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β’Κβ‘Ιβ’ Lover ΰΌΰΌΰΌΰΌ β§β¨β’β€β£π¬β₯ βΏοΈ β 21 κ¨ ae/xyr/they/he/she π³οΈββ§οΈ
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hey @MrBeast do u wanna pay for a couple hundred gender affirming surgeries before trans people lose access to these procedures? im being genuinely 100% serious pls.
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hot take: . sex positivity includes those who are modest, for personal, religious, or any other reason. it also includes asexual/aspec folks and people who are sex repulsed. it includes victims and survivors. it isn't solely "sex is good and everyone should be able to do it".
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tw // ableism against systems. reminder to oomfs that you should NOT watch this or promote it in any way. anyone i see praising it when it comes out is getting a hard block i don't gaf how long we've been friends. okey byee βοΈ.
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DID in media: *coughing* gollem, gollem. *wheezing* gives it too us RAWWW amd WWWRIGGLING *smashes live fish against rock*. DID irl: yo so there was $500 in our bank account yesterday, why the everloving FUCK is there only $50 left ????????.
i hate being a did system WHO THE FUCK ADDED INSTANT COFFEE TO OUR BATH
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o dang this bload up. if ur trans tag Mr Beast in the replies saying u want in. maybe we can get his attention πͺπͺ.
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@documense and ppl hear neglect and always think unaffectionate parents. like some of us weren't fed or clothed properly for parts or all of our childhood. (and this doesn't have to be intentional and malicious it could just come down to poverty).
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@avocatto13 @maskofbun they use science magic to make her human but she hates it so they have to kill the vampire king so she can be vampire again and they can be immortal together.
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alternative stages of autism awareness month:.- happy autism awareness month π§©.- i have been informed that the autism puzzle piece is problematic.- damn i didn't realize there were so many autistic adults.- these autists sure are funny and relatable!.- i think im autistic.
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@onenhillion i have followed you for a while and i love how this person has had such a positive impact on you and inspired your recent art. im so happy for you π.
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okay for a while my notifs blowing up was really sweet and i appreciate all the trans ppl sharing and commenting but it's drowning my other notifs so i have to mute this now. ill bookmark and come back to it tho !!.
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@VeeDoesntKnow @MrBeast trump speech to ban all gender affirming care for people of all ages in the us if he gets reelected.
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personally i dont feel solidarity from trans people who hate other trans people.
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@suboccipitals okayokay I hate chat GPT and ai but that line gave me pause bc I have OCD and it gives me problems with both food and money so I freaking hate grocery shopping and making grocery lists. so like I can understand why people would want someone else to make a grocery list for them.
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@dreamsofskies were any of the phrases "you're abusing/neglecting ME" for not taking care of them emotionally or holding space despite being unable to share anything with them without drama or hurt. or the idea that a child is supposed to bring comfort to a parent like a pet or plushie.
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@wootiex i mean personally, as a child who was abandoned by their sperm donor, i really want to meet the siblings i know i have. or at the very least know about them. but i dont want to know my father. so i made the decision at like 12 that i wouldnt bother till i was a grown adult.
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@hausofdecline okay but if we're talking about the human aspect, cocoa and quinoa are up there.
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but also the idea that sex is not inherently tied to the patriarchy. that sex isn't only for men. that people can have sex safely and be informed. that sex workers get respect and protections. it's the idea that everything society knows and accepts about sex is intrinsically.
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@AceHainley congratulations!! this is such a huge achievement. remember if you ever feel the need to use a mobility aid again in the future, even short term, there's nothing wrong with that!! I'm so happy for you <3.
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tied to rape-culture and that's something that we actively need to change and challenge every day. it's the idea that women have a right to their own sexuality and should not be shamed for it. and that "sexual deviancy" and anything seen as such (the LGBTQ community) is not evil.
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sex positivity isn't pro sex. it's pro people who have sex. and people (particularly underage individuals) who don't have or don't want to have sex do not take away from that in any way. it's perfectly reasonable to say that you don't want every good movie to be rated R.
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@colleen_daves yeah i had a therapist tell me that they wouldnt diagnose me with bpd because insurance will use it to refuse services ???? bc they see bpd as untreatable. and then anothet therapist was like yeah thats bullshit and diagnosed me.
