is not casual or liberating. It's sinning against God & one's own body. Women really get a raw deal; most are not even sexually satisfied in their encounters. Better off marrying men who love them & learn true intimacy & satisfaction together. God's ways are best.
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God commanded Hosea to love, marry an unfaithful woman. This symbolized God's great love for His unfaithful people. Please don't mock & call men simps for marrying single mothers & women with promiscuous pasts. God isn't a simp, but loving & merciful. So are men who emulate Him.
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Sex was made for marriage between a husband & wife who love each other. It's bonding. Women produce more oxytocin than men. One of the reasons women can't extricate themselves from situations with toxic men is because they have had sex with them. Say no to premarital sex, ladies!.
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People complain about strong, independent women who take care of themselves. Many don't acknowledge a lot of men weaponize money, as if having money means they get to cheat, abuse, & otherwise mistreat women. This helped created the "I don't need a man mentality" in women.
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Hatred of women is NOT compatible with Christianity, heterosexuality, or true masculinity. Yet, many professed Christian men have issues with and contempt for women 🤔 Something is not computing.🙏🏾.
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@Iberianamerica Not sure about this guy. But speaking in general, often these men want to behave badly & think they can find different areas in the world where women don't know better & will put up with them. Motives dictate outcomes. Things will backfire if our motives are not right. If we👇🏾.
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Be careful, Sisters. You may desire children, a godly marriage, but the adversary is destroying many men. Not only do some lack interest in serving God, but many are not heterosexual, but will marry you. Ignore cat lady remarks & single shaming. Submit to God & stay prayed up🤍.
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@adarathexplorer Sometimes, women ignore alarm bells and red flags. This is definitely one a woman should pay attention to. The fact that she desires flowers and the man won't buy them because he has made it about himself, shows selfishness and unwillingness to meet her desires on a basic level.
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We need more Christ-like masculinity and Christ-like femininity 🙏🏾.
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@Nattalie_fem2 For purely selfish reasons likely. Every misogynist I've known has been married and or had girlfriends. Because they get benefits from being with women. I think incels are truly obsessed with women & so embittered they don't have women, but want them for selfish reasons.
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Many professing Christians are having premarital sex. No one is exempt from God's judgment just because they profess Christianity. "Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge." . Hebrews 13: 4.
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@WomnOfValor @swmpblssm Reflection of nurture vs nature. Much more effort has typically been put into girls behaving appropriately and having direction in life.
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Being ungodly women won't attract men of God. A man of God rightfully desires a woman of God.
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Sisters in Christ, it's not godly femininity to fornicate out of fear that men won't wait for sex until marriage & will leave you if you abstain. If they leave, it is not a loss. It is your gain because you maintain your obedience to God and retain your dignity.
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"Don't idolize the Bible" likely translates to. "I don't want to adhere to the Bible and esteem it highly, because I don't want to live according to it.".🤔.
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@Marcus29Mf @keatingssixth Yes they are raised by a single mom because the fathers often refuse to be present. A man can primarily show a man how to be a real man. A mom can do the best she can do and it still does not replace the need for a son to have a positive role model in his own father.
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@whinemoreplease Women are not meals. They are human beings. Stop objectifying women. No wonder so many women want to be single. Sounds like you know nothing of commitment and seeing a woman as a whole human being and not simply a meal to devour.
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There is a huge difference between "come as you are" & "stay as you are.". We are called to come to Christ as we are, submit to Him and allow Him to change us.
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"A man can love a woman and still cheat on her.". For any ladies who believe this, STOP believing it. It's not true. Satan is a liar and is the father of lies. Cheating is just about the worst betrayal & does not coexist with true love.
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A reminder to Sisters in Christ- stay far, far away from religious men who love power and do not submit to God. Marriage to such a man may be hell on earth for you.
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@Andy35o And the truth of the matter is both people should respect that their spouse is not quite up for something at that particular time. Both people should be selfless.
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@KaeleyT Yes a lot of women don't set out to have multiple baby daddies. Circumstances vary and many are unfortunate. However, there's also a feminist agenda that's pushing promiscuity for women as "liberation.".So I appreciate the very needed messages that counter such nonsense.
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Professed Christians need to stop saying God told you to leave your spouse and marry someone else's. That wasn't the Lord Jesus Christ you heard from.
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@TheEcho13 Truth 💣 . God actually wired women so that that type of treatment is a MAJOR turn on.
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@amacarthur @josephsalvo84 @nypost It sounds like pitbulls MAY be great dogs to have. until they aren't. and who knows when that time will come.
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@racheljanfaza This is a good thing and it's even better if they have abstained by choice. If they are not married they are not supposed to be having sex!.
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@Cluffalo I think men who do hard, manual labor are sometimes underrated. Those are such important, necessary jobs also and not for the faint of heart lol. They tend to pay pretty well also.
