@DrJMcLemore
I am not a therapist nor do I play one on the Internet. I do not center men on this account. I center Black women and girls ONLY. For obvious reasons. My advocacy is reserved for us. Thank you for your time and consideration.
A few months ago, an organization @ Harvard University reached out & asked me to speak on a panel for them. They said there was no honorarium. I told them "I cannot afford to take off of my job as a Headstart Teacher to come and do free work for Harvard Univerity."
I tried to do a split this morning in the classroom with the kids. I got halfway down and one of the little boys said "That's enough Miss Shawn." And he was right.
I found an amazing job opportunity for me. I applied, got an interview and shined like the star I am. It's 3 miles from my house, field work w/ infants, toddlers, pregnant moms. Great benefits. The pay is horrendous. Bottom of the barrel. I've been crying all afternoon.
You see how that cop got physical with the Black woman for taking but didn't do a damn thing to the yt lady that got physical with him while defending her? That's what's needed. If you aren't willing to do THAT, lay off the "ally" talk. Pls.
They really thought I gave a damn about Harvard University. I definitely pointed out that Harvard has a history of exploiting the work of Black women but I was their opportunity to stop that. They didn't take that opportunity.
My coworker said Beyonce is"overrated." After I reported her to HR for creating a hostile work environment, I waited for her after work and cussed her out in the parking lot.
My littlest grandson, Jeremiah just left after being with me since Wednesday. He's 18mos old & he might be 18yrs old before he drops his spennanite bag in my door again BECAUSE WHAT THE EFF.
My professor just said babies can recognize intonation & pitch in voices and angry, hard voices increases the heart rate. STRESS.
STOP ALL THAT HOLLERING AND ARGUING OVER TOP THEM BABIES' HEADS!!
They quickly apologized and asked me if there was anything they could do for me. I said "Ask someone if I can take a class in Early Childhood Education at your school for the summer semester." I never heard from them again.
I'm a long time supporter of divorce. Leave these men that don't spark joy. If he's a liability instead of an asset, cut him loose and reclaim your life. I don't care if you're 28 or 68. LEAVE HIM AND BE HAPPY.
That would require humanizing children and respecting their personhood and there way too many parents invested in ownership & controlling their kids as a way validate themselves.
19 year-old Lyniah Bell shot and killed on the city’s far south side. Bell was home on break from Michigan State University when family say her boyfriend beat her up then pulled out a gun and shot her in the head.
@ABC7Chicago
If Black women aren't funny, somebody explain to me how all these Black male comedians are procuring HELLA BAGS by putting on a myriad of wigs & imitating us?
I've only seen ONE person mention it but Joe Exotic and that Fake Doc are SEXUAL PREDATORS. Besides all the big cat fuckery, those motherfuckers were snatching youngin's up and grooming the shit outta them.
I just want something wonderful to happen for me, professionally. I feel like I'm always settling or something is holding me back. Maybe I'm not enough. IDK. I hate feeling like this.
I just chose the wrong profession or something. I don't want to be rich. I just want to live comfortably with my husband and my fur children. I would like to do that while supporting children and families professionally. It seems impossible.
@CTuckerNews
@amazon
@nbcwashington
This is my HS Alma mater. These kids are nowhere NEAR rich. They live in a racially segregated city where gentrification is eating their neighborhoods alive. They see ppl who look like Bezos get preference over ppl who look like them every day. They don't GAF about him & it's ok.
He climbs out of the crib & eats as much as a teenager. I didn't have a meal, nap, or trip to the bathroom by myself. He introduced himself to my Friday night class via tantrum.
@emmeneeez
Because we wanna be. Back when you couldn't use the internet without your parents' permission we were on here building this platform up to be what y'all enjoy now. Say thank you.
Remember when I told y'all about how so many parents' egos are caught up in their perceived ownership of their children? That's why this discussion pops up every few months. They don't see their children as fully actualized human beings.
I saw the negative comments made by that Black man & white woman about Blue Ivy's physical appearance. I would love it if any & every Black woman on here that gives a damn about little Black girls changed their avi to childhood photo of themselves. I'll do it.
I teach two-year olds. When that boy joined my class 6wks ago, he refused to talk. Now he has nothing but sass & endless shade for me. I guess my methods are working. 😂
Coronavirus disease is absolutely horrible. HORRIBLE. I have never been so sick in my 47yrs alive. Please, whatever the scientists & doctors say to do to keep yourself safe, do that AND MORE.
Never, ever date a stingy man. The man who will nickel & dime you about a date will be the husband that nickel & dimes you about the house you live in, where to send your kids to school & what washer & dryer set to get. Don't set yourself up for that.
Our family matriarch passed away last night at the age of 101. She never had any children & only got married once. When he died, she swore off men. Lived a long and comfortable life after that. I loved that old lady. She was the 1st Bad Ass Black Woman I ever knew. Aunt Maybelle.
This is bullshit.
No teacher in the history of teachers at ANY LEVEL has ever been paid enough to justify going to these lengths. Doesn't warm my heart at all.
I caught my husband looking at my feet. He looked up at, cleared his throat and said "One of my goals for 2019 is to afford to give you a regular allowance for that."
The humbling of marriage continues.
One thing the
#BussItChallenge
has reaffirmed for me is that men really, REALLY love the fake hair, nails, makeup and skimpy clothes they're always maligning women for wearing. They love that shit more than we do. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I want to provide a service for women wherein I investigate the men they're thinking about dating for a fee. Full vetting. The fee would subsidize the service for poor women who need it. I'll call it "Not All Men."
When i push back on mistreatment and they say "You're being too sensitive" all I hear is "I don't understand why you won't let me abuse you in peace" and then I gotta dead the shit. Bye.
One sweet day, parents will realize that our children don't belong to is. They belong to a time we will not see. It is our divine responsibility to prepare them for that. Humble yourselves.
Dear
@jadapsmith
: I created the hashtag
#BlackGirlsAreMagic
which sparked the
#BlackGirlMagic
movement. Ive bee lauded for years for contributing to Black Girl Culture & giving so many of us language to celebrate ourselves. I want to be a guest on Red Table Talk. Pls & thank you
I see "Auntie" as an honorific in Black culture. It is earned and deeply respected. It invokes wisdom & maturity. Just about all of y'all call me Auntie & I'm fine with it.
@yjhowler
I told them that they're coming to a cookout at my house next Saturday. One of them said "But that is NEXT Saturday. What about today?" CTFU!!!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Say a prayer for my littlest grandson, Jeremiah. He just tested positive for COVID. He's only 14 months old. He's home resting with his Mommy and asking God for a full recovery for him.
So I'm listening to this book about white women's role in American Chattel Slavery. They were a lot more powerful than ppl know. There was a quote in the introductory chapter that almost made me crash the car this morning:
@KevOnStage
Not at church, but in the sanctuary of a funeral home: When my Grandma passed last Spring, some man came in and started giving a speech for her. All of us were puzzled. Turns out he was at the wrong funeral. My sister had to stop him & show him the door.