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You don’t have to adopt every ideology. Read about it, understand it or not then move on. It isn’t necessary either to deem it wrong or right. That’s what true open mindedness is about.
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My grandma just called to confirm if I’m still coming home. She said she bought rice, baked beans, mayonnaise, tin fish and will go look for a pumpkin on Monday so I shouldn’t buy those 🥺 if only she knew that this Christmas we will eat like we mean business for the first time.
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I got a rejection letter from Standard Bank Careers. They actually tell you why they are rejecting you 🥹 this is good.
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Just made the hardest decision ever but it was also an easy one. I stopped looking for apartments & I’m moving back to Katlehong. With my mom being unemployed, I feel I will better take care of her, my siblings and me without rent. I’ve been struggling for months because of that.
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Someone complemented my skin saying it looks beautiful. I can afford sunscreen phela manje 🤭 my hair is flourishing too, my afro looks so pretty. This is why you should never let anyone tell you money is not important. Affordability enhances your life quality. Money is important
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I’m starting ko Woolworths food before heading to Zeerust, we having gammon and other fancy things this year 🤭 she won’t know what hit her 😂. I’m also getting us cake ya ko Château Gâteaux. I’m super excited 😊 can’t wait to cook her delicious food.
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I’ve decided I’m taking a break from applying for work. Applying and not getting any responses too can be a bit hurtful, sad and tiring. I’m just going to catch up on my favourite series on Netflix since someone gave me their details and told me to distress . Distress I will 😌
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My little brother and I are going to Mall of the South. We are going to cut our hair ko Legends Barbershop because he always wanted to go. We are then going to eat burgers ko RocaMamas then we are going to come back with dry lips and empty hands as if nothing happened 🥹💛
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@Thato_Matt
@Queen_Finxa
Colour blind does not mean you see the world in black and white or without colour. You just perceive colour differently or less diverse.
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@kemimarie
It’s probably because they do not share the same sets of belief system as you. Also don’t fear, respect. It’s hard to adore what you fear. The basis of African spirituality is fearlessness. It is the only way to open your heart and to be open minded.
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Three highlights today. She loved the sleepers 🤭 the cake arrived intact 😌😌 and my grandmother drinking tea and croissants 🤭 she drinks it black because her tummy is sensitive. I’ve been laughing the whole day because of her comments 😂
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Patience was indeed a virtue 😂 oh Tlotlo my sweet baby, we have turned out okay. We have bread and toothpaste now. You only eat wholewheat bread. We even have extra things like juice, cake and body wash. We are okay baby, life will indeed turn out amazing, the day is closer 💛🌻
My traditional healer always assures me how amazing I’m going to turn out in life and while she says that, I’m thinking why not now cause I’ve run out of toothpaste, bread and deodorant spray??? 😭 Yhu patience is a virtue se foot 😤
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Used to pass by these apartments in Marshalltown and think “how lovely” I quickly developed a yearning for them. I’d stalk them on Property 24. Imagine what I would do once I live there while renting my R800 room in Protea Glen 🤭 they were so unattainable. I live there now.
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Yeyi vukani!!! I’m just here to tell you all to keep believing in miracles and magic. Believe in yourselves because that’s what you are, magic 🌻 Do it all but don’t stop persevering. The delulu came trululu. I got an offer from one of these guys😭happy new year to me indeed 🥳🥂
So for me it’s Anglo American, Standard 💙, Deloitte, Ernst and Young and Hogan Lovells. I know they would do the wonders I am currently in need of.
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I told the guy that asked me out on a date that I’m not feeling well. He then responded by saying he will come check up on me after work. I didn’t overthink and agreed. He came, took me to my favourite mall so I can get ice cream and food then brought me back 🥺
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@miggymih
@platini954
Fragile I tell you fragile. If you’re so manly why are you bothered by what others are doing, do you seek validation of who you are based on others doing the same things you do? Shame.