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First, sex is for marriage between 1 man & 1 woman, according to God. Also, men tend to need to develop strong emotional bonds BEFORE sex to commit. Yet, women were sold a lie that they need to have sex as quickly as possible to keep men around. The devil is in the details.👇🏾.
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The Bible doesn't give EVERY single scenario of what is or isn't sin. The Bible gives basic principles & commandments that can be applied to each scenario. God gave the Holy Spirit, & gives everyone consciences. We are without excuse.
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It's easy to tell men to control their eyes & their lust. I agree 100%, they should. But it's not fair to not consider how we as women shouldn't present ourselves in ways that increase their struggles. It's right for men to control themselves & for women to dress modestly.
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@NotMr_Smith Because he's clearly not committed. Any woman who knows her worth and wants commitment in monogamous marriage should leave.
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@proeiszeitdeaf @GaetaAmy Exactly. Often women are much more invested emotionally in their husband than the other way around. A popular accurate Christian male life coach explained that at least about 60 to 70% of husbands never fall in love with their wife. I believe him. The percentage may be higher.
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Pride brings strong delusion & rebellion into the hearts of professed Christians. Pride causes envy, which causes defiance against the work of the Holy Spirit in and through others. If we claim to follow Christ, we must repent from pride and rebellion.
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@autocorrect2_0 This is not encouragement to become single mothers, but it's encouragement that our hope is in God, despite our circumstances. Folks from the manosphere probably don't want you sharing this message! .Thank you for sharing!🙏🏾❤.
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If you're reading this, you're alive and it is not too late to believe in Jesus, trust Him as your Lord & Savior and follow Him.
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Remember this for 2024 & beyond. -Men & women are equally valued & important in the sight of God. - Real men don't put women down. - Strong men don't put women down. -Insecure, malicious "men" put women down. - Ladies, you have nothing to prove to weak, malicious "men.".
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@micahcjames Boys are being born every day, but few noble, responsible men are being bred. They blame and accuse and throw temper tantrums all the while angry that women are able to take care of themselves and don't have to put up with them anymore when they won't measure up.
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Men, if it upsets you that a godly woman would pray and ask God for wisdom to marry according to His will a husband submitted to Christ, you need to ask yourself why you're upset about that. 🤔.Keep praying & seeking God, Sisters!.
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Prostitutes say most of their clients are married men. Many, (maybe most) OF clients are married men. It's worth the wait for people of God to marry right, only in the Lord. Don't let people talk you down from your Biblical standards or allow single shaming to get to you. 🤍.
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Brothers and sisters who desire marriage, don't let anyone convince you that your Biblical standards and expectations are unreasonable.
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@wwaytooyoung @LeciJ_ Men get less fertile when they are older around 40, with sperm quantity and quality going down but they always talk about women. In addition, the risk of birth defects and genetic conditions increase with age as well as possibility of the women miscarrying if the father is older.
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Ladies, it is dangerous to be lovesick for men. There's nothing wrong with healthy desire for marriage. But remember, God is our ultimate source of love, protection, direction and all provision. Let's look to Him.
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There's no such thing as a healthy amount of porn usage, except zero usage.
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@thisisfoster I don't know what a "normal" man is supposed to mean, but some men seem to have a very hard time submitting themselves to God and living out true Christianity. They opt instead for a gospel that appeals to their flesh and then try to throw God into the mix.
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@davidgmandel This is an important point because many people, especially women who have abusive partners blame the behaviors on the substance. "He was drinking" they say. Abusers have the root issues and behaviors without the substance but when using the substance they are uninhibited.
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@micahcjames Absolutely. Almost no worldly man wants to be with a woman who won't have sex before marriage. Plenty " Christian" men will also bounce when they find out you're saving yourself. I pray God sends you the right true man of God. Stay strong. 💜.
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@DeanAbbott Shouldn't this lead to better behaviors?. It seems to me shame prompts people to do better. Not that some aren't doing better but what I'm seeing is a lot of blaming, deflecting and ongoing bad behaviors as well as a seeming lack of interest in God among some. I don't get it.
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@LivingGodsTruth God's design is the healthy nuclear family. Yes. However, no one has mentioned how many men abandon. No woman needs a male human who was not properly trained and never developed into a man. People seem to be bypassing this fact. Women have learned they don't need THAT kind of man.
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Assisting someone close to me who is having to separate from her husband of nearly 5 decades. Sisters in Christ, never assume you can change a man. It's not as bad as you think. It's WORSE than you think. Keep God first. Only marry a man IF the Holy Spirit leads you to do so.
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@littleapostate Many girls and women were NOT taught to compete with men, but from a young age are taught they are less than, and given more restrictions and rules. Any "competing" with men results from men and boys mocking girls and women for being girls and women.
