Mr. Nice Bai
@mrnicebai
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40, works in Tech, into architecture, urban planning, books, alternative music, obscure films , and lazy sunsets by the beach.
Cebu City, Central Visayas
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@Tangrenin
Fight me but this should be a plot for a new animated rom-com set in Tokyo or Barcelona.
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Okay bai, I admit. He was great in bed. There is no other way to put it. It seemed nothing less than transfiguration. Conversing, he was fidgety and evasive, given to arrhythmic pauses and odd spasms of laughter. But when he got out of his clothes he took on the fluid
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Bai, I just celebrated 11 years with my company last Monday. I am proud to say that I have started from the bottom and got to where I am now. But it’s hard to love a company that does not value your loyalty. So I am finally opening my doors and venturing out.
#AlterPH
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@jayydollahs
@MarLife_
@InsanelyAWSOMEE
Does he work double shifts? I just got off work too and waiting…
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Bai, the reality is that love can shift. Sometimes, life throws challenges, and "I'll stick around" morphs into "I need to prioritize myself right now." Those who loved us might not be able to anymore, and that's alright. It's crucial to recognize that there are things in life we
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Bai, after 11 years at my current job, I've hit a roadblock. The only way up is to kill someone and take over their role. I’m feeling stuck and drained, the drive to work is fading. Ikaw bai, have you felt this way towards work?
#AlterPH
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Ever since I’ve switched to this Alter account bai, I have learned to appreciate the perspectives of strangers into my dilemmas. Why is it that it’s easy for me to confide my innermost desires and pent-up emotions to strangers? Can you relate to this bai?
#AlterPH
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Bai, when trust is broken in relationships, it hits hard, leaving wounds that run deep. They say it takes time and honesty but I doubt it. It’s hard to regain trust, the cracks will always be there. Ikaw bai, can you still trust someone after they broke it?
#AlterPH
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Bai, love isn't just a feeling; it's a skill honed through mindfulness and self-awareness. It's about intentional action and choice, it’s more than just emotion. For me bai, to love deeply, we must set aside our egos and take responsibility for our energy.
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Bai, one of the hardest things about healing is that the version of yourself that you became in order to get through that storm is also somebody you have to let go of. You see bai, the version of yourself that you had to be in order to survive is not the version of yourself that
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One of things I’ve learned in my 30s bai is that not everyone in your life is your friend. Learn how to differentiate colleagues, associates, acquaintances, classmates, neighbors, etc. You just know them but they are all not your friends. Sakto ba bai?
#AlterPH
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“Sometimes the stories are simple, and sometimes they are hard and heartbreaking. But behind all your stories is always your mother's story, because hers is where yours begin.” - For One Mote Day by Mitch Albom
Happy Mothers’ Day to your mothers bai.
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Bai, love is about embracing the experience, regardless of the result. Keep your heart open even if it means you’ll experience heartbreak. The pain of losing love pales in comparison to the pain of never experiencing it at all. Ikaw bai, have you been in love?
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Bai, sunsets are my reminder to never miss the mundane things in life. It has been a sort of escape for me, telling me to pause and appreciate everything in my life: the good, the bad and the unknown. Ikaw bai, do you love sunsets too?
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#AlterCebu
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I think one day I'm not gonna miss you anymore. And you're not gonna miss me too and I think that's bittersweet. But for now, I'll cherish every single moment I miss you. You’ve been an amazing reminder of how much I love myself and I'm so grateful for that.
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#AlterCebu
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Bai, it’s really hard to be an only child to senior parents. In the past 12 years, I’ve seen my partner struggle in choosing between his career and his parents, especially since they live in the province. Ikaw bai, are you an only child and experiencing this?
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Bai, lately I’ve mastered the art of pretending so well that my truth and my pretenses began to blur. Sometimes, when I do a really good job of pretending, I even fool myself. Ikaw bai, how good are you at pretending?
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Bai, in my experience with relationships, always learn to let go of grudges. Deal with issues calmly, stop bringing up the past, and always move forward together. There should be no room for yelling or insults, just open communication. Ikaw bai, any advice?
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Let’s call him Ken, bai. An early 20s guy who I’ve been chatting on and off since 2021. I fell for his cuteness but damn, the immaturity is through the roof. So yes, I’m giving this boy up for my sanity. Have you had this experience with younger guys, bai?
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Dusk is settling as the sun slowly hides behind the majestic Kanlaon Volcano. The smell of burnt sugar cane fields waft through the air as I pedal my way home. The moon is slowly rising in the east, the sky slowly revealing a million twinkling stars. As I turn the corner towards
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Bai, the only story worth telling is your own. Don't get too caught up in how you fit into someone else's narrative. We might strive to be the hero, but more often than not we always end up as the villains in other people’s stories. That's why it's important to prioritize
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Bai, life’s unpredictability is both its charm and its challenge. No matter how hard we try, we can't predict every twist and turn ahead.. That uncertainty, that element of surprise, that's what keeps life thrilling. Every moment is a potential for a fresh start, a new beginning.