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I am not afraid of rejection, I am not afraid of losing nor of things ending and I admire this about myself. I understand that people’s decisions are not a reflection of myself but of their preferences and that’s okay. I am more than a person’s perception of who I am 😊
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My colleague (21 yrs) is worried about valentines. So I said to her I’m 26 yrs old and nothing special or anything has ever happen to me on that day and I’m alright so she’ll be okay. She went “that’s the thing, I don’t want to be 26 and…”
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People with kids are so weird. Whenever they talk about how great being parents is or how fulfilled they feel etc, no one feels insecure enough to invalidate them yet when childless people express themselves, it’s personal? Haibo. Why do you need to fight this much, what’s wrong?
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Oooh turns out I don’t need a skhafthini, we have a cafeteria, I get a voucher everyday. Ntho tse fancy 🤭 lord bless my groceries, I’m so happy to be saving money 😭
Skhafthini nyana saka sa 1st day in corporate 🥹💛 (bare with me ga ka tlwaela)
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My sister is a vegetarian so I’d like her to stop eating pap and soup because that’s all there is. I want her to explore a variety of vegetarian dishes 🥹 I also want to be able to go grab a cocktail or two. Brunch or something. Even have breakfast dates with them. I can’t wait.
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I recommend shooting your shot as a woman, go after the things you actually want instead of choosing from what you get 💯
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I bought a bed today, a queen bed 🤭. I don’t know why but I feel like I just accomplished such a huge thing. I felt my back say thank you 🥹🙏🏿 we thank Badimo, we thank God 🙌🏿 I feel like an employed girly with something to show. I’m screaming for joy. In fact I’m crying.
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We can’t both be struggling during the holiday season. We won’t be based in Pretoria next year at work, that helps a lot. It was an easy decision because I also want to see my siblings eat cornflakes any time, pasta, drink juice, eat cake. I want their bread to have cheese 🥹
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This was me December when I applied to my current job. I did the same and now I live close to my new work place vele 😂 don’t be afraid to hope and dream. They do come true!
I applied this job and i am already looking for apartments near by
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Someone was surprised to hear me say “my traditional healer” 😂 if people can start their sentences with “my doctor” or “my psychologist”, “my gym instructor” etc I can say “my traditional healer” akere ke Motswana.
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I don’t know which man needs to hear this. But compatibility is a real thing. Also try your best to date a kind, empathetic and thoughtful woman. Your mental health will thank you. Do not victimise yourself through your choices and taste in women. Some behaviours are not normal.
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@dneom07
Thank you 😊 it will just be me and her. It’s always been like that 😊 long story 😅 plus she only has one child.
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So… On Monday I only had R35. My fare is R30. This guy was short ka R5 to go to Randburg and I didn’t hesitate. So the R5 I shared was to add to Tuesday’s fare. Anyway I told myself I have people and he probably doesn’t so no problem. I just found R200🤭
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I managed to convince her to take a selfie with me 🤭 she gave me the pretty polo neck I’m wearing. She also tried to give me the slippers I bought her because I don’t have slippers yet 🙆🏿♀️😭 I also found out why she doesn’t like pictures 🥺
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@Winter
@LilahSturges
Well in African spirituality we do not believe you die. You’re a spirit before you’re a body. Spirit is energy and energy cannot die. So you can still communicate with your loved ones if you want. They’re just in a different dimension. So your experience isn’t surprising.
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I wasn’t really going to share this one but then I remembered some of you have been here for the journey. From Protea Glen, to Katlehong then Marshalltown and now this place I look down on (Sandton 😑) so I am sharing that there is tangible progress. The environment is lovely 😊
Le nna I wanted to have one of these pictures 😂🤭 my mastandi decided I’ll use the garage door as my gate like I’m a car 😂 anyway, I finally have a place I will feel safe to be myself fully. Where my spirit will rest. First time “backroom in Soweto” dweller 💛😂
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Men with children are damaged goods and I don’t do that. I only date pure men. Virgins. Men you can bring to your mom that are well behaved and not for the streets.
