First it was you don’t need to medically transition to be trans. Then it was you don’t need to transition to be trans. Now it’s you don’t even need to identify with a sex other than what you were assigned at birth to be trans. This is getting goofy
So you’re a “trans woman” but you outright refuse to even try to look like a woman and just go around fetishizing other trans women. Something don’t add up here
You’re trans but completely afraid of and antagonistic towards the hormones that are generally associated with the gender/sex you identify with? Something seems fishy here
This is taking me out. First of all you’re just using “colonized” for anything and second where is being a “dog girl” cool. Y’all porn addicts are so delulu
Here’s a secret. They hate when transsexual women call ourselves transsexual cause they think you can’t actually transition from one sex to another. They still see us as men but with the magical gender aura of women
Most of y’all are real quick with the yasss queen mama werk and the proclamations of I see you and you are so valid but seem real slow on improving the actual material conditions of the dolls lives
@squidbeefs
@SHEMALEHYSTERIA
Nobody said that. Constantly referring to your AGAB and saying things like I’m so glad I was born afab instead of amab is the issue
@girlofswords
Someone must’ve told them all you needed to do was take a mone and that was it. Like honey get your eyebrows done, take off the hoodie and get rid of the ikea shark
I get second puberty blah blah blah but I really need some of you tgirls to dress like adults. Like why are you wearing overalls and a unicorn shirt with pigtails at your big age of 38
@SiliconeAndBone
@bimbotheory
Just over here acting like the entire pre informed consent history of trans people never happened. Like everything they hold dear isn’t based on a history of diy and by any means necessary approaches to being
@missopaldoll
The psychology is some people don’t want trans women to just be women. Some of these trans people need us to be some radical gender whatever’s and the allies want us to be their pet project
@apollyonComes
@benjanun_s
A man weaponizing fragility against trans women to serve his narrative and then being called out on it and mobilizing said misogynistic tropes to serve his shitty argument and paint trans women as aggressive villains is not the hill to die on honey
Imagine if you spent this much time and energy uplifting actual trans women in music who get only a sliver of the attention they deserve rather then reimagining a dude from the 90s as trans cause it makes you feel good
imagine, you're a sad, f*ggy little shit from Aberdeen who crossdresses a lot and then you release Nevermind and welp I guess you've gotta try to justify it however you can because you're the most famous musician in the world all of a sudden
No. Trans does mean transitioning/transitioned. Our lives are not theoretical word games. If we keep telling them you don’t need to transition to be tran then one day the medical work will be like ok then you don’t need these mones
Just so we’re all on the same page here- nonbinary people have every right to identify with their agab as much or as little as they want. Cis people can be gender nonconforming and transition sexes. None of this harms binary trans people or our rights. It’s a big umbrella!
But I’m a transphobe if I say this and the mentality behind this not only does nothing to improve the materiel conditions of trans women but has potentially contributed to alot of harm
Oh I forgot. The only purpose of transitioning is to be a radical gender wizard. The worst thing a trans woman can do is be a woman. Y’all are wild with this nonsense
The idea was to help those that had no access or weren’t ready to feel supported but somehow it became you don’t need to transition to be trans and anyone who does is a transmed assimilationist
It’s not about if you pass or are legible or unclockable or whatever but do you take your transition seriously. Like are seriously transitioning or do you just wanna be trans
Do you ever get the feeling that some of these t4t transbians are just 🚬 that are so afraid to be around other 🚬 that they created an entire delusion around that cause how are you a lesbian that’s afraid of fish
@ChardonnayM
Im referring to this idea that transitioned was at one point about recognizing who you are and then taking the steps to align with that. In my case a woman. Because of societal expectations that is a radical act and we recognized that. At some point things shifted
When a trans woman is like “can you believe someone misgendered me when I look like this” and people come out of the woodwork to remind her that actually a lot of trans men look like that or something
Seee this is what I’m talking about. Like nobody said anything about being butch or anything like that but you jumped all the way to implying you would SA me in prison. That’s some “dude” shit
Just to be clear, you are not defending “womanhood” you are defending womanhood’s proximity to whiteness. Sit with that for a minute. Sit with the way whiteness structures categories in relation to itself
The comments on this are wild. Y’all are so strict. Just mad that a straight up dude is a straight up dude. Calling tgirls transphobes when you don’t have a transition in sight is goofy
@tronsgender
I think it’s also this basic misunderstanding of what community is. It’s not some manufactured sharply delineated space. It’s friendships born out of proximity and necessity. Like we congregate in bars cause that’s where they let us
@PanderShirts
I see some connections between those that are extremely sex negative and those that treat any trans woman who medically transitions as some terrible assimilationist destroying the queer community. There seems to be this push towards purity that is extremely harmful