This is a thank you to
@TankSchottle
. Tank, you help so many of us each and every day. Your love and kindness give us hope. Happy New Year to you and your family!
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@mooramana
I don't know if it is feasible, but I would encourage you to try to be somewhere else than your home for a while this weekend. One of my close friends is also a widow and she encouraged me to do that. It helped.
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@thenuttybroker
My mother once told me that she never seriously considered divorcing my father. I said that she could not possibly be serious. She replied: "Now murder, on the other hand, 2 to 3 times every week."
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@thenuttybroker
My mother once told me she had never seriously considered divorcing my father. When I expressed my disbelief she answered: "I seriously consider murder several times each week." They were married for 63 years.
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@jerismurfturf
I am so sorry. The best advice I was given when my husband passed was that if something is not absolutely essential and you don't want to do it then don't. Also you may need an anxiety med for a while. It was extremely helpful to me.
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@HanchytheBanchy
@RockyMountViews
Dying man couldn't make up his mind which place to go to -- both have their advantages, "heaven for climate, hell for company!"
- Mark Twain's Notebooks and Journals, vol. 3
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@loopyloupalmer
I am so sorry you are having to go through this. I had far less reason to be angry with my father but it still took me 3-4 years to find peace after he died. All I can say is give yourself time. Your anger is certainly normal.
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@Allstate
I have been a customer for a long time. I cannot continue to be an Allstate customer if Allstate continues its association with Laura Ingraham.
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@QuasiAnarch
At an Iowa rally, Trump said: "Her staffers taking the Fifth Amendment, how about that?" He added, "You see the mob takes the Fifth. If you're innocent, why are you taking the Fifth Amendment?"
@TeddiThompsonS1
Cappie says hi. We are taking care of her and her cat sister because their mom lost their home in the Marshall fire. She thinks we run a nice hotel.
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@RonSarkar
He'll let you know. My big baby of an English lab was not a huge fan but he was strange. He was 95 pounds and he was afraid of just about everything. I miss him every single day.
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@NickMayerik
I wish we could help. Please write about him, post pictures or tell us stories any time it feels right. We are happy to learn more about Eddie.
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@TeddiThompsonS1
You are right, there is no reason to be ashamed.
You are awesome. My daughter and I were talking last night about how we wish we could meet you and your wife and your dogs.
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@4lisaguerrero
You really need to be in touch with a good attorney. Anything that you say, including on social media, will be used by the other driver's insurance company against you.
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@HellBentVet
It is very hard. Your words captured the reality of it perfectly. I know you can do this. After 14 months it is still a struggle but I have made real progress in becoming the me that I am without my husband. There is no timetable and no rush. Be good to yourself, for her.
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@DrBlackDeer
She is one smart girl! How awesome! I recommend Khan Academy (free and online) for all sorts of topics that may interest her in the coming years.
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@mandalore1228
Good guess! On all too rare occasions I meet a Christian who actually follows Christ's teachings and does their best to truly love and care for everyone. I have no problem with them.
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