I am many things but will no longer be Sisyphus. - 2023. Book reviewer, blogger, practitioner of mad poetics. Occasional strategic content marketing consultant.
@Silas33
File a complaint through eBay if you can. That is a direct aggression of ableism. Not a micro aggression. An ableist aggression. It is horrific and not surprising. Overreach from abled social justice is starting to swing the pendulum back hard. It will get worse for us, I think.
@AutisticCallum_
Also the never discussed reality that while autistic expression makes NTs uncomfortable, NT ways of existing make us equally uncomfortable. Lying, pretending, saying one thing and meaning another. Why do people do that when they could just be honest? is what I often think
@WalterH31504
@barstoolsports
The dog's tail is happy-wagging hehe Say you don't know dogs without saying you don't know dogs. Also thats how mama carries pups.
@sibylle_berlin
How many chemical and fragrance heavy products do you use to clean it and yourself? I stripped all chemicals from my personal products, and use baking soda and vinegar to clean. Drastically improved the shower experience. Worth a try. MCS is a common comorbidity
@jroberts1324
Thats less a DNF and more a NFM. DNF as classification should have some major qualitative flaw that disrupts the reading, NFM (not for me) acknowledges the competitive quality and classifies it as something that disintetests rather than disrupts. DNF = objective NFM = subjective
@omg_yay
@GlobalBC
Shall I also explain how water is wet? This isn't saying individuals cannot attend, but that the groups cannot be featured or self-promote. No appropriation of the celebration. This is the right thing, if you can't see that despite your personal bias, you are lost.
@HerbertoDhanis
This is just repeating what 95+% of the medical profession leave medical school thinking about ME/CFS, fibromyalgia ++ It's psychsomatic, mostly affects females so of course. It's just a 21st century jargon-filled version of the roving womb. None of this is surprising.
@AutisticCallum_
I notice this too, especially when trying to advocate or do word-of-mouth disability rights in Canada activism. Their fragility is ALWAYS treated as WAY more important than the health or safety of me/my community. Given MAiD here, and what's happening to us, I find it apalling.
@DollyMiddlemiss
@fredchever
@jk_rowling
Feels like you need some serious trauma work and support if a tweet by a famous woman whose opinions are known saying entirely expected things in a humourous fashion destroys your self worth. Get some help, it will help. But your misery is NOT her fault. She did not cause it.
@NeonGraffitti
@elonmusk
No. Just no. You can be on the neurodiversity spectrum, we all are, but autism is not a "we all kind of are" thing, and you are essentially invalidated 100% of the autistic population and erasing our experiences when you engage this way. Either you are autistic or you're not.
@CityNewsVAN
Brought back decade later to give peace and justice to victims, then immediately released on bail. In the city, where his victims live. No wonder we don't report men who assault. Disgusting.
@krudell
The absolute failure of our current cultural space to comprehend the value of skilled, trained, gifted writers is nonsensical, everything from entertainment to Brand-based content marketing depends on the quality of the narrative voice. Solidarity.
@BrandonLBradfor
yep, absolutely toxicity of the "friend zone" narrative. My whole life has been this because I'm autist and I really prefer male company generally. 97% never stopped trying to sleep with me, 2% were gay. It's a true shame what pop culture has taught boys.
@sibylle_berlin
Does anyone else clean it leaving residue? I shared a shower with people who did and that was the same as using it myself. The steam would bring up the chemicals and breathing them within ten minites hard to breathe, heart pounding/racing, sitting in shower.
@angusreidorg
Why didn't you collect data on Dx? How many SEVERELY mentally ill people are in each access category? Why conflate and flatten the distinction between otherwise healthy humans seeking support in hard times and the severely mentally ill unable to find any treatment or support?
@tessfalor
No. Not even a little. I did a custom work experience "program" for 8 months with the two agencies accessible to me (paid for by taxes) and they just made me sicker, kept trying to shove a square peg in a round hole, and worse. Currently awaiting a response to a Human Rights case
@TheShadowKiki
@Israel
When the note is provably false, I'd hazard it is temoved. Shocking I know, that they might work as intended regardless of YOUR beliefs.
