Rules of engagement:
My inner child wants to be heard
My inner teen wants to be seen
My adult self wants to be felt
And so I should treat others the same way as well... better be aware of those who don't.
#dountoothers
This adventure is nearing it's 1st anniversary. Let me celebrate! The bountiful lesson learned during this short journey... whew!
#theheroshallrest
#moveforward
Fall in love.
That annoying line. Why is the action of love is even falling? Too risky, too dangerous, too childish, danghag, tanga.
Some say to love is to fall, expecting someone will catch your fall... even if that someone is yourself.
#isturyasbaki
#aygcharchardha
@mrnicebai
Regulating emotions is something not taught but helps avoid mental problems and chronic/auto.immume diseases. You can check Dr gabor mate, the body keeps score.
Smell
I opened the bottle and took a sniff.
The memories rushed in.
I cherished and enjoyed as you carefully and thoroughly scrubbed my entire body clean. It was service and erotic as it was my first with a man.
Those simple and intimate moments I keep in my head of you...
I am grateful for this morning
I am grateful waking up energized and healthy for the first time in past 3 months
I am grateful for family
I am grateful for nature
I am grateful for this coffee... freakingly good...
Sawum
Grateful for...
that moment I took a plunge
Making myself one
Into the body of water
Quiet there after
Despite set backs
You accepted me
Despite draw backs
You did not judge
Clear my thoughts
Comfort my heart
I swim, gasawum
I float, anod anod
Carefree
#pabugnawta
@kim_poi_93
Influence... from the heart.
I want to share the next few days with you here sa office kay we be like family dria.
We make it fun by pitching in food and drinks or amot ta para binignit day. Magpaluto ko.
Something less punitive but supportive.
Hawt Hawt Hawt...
It's just so good to humor up this crazy heat like everybody else saving up on air-conditioning and just look for a hook up...
In my head, not a bad idea especially now I need good sleep.
#somanybirdsinonestone
@mrnicebai
Point taken. Lahi mga batan.on ron opinionated sa tanan. Dli ma.translate sa buhat.
But don't change the topic, pila sila kabuok gi.maintain... hahaha push gyud ba.
@alabngdiwa
It's good that you let it all out. More and more cases like this are rising amongst Filipino men. The best way for you to deal with narcissists is to disengage. Natural lng sa kanila na wlang nagyari tapos parang we almost lose it. So yeah you're good.
Chase
brainwashed, dapat work hard and chase the bigger pay or promotion. Na translate sa scam na dating scene. No issues sa work hard but I end up a human DOING... kapoy.
Human BE ing ta daw sulay. Stop chasing, perpetual doing murag slave.
Attract ta and work on self.
757 minutes
The time we only took to bother each other's day.
From the hi, to the goodbye and you being very annoying in between... I miss.
Is it too much to ask if you'd say hi again?
I'm glad you enjoyed those precious minutes as much as I did.
Salamat salamat salamat
@MiStakesWilBmad
You're welcome.
No way! I knew it gave a narci repelling vibe. I had a terrible one last year too. I like how you refer the light in us. I also attribute it to the fact we feel happy when others are getring better. We just have to make sure we are also happy doing it.
@hansxleo
to the inflictor they just feel bad for it to happen to you but the act of cheating itself the cheater actually is happy and not remorseful. So the pain is kinda one sided. I heard it from Esther Perel the expert on infidelity.
@mrnicebai
@TypicalNoypi
Point taken when you said replicated. My take is that most Chinese food at least in cebu are hybrid naman base on available ingredients/ popular taste kay masa as street food. It's never comparable tinuod. Na appreciate lng nako ila commitment na street food level payts na. 😄
@mrnicebai
@TypicalNoypi
Ting init naman lagi ron so they seek cooler places like a quiet house. Usually they dislike vibrations like panilhig sa silhig tukog sa tugkaran or people walking around alot. They go where there is food like rodents or chicken pod. You can ask someone to trap them. Bitagon ba.
@MiStakesWilBmad
100%. Very well informed! For me, hours of Dr ramani video. 😆
I'm working on having good terms of what happened so they won't give me emotional resonance. What helped me is referring them as with deep abandonedment issue so to be more compassionate and forgiving of myself.
@teetohubs
For someone who just started... what's the point of falling in love, putting up the work to keep the relationship afloat when it won't last forever?
17
That is our age gap...
While I was still crazy with Diablo II and Counterstrike... you were just born
Hahaha cringe
Yet you gave me an experience that helped me move on through a phase in my life...
Salamat salamat salamat
#wlapakamoveon
#weirdsoulfulencounters
@mrnicebai
Hayst naa ghapon possibility mang quit na imo gipang succession planning. be kind to yourself. It didn't work for you, you did what you think was best and move on. Naa pa na mas maayo in store for you sa future bai. Trust that what ever you put out there is already given to you.
These meetups, are getting bolder and bolder as the end game nears...