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A Woman led by the Holy Spirit is prudent. She is not unstable, irrational, blowing to and fro, carried away in various directions along with deceptions thrown her way. She is anchored in truth and moves accordingly.
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Obsessing over hierarchy and marrying so that you can dominate a woman is not Christianity. It's also not Christ-like leadership or love and is not the Biblical command from God for husbands. Single women who are discerning and prioritize God will not fall for it.
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Noticing a pattern of feminists bashing stay at home wives & moms. Yet, the claim is feminism is about freedom of choice for women🤔. There is no career MORE important than being a stay-at-home wife & mother. Stay at home moms & wives are highly valuable & should be celebrated.
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@BenZeisloft It is not a wife's obligation or responsibility to be the object of a man's lack of self-control. He needs the Holy Spirit. If he cannot exercise self-control before marriage, he won't be able after. People should marry rather than fornicate but should have self-control.
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I believe in God's original design. 1 male, 1 female; man & woman becoming one in marriage. I don't believe in polygamy. Especially when we have discussed it before, don't waste your time trying to debate & convince me polygamy/polygyny is good & ordained of God. Thanks.🙂.
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Some men are preoccupied with wives submitting more than preoccupied with the command to them as leaders to submit to Christ & love wives like Christ. Some trade the command "love" for "lead" which often means control to them. Could this be a reason households are out of order?.
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@sunbreezesounds I wish women wouldn't be compliant. 🤦🏾♀️ I have never given birth, but to me it is common sense. At some point, I thought to myself, why on earth are women on their backs to push out whole humans? I researched it, found out overall, it's a bad position that complicates the process.
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@LifeNewsHQ Oh so she knows what a woman is?. She knows good and well that women don't HAVE to get pregnant. And if they CHOOSE to get pregnant by risking it having sex, then they owe their unborn children protection & safety in the womb & are obligated to love & raise them after birth.
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Friends, will you join me in prayer for someone named Bill? . Pray for his salvation & also that God will heal a significant health issue found in him. Thanks so much.
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@schopenhauerite @signulll What women are you speaking for that want narcissists? These women are truly sick if they do. You don't speak for all women. You certainly don't speak for healthy women or of healthy, wise women.
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Ladies, a man preoccupied with your submission has his priorities wrong and will not be a good leader. Your submission is your duty; not his. He needs to start by submittng to Jesus, being a selfless, righteous example to you; loving, cherishing, washing you in the word.
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@Cluffalo His attitude is antiChrist. There's nothing selfless, sacrificial or loving about this. It's rooted in personal pride and cowardice where wife is to be sacrificial lamb while husband orders her around and when she obeys, he repents to God. Definitely a fetish it seems.
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@roseveniceallan @libertyycookies Many men avoided marriage & love knowing that's what women wanted. They didn't want to commit or be responsible. Now when some women are not pursuing marriage & family anymore it's a problem? .I think their egos are just bruised that some women are no longer obsessing over them.
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@TheMuppetPastor It's so weird. They behave like catty mean girls in 7th grade, critiquing and tearing down pretty ladies. Definitely does not seem like hetero perspectives.
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Them: "Follow your heart!" . The Bible: ."The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked;.who can know it?" .Jeremiah 17: 9 NKJV. I will NOT follow my heart, but follow Jesus and the Holy Spirit's direction.
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Ladies, you don't have to settle for a man with the sexual habits of King David. There are men like Joseph who fled from Potiphar's wife to avoid sexual immorality. Or Job, who made a covenant with his eyes not to lust & resisted sexual immorality. Sexual integrity is a choice.
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@KaeleyT Maybe this is bad but before I realized what she was doing I actually thought she was a black woman. She had me fooled.
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@thisisfoster What attracts some men to church is twisted Bible teachings that exalt men and demean women. In addition, they are attracted to the praise of carnal "masculinity." Going to church should be about growing in the grace and the knowledge of Jesus Christ.
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@BanksGalorre @TsholoNovember Women can do it. All they have to do is squat, especially if wearing a skirt & hide in a bush either way. Urinating outside & spitting everywhere is nothing to be proud of & isn't some special privilege. Not talking about emergencies. Also, where are people washing their hands?.
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Many men are deceived to believe male promiscuity, money & feeding other addictions will fill voids. Many women are deceived to believe money or having men's love above all fills voids. Yet, men & women are actually yearning for God who is the only One who truly satisfies.
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Christians who go along to get along are unfortunately on the increase. Loving people means telling them what they need to hear; not necessarily what they want to hear. Followers of Christ must stay true to God.
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Some "Christian" men live out their own versions of Christianity. They want godly wives, fantasize about wives submission, but live on their own terms, not submitting to Christ & loving like Christ. Pray, marry only in the Lord, to REAL Christian gentlemen, godly ladies. 🙏🏾.
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