@Silas33
I call it wellness for the well and wealthy, Works great unless youre actually sick. People with mild ME (might just be early, rather than mild, it is a progressive condition) can get help, but that's because theyre not actually sick yet. Not in a way that dysfunctions.
@GovCanHealth
And disabled people? Seniors? When can we access dental care? Given the income cap for parents is 10x annual disabilty rates OR more, when are the most vulnerable going to get ANY promised supports?
@AutisticCallum_
I'm similar, I tend to have a very high bar, but if you breach it, I erase that person from any trust or even kindness. Love is the same though, meeting individuals I never get past loving, even if they dont love me back and ghost because I'm intense. Very lonely.
@NIH
The defining feature of ME/CFS is mitochondrial dysfunction that reduces your aerobic threshold to ~ 40% of a healthy person. Which means anaerobic energy is being forced into use by basic acts of living. Bypassing this threshold again and again causes inflammation in the brain.
@sibylle_berlin
Hope you find a treatment then, that's the only other option to improve. I've been where you are, gotten much better. Takes sleep management, HR max management, and a working treatment. I had Showers for 5-6 years that were like that. Not for years now. Cannabis an option?
@WesElyMD
Long covid is myalgic encephalomyelitis. You're an MD, how do you not know that? How do you erase hundreds of thousands of us who also have ME that is more disabling than cancer and heart disease and spent decades unDxed and years treated for roving wombs/psychosomatic illness?
@AlmeHus
@WallStreetSilv
Half of people have intelligence and curiousity and logic, the other half reify half-baked manifestations out of trauma, misapplied post-modernism, and wanting behaviour.
@Daythehut
@AlstonJoey
@BrandonLBradfor
I'm so sorry to tell you, but they don't see you, think of you, or treat you as a man. They are not your friends, you are just one more female (to them) and one they'd consider more vulnerable, an easy mark. I'm so sorry, please don't trust ANY of these people.
@aamullanee
@Bret_Sears
@csiscanada
If you are in Canada on any paperwork or a citizen they can legally surreptitiously surveil any and all of your digital behaviour. Did you not know that about our country? I like to offer the suggestions when I come across people that may be CDN & have not assimilated our values.
@sensorystories_
I would argue it's more that everything about the person's response tells me that they are not hearing me. They are interpreting me based on how THEY would mean what I've said. cross-neurotype communication is a two way street and usually we're the only ones doing the work,
@KateCWilde
This just grosses and skeeves me out. Focussing on all the ways we are problems for them in your sales pitch doubles down and reinforces stigmatized thinking that frames autists only as how they exist as problems for allistics. Red flags everywhere.
@sunsopeningband
In 2017 my CFS specialist clinic told me it is a mitochondrial dysfunction and that my aerobic threshold was 40% of a healthy person. Anaerobic energy pressured into being with the slightest task. Pacing the number one wellness need. Is this being presented as new?
@djmissgripper
@HazelAppleyard_
How feminine and kind of you. How not at all narcissistic, abusive, dismissive or entitled of you. How very obviously not at all threateningly violently male of you.
@melissabreenx
Dropping things, bumping into things, mild aphasia. My advice is to try to take it easiest on the things you were doing the most just before your previous flares. For me I was doing a prof. masters in publishing, screen time management became crucial. Cognitive is too vague, 1/
@JsonBasedman
@LyalClough
@PierrePoilievre
Everywhere. Every city. Everywhere. My heart is broken seeing the celebration of rape and terrorism directed at women and children being justified. As if there was a victory in this for anyone that values humanity. Do a quick search should be easy to find the videos.
@okok9301
@JoePompliano
You have no idea how any of it works. You are assuming based on YOUR experiences and extrapolating ease. That's not what hapoens. What job would you take with that pay for a regular 14 hour work day?
@Silas33
I have moved from mild to severe to mild and back again. Function from 10 hours per week at 25% of original baseline to 35/week at 80-90% of baseline. Never once had muscular atrophy. Minimal deconditioning only makes sense as a side effect, not causation, from my 20yrs+ of this.