Tsk I'm getting reckless.
Kalma lng gamay kay na.reveal na ra ba ka sa isa ka kaila. Hahaha
#alt3c3b0
Hahaha dli kaya...
Unexpected Guest
Ordinary morning
Mundane routine
You arrived
Unannounced
Annoying a little
Yet welcomed
Quench the thirst
Cool the land
Stand us still
Payong lng
Dalhon nako
#dasigulan
@JD_Quotes2017
Best relationship advice I ever heard:
Ask yourself: Would I stay stay w/this person if they never changed? Could I love them as is?
If the answer is no, walk away. Let them go. Not worth the stress.
Chances are extremely high they won’t change. & most often get worse. 2/
@Batang_Ama88
If the sex is good you don't need it always. But when it happens pwede pa tagay, sturya, nap, hilot etc then tiwas. Usually minimum 3hrs.
Being intimate is rewarding and takes time.
Aw lami ra pod kng paboto ra... hahaha
5am thoughts...
Mc Donald's alona... alone staring at people, some just woke others didn't sleep yet like me...
How this day is different. trying to take actions outside of your norms. Funny and scary but full of lessons.
Liberating?
So often I can read sexually charged tweets soliciting openly for action.
The confidence is amazing
why isn't it acceptable to open about it to the normal society?
The matrix.
Red pill or blue pill.
@Kingggmaxwell
@AngTanongKoSayo
It gets better in time. While it hurts let it be then time it then check how less time you spent being hurt in a day. Progress, trust the process.
@mrnicebai
@TypicalNoypi
Well, I can't stand waiting in line so i might try ones in a while or when the hype settles. Lami ra gd pungko pungko level. Pero wla na lami kng dli init. Good thing they now have tables there.
Trauma Chronicles:
" mangasamad gani mo anang mangidula sa gawas... tiwasan ko gyud na!"
Was my pops reply when we asked permission to go play as what toddlers would natural do.
A simple occurrence but actually has so much impact as an adult...
And here's why...
What now?
I made this account to stalk you... I think I still miss you... miss us... even though there is no us.
Now, you put your account on private and I'm left with just your profile photo no look at.
Missing you is hurting me...
#moveon2024
@gensanmigrant
@MacuNars
@cris115499
And maybe fame also... cguro boosts the excitement of the relationship. Fitting in with these new and vague terms. Maybe make some money with their sexual ventures. Exciting cguro yun kasi uso.
That I have done the best that I could for us.
That I accept that loving you is best for us from afar.
You chose not to help yourself and I made full terms with it.
I have forgiven me, of my limitations and know where to better myself.
I have no regrets.
Thank you love.
@rndmgoodguy
This is like almost every Disney song. Let's take frozen 2 into the unknown... in your comfortable state you hear a voice that becomes powerful. Do you heed? The fear is a question if you are ready to expand and experience life more. If yes then step into the unknown...
Sexual Incompatibility is a major factor in a relationship.
Maybe the creative ability brought about by the sexual energy I can understand.
But the act itself... ok different preferences...
One tough mission for this fellow. Accepting mistakes that's irreversible and now an advocate so that the next generation will be informed and not have the same experience. Mabuhay ka!
@gensanmigrant
@MacuNars
@cris115499
On top of that, many posts on how satisfying the sex life with each other. Inconsistencies ng story only covering up the very basic problem of the relationship.
As I re.entered, a few hours later, the same scent filled the room. I found my self happy and grateful that the nostalgic smell does not bring a painful feeling, a feeling of longingness of you anymore.
This reassured me that I have properly buried our memories together.
@JonathanMelanT
Parang fluid na especially sa mga mid 20's down. Kahit mga babae accepting na din pag swing both ways. Rigodon lng na sayaw tapos masaya na sila lahit. Well it is what it is... may magagawa ba mga nakakatanda? Hahaha
@mrnicebai
If you accept optimism then life starts at 40. Empowers you to embark on a journey you always wanted to try. I did 8 months ago of ups and lots of downs and learned a lot. Jumps starts my 40's journey.
@paduwaa_ko
@PatikanCebu
Nice bai. Para ma set expectations sa mga nibasa, naa pic before imo tiyan aron compare unsa na amount nigamay and how long nmo gbuhat.
@VirgilJuan27053
upgrade your trust. Trust yourself despite being abused you can rise back up because you are caring and loving. Loss for them not having a caring and loving you.
@demoson2017
It could also be a purpose. To wake us up in the morning to be a little bit better each day. Than just mindlessly scrolling in social media.
@JonathanMelanT
Good thing about the feeling is it flows out. Hopefully mas mabilis na malabas sa system mo yung feeling hanggang wla para happy pa din.
@mrnicebai
I simply planned training people to do all my job silently and left. Boss was surprised and though I love my job by doing extra work . Boss told me I'm dispensable so... no hard feelings. 7 years lng naman down the drain.