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Bai, it’s funny how big a deal we make out of our problems and obstacles; how we think they're immovable or scarier than what they really are. We often think we can't move on or we can't get out of where we are or who we're around because it would take too much. But when we
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I’m at the end of my line at work bai. It’s come to a point now that I don’t care anymore, and this is something major bai, as the past 11 years I have been very dedicated to my job and my team. Have you experience quiet quitting? How did it go for you bai?
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Bai, I always think we will never feel completely ready. Sometimes, we just have to say “fuck it” and follow our gut. Because eventually moving forward means leaving parts of our old life behind. Are you ready to make that leap, bai?
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When I was starting out in the BPO industry, the first company asked me if I want to be a tech support agent instead of the usual customer service rep. I took the challenge and now I am managing a major IT Service Desk account in 2 sites.
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Do you have that one small decision you made in the past that changed the whole trajectory of your life in the present?
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Can you still remember these places bai? For all the OG Cebuano titos here, tell me your fondest memories of these places bai.
#AlterCebu
#CebuTitos
Bricks
Ratsky’s
Habib Nirvana
Pump
Vudu
Formo
Penthouse
Loft
Veranda
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It’s finally the weekend, bai. I rarely eat breakfast but since today’s going to be a long day, let’s start it with a huge bowl of pick-me-upper: rolled oats, greek yogurt, granola, kiwi, bananas and grapes. Kaon ta. Ikaw bai, what’s your agenda today?
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Bai, everyone who comes into your life has a reason. We may not like how they left or exited but still, they had a purpose. So always be grateful bai no matter what.
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I saw a post a few days ago bai about love language. Mao ni, this is one of my love languages: I will buy you all the books you want. Then we’ll read them together and discuss it over coffee or beer. Ikaw bai, what’s your love language?
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Bai, at the end of a long day, when you’re winding down, you’ll realize that even with all your problems, there’s always something to be grateful for. Today for me, it’s a long conversation with a friend. What are you thankful for today bai?
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I miss the pandemic because lock down meant we both had to cook for each other.
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Bai, when you are facing two tough choices, opt for the one that brings short-term pain. Avoiding pain only masks the true balance between them. In the long run bai, the short painful path teaches you patience, and we need a lot of those these days.
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Bai, ngano karon ra ko discover aning Shohei Ohtani? Pisti oi. Hahahaha. Kaila na mo ani niya bai?
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I used to go out this college guy years ago, bai. He was a graduating engineering student in one of the universities here in Cebu while I was enjoying my 20s working as a tech support agent for one of the BPOs in IT Park. It was fun until it wasn’t. So imagine my surprise when I
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Bai, ummmm, this
#DiorVeneracion
person I stumbled upon in IG is making me question my being tonight. Damn. How can a person be so pretty and so handsome all at the same time? Have you encountered this person na bai?
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@chinitohalfcook
@Anderso42036752
If this doesn’t become a series, I will hunt you down and have you tell me all the details. Or maybe just do a podcast? Hahaha.
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Bai, there are people you shouldn’t get involved with, battles you shouldn’t fight and goals you shouldn't pursue. Saying no to the wrong things allows you to say yes to what truly matters. Success is not about being perfect, bai but being brave enough to try.
#AlterPH
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Bai, what’s the best hook-up experience you’ve had? One that really made a lasting impression on you?
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#AlterCebu
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Bai, life can be tough out there. But let’s cut ourselves some slack. It’s natural to wonder about our next move, but don’t get so caught up in the future that you miss the present. Take a breath, soak it all in, and appreciate the journey. Because when you think about it bai,
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@TypicalNoypi
Dia ra man diay imo post bai. Hahaha. Nag samok-samok jud kos post sa lain tao. Hahahha. Tag 150 ra nis among bukid. Pangutana si
@4thEngineer
ay. Hahaha.
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Always jud bai kay a glass of iced cold brew, no sugar, no cream. Ikaw what’s yours?
#AlterPH
#AlterCebu
Do you also have that one specific drink that will make your day better or like slightly okay.
Mine is Tropicana twister Juicy Pulp!
What’s yours?
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@ced_raizel
I would reco A Time To Kill, The Firm and The Client. And while you’re enjoying Grisham’s books, try to check out Robert Ludlum (The Bourne series) and Sidney Sheldon (personal recos are The Sands of Time, Master of the Game, and The Other Side of Midnight).
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@Aprionux
@tepokdion
Took me months to finish A Hundred Years of Solitude! Hahaha. Love in the Time of Cholera is a classic, so seductive and passionate, love how Gabo makes sure you feel the energy of the setting: I fell in love with the Colombian countryside because of Love in the Time of Cholera.
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One of the best movies for me. Go stream it bai.
#AlterPH
#AlterCebu
"Every day I buy a can of pineapple with a sell-by date of May 1. May loves pineapple, & May 1 is my birthday."
