Chris Alvino
@ChrisAlvino
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Sex & Dating Coach | Creative | Computer Scientist | AuDHD | disabled from LASIK & C19 | he/him | #ActuallyAutistic | #CovidIsAirborne | obligatory โ๐โ
Joined August 2009
The Star Wars book 'The Art of the Acolyte' reveals that if the series had progressed beyond Season 1, Qimir / The Stranger would have become the first Ren, founder of the Knights of Ren. Showrunner Leslye Headland states: "It was in the design of the character, as well as
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i find it very hot when a guy texts me he had a great time and would love to see me again, within an hour after our date ended
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You can go look this data up. It's real.
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fully conspiracy pilled on this, ai is a psyop to make an entire generation 'graduate' from highschools & colleges completely uneducated, to make adults incapable of organizing their workplaces, oligarchs want a servile underclass again so they're giving you all โจserf brainโจ
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For the first time in my life, I see my little Lucy crying from hunger as if the whole world has abandoned her ๐ญ๐ญ She is the most precious thing I have in my life, and the thought of losing her breaks my heart every time. ๐๐ Please, donโt leave us alone. Donate and share
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@RealDianeYap He's assuming things about her and her personality by the fact that she texted back at one am. Personally i despise when they draw conclusions about me right away because typically they are wrong and they don't actually want to talk the time to really get to know you.
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No. I think the three best things you can do for yourself are - read novels - write screenplays (FINISH what you start!) - read the screenplays of your favorite films while watching the movie to study how it was written and then translated to the screen.
@mattsontomlin Are there any books or classes you would recommend on writing?
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Many women contain all of these types within themselves A real man loves and celebrates all versions of her and wants his wife to be happy as phases of life come and go
I alternate between wanting: - businessy wife who I can respect the achievements of on a personal level and vice versa - artistic wife whose talents I can admire and support - trad wife who will help create a peaceful home Which is it???
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you must see your stuckness as a necessary period of germination. thereโs no other way. if you try to resist & reject it youโll sink deeper into it. if you view it as a task that has been set before you, to bear with grace & nobility, then it will begin to pass
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I always tell my clients "I know it's cliche, but the best dating advice truly is 'be yourself'. But the REAL trick is that you have to know who you are to show up as yourself, and you have to step into courage to get past your insecurities & anxieties to truly 'be yourself'".
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You know that when the right people show up and see you as yourself, they'll accept you exactly as you are. And now it becomes a mission of finding your people instead of conforming to generic dating advice about "how to be attractive to the opposite sex"
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In the same way, if you're able to show up authentically, exactly as yourself, whether that's on an in person date, over FaceTime, or via text, you stop taking rejections personally and instead treat them as simple, matter-of-fact occurrences
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When rejection is about a lack of compatibility, there's nothing to take personal, nothing to internalize. It's like how some people like pineapple on pizza and some people don't, their preferences have nothing to do with any value judgments.
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From THIS place, it's very easy to figure out if you two are compatible. And if you come across as your natural grounded, confident self, and you get rejected from THIS place, it doesn't hurt at all bc you recognize the rejection is coming from a lack of compatibility
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This is what I train my guys to do when we cover texting, how to identify when you're texting from a place of insecurity, lack, or low self-esteem, and then stepping into those emotions and healing whatever wounds are driving the behavior, so you can text confidently instead
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But you DO want to change your texts by identifying when you're texting from a place of insecurity or low self-esteem, and heal those wounds so that you can maintain your natural voice even when you feel a little nervous or insecure
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And I kind of agree. It's hard to say bc there are only three texts, but you can feel it. Of course, it could be regular nervousness as well. But when it comes to getting better at texting, you don't want to change your texts just to "get the girl"
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