@jaybirdie1
@guardian
If it persists it is myalgic encephalomyelitis and getting it from Covid instead of mono or influenza does not make you special. You have CFS/ME welcome to the club
#cfsince98
@motiblackart
Just read a post about how autism is not an excuse for how language is used (and interpreted by NTs) or how autistic people behave (around Woke). A self-proclaimed autistic coach. Might need to rename himself to masking coach, promoting that kind of self-censorship in autistics
@MaryBethO_
@CatoInstitute
Plus reallocation of funds away from support services for the mentally ill and non-addicted. My access to psych services went from qualified, expert, dependable help (5+ yrs ago) to TOTALLY inaccessible with zero help beyond a single phone consult while in psychosis, past 3-5 yrs
@AutisticCallum_
Yep and ours are subsumed. I frame it as follows: to the NT, their NT fragility and comfort is always more important than autistic disabled need and will always be prioritized as such. The ? then is, is my health/ability worth more than protecting their fragility? If not...🙅♀️
@deathbian
@EgoRecreational
@apihtawikosisan
Sorry this whole thread is a bit of chaos at this point. I am bringing it in because all up and down the thread people are using these Dx to insult, silence, threaten, or diminish my attempts to engage. It's despicable. 3/4 of the replies. plus the 2/10th that are violent threats
@jacobs_cda
@AmandaAchtman
@Sarah_Colero
The certainty of your ignorance is stunning. That device you use to Tweet ignorance can be used to seek knowledge. Under track 2 the SOLE requirement is permanent disability. Poverty is an accepted reason. 30+% of Canadians (2 separate polls) think that's just fine.
@apihtawikosisan
What is your solution? Should white people be sterilized once they are able to reproduce? Kill all the whiteys? Decolonize the Hamas way? What precisely is your solution? And what is it you imagine current Leftist policies will lead to that is so very much better?
@AuthorLeishman
@theoneginevra
I don't think so. Trad doesn't need to do that. Popular quick content that can be packaged is already everywhere and aquisitions editors are doing that. AI & international copyright law plus book publishers = never gonna happen.
@Tex2Big
@CNN
No, she is female and identifies as such. She is a mother not a birthing person. She has a right to be what she is, she is a female mother. Were she trans then sure, you do you, but it's not appropriate for this specific case.
@Dakota_150
You know that tens of thousands had these symptoms BEFORE Covid existed right? That it is a post viral disease triggered by multiple viruses, its called myalgic encephalomyelitis. Stop erasing us from this conversation. Stop acting like its Covid only its offensive and tiresome.
@louisanamom
@Rob_ThaBuilder
It reminds me of hook up culture, men want to have their cake and eat it too, the comforts of a relationship (empathy, sharing, intimacy, sex) but no commitment and don't dare to expect a call or respect or even dinner, Treat you worse than their casual friends...it's entitlement
@CortDoesScience
Every single severe mental illness, for the majority of human history in almost every geographic region. Maybe it's time for you to imagine that suffering and stigma for CFS/ME (which yes, I have) is far from unique, and far from the most harmful. Bet you participate in stigma1/2
@RebelNewsOnline
But me and thousands of other NON addicts can't get medically prescribed cannabis to treat our severe pain conditions covered. I guess if you're in pain and NOT addicted to drugs your pain can just keep on going until you become so?
@laurawritesit
Immediate cutting of ties. Forget the wedding, forget this guy, the impact of the depth of this degreee of ableism on that young boy navigating an already ableist world...getting it from family where he should be accepted and safe!?!?
@cassandrasbox
@Sarah_Colero
God you make me sad we share a name. Despicable and fucking bigoted as all hell. Sanist, ableist, nasty. Don't project your self hate and shame at me, thanks.
@DYork1979
Neurologists/internists are the correct practitioners. Also if you go to the BC Women's hospital Complex and Chronic Diseases Program website, you'll find Clinician Resources written for doctors by doctors. Also lists of meds and when and why they might be appropriate.
