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@ask_aubry
I just experienced something like this yesterday. A dude kept insisting I wasn’t an American because one of my parents is from Ghana and the other parent is from… Iowa 🤦🏾♀️
@ScissorHand07
And not just random adults- teachers, coaches, friends parents, friends older siblings, relatives, etc etc etc! Having kids makes you side eye EVERYBODY in your life cuz you can really never know!
@JiorJette
No fr. I recently cut off a friend who tried to physically FIGHT ME when I begged her to not go home drunk with some random bar man. It wasn't the first time she tried to get active over dique either. I had more than enough abuse from her chasing men smh
@ask_aubry
The fact that she says “genuine misogyny” is proof to me this was not posted by an actual woman. Any woman who has ever experienced any level of misogyny (all of us have) would know you don’t need a qualifier for it. There is no disingenuous misogyny lol
@cpettway79
@ShellzJG88
@notcapnamerica
No matter how many times parents come on here and say this, people will act like we're lying or exaggerating! Why would we all be lying about this one very specific phenomenon! 😩 Anyway thank you for getting it!
@hollowearthterf
Mothers can’t do anything right. Because if we don’t work then we’re freeloading gold diggers, but if we do work then we’re torturing our babies 🙄🙄🙄
@d_la_reina
Making less than you need to make would be a massive waste of time that could be spent searching and it would put you in a horrid cycle of struggle. And as a business owner- you can't just start a business and profit right away. It takes YEARS to make it smh. Ppl so annoying 🙄
@spittykitty543
@ask_aubry
I think it's fine if someone is asking for opinions! I wasn't asking my cousin her opinion, she asked what we were naming the baby and I told her not knowing she'd take it here 🫠
Eminem is literally ⚪🗑️ with money doing the same old anti-black misogynistic crap he was doing decades ago. And black people have been on here defending him 🤢
People on IG saying we're "soft" for not liking this just because when he was beefing with all the pop girlies in the late 90s nobody spoke up. Well we're speaking up now and we don't like his mf misogyny and using women's names for clout 🙄 never liked it never will!
@SomaKazima
Oh no the Hoteps and FBAs gonna getchuuu 😭 they were telling me I'm not a Black American because I have an African parent and a Black American parent like 💀
@BombshellCole
People try to say that gaming doesn't make people violent but what they fail to acknowledge is that it desensitizes young minds to violence which is horrible.
@JiorJette
You only see people saying stuff like that with a serious face online 🤣 somebody told me I'm not Black American because one of my parents is from Ghana. Like boy I'm from Virginia pls get off the internet and touch grass 😂
@d_la_reina
I think with context it’s an interesting point. Outside of the US you’re identified by your nationality and ethnicity so it’s more jarring for the foreigners when they come to the US and all that is stripped away and you’re just Black.
The business owner is obviously also racist because why would somebody even lie about something like this? What could she possibly gain from offering them the opportunity to train their stuff better?? WP so aggy
I visited The board game room cafe in Tyler, Texas yesterday and was racially profiled THE ENTIRE time I was in the store by the staff!
I message them on Facebook to tell them about the experience & the OWNERS screenshot, posted on Facebook and said I have mental health issues.
@nhoodpublicist
The only part I found weird about it is that he sent her allllll these pictures at all. Was he trying to make her jealous? Idk maybe I’m misunderstanding the intent bc I’m naturally distrustful of men’s intentions 🤷🏾♀️
Let mine tell it- I’m a super villain who dumped him for no reason, takes all his money for nothing, and I also have no idea what I’m doing as a mom 😂 ok so why aren’t u the primary then 🧐😂
They don’t cook, don’t clean, don’t care for their own kids, make their wife do EVERYTHING and remember EVERYTHING then wonder why she doesn’t want them sexually.
@OGAviana
@MrsKhandiCoated
And it's so common! Even ELON MUSK and one of his baby mamas is going through this. He took their son X and just dipped out and won't tell Grimes where they are. We did the first episode of our show all about it bc its so wild!
@hollowearthterf
Also not to be that guy but it's pretty widely known that he cheats on her A LOT. So in the end its really another case of social media being very different from the reality.
@CryptidsNCrafts
@ask_aubry
Honestly it's the SILLIEST conversation that only occurs amongst a particular set of Black people who are chronically online. They say that if both your parents aren't directly descended from slaves then you're not considered Black American. 🙄 Complete rubbish.
