Sivori
@sivori
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Purveyor of half-baked ideas. Father of four. Internet coworker.
Austin, TX
Joined May 2007
Saw photos of the Coldplay CEO and his wife and two sons. She seems nice, certainly undeserving of such complete humiliation. He had a beautiful family, which makes what he did unfathomable and unforgivable. Mark this: some lessons can only be learned once because the
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I don’t really believe stuff like this. I’ve seen too many instances where people pine over the “one who got away” and finagle a way to get back to one another and then it fizzles out again. The reality is, most of them are unsuited for happiness. They’re addicted to romance.
Ok here’s a story that I recently heard. There’s a woman I know in her 40s who always struggled with body image & self esteem even though she’s at least a 6. She had this teenage rebellion episode with a guy. They were animal magnetism. He was just a few years older than her, he.
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If this sounds too instrumental to you, why? Love is a practical exercise. Be impractical at your peril.
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Avoid people without depth. Depth is a reflection of degree of feeling, degree of Self, degree of awareness.
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In other words, he’s not afraid of commitment he’s just NOT afraid of losing you.
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This is why women end up marrying the “nicer” guys. These guys don’t think they can do any better so treat them well.
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Men are only afraid to get married if they think they might be able to do better than you.
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Some who cheat do so to force a relationship to end, if it has been off and on or dysfunctional. The cheating results in a breakup. Some cheat because they made a mistake they might have not made on reflection (70%), aka the slippery slope. Some small minority cheat because.
I feel like cheating discourse is weird because people believe anyone who cheats is an irredeemable sociopath but like 30% of people have cheated on their spouse lol.
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RT @yacineMTB: @sivori you need to appreciate what this stuff is doing and why it works. They are just sequence predictors. If you give the….
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You are not just the son or daughter of your own parents but a child of the world. You can get whatever you need and didn’t get from mother and father energy in the world and even from within yourself.
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The secret to all relationships is honest and open and loving communication. Listen more, talk some, be open, accept reality.
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Find a healthy happy friend from a good happy family and listen to them and observe them. Check your decisions against happy healthy people.
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In dysfunctional families, you are more vulnerable to the fact that you did not learn good strategies and habits than from any bad experiences themselves. The lack of good interpersonal education will hold you back.
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Nothing you feel can hurt you more than not feeling it.
I've intellectually processed so much, but there is much I never properly grieved. The backlog is immense. When will it be safe enough to feel it?.
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Feeling is a type of truth in that feelings are real and because they are real they must be seen and heard.
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The reason “rock bottom” works is because at the roots is where you find the Truth.
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If you are frozen by sadness go deeper into it until you have your fill. Many feelings have a longer duration because they have not been felt deep enough.
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I want to hire a series of tutors for specific purposes in educating my children on specific topics: manners and comportment, rhetoric and public speaking, math (can be AI), dance and ethics.
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A serious man will not be frightened by the topic of marriage because they have clear intentions. Avoid men with unclear intentions.
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