○ Stop being your own worst enemy. Treat yourself like you would treat a 6 year old. Give yourself medicine, hugs, food, playtime. You are your own parent now.
Safety tips:
1. Move away so they aren't close enough to touch you
2. Stare directly at them until they're out of your sight
3. Say a description of them out loud
4. Take a picture of them
5. Send it to 5 people with their description + what they're doing + time and place
@3rdna
Tell the gym and show them this text. Everyone who works there. So they can be alerted to the fact that someone might be stalking you. You should absolutely report it to the police as well just in case
@urstarsana
And your gut bacteria dictates your cravings. So the less burgers you eat the less you crave them. The more greens you eat the more you crave greens
@Bigman_Z_
@MissRiRi33
She held it in because she knows she can't trust the adults around her. If she cries then she will be laughed at. My parents did stuff like this to me and laughed at me when I was confused. I ended up looking myself in my room every time I got upset. Didn't let anyone see me cry
@heavenbrat
Your gut bacteria determines your cravings. So the more green food you eat the less you will crave sugar. Just slowly taper off it over time
@northstardoll
Nah eventually he'll be a joke in the back of your mind after a few years. Yes it's strong now. But one day you'll giggle about how seriously you took this moment
@skinnyprinsess
You should do what is best for your mental health. But I don't think you have anything to be ashamed of. If taking a break from Twitter is good for your mental health, that's okay
@skinnyprinsess
It ruins my day too. I end up blocking people :( I've known people that committed and it's not fun now that it's a trend to say I'm gonna do that bc my hair doesn't look good or some stupid thing like thay
@Verysimpleidea
@AshGotThis
Cheating is abuse. You're risking your partners health with STDs, AIDS, gonorrhea, syphilis, crabs, herpes. Cheating is health abuse.
@VOGUExxs
So fucking weird. Like why would you want a man who leaves his wife and NEWBORN BABY. She is just trashy to me now. This relationship ruined her music for me. I shan't be listening
@wishfulxthinnin
Listen the razor matters but you have to exfoliate with sugar scrub first and then use this oil instead of shaving cream! Then you can spray yourself with alcohol or toner.
@delilahgh0st
They're telling you they care. Take advantage if that while they're still in your life. Isolating yourself will make you feel worse. Tell them it hurt you. Let them make it up to you
@borderexia
@jemappellekoi
I feel like we need more context, it seems like this person has been harassing OP about their disorder for a long time without respecting their need for privacy
@delilahgh0st
It does mean something to you and you should be honest with them. Why don't you ask them to meet you for lunch and do a belated bday thing?
@musesiq
"When I picture the relationship I want to have, I don't see myself cleaning up after my partner." Also "I love you and sex is really fun with yoy and I want to try new things with you. I need more attention in the bedroom and I want to focus on me having orgasms."
@doll_maeve
Safety tips:
1. Move away so they aren't close enough to touch you
2. Stare directly at them until they're out of your sight
3. Say a description of them out loud
4. Take a picture of them
5. Send it to 5 people with their description + what they're doing + time and place
@ugwzer
You are in mourning. You are mourning the relationship. You are mourning the person you thought you knew. You are mourning your innocence lost. I'm so sorry this is happening to you
@lassquelette
I always say "not everyone is Christian like you. Not everything is about you and what you think. Go to medical school and become a doctor. Then I will take your advice."
@imlosingitcompl
You should watch some TV man! I love TV so much... it's how I socialize myself lmao. Tiktok compilations, Ted Lasso, movies from your childhood there is a whole world of art out there waiting to inspire you.
I got one of those 7 day pill cases, bought different candies, and put in 2 or 3 small pieces in each slot. bf walks in, shames me for spending $ and buying candy. We've been sitting in silence for 2 hrs 😐 I can never have fun. Ever. God wants me to be unnhappy. And I'm fat
@skinnyprinsess
I didn't stalk likes, if I found an account that was super cute I would go to their likes to find other cool ppl to follow for inspo. Now I have to see who they're following and hope for inspiration
@borderexia
@jemappellekoi
Repeatedly asking after being told it makes OP uncomfortable is abusive. ⚠️ They are not infallible or completely innocent. There are consequences for their actions. OP shouldn't be held to impossible standards esp when discussing their trauma. Op doesn't owe abusers anything.
@lovsmez
That's normal when you have deep muscle relaxation. You're releasing physical trauma that has been there for years. It means he's doing his job correctly!
@contrrl
Lmao I love you... My ex family was like that. They'd be like "what rent you eating you don't like?????" Then when I ate it they'd be like "Damm she age the whole thing 👀 " lol used to drive me crazy
@lil_embean
I think you're a better person than you think. My main go to is "did I stab anybody today?" If the answer is no, you're probably doing fantastic
6. Get other people involved. Stand up, walk away, point at them, and say out loud to anyone nearby "I don't know this person. They won't leave me alone. They’re following me/saying they want to have sex with me/etc." Make others aware. Get as many eyes on them as possible 👀
@skinnysince1998
The whole reason we as humans started evolving a larger brain is because we ate honey. Honey and bee larvae were foods vital to human evolution and the development of early man's large brain according to a new study by anthropologist Alyssa Crittenden.
@lightpinkliliya
The best advice I can give you to stop benjing is what worked for me , and that's creating a gigantic salad and volume eating healthy stuff.
You aren't "rocking the boat." They are having consequences for their actions.
You're protecting yourself.
It's smart, not selfish.
You might stop them from doing it again.
Even if it doesn't go well the first time, it's good practice for next time.
@skinnysince1998
After the consumption of honey for 5 years, only 489 subjects developed dementia. This research in 2009 set out that honey has memory booster effects to treat dementia and cognitive deterioration. It improves blood flow in the brain and has antioxidant effects.
7. Move farther away from them. If they still are stalking you, point at them again and say "That person in the red hat is following me. I don't know them and I don't feel safe."
8. Take a second picture of them if they are still stalking you.
Make eye contact and verbally say out loud what they're doing.
Make them the target for everyone around you instead of you being the target.
Discourage them from doing it again so others won't be hurt.
Give others an example of what to do if they are ever in your position.
@xanorexic3
Please don't. If you sacrifice your worship of self pity you can actually live a great life. You have to let go of your negativity so you cam heal and be happy. It's possible. If I can do it so can you. It doesn't have to be this. There are many different exits from unhappiness
@tunesister
Lmao no... I feel like ppl can dow whatever they want, but having a baby with a guy you're not married to screams desperate to me. Like you're so desperate to be connected to him even tho he doesn't want you. Like why would you wanna possess a man who doesn't see you as his queen
@altlbs
Personally I think a lot of people put pressure to "take responsibility for yourself " and do it alone. But for me I needed love and support to overcome alcoholism. I needed people to help take care of me and show me I was loved. And I don't think that makes me selfish
Reasons this works: when a person is stalking you they are acting like a predator.
They want you to not react, be quiet, & make yourself small.
They want you to act like prey so they can continue or escalate to kidnapping or physical assault.
Don't make it easy for them.
@DarkPsychForMen
My fiancée and I talk about every thing in the whole world, we help each other work through our insecurities and help each other grow more confident.
@DarkPsychForMen
I create a safe space for my man to show his emotions. He can cry if he needs to. He creates a safe apace for me to cry too. We create a safe space for each other. We are both safe. That's why we're together
@agexisting
Write about her. Write what you know about her. What she liked. Her relationships. Gifts she gave you. Where/when she was born. Write down every memory now