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Adoption in the United States is so widely perceived as an altruistic social good that I'm not surprised that people are apparently struggling to understand it as oppressive practice.
I see a lot of PhD students trying to find a dissertation topic by trying to first find a gap in the literature. I get why you're doing this, but my best academic writing advice for you is to write about something you deeply deeply care about.
@drlungamam
I never miss an opportunity to say that standardized testing is racist and classist gatekeeping trash. I didn't know about the SAT guy but not shocked.
I'm also a high school dropout (no GED either) with a PhD in case anyone thinks it's necessary to be successful at high school to go on to graduate school.
@raejuhnayyy
I don't think adoption is the best solution in most cases, as it usually about parents who want children rather than children who need homes.. We could first try supporting families in crises so they don't have to decide to give their children to strangers.
Woke up to this tweet doing numbers. 😳 I have nothing to promote except to say to say that I also teach journal article writing workshops for graduate students and early career researchers.
Doing a PhD costs, time, energy, and resources.
What has been a hidden cost of doing a PhD you weren't aware of when you started it?
(Mine was the mental drain it would take, to the point where I didn't have the energy to do basic stuff at home in the evenings)
Hey, friends: I'm working on defining goals for next year. One thing that's come to my attention is that I'm not having enough fun in life. What are you doing for fun (esp. if you're a middle aged adult person) these days?
Thanks for the love and support, y'all. ♥️ Some of my favorite places to donate are independent bookstores, libraries, and local food pantries. Today would be a great day to donate to your favorites!
@CharterVanilla
That's happened to me as well. Bubbly sophomores used to call me on the phone and ask for donations. I'd amaze them with my student debt figure. 😬
I lost my job in Dec 2020 but had zero desire to try to find another one and potentially have to move back to the states. Through my own ingenuity and small biz, I've now been fully self-employed this year and have now made more money than I did last year at paycheck job. 🎉🎉🎉
@Used2BU
@raejuhnayyy
I'm suggesting thinking further upstream. How do we keep families together and supported to prevent children from entering systems in the first place? How can we stop using the state violence of child removal as a solution to other problems? That's where I'm starting from.
What advice to y’all have for students considering multiple grad students offers? What questions should they ask the institutions and those they meet from them to make the most informed decisions?
I forgot to tell you all the most wonderful thing:
After almost four years without, I have institutional library access again.
I have to keep checking JSTOR to make sure it's real.
Some of y'all are really invested in the idea of adoption as individual acts of altruism rather than as a racist and classist system that moves children from families we consider undeserving and towards those that embody our idealized idea of the right kind of families.
If formatting your dissertation is making you cry, I actually do this as a paid service. You send me your chapters and formatting requirements, I send you a PDF to submit.
#AcademicTwitter
I'm seeing a lot of tweets about language requirements for PhDs.
My uni told me that Kaqchikel Maya didn't count as my second language and would only accept Portuguese or another European language to fulfill the language requirement.
I'm still angry about this.
Maybe no one needs to hear this but if you're in your first semester of your PhD program and you feel like you understand nothing anyone is talking about, it's okay.
if you're appalled about the "we will adopt your baby" signs, wait until I tell you about how actual adopted people have to post pictures of themselves on social media with signs about their birth families because the state refuses to release any information to them.
There's a lot of tweets in my timeline about women accomplishing certain things by age 40. I'm 44 this year and am just entering the best and most productive time of my life. So there.
Does anyone else of Gen X remember playing dodgeball in school and have ongoing trauma from having to run to avoid being hit by a hard ball that mean kids would throw at you in the name of physical education.
Hey, if you're trying to figure out how to keep up with THE LITERATURE in your field in a way other than doomscrolling twitter, I have a great tech tip for you!
#AcWri
#AcademicTwitter
🧵A thread:
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Miss me with all of these pseudo gotcha takes about "WELL WHAT'S THE ALTERNATIVE TO ADOPTION?"
I AM LITERALLY BEGGING YOU TO IMAGINE SOMETHING DIFFERENT.
If you're looking for a show to watch in which a diverse group of female actors play capable women in serious leadership roles that's refreshingly free of sexual violence, may I recommend
#TheExpanse
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Many adopted people I know justify searching for their families of origin in terms of only "wanting medical history." Normalize wanting to know your story for no other reason than because it's yours and you deserve to have it.
Just wanted to say that if you're feeling disoriented because your assumptions about adoption as an unqualified social good have been suddenly disrupted, it's normal to feel like the rug has been pulled out from under you. Welcome.
@UjuAnya
My mom went to a grief support group once for the newly widowed and found herself surrounded by elderly male widowers who had started "dating" and moving new women into their houses almost immediately after their wives had died because they didn't want to do laundry. 😬😬😬
It's my birthday, which is complicated. I simultaneously don't want to burden anyone with having to acknowledge my birthday and yet am equally afraid of being forgotten. :/
@kingstonwrites
Yup. Related, via my mom: "Women grieve. Men remarry." We had a long conversation about how this is mostly because men need someone to cook and clean for them. 🙄
My prediction is that study abroad isn't going to be viable for at least the next 2-4 years. I hope we can take that time to make it more equitable and address the racism, classism, and colonialism that shapes it.