@guyfelicella
Why the push to house people NOT managing their health? What about the thousands of disabled people who ARE managing their health, including HUGE numbers of mentally ill and non-addicted, and are on a ten year waitlist for housing? Why is your empathy so narrow?
@autismsupsoc
My entire life is a history of this, over and over again. My theory is the disparity between what NTs say/document they expect/want etc. and the reality of what actually is permitted. We believe the statements and documentation, NTs do not.
@JeremyShawMD
Coercive control and stalking kill females by the thousands globally. The block button is very important given the prevalence of cyberstalking via social media. I dont care about the rest, I care how no one seems to be considering female safety given the data on DV/femicide.
@elle_carnitine
They don't believe we are as sick as we are, they don't believe it will happen to them, AND believe if it DOES happen to them they'll have the willpower to get over it, we're just weak. At least we arent in wheelchairs right? *sigh* It's heart breaking, but nothing new.
@sdunne45
@SineadKelly113
@AislingOConne11
@HMcEntee
It's pretty common that systems do not care about your autism until it's created some kind of disruption for them, at which point it's your choice and behaviour not your autism. Deeply ingrained ableism that's only been getting worse the past five years or so.
@belleofthebay
@JustinTrudeau
I am suspecting hordes of bot accounts or AI accounts like this one are bejng paid for to make it seem like he is loved. The Englosh is off, and not in a way that demonstrates ESL barriers, definotely more like spam bots with some language learning.
@bryanblears
@CHRISDBRAND
I'm thinking "here is a person whose entire support system has LIED to them about their ability. Here is a person that has no craft, does no work, rarely reads, and only promotes books within an algorithmic circle jerk of self-promoting 'authors'." 😊
@Silas33
It has to be more than just asking for it though. Dula programs and peer mentorship services brought into the medical process, accountability for both doctors and us as patients. We need to learn to map our triggers and thresholds and be seen as reliable narrators for our health.
@CTVVancouver
"Disabled person hit by truck while in crosswalk hospitalized after Maple Ridge crash" "Mobility scooter overturned after being hit by a truck in Maple Ridge accident, disabled person hospitalized." So many ways to tell the truth. Yours is shameful.
@MamaSitaa__
Sometimes advocating and speaking your truth needs to wait until you have recovered more wellness. Exertion is holistic, so is PEM. Being hurt and upset IS extreme exertion. Just a little advice from an ME/CFS sufferer of 20+ years and a LOT of trial & error & a LOT of advocacy.
@maleficaria
@Obsidian_Rose1
@AlessandraAster
@StoneyGuardian
So you walk alone at night then and cheerfully greet and meet any and all males that share that space? No fear at all when you hear footsteps behind you? Or do you just stay at home or only walk with men once the sun goes down?
@Fed_Up_Fed
@BradfemlyWalsh
@willieckerslike
@WestYorksPolice
I could go on. Accommodating autism does not mean not arresting or questioning, it might mean low lights and not forcing eye contact. How arrogant and presumptuve to ask for such preferential treatment..haha I mean, you're being silly.
@Truffula13
@air_mermaid14
@AreOhEssEyeEe
@JustinTrudeau
They also disable comments on HUGE numbers of public interest and propaganda pieces and delete comments on those that allow them. Many comments sections are wastelands of deleted posts with occasional comments, all of which agree with the propaganda. It's chilling and offensive.
@cassandrasbox
@Sarah_Colero
Oh sweetie, I can do so many things the majority of humans can't do, they just aren't boring or assembly line productive, BECAUSE of my disability. High IQ, gifted singer, complex pattern analysis and on and on it goes. Would I trade that to be more like everyone else? No.
@SheilaGunnReid
Yet instead of building an equivalency of treatment options, trauma therapy, and services for the mentally disabled to match availability and accessibility of physical health care, they'll just kill us. This is what Canada has become.
@Fed_Up_Fed
@BradfemlyWalsh
@willieckerslike
@WestYorksPolice
so you think decades of research on autistic presentation and distress in interpersonal scenarios is nonsense? or just autistic people don't exist? or just if we don't cow and appear pitiable (where YOU can feel superior) we couldn't possibly BE disabled and need accommodation?