I love seeing posts like this because it provides balance since the other side of X is women asking us to cook for random men and expect nothing in return 🤦🏾♀️
Things I would tell my daughter:
-never give up financial independence for a man, you don’t need to have a 9 to 5 but you need some way of having your own funds
-marry a man who loves you a bit more than you love him (and make sure you’re his type because that’s the only way…
After a year of dating, to ghost for several days then to come back and shit all over her family that way was so cruel. I can think of so many other ways to go about handling this breakup that enforces standards and boundaries but doesn't insult and ridicule her entire family
Most ppl are focusing on the issue being he set a standard. The real issue is the cruelty of how he went about it. Y’all want to be in relationships? Learn how to communicate and also manage your own discomfort when ending things with people you’re seeing.
@simonjones1989
@HannahPosted
And they claim they've read all this "data" that informs their parenting decisions but this is the one set they haven't glanced at?? 🚩🚩🚩
Funny story- my BD is an electrician and makes 6figs my BF is a director and makes even more than him, when they were beefing real bad my BFF asked me “why don’t they act their wage??” 💀💀💀 I was rolling
Even in finance, I’ve been laid off TWICE. I’ve only been in the field 4 years. Had to relocate for a job, just to lose it. I’ll date an electrician. Who’s doing mass electrician layoffs???
@bustybumbunbuns
@jhilikeye
This must be one of those scenarios where you'd have to be someone who doesn't view life through a pornified lense to understand the problem here. Not accusing you of anything, just saying that might be why you don't see a problem with this.
I love cult docus and I'm currently watching 'Dancing for the Devil' on Netflix. I always think I'm going to find a docu where no one gets SA'd by the cult leader. Turns out the only time it doesn't happen is when the leader is a woman and even then there are some instances!
@TheAgentSculder
@HannahPosted
People with this over simplistic, libertarian type of mindset seem to believe that charitable organizations, like the one they run, are the answer to solving problems like this. Bc the historically generous 1%ers will be happy to support people via charity over being taxed 🤦🏾♀️
@JiorJette
Once again, concepts got the people confused 🤦🏾♀️ racism, systemic racism, racial discrimination all have different meanings and all he knows is what Dr Umar says about something
And when those "it could never be me" girls become single mothers themselves (i.e. Cam Newton 3rd BM), we don't laugh at their pain we just welcome them to the table. It can literally happen to anybody and marriage won't save you from it 🤷🏾♀️
My mom cried when she got her flowers and read her card 🥹 she said “You took me to Mexico you didn’t need to get me anything else!” I’m so happy we have a better relationship now and she’s here for me and her grandbaby 😭🥰 best Mother’s Day ever!
Shaq has even admitted that he was a terrible husband and father to her and the kids. Was that wrong of him to say? What’s wrong with people speaking on their truths? Or is it only wrong when women do it 🧐
I saw Shaunie (Shaq’s ex-wife) say she doesn’t think she loved Shaq while they were married. I know she has to sell a book but how are ppl so comfortable saying shit like that regarding the parent of their children? Why do we, and more importantly your kids, need to know that?
And this is EXACTLY why we started our podcast. To tell the other side of the story that nobody talks about because "bitter baby mama" is the narrative the people like 🙄🙄🙄
@BOOOOOOPPPP
@hollowearthterf
LA influencer gossip. I guess it’s probably more talked about in those circles? But you could probably google it, it’s like an open “secret”
This is part of the reason why I’d never ever post my child on here. Imagine posting your gorgeous fresh infant & about your previous loss and some weirdo says some shit like this to their followers with a pic of YOUR baby attached 🤦🏾♀️
I actually HATE the term rainbow baby… I feel like it diminishes my baby before her brother. Like she was a storm and he was the reward. His life didn’t fix the grief of losing her. I like to think all my babies are sunshines. They all brought us their own rays of light 🥰
My BD called to ask me why I have his mom blocked. Where do I even begin?? This lady is nobody to me, never offered me any kind of help or support, has caught an attitude with me several times. She's been blocked for months and just noticed! He said "Oh ok" LOL
@Whatyousaymayne
@tasharaas
Do yall really think it's her or are yall just hellbent on bullying a BW by any means necessary including using a fake pic 🤔 either way- its dumb. Pls stop.
Did yall know that some people are in age appropriate relationships with men who have money and there’s absolutely not a thing wrong with that?? Tf kinda trash take is this?