The "gap in the literature" is just one way to help identify the importance of your topic, but it's not the only way or even the best way. A PhD is hard enough without writing about what you think you "should" write about rather than writing about what you really care about.
i’ve been thinking a lot on adoption and the ethics of it since my friend recently shared they are adopting through a method i do not think is ok.
and i just wonder, what is the best way to do it? not for the sake of growing one’s own family. but to genuinely help.
Here's an adoption story in the news about a mother who was told the baby died and then illegally adopted, not from 1950 but from *checks notes* two days ago.
@pt
I think some companies tried this before and people were weirdly unhappy with how the companies used this arrangement to control their lives and exploit them? 🤷🏼♀️
@TheStrugglingS4
Retirement savings. You can expect to be approximately a decade (or more) behind your non-PhD peers in retirement savings. I don't hear anyone talking about this nearly enough.
I've seen so many older people struggle with QR code menus, robbing them of dignity when they're just trying to order a meal. HAVE PRINT MENUS AVAILABLE FOR PEOPLE.
Restaurants: I am begging you to PRINT YOUR MENUS. You can still let your "ooo technology" bros have QR codes, but I don't wanna sit there and try to connect to WiFi, try to get it to scan, try to get to load, and sometimes I just wanna be off my phone. So just PRINT UR MENUS!!!!
So here's my big news:
I'm starting a new job as the Resident Director of Central College's Mérida, Yucatán study abroad program. :)
Life is so full of surprises
#withaphd
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I can't say enough great things about
@WendyLBelcher
's amazing workbook on getting your journal article written, revised, and published. It's at U of Chicago Press for 30 percent off with discount code: 12WEEKS30 for print and EBOOK30 for the ebook
Maybe we can imagine, for example, not using state violence against families and child removal as a substitute for a non existent social safety net, for starters.
I always feel weird about today because it's my birthday (which I no longer celebrate because my feelings about it are COMPLICATED) but if we've connected here or you've appreciated something I've said on this garbage platform, maybe you could say hi to me today?
Back when I used to apply for academic jobs, I couldn't believe how many search committees ghosted me. I get that the sheer number of candidates makes sending rejection emails time consuming, but candidates spent MONTHS but together applications. An email is the least one can do
Apologies for QTing myself but I wish I'd thought more about the retirement implications of devoting a decade of my life to not saving for retirement while doing my PhD.
@TheStrugglingS4
Retirement savings. You can expect to be approximately a decade (or more) behind your non-PhD peers in retirement savings. I don't hear anyone talking about this nearly enough.
I have a job interview this week and it's because it's the second time that someone in my network has unexpectedly sent me a job description that's a total bullseye for my particular skill set.
Networking is frustratingly slow but sometimes incredibly accurate.
@CharlesFinch
It's a solid interview strategy, but if that's not enough, try denying sexual assault allegations and telling the interviewers you went to Yale. Works every time.
Feels like this has been largely overlooked, but Alito's draft Supreme Court opinion on abortion uses the phrase "domestic supply of infants." It's real, on page 34. DOMESTIC SUPPLY OF INFANTS.
I got my first library card when I was six. I was then, and still am now, overcome by awe every time I walk into a library: "OH MY GOD I CAN READ ALL THESE BOOKS FOR FREE?"
Someone blocked me today for saying this, so allow me to tell you that my "anti adoption" tweets are a structural critique of racist and classist systems that unmake certain types of families in order to remake more socially desirable ones send tweet
Abortion and adoption have very little to do with each other but I'm over here screaming into the void about adoption politics because I want people to understand how utterly inappropriate it is to suggest adoption as a "solution" (as if one were needed) to abortion.
My dad helped me with my last big move when I rented a U-Haul. I sent him the truck measurements and the dimensions of all of my furniture and he made a 2-D model of where everything would go and packed the truck with absolute precision.
I'm massively stabby over the idea that social isolation is going to lead to writing productivity. If you're feeling alone and scared and ashamed that you're not using this time to write, I'm holding you in virtual and COVID approved ways. It's okay. ♥️
The last time I went to an academic conference, I had no institutional affiliation, so wrote my Twitter handle on my name badge with a sharpie.
I have to say that the palpable confusion ("Uh, so...where are you?" "Here. Right here.") was glorious.
Found out recently that some distant family are considering adoption but aren't sure because "you can't be sure what you'll get" and I'll be over here screaming into the void if anyone needs me.
Just came across a suggested COVID schedule for kids who are home from school and quite frankly adults would do well to divide their time into academic time, creative time, quiet time, chore time, lunch, and afternoon walk time.
I'm operating on the assumption that talking to my unconscious and dying father is meaningful and important. I told him everything I remembered about when we climbed Mt. Bierstadt together in August and summited in a blizzard. One of so many adventures with my dad. ❤️