I'm laser-focused on supporting Black men and reprogramming the psyche of Black women who claim they want a relationship with one. Feminists & misandrists HUSH.
Dr. Susan Moore died today from COVID, but HOW she died is unacceptable. She posted a video to Facebook from an Indiana hospital days before her death about mistreatment. "This is how black people get killed when you send them home and they don't know how to fight for themselves"
Not gonna knock a woman for shooting her shot yet I did chuckle because so many women assume that a man wants them...just because.
NOPE.
2024 is gonna bring more of this, I fear. Humbling season is on its way, chile.
Not "I make more money than your stepfather."
Not "You're telling me to be a 'real man' and your real father is not in your real life."
👀👀👀🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Just humble yourself and order a combo. This is a battle you *will not* win, young miss.
So...losing weight to save your marriage didn't inspire you; getting back at your now-ex did?
Not your union.
Spite.
Y'all are something else out here.
Nearly half of Americans go into debt just to have a wedding and financial stress is still a leading cause for divorce. Just something to think about as you watch this. Looks like two people had wise priorities here.
Men: "I just want a woman who will bring me peace."
Modern women: "You should have that within yourself."
Men: "Before you, I DID."
Modern women: "What's THAT supposed to mean?"
Roll tape.
This teen has a VERY tolerant father because his attitude is too grown for my taste.
Anyway, we were different because our parents took "train a child up" literally. These kids are entitled and lazy because they are given the floor to be.
This child has a rude awakening coming.
He's speaking to his wife.
You can always tell the men who were raised by women; they were in the comments calling him pretentious and degrading. 🙄
Know what I see? A man regulating her emotional state so that progress can be made.
Too many of y'all think love is coddling.
@_PetiteTing
Being in any type of relationship with someone with low self-esteem is exhausting because they constantly want you to do more work to make them feel good about themselves than they are willing to do. Chile.
He looks EXHAUSTED. Yet his wife and kids adore him and he's providing. 💚 it.
These kinds of men aren't praised enough. And yes, when you've got a man who makes sure you're good at the expense of himself...HONOR HIM.
SALUTE. 💚
Some of y'all had lazy parents who hit you on a whim and you can tell. This young man isn't "disrespectful"; his parents are listening to his sense of reasoning.
Relax.
@queenglitter4
Graphic, I know, but one of my friends used to tell her "curious" teen twin daughters, "The same penis you're trying to suck is the same one their mama is trying to get them to wash." Welp. 🤷🏾♀️
While women in the comments are talking about how childish and immature he's being, my discernment says that either she constantly does this and he's sick of it or she called herself checking him and he called her bluff.
You like being out all night.
Stay there. 🤷🏾♀️
A woman like this is always a gem because she doesn't just respect her man, SHE WANTS OTHERS TO RESPECT HIM.
That's what these modern women miss: a good woman is intentional about anyone in her space esteeming her man: *especially if he's Black*. And that builds top-tier trust.
Peep the women who looked to see what the others were gonna do. 🥱🙄
Modern women in a nutshell.
Then peep how much he didn't give AF, out the gate, because he knows his value and needs to prove not one damn thing to randoms.
More of him in 2024.
Salute. 💚
Well looka here. A woman who is taller than her husband (of 10 years) who adores him from head to toe. 💚
Preferences are fine...so long as your stubborness doesn't block your blessings.
Learn to look up to the right things.
Pun intended.
@medium_swole
@BKFUniversity
Meanwhile, I'm trying to figure out how/why grown ass women think they should be financially provided for when they're not a marriage. Entitlement is a disease.
@LAURENLDAILY_
@angiemartinez
She's preaching. I say often: A lot of people don't want a PARTNER; they want an AUDIENCE. Healthy relationships are supposed to hold you accountable and evoke personal development. Too many people want to be coddled and babied in their flaws. Love is about humility. Indeed.
@raphousetv2
18 is still a teenager and doing this on camera was to humiliate him. I am ALL FOR adult children letting their parents retire (some of y'all will catch that later) but publicly counting down on a teen, she just embarrassed herself NOT him.
"Every woman can't f-ck me, so I'll be damned if I'm gonna be with a woman who everybody can f-ck."
ANNND SCENE.
Do women get that weddings are public declarations of commitments yet they don't suddenly change value systems?
Exclusivity is a lifestyle.
Long before a gown.
@dedoyinajayi
Good list. Please ALSO discuss: needs vs. wants, family dynamics, how you see special days/holidays, love languages, how you prioritize household chores, pet peeves, hygiene triggers, opposite sex friendships and how leisure time should be spent. You have to DO LIFE with them.
@ChefDomonique
I say often that one of the best best friend dynamics in television history are these two. They had each other's backs *and* called each other out. Good stuff. 💚
@shereeny
Men telling women to "smile". So you're cool with getting all up in my personal space and then telling me what to do with my own body, even if it's just my face? OK, mall cop.
@queenglitter4
I used to be a teen mom director in public schools. Every adolescent girl should look in a boy's bathroom before even considering kissing him. It might change the entire trajectory of her life, chile. It can be TRAUMATIZING in there. 👀😭
@TheRoot
According to them, they support BLM but they also are victims of ethnic intimidation due to Black people walking down the street? They're lawyers, right? That sounds like some racist lawyer BS jargon. Make it make sense. Ohhh...we can't make racism make sense, now can we?
@RexChapman
Singles, look for someone who understands your calling, complements your purpose and has a heart for what moves you most. Hard to lose with that combo.
