lyra
@lyreseas
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slut for classical music and number theory. alt to overshare my atypical love life.
San Francisco, CA
Joined October 2024
some thoughts on flirts at slutcon what decreased my attraction: - being disrespectful to other men (e.g. blocking other guys from interacting with me) - compliments that put other women down - talk too much about himself before I showed curiosity - negative talk about self
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if there was an app like grindr that’s designed for instant local hookups but for straight hookups, would you actively use it
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I was very new to dating back then so the possibility of sex on a first date didn't even cross my mind, while he thought i was so freaky and fast. Would've been funny if he actually accepted and all I did was serve him tea.
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this reminds me when a classmate took me out on a first date and walked me home, i asked if he wanted to come up for tea. He thought "tea" was subtext for sex, but i was just extending the social etiquette of offering tea to guests at my door. He declined saying he had to go.
I keep accidentally rejecting guys I’m interested in because I’m too autistic to pick up on their subtext when they ask me out in a nuanced way, so I respond literally which they take as a rejection :(
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I keep accidentally rejecting guys I’m interested in because I’m too autistic to pick up on their subtext when they ask me out in a nuanced way, so I respond literally which they take as a rejection :(
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my hot long-term friend I haven’t seen in a year that have been flirting with me by text recently just messaged me he’s in town tomorrow and asked about evening plans!! sometimes you can just manifest things!
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I have no interest in texting or getting to know these men, but the guys I’m usually attracted to are the anti-fuckboys who actually want to know me and my preferences first 🥹
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I’m also out here reversing gender norms (I should not be texting guys on feeld and making decisions while I’m horny!!)
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I’m already feeling burned out trying to vet these men online, good thing my partner is on a mission to set me up with guys in this city he wants me to sleep with
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first day without sex and I’m already out here texting hot guys on feeld :’)
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I’m in a foreign city and my bf’s friend I met a few weeks ago via a threesome with him is taking really good care of me, it’s like my partner found me a substitute bf for while I’m traveling it’s very sweet
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I think the moment he fell in love was when I convinced him of shorter AGI timelines
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dressed kinda slutty to the airport today, I think the cute guy next to me fell in love with me a lil during our long flight
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What kind of traits are specifically attractive to submissive men? Like physical / personality / aura etc. There was a phase where I attracted a disproportionate number of submissive guys, I wonder what drew them to me
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i find it very hot when a guy texts me he had a great time and would love to see me again, within an hour after our date ended
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guy said he could tell I’m kinky/slutty after having vanilla sex with me once, interesting...
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lol 1/ sounds horrifying but 2/ might actually work on me if I don't perceive it as a neg (being observant, analytical, giving theory-backed feedback, are all very attractive??)
An unexpected part of my job matchmaking is un-teaching men psycho dating advice they’ve heard elsewhere. Actual recent examples: 1/ Client was instructed by dating coach to tell a 100% fictional story on dates about how his friend screamed “I love you” during sex with a woman
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first date with my partner was basically him: *asks me a series of life compatibility questions, my attachment style, my childhood etc.* me: *overshares* him: i like you!!! *kisses me*
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my dating strategy is to try reveal as much about myself as fast as possible, so that i can scare off the ones who aren't compatible asap (and make the compatible ones fall for me faster)
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I like heavy relationship conversations as an opportunity to deeply understand my partner. Most issues come from a lack of understanding, so I think just being earnestly curious about the other person solves most problems
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The most hyperbolic compliments I get are usually from women (e.g. telling me or someone else that I’m “super fucking hot” “drop dead gorgeous” etc) I can’t tell if women are just generally more effusive than men or if I’m more attractive to the female gaze 🤔
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