My family is too black for me to take chances with a failed suicide attempt, okes will roast me.
My cousin once tried to hang himself , and didn’t succeed
Everytime he is quite and nobody can see him , my gran shouts “ Aibo go check on hangman “
Your parents giving you a paid up car / apartment in the early stages of your adulthood
Knocks off at-least 10 years of financial struggle , in fact it buys u 10 years to build something solid without any stress.
We’re adults
There is absolutely nothing wrong downgrading your lifestyle when u see a potential financial crisis ahead
Infact the sooner u honest to yourself about it , the sooner u get to bounce back.
My dad always told me ...I haven’t made it until my wife has everything on a silver platter
Luxury is defined by how soft the woman u love is living ,and tbh I’m not gonna change those sentiments
THREAD FOR WOMEN ON BUYING NEW / PRE-Owned CARS 🚗
I will cover
1) structure your finance deals
2) lease/buy option
3) buying at auction vs dealer
4) options when motor plan is expired
5) what mileage means in the real world
One day I will tell yal how I got strangled in my ex’s place by a figure I can’t physically describe….but can describe its energy
When I told my ex , she was so relaxed and said “shit , I was supposed to introduce u before I let u in the room “ 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Lol Bru Durban is mad ...
One Uber driver made me drive bec I kept saying “I’m gonna miss my flight “
He just parked the car on the yellow lane and said “take over schumacher” 😭😭
Also it’s very weird that u go and fetch someone’s daughter from her peace and comfort ..and now all of a sudden she must prove herself ??
U asking her what she brings to the table ..but u the one that was chasing her ???
If it’s not that ..then it’s the thing of humbling her
I wish women understood earlier that gents are masters of manipulation
They will test your boundaries in the early stages of him pursuing u and the more things u let slide eventually build up to disrespect that shakes u.
Months later
Saw that tweet of the hijackers being forced to rape each other , and all I’m gonna say is :
The fact that South African men see rape as a punishment /remedy to solve something …is proof in the pudding as to why our rape stats are so high.
Unfortunately a relationship can only work if the gent wants it to
U can be “the best woman “ in the world …
Gift him , wake up at 3am to bake
Even take out a loan
If he isn’t in it ,he isn’t
I’m sorry but we live in South Africa
If a woman accuses u of any sort of abuse I will believe her before I even hear your part
And I expect people to do the same even if it’s me.
Durban Uber drivers are something else man
This gent is doing 80 Km ,I kindly ask him if he can drive alil faster as I’m late
This gent parks the car on the side of the freeway and tells me to take over
Nami I did 😭😭😭
There are no demons
There is no mental illness
South African Men don’t view women as other people , that’s why it’s so easy for them to take their lives
Simple.
Unfortunately heartbreak demands u to feel it. Once tried delaying the process for 6 months
It caught me randomly at a games night in Bryanston , we were playing 30 seconds… I’m drunk off henny .. next thing my vision is blurry from the tears and I hear “uright boy “ 😩😩