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Your responses are so kind bathong🥺with pictures I’ll try mara mama hates pictures 😂 she’ll go “otla batla go ntena”. She only has one child (my biological mom) but I’m like her last born. She raised me and I call her mom. It’s been 4 years because I couldn’t afford to go home.
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My traditional healer taught me that consulting isn’t always about finding out ka boloi or that your ancestors are angry etc. Sometimes it’s guidance and life coaching from a traditional perspective and approach. She’s been teaching me bravery, self love and standing for myself.
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“As I look outside my window”
I love my new view 💛 I am going to do a lot of contemplating by this window 😂
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Actually decided let’s do Piatto because it’s a bit different 🥹
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Thanks to SHEIN I remembered I purchased some blouses back then to manifest a corporate job 😂💛 well now here I am day one of a journey meant for discovery, growth, fulfilment, possibilities and understanding. I am grateful to be who I am and where I am.
1st day at a big corporate job outfit ayihlangani and it’s almost 18:00
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Skhafthini nyana saka sa 1st day in corporate 🥹💛 (bare with me ga ka tlwaela)
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@NkululekoXaba_
My mom stopped because I would say and “that’s okay because it’s natural” I don’t like manipulative language. Even with the silent treatment, it would end up being like I’m the one that’s doing it. I take things literal. You must talk to me directly. Basadi ba sele.
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My little sis uses dermopal. I’m thinking people with big sisters are lucky yazi😅she has toner and face wash tsako Clicks. She has those lovely smelling Oh So heavenly Spritzers. She eats cornflakes and the likes. Everything I wished I had 1st year and that heals me so much 🥹
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@dkratzer1999
@ChloesSlutSlave
Because they’re insecure about their blackness. So they project instead of introspecting and finding ways to be confident about their being, so as to understand who you are, can never be diluted or taken away if you don’t depend on the external for validation 🤷🏿♀️🙊
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Bathong tsogang I finally have a safe space to call my own. I’m crying because I feel so much better already. If you know me you know how this is literally life saving. It’s been such a hard long journey I never thought I would get here let alone anywhere 🥺💛
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@Ibskeealii
Argh the replies in here💔, I guess sometimes you forget that just because you’re not capable of something, it doesn’t mean others aren’t either. Some people are cold. Yeah put yourself first but don’t be an ass or hurt people. Breaking people’s spirits is just wrong.
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This video is so upsetting and hurtful. How are adults finding this funny? There’s something wrong in all of you.
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Le nna I wanted to have one of these pictures 😂🤭 my mastandi decided I’ll use the garage door as my gate like I’m a car 😂 anyway, I finally have a place I will feel safe to be myself fully. Where my spirit will rest. First time “backroom in Soweto” dweller 💛😂
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What if I went and came back? Like no accomm. Make sure to get on a train that arrives in Cape Town or Durban ka bo 08:00, spend the whole day there especially by the Ocean because that’s what I nees desperately then maybe Burger King idk then come back?? Like walk with me 😭
KeDezember and PRASA is pleased to announce that you can now travel from JHB to Cape Town or Durban at less than a R1000 for a single trip. If you are travelling to Durban, bring your car along at an additional affordable fee!
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#SummerTravels
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I’m feeling a little better so I think the date tomorrow will happen. Of course I didn’t write that long paragraph 😅 just said I’m unwell. That was very kind of him and I’ve never experienced that so now I’m crying. He said he wanted to get me flowers but traffic beat him 😭
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@bagelluvr45
@cloudysoIar
@Variety
My siblings are twins yet they are not competing with people they shouldn’t be competing with for attention. Can we not make Freud happy 😩
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@MphoMoalamedi
My question is where did she get the degree. What kind of lawyer doesn’t understand how jurisdiction works? How can you be in court for investigations? What kind of a subpoena is this? What a disgrace 🤦🏿♀️
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Has anyone posted this one yet 😭
19 years ago today, peak premiered on FOX
What are some of your favorite moments from the show?
