As the leading tantric provider in St. Louis, I'm committed to helping you explore your desires and boundaries in a safe, respectful, and nurturing environment. ๐ฟ๐๏ธ
#Tantra
#FBSM
#StLouis
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@NicoleKnightFTL
It seems there is no room in the American Dream for contentment. There is peace in the pauses and creativity that flows from rest. I definitely have ambition, but for a softer and quieter existence where I release myself from grind culture and affirm I am enough. โ๏ธ โจ
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๐ Vii (๐ท-๐ฆ๐บ๐ฆ) | ๐ฆ๐. ๐๐ผ๐๐ถ๐, ๐ ๐ข
I spent six years as a hyper-polished stripper. I never had a hair out of place, nary an eyelash strayed. But I was terribly unhappy. So Iโve given up on being perfect. Now, Iโm just me. I hope thatโs enough.
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๐ Vii (๐ท-๐ฆ๐บ๐ฆ) | ๐ฆ๐. ๐๐ผ๐๐ถ๐, ๐ ๐ข
I used to think that because I didnโt have the consistent provider look that I wouldnโt be successful. I rarely if ever wear make up for my sessions, Iโm often seen in cozy slippers and a lounge set, and if youโre lucky youโll catch me opening the door with a piping hot cup ofโฆ
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Ready to welcome back my incredible clients next week. I am inspired by your dedication to self-care and honored to play a role in it. ๐๐ฝ โจ
#tantra
#fbsm
#STL
#breathwork
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Here's what I'm doing to boost bookings:
โข Taking new photos
โข Being more consistent on social media
โข Updating my bio on all my ads
โข Witchcraft ๐
What about yall?
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It really is the small things for me. A bouquet of flowers, cupcakes, plants... All little tokens of appreciation that my clients have thought to gift me. It's truly a testament to the healing I've done through my work. I love my clients. I wouldn't be where I am without theirโฆ
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๐ Vii (๐ท-๐ฆ๐บ๐ฆ) | ๐ฆ๐. ๐๐ผ๐๐ถ๐, ๐ ๐ข
What do yโall think of this dress? ๐ It needs to be taken in a little but I like it. Iโve never worn anything like this before, Iโm definitely more of a Plain Jane.
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Youโre highly likely to see this guy running around my incall because he ALWAYS comes to work with me. The pandemic has given us both attachment issues and Iโm here for it. ๐
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@KaylaKattNYC
I worked with an agency and I chose to because I had no experience and no clients were booking me indie. I learned a lot about what NOT to do and Iโm very happy to be independent for a year now!
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Thank you, DN. Iโm glad I could make your special day that much better. Youโre such a joy to chat with and it is such an honor to serve you as a coach and friend. ๐
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I am manifesting a larger incall space so I can incorporate movement mediation, sound healing, and yoni steams. It's crazy how things are conspiring to give me just that.
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Covered in Vicks Vapor Rub, and sick as a dog. Thank god I donโt look like what Iโm going through. I tried to fight this one off but it got me anyway. Iโm going to have to cancel my appointments for the day. Iโm sorry my sweets. ๐ญ ๐
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๐ Vii (๐ท-๐ฆ๐บ๐ฆ) | ๐ฆ๐. ๐๐ผ๐๐ถ๐, ๐ ๐ข
At the end of a long day of sessions I take a Sacred Shower. Itโs how I reconnect to myself after giving so much to others. Thereโs nothing like lighting candles, incense, and letting the water wash my worries away. ๐ง๏ธ
What does your post session self-care look like?
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๐ Vii (๐ท-๐ฆ๐บ๐ฆ) | ๐ฆ๐. ๐๐ผ๐๐ถ๐, ๐ ๐ข
I release myself from grind culture and from โBlack Excellence.โ I release myself from โIf it donโt make money it done make sense.โ
I do enough, I have enough, I am enough.
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It was lovely spending time with you
@goddessluna8971
, I hope you have a great stay in STL, and I look forward to catching you in another city sometime soon. โ๏ธ ๐
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Making content can be so exhausting but I tell myself not to overthink it. Just get in front of the camera, at the end of the day people just want to see you!
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Another provider and I were discussing influencer and brand fatigue. Everyone who has a business has a brand, and intimate care is no different, but I think we're all tired of seeing perfect people all the time.
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Full moon in Libra and a solar eclipse is on it's way. Be prepared for sudden changes and express yourself not to keep the peace but to keep yourself in balance. ๐
@xoirelanddxo
Iโm still in the biz and actively learning. Stripping to FSSW to FBSM. Iโm still in the thick of learning the business as it is forever changing. I want to say that I see your concern and it is valid when it is a fallback plan for SWs who are dried up.
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๐ Vii (๐ท-๐ฆ๐บ๐ฆ) | ๐ฆ๐. ๐๐ผ๐๐ถ๐, ๐ ๐ข
I am jealous of companions because yโall get to have such pretty long nails. As a tantric masseuse, I canโt fiddle like I wanna even with a modest set of almonds. Poo. ๐ Maybe when I take a month off I can live my French tipped dreams.
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@DenverDomme
I offer mentorship to SWs but I always specify that it is NOT for survival workers as they need resources NOW. They donโt have the luxury to sit around and twiddle their thumbs on Twitter or perfect their website. Some people donโt understand that and itโs sad.
