@fineassnayyyy
I agree but that’s his responsibility to do that self reflection and inner work so he can heal and love himself/ you properly. Waiting on someone to change never works they have to want it for themselves
@WhoTFissim
Yes but that’s out they don’t change and you’re ultimately disrespecting yourself and showing them they’re behavior is ok . You only get more hurt
@waavykk
Loving anyone & putting urself in a position to be vulnerable is a risk in general. You have to be more firm on boundaries & leaving people the moment they disrespect you it never gets better 😩 10/10 there signs first we just choose to ignore them. Speaking from experiences 😅
@Jameca2011
Definitely been here before 😭 knowing I’m not going nowhere. It’s honestly toxic and immature tho. Learning to understand your emotions and effectively communicate them is top tier
@_1Amandaaa
Literally the best energy . That and planning things 💗 just makes you crave them like babe I didn’t have to ask you just did it bc you love me and want to see me happy 🥹
@jiggyjayy2
Like literally niggas will dog you out while together but be obsessed once you move on . You could never talk to them and have no child involved at that
Charles is a bitch 🤣 it’s not even just the cheating it’s his holier than thou attitude and his fake morals . Too good to accept drug money, comfortable being broke, & got his wife working at Wendy’s but you can fuck the neighbor. I really hate him.
#Bmf
@celesitial
It’s not even unfortunate I think they’re adorable and feel like the hate he get is unwarranted. He just a troll and lowkey so is she 😅 he just based his career off it lol
@DeonPruitt_
I feel like once you’ve cheated on a person you’ll prolly always cheat on them bc you clearly just don’t care or respect them but IF and only IF you do self work and grow you could be faithful to someone else .
@lowkeyalbert
Facts that’s how most relationships go bad . People stop doing the things they did in the beginning then wonder why the vibes not the samen
@vxsjmz
Right it’s so simple take off the pressure and provide a safe , secure , stable , loving environment and we submit and go above and beyond with catering and nurturing. So simple yet 99.99% don’t get this 😭
@jiggyjayy2
Exactly like there’s no way you can care about someone and just put their health at risk like that . Putting yourself first and protecting yourself is always it
@SupernovaMomma
Yeah this is super weird behavior on his behalf , like the way he running from accountability is insane. I’m glad she walked out , that’s a huge red flag
@fineassnayyyy
I’m past the broke stage we too grown for that now 😂 but you don’t have to be rich as long as I see the effort and the vision I’m behind my man 100% 🥰
@KammyTaughtYou
I’m not even a child support kinda person if you do some shit like this to me so publicly and disrespectfully take him for half and cut your losses that man do not care at all 😩😩😩
@SkyeAsiyanbi
Facts and it’s really just hurting themselves they’re going to go through life and neve have a healthy sustainable relationship , just keep hurting people bc they got unresolved trauma from 3rd grade 🫠
@DeonPruitt_
Cheating is a moral and character flaw so if the person does the work to change whatever is the root reason for why they cheat they can change. It’s just hella hard to change yourself 🤷🏾♀️ but I believe it can be done when / if the cheater wants to
@c_neah
@Jameca2011
Writing helps me a lot & just time/ experience. You can observe your patterns & learn what triggers you. Then communicate what you have an issue. It should always be the 2 of you vs the problem not you vs each other. That’s real conflict resolution
@smoke_nd_pearlz
They both could do this Megan did several interviews giving Nicki her props 😅 it’d be mad funny tho they’re both real rappers so I’m here for this
@waavykk
And I’m saying there’s normally hella red flags and signs before and during that ppl willfully choose to ignore for various reasons , it’s rare AF for someone to just switch up that hard unless they’re a true sociopath/ narcissist which is also rare
@ATMwithJacy
Inconsistency. Apologies with no follow through. Words not aligning with actions. Lack of emotional support/ effort. Seeing you struggle while they have the means and saying “damn that’s crazy” instead of at the bare minimum offering support
She’s not even black this is not a conversation for her 🙄 and we can be upset because they’re performing minstrelsy which is steeped in racism . They’re further perpetuating negative & false stereotypes at our expense for a check ? Nah miss me with that
We have every right to feel a certain way about buffoonish behavior. These folks come from other cultures & participate in stereotypes that were used against
#FBA
.If the justification is “they getting money”, then go make money off perpetuating stereotypes about YOUR OWN culture
@CasaDupre
It’s not about believing in the police anyways and most of the time it’s more traumatic for rape victims bc you have to relive it and tell your story and be judged by everyone this is wildly insensitive. What would you propose people do?!
@kceeelizabeth23
@KryssyLaReina
Might be but it’s still weird bc men will have whole relationships with you , just to be cheating the entire time. Trying to humble someone who loves you is wild but I can see it bc I swear men who behave like this really hate themselves and their s/o
@mainbitchclique
I don’t think they hell cheat but they definitely ain’t go say nothing if they are 😭 I get it tho like that’s their family not yours and right or wrong they standing beside em
@frankmych
@Buhleee_
Nah money is just required as an adult and as a provider. It’s the intangibles that show true effort . Like time, affection, attention, consideration, respect, loyalty, reciprocity etc.
@waavykk
If you met them and immediately started helping them tho I feel like they never really liked you and just viewed you as an opportunity , and once they got all they could out of you or if you start requiring more from them they’ll leave bc it was never genuine on their part
@KryssyLaReina
Yeah this ain’t cute at all I’m all for having fun but you shouldn’t be getting black out drunk in a work setting that’s still reflects badly upon you . Coworkers ain’t yo friends 90% of the time and yo boss definitely sitting back and observing
@shaylannn_
@DerikcaDesiree
He can have that and still want to fuck with the uglies , you can do literally everything but if a nigga wants to cheat that’s what he go do