All of the women in happy marriages have husbands who absolutely adore them.

I’ve got the ick so hard from men who always wrote everything in lowercase.

Women haven’t lost the instinct for motherhood. They’ve lost trust that they’ll have a partner who makes it safe, supported, and sustainable. They’ve seen what motherhood looks like without partnership. Burnout, resentment, survival mode, and knowing unless he’s fully committed,

All of the women in happy marriages have husbands who absolutely adore them.

Men only invest in relationships where the love is equal, or where they love her more. Men don’t work on relationships where they don’t love the woman as much as she loves them. Women will keep putting effort and energy into the relationship as long she feels loved, even if she

Every man looks romantic when he’s happy. Watch how he treats you when he’s mad, how safe you feel when he’s disappointed, and how seen you feel when he’s distracted. Any man can say the right things when he’s happy. Watch what he does when he’s not. A real man gives respect

If you have a list of things that you want someone to accept about you while you’re not offering the same grace in return, you’re going to keep searching for someone who’s not searching for you. Find someone you can grow with and become even better versions of yourselves.

The biggest thing I’ve learned from the new Taylor Swift album is that an obscene amount of people own record players??

It’s good to have standards. You should have standards for the people you date. You also need to be able to accept people in the way you wish to be accepted. No one is perfect, you want someone who accepts your flaws and faults, and you need to be accepting of theirs in return.

Three important dating rules: If it’s not a 100% yes that they want to date you, it’s a no. Don’t let people waste your time. If they’ve dropped off and stopped replying to your messages, if he isn’t planning the next date or if she isn’t committing to a date, don’t reward the

What’s the age difference between your parents and how long have they been together for? Or how long were they together for?

Not knowing how to do basic household chores is not masculine, it’s childish. Being terrified of being perceived as feminine for washing floors is not manly, it’s effeminate. Becoming another dependent your wife needs to take care of is not attractive, it’s an extreme turn off.

You don’t get to weaponize scripture to silence women then cry about loneliness like it’s a feminist plot. If your idea of a ‘good woman’ is one who stays silent and accepting while you disappoint her, she’s not a partner. She’s a hostage. You don’t love her softness. You love

You don’t get to weaponize scripture to silence women then cry about loneliness like it’s a feminist plot. If your idea of a ‘good woman’ is one who stays silent and accepting while you disappoint her, she’s not a partner. She’s a hostage. You don’t love her softness. You love

Men blaming women for the abuse they endure is part of what started the feminist movement, actually.

No one ever taught her what safety feels like so she mistakes intensity for intimacy. It’s the hope that this one might finally fill the emptiness. Needing him to confirm she’s enough, confusing anxiety for attraction, and mistaking connection for self-worth. It’s never

I couldn’t think of much worse than having to spend the rest of your life treating your husband like he’s a child and pretending you respect him as a man. If he can’t keep a clean house, cook a meal, book his own appointments, take care of his own hygiene, grocery shop without

Early on into our relationship I got a video call at 6am. I was awake, he usually didn’t wake up until a little later. He said good morning to me and then put his phone on a tripod facing outside the window. He’d woken up, saw a big storm happening outside, knew I loved watching

Also a reminder that BMI is an archaic metric created to describe the “average” 5’9 white man. It was never designed as a measure of health. If you’re not a 5’9 white man, BMI has literally nothing to do with you. Even the AMA now acknowledges how much harm the concept of BMI as

He wasn’t confused. He just didn’t want to be accountable. He wasn’t confused when he memorized every detail of your trauma and used it to make you feel seen. He wasn’t confused when he showed you just enough vulnerability to make you believe this was different. He wasn’t