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"how to tell if your partner/parent/friend is a narcissist"."how to deal with emotionally unavailable partners"."how to escape relationships with borderlines". ANYONE can hurt you. ANYONE can abuse/manipulate you. having a PD/low empathy doesn't inherently make someone abusive.
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teenagers are not "puriteens" they are young people, underage people. not wanting to be in situations that are sexual with older people. what i mean by that is this: a teen can be alone watching something, watching adults play teenagers having sex, for other adults to watch.
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@TheCainStruggle sooo true i become 10x more normal after [this sentence has been redacted].
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@aemiron @atlastomylove i had a near death experience as a child and i rmr seeing my grandmother in a thick forest standing in a small clearing and she was looking down at me as i sat up waist deep in pond so shiny it was like a mirror and she just smiled at me and shook her head and i didn't die so. .
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@hesperamoon @MrBeast @MrBeast we could literally come up with so many volunteers for this i will accept being recorded haha.
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that can and will make teenagers uncomfortable. is some of what these young people are saying a bit exaggerated? sure. but you have to remember these are kids introduced to sex at younger and younger ages. access to porn on any screen. the shows MEANT FOR THEM absolutely flooded.
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with grown adults making pornographic art of children's shows publicly posting online easily accessible to young ppl. the shows supposedly 'depicting' them (glee, euphoria, etc), are hypersexualized. even more innocent shows are full of innuendo and poorly disguised fetishes.
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@PopBase do y'all even realise he probably discovered she was dead MULTIPLE times, but had to relive that brief grief over and over because he was unable to remain lucid?.
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@floridamanaustn those priv quotes better be good π€¨. y'all can't seriously have beef with jentucky j. jashington , she's been nothing but a good samaritan smh π.
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are they not victims? are the adults who create this content not partially at fault for the sexualization of children and teenagers? you all will be anti proship but turn around and act like this media that our youth consumes does not negatively impact them? you think there arent.
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do things they don't want to because of what their idea of sex is. the most "sex positive" thing we can do for teenagers is teach them proper sex ed and give them judgement free access to contraception, STD testing, and protective barriers for sex (condoms, dental dams etc).
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young girls who see 'teens' on screen 'empowered' by sex and sex work and forcing themselves into bad situations too young and far before they're ready? of course teenagers have sex. but that doesn't mean there aren't hundreds of thousands of teens out there who feel pressured to.
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forcing pornography (no matter how "explicit") onto non consenting individuals (regardless of age) will NEVER be acceptable. and calling them prudes will not change the fact that it is grotesquely perverted to say such things. someone complaining about how they don't want to see.
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@BUNNYEXPLODER "can i call you pretty?" excellent line, in and of itself a flirt. also i like calling people lovely.
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sex, onscreen wherever, does not harm you. but you shaming kids for not being into that stuff DOES harm them. end of rant. if you call me a prude im blocking you.
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something that stuck with me after my autism diagnosis is that the psychologist who dxed me wrote that i "lacked reciprocity" and "didn't attempt to further the conversation or ask questions" so now every single time i have a conversation with myself i whisper "reciprocity" and.
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colour theory aside bro literally darkened the picture then quoted the original as if nobody would notice
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@judgementshae im not chill or cool but i do it !! i think what it really requires is a lot of space in your heart. for many i think it's difficult to romantically love many people at once let alone have complex and consistent relationships with them. that's why mutual polycules don't get v big.
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++. preemptively just in case this gets attention:. - no i am not a virgin.- yes i am aspec.- i am nearly 20 years old.- i am a survivor of grooming and cs//a.- i consider myself sex positive.- i want more well written sex scenes.- i do think sex is usually unnecessary in tv.
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@ihrtbruno everyone saying "oh so husbands supposed to get powers too" but what if he was originally supposed to be one of the triplets ??.
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@BuffGarfieLd55 @front_ray @Nibl3t_ RORY POND ERASURE. but also fr I love the LGBTQ rep !! ncuti gatwa <333.
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ppl be like "poly(am)phobia isnt real" *harasses you for being polyamourous* *harasses you for being polyamourous* *harasses you for being polyamourous*.
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happy pride to GNC trans people specifically. whether you're binary trans, fluid, nonbinary, genderqueer, or anything inbetween i see you and you're just as much a part of the trans community as anyone else. n transmeds or anyone who tries to force gender conformity can fuck off.