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I haven’t felt grateful in a while and today I realised something. I was thinking about my setting spray and foundation. They’re both MAC, I used to dream of days I own an item from this brand and here I am. Also I’m going to a doctor because I have medical aid 🥹
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@MphoMoalamedi
It’s important to be kind but sometimes you engage with them and you question even their literacy skills. Perhaps it’s a comprehension thing I don’t know. I remember when my saying I don’t like how my hair looks today (afro) became an issue, that time I’ve had an Afro since 11.
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Isn’t my smallanyana work station super cute? I’m proud of it. I did well. Thank you PayJustNow, rona bo single income household, who would we be without you 🥹💛
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@Kokoleo_zn
I think it’s people that don’t live in close proximity with white people, only see them at malls or offices or universities at distance. White men have the capitalism upper hand to sustain their patriarchal demands so white women don’t even have to ask a lot, they just do.
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Now we are peeling and it’s so refreshing that 2 of my uncles are helping because they are saying it will go faster 🤭 my aunt keeps saying “love a helpful man”
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@ehisilozobhie
"Some men aren't meant to be happy. They're meant to be great.”
That’s when I knew 😮💨
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Had an interesting chat with an Uber driver. He was encouraging me to study. I explained that I actually have an LLB. He was so proud of me 🥺 he said he admired how I wasn’t too proud to work night shifts at a call centre. I explained I understand you need resources to advance.
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@lasizwe
Hi Lasizwe, welcome, it’s normal. We adjust, focus on friends, self, family, careers and move 🤷🏿♀️
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The healing process is never ending and that’s okay. You spend yrs hurting, accumulating, suppressing, gaslighted. It’s only natural you won’t be okay in a year or even 2 or 3. Some days you feel you’re doing okay, but you then break down and it starts again. It’s Beautiful 🌻
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@BonganiNtuli
@l_keletso
My bolt driver said the same thing last week. He said he called me to hear my voice as an assurance. He said it wasn’t too bad because I was at a mall and he checked who I was with. And the fact that it was an older man. Like ubaba. I was heartbroken for him.
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@Thee_GangsterGp
Lobola is customary marriage so you can’t get married then get engaged. Every time I see that it just breaks my heart because it shows people really do not know their ways. Magadi ke lonyalo la Setswana. So if you want engagement do it first then letter after then magadi.
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For those asking. I studied law. LLB specifically. Graduated in 2019 from UJ. I also have a year’s worth Compliance, Governance and ethics experience. So Risk Management.
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I hope you’re in Joburg. If so please dm me. I would really love it if you come eat by me. I don’t have money to share but I have food to share. Please 🙏🏿 till you find your feet. You’ll eat what I eat. Also you can’t kidnap me because I weigh 110kg so jah it’s cool 😂
Since I am dramatically heartbroken because I’m dying in the arms of my cat alone and have time, share your secrets lenna geh 👉🏿👈🏿 🥺
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@Joc_me
@tropicallesbian
What does “act grown” even mean. I feel that term needs to be unpacked so everyone can see how unreasonable they are, using that word as an excuse to mistreat. Whenever someone uses it, we need a follow up on what they mean exactly.
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@Fikz_the_Cook
It’s a number of things. If they’re not socialised, cared for and fed. They’re like an extra special needs child. They need routines and to burn of their excessive energy. They need training. So you can’t just own them nje any how. You must be a very dedicated person.
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@JamesonC_M
The irony is this isn’t a very intelligent thing to say. If your IQ level was something to go by, you wouldn’t carelessly use the words “obvious things”. Considering the subjectivity of perception and perspectives 🤦🏿♀️
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I get literal butterflies whenever I think about how this time next week I’ll be in my own place 🥺 I hope I will have cake. It’s a huge milestone towards healing and getting better. I really am tired of being on medication and feeling depleted/unworthy. I hope this is the start.