@SophiaTesfaye
How much you wanna bet that she fetishized his daddy and never intended on getting to understand Black culture other than the stereotypes of Black men that she heard about and/or conjured up in her head. Chile. CHILE.
She literally said that her kids would be happier if their parents stayed together and then tried to make this sound like a motivational speech at the same time.
Amazing. Absolutely amazing.
@ackocher
“When the Greeks got the Gospel, they turned it into a philosophy; when the Romans got it, they turned it into a government; when the Europeans got it, they turned it into a culture; and when the Americans got it, they turned it into a business.” (Richard Halverson)
OK, so her thigh-to-ass ratio looks authentic and she cooks with her hand on her hip.
#grandmastyle
Yeah...he got a real one. LOL.
He *should* wife her up. ;)
Black love for the win. Again.
SALUTE. 💚
Why he married her is my first question. SMDH.
She needs therapy. Promise you that.
Next sentence: commit to NO WOMAN until you've checked out her car, bathroom and fridge.
For a while too.
They all reveal...A LOT.
Men in the comments: "Black excellence."
Women in the comments: "You're stunting his growth." 🙄
Please hush. Google is right there (link in comments). This is why y'all can never be the mommy AND daddy. Your focus isn't the same.
BLACK FATHERS ARE VERY NECESSARY. SALUTE. 💚
@missrosegold_
VERY FEW people grasp that marriage is about friendship and purpose support. When two people like, respect and love each other, they want to see the other win and are INVESTED in making that happen. Many people are too selfish for marriage which is why they're hating...ALONE.
One of my clients recently said, "I'll submit when I agree."
That ain't submission. Submission is lending your power to your man and greater plans even when you DON'T always understand. Like y'all do at work every day. *leans into camera*
@KarlousM
is on it. Yet once again.
The infidelity part?
Another talk for another time.
I just want y'all to know that a woman who thinks this way is a top-tier liability, who is spiritually devoid and lacks a ton of nurturing skills.
Out of all the options out here, keep your money and 🍆 far from her.
@Phil_Lewis_
"White supremacy is not a human right, it's a human rights violation, and by allowing a school to keep black history out of their curriculum, a government only perpetuates white supremacy, hence it perpetuates a human rights violation." (Abhijit Naskar)
"There are not a lot of good men who want Y'ALL. I'm clapping for myself." 😭
I'm with him. I am surrounded by good men and a solid 80% of the men who I encounter on here are good men too.
Every time women say this crap, they reveal something about themselves.
EVERY. TIME.
First comment I see. Black woman (for you men who generalize us): "If y'all don't love your man, just say that. Who leaves their man hungry after work?"
EXACTLY.🗣🗣🗣
Any woman who pushes back on "fueling the fueler" is too selfish for a relationship.
Enjoy Uber Eats...alone.
@Phil_Lewis_
The power of Black women is truly unmatched. Meg used her platform, as a survivor herself, to seek justice for another Black woman. That is admirable. That is inspiring. That deserves our complete support and total respect. Salute, Meg. SALUTE.
First male comment I see: "The maturity of your sons is amazing! Well done."
First female comment: "You're promoting violence between them."
🤡🙄
Fathers, please stay in your son's life. These women can't prepare them for manhood. CLEARLY.
BLACK FATHERS ARE VERY NECESSARY. 💚
@JonesGfashaw
Folks need to RAISE their kids not "grow with them". That's what wrong now: big kids parenting little kids. 30s and 40s ain't as old as you think.
I'm a doula.
Just a reminder that after two years (tops), it's not "baby weight"; it's a choice. So long as you are physically capable, 👇🏾 can be done.
SALUTE TO YOU, SIS. 💚
A male friend of mine said his girlfriend told him last month that if he didn't propose by Valentine's Day (after nine months of dating), they're done.
He's taking her on a closure dinner.
Ultimatums are threats.
That is all.
The amount of women who disagreed with her is wild. WILD.
I'll say this: If you're married, it is 1000% A REQUIREMENT. I Cor. 7 says that your body belongs to your partner (and theirs yours) and you DEPRIVE THEM when sex is not consistent.
Selfish people should be alone.
Still kinda crazy that Traci is no longer with us, yet this is a teachable moment nonetheless.
It is a spot-on example of lacking self-awareness if you, as a woman, decides to buck up on a man, for not letting his guard down.
All I see is masculine energies clashing. 🤷🏾♀️
Damn
@KarlousM
preached a few times.
Yeah, submission isn't necessary when you're both on the same page; submission is an act of trust and faith in your man when the two of you aren't.
AND WHY BE WITH A MAN WHO YOU DON'T TRUST?
He basically said, "Y'all are always bitchin' about equality, so...where's my outfit?" and I'm here for it. 😭
Men are so sick of y'all's nonsense in 2024. GOOD FOR THEM.
A string of Black women in the comments. Some variation of "Make your own damn food. What TF?"
This man just said that his woman is such a supreme sanctuary maker that he feels so safe, respected and nurtured that nothing outside can top it.
Has yours answered your text yet?🤡
70% of women initiate divorce.
They choose to end their covenant.
The amount of women in her comments with 10+ years invested who said, "I chose to walk away" was jarring more than anything.
Marriage is serious.
Divorce has lasting consequences.
Google them and move wisely.
Modern women: men don't know know what the hell they want.
Men: natural beauty, authentic femininity, respect and consistency, a woman who doesn't weaponize intimacy, someone who's financially savvy and chill.
MW: nah, that ain't it. 🙄
Men: oh, AND A GOOD LISTENER. 👇🏾