Chungking Express (1994)
Director: Wong kar-wai
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Bai, do you like rehashing things like this? I mean if it was traumatic or bad, do you really want to open that can of worms again and pick on the details?
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@tepokdion
That last one is by Gabriel Garcia Marquez, btw.
One of my favorites, not a romance novel but still delivers the feels, is this short story by Ken Liu, The Paper Menagerie. I think you can find copies online if you try to search it.
Enjoy, bai.
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@tepokdion
I want to be so rich when I grow up that I can enjoy a view like this every night. Hahaha.
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So to be perfectly honest, bai, I was not excited by him. I was excited by the idea of sex, the ease of it - I had caught someone, an unclaimed man who was mine to do with as I liked. I admit it - there was a streak of sadism in my lusts. There was the taint of vanity. I
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@tepokdion
- A beautiful love story set in 70s Istabul - The Museum of Innocence by Orhan Pamuk
- A novella about a girl wanting to fall in love set in Beverly Hills - Shopgirl by Steve Martin
- A nonagenarian experiences a night of wild sex with a virgin. - Memories of my Melancholy Whores
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@dasig2024
Ang akoa ra jud goal ever since na part kos management was to promote as many of my people as possible. So far I’ve promoted 4-5 of my people to managers, more than a couple supervisors, 2-3 to global leads and numerous people to level 2 or level 3 support roles. Happy na ko ana
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To continue, bai. He shushed me.
"Shhh," he said, stopping me. "Tug sa balik diha."
For some reason, I obeyed. Although my instinct was to return to myself, to quickly polish off the sex and get on about my business, I decided to relax. I let him manage things, in and out,
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@TypicalNoypi
Mao sad to sa balay sako lolo. Kana daghan sad ug bitin kaayo. Naa gani to one time sad ang helper ni syagit kay naa sud sa iya CR sa haligi. Hahaha.
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@tepokdion
Here’s my suggestions:
- Not entirely a romance novel but beautifully written with WW1 as a backdrop - All The Light We Cannot See by Anthony Doerr
- A coming age novel about a gay writer kn his late 40s - Less by Andrew Greer
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@4thEngineer
@TypicalNoypi
Nakatilaw naman ka ani dba? Barato pa jud compared sa mga sosyal na halo-halo diris Cebu.
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To answer your question bai, no, I did not leave him there alone.
"Relax", he whispered. I didn't answer, because my mouth was full. When he repeated it, I pulled my head up and said, "I'm perfectly relaxed man gud." I would make him come quickly, come myself, and be back in
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@DaddyJuan_X
I actually created a playslist of breakup songs. Hahaha. Here’s what I can I add to yours, bai:
Separate Lives by Stephen Bishop
Hangang Dito Na Lang by TJ Monterde
All I Ask by Adele
Dating Tayo by TJ Monterde
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@TypicalNoypi
@4thEngineer
Only the OG partyhoes ang nakibaw sa Veranda bai. Kay they opened when Vudu closed for their renovation. Walay laing party place that time.
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@dasig2024
Mao sad ni ako gihimo. For the past 2 years, I have been training my people to do my job. This is where good management skills come in jud: you make a really good succession plan and you get to delegate 60%-70% of your tasks so you focus on the major ones.
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@TypicalNoypi
Naa jud ko experience ani sa balay sako lolo. Hahaha. Mid afternoon, me alone watching TV sa sala. Then this huge ass snake was slithering towards my lolo’s room. Hahahaha. Paspasa lagi nako naka gawas.
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@TypicalNoypi
Grabe ka keen observer oi. Hahaha. I had to tighten some big screws. 🫣 So basically I was screwing something.
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@loui3f4undo
Black over-sized cotton tee (U by Uniqlo or Lululemon cotton jersey tee), khaki shorts, black sneakers. All the time.
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@SeeYahSoon2
Yup. Pero overrated pseudo-French slash Italian slash European bistro bai ha. The food’s not that great and a bit on the pricey side but the view almost always makes up for it. Also very cheap wine if you’re into that. Haha.
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@KamenTaigi
Mingaw nako dha da. I basically order the same stuff but I always request for a saucy chilimansi canton. Hahaha.
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@TypicalNoypi
@mrbluerrr
Looks ra bai pero 150 ra na. Lahi ra jud ang presyo sa probinsya oi. Hahaha.
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@ctrlbreaker
@man69_sexiest
Mao unta plano, mutilaw lang gud unta. Hahaha. Pero di kaya oi. Grabe ka immature unya murag graduate ug Assumption College sa pagka overthinker. Gi real talk nako nahilom lagi. Let’s move on.
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@TypicalNoypi
@hornyzapper
@CebuanoTago38
I went thru this before kayo bago pako naka discover sa ako real self. - I dated a college student but I was in my late 20s/early 30s then and he was in his senior year. Pero same thing happened mga bai, the immaturity took over and ruined everything. Nag expect ra guro kaayo ko.
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@TypicalNoypi
It was just purely carnal. Yes we want deeper connections but at the end of the day, we all need to feed this monster of a an urge living inside of us.
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