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@Thobymbhele
@Pulemvp
Feminism is about the right to choice. You had options and you chose what’s more suitable for you and that’s all it is about. Doing the things that work for you and never condemning others for believing different. Long as what they believe in isn’t harmful to them and others💛
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@BornAKang
I genuinely don’t know how to feel about this. It made me a bit uncomfortable. She had to be comforted on his birthday. Idk perhaps someone should help and highlight a different perspective perhaps I’ll see the positive/cuteness. For now I see instability and unreasonableness.
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@thisIs_SK
This proves nothing. Sometimes what you know is rehearsed. You learn the idea somewhere, you explain by adding your own words and think “it’s something”. I don’t have an opinion about this subject matter as the effects of post democratic SA ensured I psychologically exclude
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@Prime_suv
Yes, nearly destroyed me but guess what? I will love wholeheartedly, intensely, deeply and passionately till I die. I came here to live and it means feeling it all and I mean all of it. I would never limit my feelings. I’m a lover and it will never change. Love is all I know.
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@aurababy18
And that’s okay love. It wasn’t “brave” it was just a mere normal assumption, you know like how other normal discussions happened. Blessed day 💛
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@vendaTeacher
You can always appreciate your woman without having to perpetuate stereotypes regarding dating black women. You’re wrong for that. There’s nothing wrong with interracial dating because love is beautiful but if you enter it with problems Frantz Fanon highlights, then I don’t know.
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Low self esteem is a leech. Sucks your potential out of you. I’ve tolerated pain because I didn’t deem myself worthy, because I looked for my worth somewhere else. Presence was enough for me. Validation was what I needed. Luckily my quick awakening prevented a lot.
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What did I say about my friends? To think when I was unemployed he would buy me toiletries. He would also come to Joburg to have me “go outside”. The amount I wanted to pay was for when he helped me move to Pretoria. He still continues to send me money when I need it 🥹
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@zwotheramabale
They literally everywhere. You probably know one but akere she isn’t your “type” 🤷🏿♀️
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Oooh Bathong Oh So Heavenly will have you smelling lovely on a budget. Love it.
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@Thwema1
@Nelzie101
Desperate for love, desperate for marriage is actually desperate for validation, desperate to feel complete or whole because we are raised to subconsciously think we’re incomplete or aren’t womanhood worthy if some things aren’t there.
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I’m just a firm believer in that being grateful does not mean you have to not want more. I’m also a believer in that you do not need to compare yourself to those lesser than you to appreciate because what happens when they do better? Comparison again? I just really want more.
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@olepahtugn
@Rochelle__Meyer
You’re centring her, how do you not mean harm to her? Are you the kind of person to beat someone up and claim it’s to teach another person a lesson? Messed up
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There really are good men out there. They are everywhere. You might even have an example of one around. I have a friend and he is kind hearted and a good boyfriend to his girl and takes care of his people and himself which I admire. There are many good men. I’ve met a handful.
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This tweet helped me get a job 🥺it’s not law related but it’s a great start. I’ll have the resources to push a lot of things. From a Driver’s license to either a Tax Law Post grad diploma or Law school. I’m so grateful. I’ll be able to buy my own toiletries 😭 Dischem kana 💛
I’ve decided I’m taking a break from applying for work. Applying and not getting any responses too can be a bit hurtful, sad and tiring. I’m just going to catch up on my favourite series on Netflix since someone gave me their details and told me to distress . Distress I will 😌
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My little sister is finally going to UJ. I really hustled for her to get in and I intend to make sure she stays. Probably one of the reasons I have tension and neck pains 😅 my colleague was saying she wouldn’t survive ngo mthwalo wam. She says God really has specific soldiers.
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@SizweDhlomo
It’s not about looking down on it. She has goals, they aren’t being met, it’s frustrating. Even if she was doing admin, it remains an issue. Plus, call centres are the worst environments out there. Very abusive as though not ruled by LRA/BECA. A reminder of dreams delayed.
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