@summeraugust17
@THISisLULE
Why is she the one whose morality is being put under scrutiny? Why is she being blackmail with the well-being of the child?
I'm not seeing a lot of conversation about the 2 people actually responsible for the situation.
@MphoMoalamedi
"I don't owe the wife anything. She must deal with her husband."
So why aren't you dealing with him now?
It's crazy how some will still take advice from people who reason like this. 🤦🏽
@AluChokoe
It's funny. On social media, almost every white South African claims this happened before they were born.
Yet when I walk outside, I see so many who were born before and during. 🤔
@PapaaMama_Bona
@BoipeloxM
Are you saying you've been repeatedly buying them from 2011 until now?
Like, in 13 years, you haven't thought something else needs to change? 🤔
@naledimashishi
Sadly, most people only use stats to win arguments. Not to understand reality.
They only start looking for context when the reported stats don't align with whatever narrative they're fighting for.
@KhayaMaloney
This will sound hokey, but relationships can be like chemical reactions.
Your combination with some was just right to propel you on your way up.
Then you decide to fuck with the recipe. 😔
@soulfulsirenbby
@saxmanyabisa
If it's a prerequisite condition, then it's a transaction.
Your (friend's 🤭) relationship with parents, siblings, children, and friends probably wouldn't end because of lack of payment.
So if this other would......👀
@1OusmaneSembene
It's unfortunate that we remember these questions when our favourites seem under attack.
We should someday have a discussion about the deeds and misdeeds of all political leaders.
All of them.
@mathabommotaung
Guys, kanti what is lobola?
When did it become an auction?
When did we discard the ceremonial function of the actual livestock?
Ay, asiyeke once.
@ahbiola
Busy playing chicken in relationships.
Always on guard not to give more than the other person.
Then, get surprised when relationships always fail. 😤
@liwetweets
Funny how it's always "society" that's at fault.
When they wanted to do this, they said it was this oppressive society that was preventing it.
Now it's society's fault that they're doing it.
@Tina_Hokwana
Interesting that the court can deem him a danger to society at this early stage.
Doesn't that mean the court has taken a view on his guilt, and the trial is merely a formality?
@m_elnaiem
After this, I'm certain you'll be hard pressed to find anyone who admits to have supported it.
There will be declarations of "lessons learned" and "never again."
Then, like clockwork, it will happen again.
@k9_reaper
They are outnumbered and outgunned. It makes sense to retreat and call for backup.
What we might question is the response time of the backup or if it arrived.
@IsmailAbramjee
If your assessment is accurate, then it ought to be a cause for great concern.
A judge's role is meant to be interpreting the law, not engaging in strategy against either of the parties.