@Silas33
@1s_opinion
No more than those who've had it decades with far less support and far worse treatment. Hate doing this, but consider this your regular reminder that you and others triggered into these diseases by Covid are joining a longstanding community. Try to remember it.
@RHolemanWrites
@JustBoo4
Gotta ask
@JustBoo4
how does it work? Enlighten us all! hehe what a thing to respond. I have long suspected that humour died on Twitter, but even basic fancifulness and hypothetical thought queries are taken as serious. Wow.
@Sarah_Colero
@AndreaWoo
Not enough social justice bandwidth to go around. And now people are getting tired of it all and pushing back. It could get a lot worse before it gets better. Disability Without Poverty is a great single issue activism group. They've gotten some traction.
@Nickyshearsby22
@NathanJonesBook
Your ignorance about cannabis as medicine based on assumptions of "if" "then I'm sure" is super bigoted. Do some research. Cannabis is an exceptional medicine. Be grateful your life never dished out enough suffering to make that knowledge (not assumption) in you certain.
@ShelbyEBooks
Not if you are writing in a different world. It is slang, a unique interpretation based on our culture and history and language. I would only use it in a real world setting.
@guyfelicella
Seriously. Shut your eyes, don't see it, it isn't happening. Who cares if the policies are failures, who cares how many non addicts have had their treatments and services redirected as a result of these failures. Who cares if more money is sunk into failures. Don't look, right?
@CortDoesScience
and have never given it a second thought. You probably are furious at being compared to "them". It's a good opportunity to situate your harm within a larger understanding of stigma and why it keeps us sicker. Check your own biases and stigmas. Then maybe you can shift others.
@Fed_Up_Fed
@BradfemlyWalsh
@willieckerslike
@WestYorksPolice
what makes it preferential? If a person was missing a hand, would it be preferential to not handcuff them? Of course not. If a man had a prostrate problem and needed to pee more than normally allowed during interrogation would it be preferential to let him? 1/
@tamarin
@Cathy87374712
@SineadKelly113
@AislingOConne11
@HMcEntee
actually it does. It very much does if she was arrested for the same reason, in the sane geo. region they are being arrested & fired. Speech. Speech criminalized. As an autistic person I see the connection, pattern seekers that we are, of course it's relevant, don't be obtuse,
@tamarin
@Cathy87374712
@SineadKelly113
@AislingOConne11
@HMcEntee
I do not suffer from a failure to understand much of anything, except complex maths. Do you not see the inevitable consequence of this path? Should an autistic person lose their job for being autistic because neurotypical interpretation led to hurt feelings? That's ableism.
@gigemlaw
@elonmusk
Wow. You should not be working with autistic people based on these comments. Your ignorance is deeply concerning given what youve shared.
@CityNewsVAN
The products suck. Can't get any of the effective useful medical concentrates etc, manufacturers making up trendy names obfuscating crucial strain-specific data, CBD costing a fortune....Legalization was a disaster.
@CityNewsVAN
What do Canadian women think of these policies? Has anyone EVER asked us? The consent of females should have been a referendum. We all should have had a right to voice and a right to consent when it comes to our naked or partially clothed bodies. I would vote yes, but that's me.
@FaithOxenbridge
@remissionbiome
Welcome to the realm of being treated like you're mentally ill. I am so sorry for you. I was lucky enough to be bipolar over a decade before this Dx. I was fully prepared and not at all surprised by the behaviour of loved ones. Do you know anyone mentally ill? What do you do?
@GregFraser6
@michellecyca
Show me the data where it is less often the reason that people are homeless because of addiction now versus the before times (when precisely?). All data I've seen shows that addiction NOT poverty is the leading CAUSE of homelessness by a wide (EXTRA WIDE) margin.
@NathanJonesBook
I suspect you asked because you already know and want people to tell you it's ok. If you are over 30 then yea, it's wrong. If most of your exposure to her is from when she was younger speechifying her environmentalism then, yea, it is wrong.