Iโm so accustomed to dating southern folks. I went on a date and told them to hand me my purse and they said โno i got itโ and started digging for what I neededโฆ in my purseโฆ never kicked it again.
Canada Dry is full of shit & so are the people defending him. We all know what he was doing & who he was shading. Heโs just a coward. & It goes against his โlover boyโ persona/image. But in reality, he is terrible to women who donโt kiss his ass or sleep with him.
Yโall want women to act like they did back in the day, meanwhile my great grandma shot her husband in the ass in the grocery store cause he was buying another woman groceries, then SHE took the groceries & went home. & my other GG hit her husband with a cast iron skillet for +
Donnell Jones told his woman he needed time and space to go mess with other women to know if he wanted to be with her. Then was crying, sliding down a window pane going โSWIDDLE LITTLE DE DOO DEE DEEโ because she went on a date with someone else.
I believed my healing process was complete until I put myself back into environments that trigger me. Of course you feel healed & at peace when nothing is testing you/thereโs nothing to challenge that. & now that Iโm stepping back into those environments, Iโve realized that +
Today I came to terms with something during my therapy session. Once I feel mishandled, I have no desire to mend things with the opposing party. And for a LONG time I did not want to accept that because I felt like it wasnโt reflective of me being โforgivingโ or extending grace.
I used to be very very โฆ obsessed [for lack of a better term] with knowing WHY people who hurt me did the things they did. And I recently realized that I donโt really care about the why anymore. โWhyโ isnโt going to change what you did or how it made me feel. Are we going to be
my momma used to edit all my childrenโs books like this when I was learning to read. Then I proceeded to get in trouble for writing in books when I started going to school. ๐
At some point you realize nobody was wrong or right in certain situations. Yโall saw things differently/didnโt align. Thatโs ok. You donโt have to villainize someone just because things didnโt go the way you wanted.
A while ago, I really started reevaluating the relationships I had with people. Mainly my friendships. I realized I had several friend who would call me when things were going bad or they needed to vent etc. but their happiest moments were not ones I was included in. And for a +
Also, before yโall follow me
Iโm not heterosexual. Iโm problack, prochoice, prohoe. Iโm not Christian or religious at all. This is not a place for your phobiaโs, isms or think pieces about them. K bye
Chrisette Michelle really told that man โBlame it on me. Say its my fault. Say that I left you outside in the cold with a broken heart. I really don't care. I ain't crying no more. Say I'm a liar, a cheater, Say ANYTHING that you want. As long as it's overโ
She was over it.
I fucked my money up, damn. Now I can't re-up. Ran off in his spot just to get my stacks up. Now I'm back on deck, so shawty what the fuck you want?! Heard he talkin shit but this ain't what the fuck he want?!
They asked my niece what she wanted to be when she grows upโฆ she said โleft alone since yโall donโt do it to me cause Iโm a kid.โ
Personally Iโm on her side. Cause leave her tf alone.
Iโd stick around in various ways after vocalizing feeling mishandled, it being validated and even receiving apologiesโฆ knowing that I checked out of the situation as a whole. Mishandling me makes me feel unsafe and thatโs a complete deal breaker.
He really said โI know weโve been together since high school but I donโt know if i wanna be with you any longer.โ And furthermore โฆ he ainโt even tell her to her FACE. โI just left baby girl a message saying I wonโt be coming homeโฆ.โ
YOU DUMPED HER VIA VOICEMAIL?!
while I was really conflicted about my feelings because, while I was really glad that I could be a form of support for them, itโs exhausting to have someone ONLY pass on their bad/worst moments to you. That shit gets really tiring and really old, really quick.
A lot of yall donโt know how to respectfully engage in conflict with the people you care about when youโre upset. You absolutely cannot be disrespectful and nasty and then cover it with โI was upset.โ
Growing up & not having many positive examples of what love looks like really does impact you & being an adult, trying to figure out how to unlearn and relearn what you THINK love is, is actually very taxing and hard.
Lmao i love Miss Maria ! Her food and her work are amazing and she makes you feel at home. She also has a cookbook called โSeason Until Your Ancestors Say Stop my Child.โ you can get on Amazon here ๐
Thereโs a braider in South Carolina that doesnโt charge late fees, provides the hair and she feeds her clients whole ass meals for free. & then when they start to fall asleep bc โitisโ, she just moves them to a recliner so they can sleep while she works.
Iโm moving!!!
@JonnyProton
he said he wanted to be free so she freed his ass and was free also. Sorry not sorry potnaโ ya wanted to see about the grass over there so how you mad somebody tryna tend to the grass you left?!
Let me say this here and now, her fatphobia is not an excuse for yโall to be transphobic or colorist in my mentions. Tread very lightly. Have a good day
Not defending her but we also continuously push this story without mentioning the fact that multiple men were leaking her address, threatening to R
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& K.LL her and harassing her via phone. โA few on an appโ downplays it tremendously
. Iโm not defending a woman calling black men bullet bags.. not defending a woman who makes fun of the police harming innocent black men because she in her feelings about a few on an app. Some shit shouldnโt even be thought of. I have no grace for her.
I really took steps back for my own emotional health and itโs bittersweet because I barely talk to some of them these days, but Iโm also in a better space
I went back to sleep and woke up still upset. Thereโs no way you believe that his responsibilities as a father end because he sent a check. Also, thereโs no logic in โwhen he married her he got the child tooโ because so did you deputy dumbass. I do not like situations like this
Iโve learned to be open to short term relationships that make me feel good and happy. Everything is not meant to be long lasting and just because itโs not long lasting, doesnโt mean it wasnโt meaningful.
does anyone else need direct invitations to know theyโre invited to things? Like you telling me about something is not an invitation (to me) itโs just you telling me about it. I literally do not register it as an invitation.
Yโall be wanting poly relationships but donโt have poly relationship money, communication skills or patience. Stick to the rivers and lakes youโre used to baby.
@xoxomauss
For me, knowing why was moreso about finding a reason to justify it. When I realized that the intent didnโt really outweigh the impact, and a lot of times people didnโt really have a reason other than doing what they wantedโฆ i just stopped.
He aided in putting her through complete hell online in a year where she got sh*t, and lost her mother and grandmother. Including him getting only saying she wasnโt really shot and that she was on drugs. I hope this bald cabbage patch face hoe sees nothing good from that label.
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attempting to publicly embarrass/berate/diss me as your partner because youโre angry or experiencing any heightened negative emotion is a deal breaker for me and always will be. Absolute not.
I started being honest about it. โI hear and understand your apology, but I
1) am not in the space to receive it correctly at this time.
2) am not in a space to forgive right now
3) need you to understand that moving forward this canโt be continuous or i will remove myselfโ