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Mentors in this industry are not evil. In fact they are needed more than ever. What we need to do is check the intention. Are you for the community or are you for YOU? I ainโt here to check anyoneโs bag but I will check your intention.
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๐ Vii (๐ท-๐ฆ๐บ๐ฆ) | ๐ฆ๐. ๐๐ผ๐๐ถ๐, ๐ ๐ข
๐ฟ I offer safe, mindful massage experiences tailored to your needs. Whether exploring tantra or seeking sensual relaxation, my goal is to guide you on a journey of healing, empowerment, and self-love.
#Mindfulness
#SelfCare
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@DenverDomme
FBSM, 3 years in, black girl, no deposits. I donโt think Iโll ever take deposits honestly. Maybe if I was FSSW and more established but itโs not accessible to everyone.
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@xoirelanddxo
But I will say $150 for 30 minutes is a bit steep. I believe in an ongoing relationship thatโs financially accessible as necessary for the inquiring provider. At a certain point youโre either advertising to women that are already successful or those who are desperate. And takingโฆ
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I need a larger studio. I want to incorporate movement mediation and my singing bowls into my sessions. But unfortunately I'm without the appropriate space.
Here's to manifesting the ideal space for my goals!
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My lovely clients: I apologize for the sudden cancellations. Due to a family emergency and subsequent mourning, I will be taking Thursday off as an emergency mental health day, but I'll be back on Friday.
I appreciate your understanding during this time. ๐๐ฝ
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๐ Vii (๐ท-๐ฆ๐บ๐ฆ) | ๐ฆ๐. ๐๐ผ๐๐ถ๐, ๐ ๐ข
Itโs crazy how the people that do nothing for the community have opinions on how others make their money. Share the tea hun, pour the community a cup. Yโall want girls to do better, but yall sit on high horses and watch others scrounge.
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๐ Vii (๐ท-๐ฆ๐บ๐ฆ) | ๐ฆ๐. ๐๐ผ๐๐ถ๐, ๐ ๐ข
I'm not in the business of tolerating my clients. No one benefits if I'm gritting my teeth through a session. The disdain is palpable on the client's end and everybody loses.
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The administrative work of being a conscious touch provider sends me reeling some days. But every now and then you get an inquiry that peaks your interest. Iโve never had a shaman inquire beforeโฆ hm. ๐ค
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"You deserve ease and a life of peace. Wont you take your time and go rest your mind? You deserve ease and some room to breathe. Don't you make life harder than it has to be." -
@AleciaRenece
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@pleasureXXXp
Another resource would be
Tons of tutorials on how to perform Lingam Massage, Yoni Massage and a variety of tantric connection rituals.
And lastly I offer myself. If you wanna talk about service offerings, branding, or anything else I love bouncing ideasโฆ
There are 3 places Iโm not going:
Above and Beyond
The Extra Mile
and Outta My Way
Iโm gonna sit my pretty black ass down and focus on building my business, nourishing this community, and checking my privilege. Oh, and REST.
I suggest some of yall do the same. โ๐ฝ
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I genuinely love provider admin work. Social media marketing, answering emails, taking discovery calls and coming up with new service offerings is all just so exciting.
Makes me feel soโฆ. official!
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Felt faint in a session today. If the culmination of your session is more important to you than my health then youโre cut off as a client.
There is no session if there is no me. Period.
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โจ Tantric massage, introduced by Dr. Joseph Kramer, blends pleasure with spirituality. With a focus on consent, communication, and safety, it offers a unique journey of relaxation, stress reduction, and self-discovery.
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I am manifesting the ability to attend the Wheel of Consent: Like A Pro program in ATL this spring. Itโs been a training Iโve been wanting to get under my belt for years AND this event is exclusively for BIPOC! It would take my practice to the next level!
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@Lea_Isabelle_NC
I just got on twitter after refusing to play the social media game, but so far it seems pretty chill. Less stressful than IG, thatโs for sure.
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@ItsRmoni
I was lambasted for expressing this on the SW Reddit. Lol absolutely. Itโs why I donโt take upfront payments. I like having my mulah in hand.
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My beef with AA is mostly that it makes being addicted a personal failing & moral issue rather than acknowledging that alcohol is a highly addictive substance (even more than cocaine), has been normalized via manufactured consent & lacks social analysis
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@DenverDomme
Time and safety is a luxury few survival SWs can afford and there is little space held for them. If youโre not giving โhappy hoe syndromeโ thereโs something wrong with you. Most of us do this for MONEY not a higher calling to ride dick.
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๐ฟ The health and wellness field continues to evolve, offering ancient and modern healing modalities from around the world. Today, let's delve into tantra and sensual massage, highlighting the diverse ways healing manifests in our lives.
#Tantra
#FBSM
#SensualMassage
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๐ The world's relationship with sexuality and intimacy often carries layers of shame, anxiety, and trauma. Tantric and sensual massage practices emphasize that healing can take various forms, addressing both physical and emotional needs.
#Intimacy
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Itโs pretty simple, but when I can remember I start taking deep breaths. I donโt even have to be stressed out. We breathe into our chests instead of our bellies which keeps us in a low state of fight or flight all day. TAKE A DEEP BREATH PEOPLE! ๐ฎโ๐จ