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@twennyseeks " I am a concerned citizen, and I need you to hear me. I urge you to recount the ballots from this election and investigate election interference. Bomb threats have been called into multiple polling locations, causing some to close early. Domestic terrorists have burned ballot.
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@Ranting_Trans i stare them down if there are other people around and i make sure to look disgusted. but i got in a lot of fights in school haha.
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@Ranting_Trans mmm yes my mum criticizing my acne and hair oilines and smell before i figured out how to adjust my hygiene to accommodate testosterone changes πππ.
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+++. also moots so sorry to put this on ur tl i know this debate has dragged on and has been beaten to death i just have Very Strong Opinions.
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@XtraJewrestrial unfortunately i grew up socialized as a girl and being pretty is SO ingrained in me. i constantly go back and forth between "as a boy im no longer required to be beautiful YIPPEE ugly rights" and "i need to be an attractive boy or i will never be enough" and it SUCKSS.
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having sys friends is so goofy sometimes bc it's like "i trust u and im bored rn u want me to pos trigger anyone?" and they're like noooo ur cool i don't want to force u and then they're like "do u want me to pos trigger anyone?" and you're like nooooo i would never ask that of u.
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@slopedsleep I'm white native. also i don't see the correlation to race and ableism in this scenario.
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@caranthirs trigun literally maybe i just follow a lot of trans artists but the fandom seems to collectively agree that vash is trans i rarely see art where he's cis.
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@shiraisinspired autism: i can very clearly see that what most others consider to be important does not align with what i believe to be important which is memorizing every single episode of star trek and knowing absolutely everything there is to know about the history of homophoboa.
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you know what. someone should make a picrew of this ,,, or like dual picrews that would be so fun.
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@k1ngbadger "your skin is so bad now" "you smell terrible now" "i know you're a real boy because you eat so much now" "you've gained so much weight" "you walk different now" "your voice cracks now". dunno if it's the same as what you're saying but my mum frames everything like a bad thing.
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make sure to ask people questions and not talk about only myself. it's not like ,, a negative thing bc it actually has helped my relationships a lot but it's just funny i have to verbally remind myself every time like it's been years and this hasn't become a habit lol.
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being friends with other systems sometimes sucks bc i know how much hurt you have to go through to be like this and none of you deserve it and im so sad because i can't do anything to help and there will always be bad days for people like us and i just want to hold your pain.
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@pigeoncoric yes but i do think that trigger warnings for gore or something along those lines are applicable to gfm's that use graphic images of injury.
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@aemiron @atlastomylove sorry this experience is completely different but i completely forgot about it until i read this.
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@folkhorrors small town gay here ! i like fishing and i drive a truck >:)). i also keep chickens !!.
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its so cute that theyre learning chinese w him they are having so much fun.
Our innocent white children are being turned into Chinese communist super soldiers
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muting. quote + @ me if u need my attention ig.
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oh yeah splitting is stressful but have you ever suddenly started to shift main fronters (mostly to said new people) and started to become extremely anxious and ill about all of the relationships you've been developing ???.
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@documense (not to discount the need for affection from parents, just that neglected isn't solely attention).
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BPD thoughts be like. β’ im too much.β’ im going to hell.β’ i will hurt you back.β’ i am the worst thing to happen to my friends.β’ this is actually the end of the world.β’ i will never be happy.β’ need attention now.β’ everyone is evil.β’ i am god.β’ shame shame shame shame.
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to put it quite simply ,, i am in love with him
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tolkienverse opinions that have the fandom reacting like this. GO !
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OSDDID and CPTSD and childhood trauma in general are so fucking frustrating because the number of triggers that are just seemingly innocuous, harmless, or even comforting things for other people. childhood toys, family friendly movies, a wooden play house, a hushed reassurance.
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@epistemophagy groceries most especially πππ. like I support delivering cooked foods too but how are u gonna saying ordering groceries for delivery is not life saving?? I'm so sorry but did u miss the part where driving is not accessible to both poor and disabled people?? like. .
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alters who don't watch tv or read or listen to podcasts are the system's strongest soldiers honestly. like we just have to exist and be present in reality and tbh it's really hard.
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@coffinfrot hello everyone on this post please look into premenstral dysphoria disorder aka pmdd.
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SEAN ?!?! SEWANNN S AN ?MM ASEAN TBIS IS SEAN WHAT THE FHCJSKCJAKCKXEPFNEN
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