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if you're not ready to consider my feelings in almost everything you do, it won’t work for me. because i’m very considerate, i never want the person i love to feel like i dont & i never want to love someone and not feel loved. consideration is up there with loyalty if you ask me.

People be REALLY mad at me cause I’m not an easy person to fool, get over on, and manipulate. People be trying to get me to do what they want, be somebody I’m not, and be naive enough to control and have their way with me. Ain’t happening!!

You need to know how to hold the tension after checking someone who disrespects you. it does not matter where you are. People should sense you're not going to be made to feel uncomfortable alone –– the whole room has to feel it with you.

Men ask why their wife is disrespectful while reacting to every feeling she shares like it is an attack. You cannot explode at her emotions and then be shocked when she stops seeing you as safe. I have never seen a calm, grounded man with a chronically chaotic wife. Her

Peak female experiences: 1. Realizing your value has nothing to do with male attention 2. Learning to say “no” without explanation 3. De-centering men 4. Outgrowing the need for anyone’s approval 6. Prioritizing your peace over people pleasing 7. Loving yourself

undiagnosed autistic woman who thinks her desire to be a stay-at-home wife comes from her tradwife beliefs rather than her need for autism accommodations, as if it’s normal to want to spend all day doing ritualistic tasks like cleaning/knitting and only socializing by appointment

a mf will do you so dirty and then play victim cause you set a boundary

you cannot be in a relationship if you don't like rules. Kindly stay single nd have your freedom to do what you want. In a relationship, you have to constantly communicate, constantly share, constantly account for your actions and constantly apologize when you are wrong!

Men love saying "communication is important" until a woman actually communicates something they don't want to hear.

pulling your energy back from something and watching it lose its light is an interesting experience.

Nobody can ever gaslight me into thinking I’m a bad person. I have my ways and my days, but I’m solid, and my love is real and genuine every step of the way.

ngl nobody gets played more than an understanding girlfriend 😂

People who can't communicate think everything is an argument. And people who lack accountability think everything is an attack.

Men say they want a peaceful woman, but she WAS peaceful before you started stressing her out and disrespecting her.

Hot take: Men who lie about small things will lie about big things too.

I think every woman hits that season where she’s not angry anymore, just aware. You see people clearly. You move differently. You don’t explain.. you just shift. That’s maturity mixed with grace.

Some men think they're good partners just because they don't CHEAT. But they fail to realize they're inconsiderate, emotionally unavailable, insecure, lack communication skills, and make no real EFFORT to make the relationship work.

Never underestimate a man’s ability to pretend.

from now on, everybody will start off as my enemy and have to work their way onto my good side. it’s just easier logistically

accountability is so important, ain’t no way you about to convince me that my reaction to your actions is the problem