Then imagine, after all this evil, your ex wife is still dating his son & having MB over to the home where your 12 yo daughter lives but the public rips you to shreds for daring to raise concerns about your ex's relationship with him.
#IHOPKC
1. hey
#ihopkc
- imagine as a husband, having your wife spend hours alone with Mike Bickle daily. for YEARS. imagine her deleting email correspondence between them. imagine being gaslit, diminished, and told you were being “controlling” when expressing discomfort
Everyone who has ever been in a video on YT or SM is now a documentary film star according to Gen. Fuller. Notice how the truth is being spun to appear nefarious. You don't need to be highly skilled in logical reasoning to see the fallacies here. Just open your eyes.
#IHOPKC
Today is a sad day for me. From the very beginning of this crisis, I have been working towards a peaceful solution to an agreed-upon, third-party investigation.
Major General (Ret.) Kurt Fuller’s video last night was a new low-point in this heartbreaking situation. Kurt’s
@jessie_thinker
@DarrenHibbs
I can personally confirm the leave the garage door open and then close it once I pull in so no one sees me at your house routine. That was MBs M.O.
@EricVolz
So basically the statement from the not-victims was part of a coordinated legal strategy to discredit the AG and all Does? This isn’t the flex you think it is.
11 / Selective quoting re: “Fearless 5”
Beyond this, the credibility of the woman’s ex is even questioned in the report. But he’s never contacted for comment. And no word about the woman’s credibility (despite Shiloah Bickle’s public comments)
Again, egregious omission.
100% straight propaganda/DARVO.
@EricVolz
provide a statistically meaningful sample of people actually asking this. One Q people are ACTUALLY asking is why
#IHOPKC
keeps doubling down on covering up
#MikeBickle
's horrific and pervasive sexual & spiritual abuse.
This seems like the churchy version of when a woman says something in a meeting and everyone ignores her but then a man says it and suddenly it's a conversation. Elizabeth has been blowing this whistle for years, and I'm so grateful for her!
@blaiseforet
Honestly, I think he did this with a lot of people- not just young ladies. His thing was "well if people see me at your house they'll be jealous and then I'll have to go to everyone's house" which sounded reasonable. But, the fact is that sneaking around was his practice...
@EricVolz
It may be unusual to publish a legal engagement agreement b/c there's an expectation of confidentiality. But if you are relinquishing all control, waiving privilege and desire for they be free to investigate w/o bias, then this is an overdue natural first step.
He was 25 and she was 14 and the pedophilia apologists, I mean evangelical Christians, are already defending him. Lord have mercy on your church. We’re gonna need it.
In the military, one is expected to blindly follow one's superiors b/c in the midst of war, questioning could cost lives and battles. If a General issues a command, those under his authority must comply & keep reservations to themselves. 1/2
#IHOPKC
I know my father
@allenshood
. He is not a perfect man, but he is a good man. I have seen him at his best, and as all children do, I have seen him at his worst. He’s a sinner being saved by grace.
But my father is not a liar. In 28 years of being his son, I have NEVER witnessed
Despite "NUMEROUS" interviews, McNamara failed to even reach out to a primary person that contributed to the AG doc. But spent paragraphs on & directly quoted his ex-wife and her dad. If the ex claims NOT to be a JD with no info on the scope, why give her so much attention? 🤔
10 / Selective quoting re: “Fearless 5”
Guess who McNamara never contacted for comment? The woman’s ex-husband who brought the allegations in the first place.
Pretty egregious omission.
I am not sure how I have the power to deconstruct the faith of someone I've never even seen on X before, let alone met. If you're struggling in your faith because people are exposing the evil of a person or org you have put on a pedestal, I propose it is your problem not theirs.
IHOP-KC video megathread 🧵.
1/12.
On Oct. 1st, 2021, the ELT led a private but staff-wide “family” meeting.
Unbeknownst to most of the community, Mike Bickle’s son Luke Bickle (and almost certainly Mike himself) were in illicit sexual relationships. Luke Bickle, was having
@EricVolz
Eric, how does this work towards uncovering the truth about MB's abusive and manipulative activities spanning decades? And who at IHOPKC is behind this account - set up merely a month ago that has hundreds of fake/purchased bot followers?
Some bible thumpers need to start reading their bibles, and they can start with Eph. 5:11. The Lord does call us to discern evil from good and to call out evil. Yes, there may be a proper time and place but the time in this situation has long passed.
#ihopkc
The 'just forgive' theme from
#IHOPKC
& the MB trolls is theologically unsound & an abomination of the Lord's will here. HE instigates exposure in His timing, out of His kindness. The enemy keeps sin & abuse hidden in darkness so it continues. Whose will are you lining up with?
MERCY vs ACCOUNTABILITY?
Two sides of the
#ihopkc
scandal.
Some say forgive, show mercy, “it’s all under the blood”
Others say, look at the carnage. We must have accountability. Here’s some thoughts pulled from a pastor’s blog post that may help 1/
Not Gossip or Conjecture: Major newspapers have rigorous fact-checking processes in place to ensure the accuracy and reliability of the stories they publish. Fact-checking is a fundamental part of the journalistic process, especially in reputable news organizations.
A General is absolutely unaccustomed to being questioned. He is not expected to be skilled in diplomacy. He is certainly not expected to be trauma-informed. The choice of a General to lead in this context tells you a lot about how
#IHOPKC
is approaching this situation. 2/2
God created the brain to respond to trauma in ways that seem irrational but are self protection. If He did that in His infinite wisdom, perhaps it's time for the church to catch up with the world on the mind & mental health issues. How else can we be a source of true healing?
@LucaBrasi_
@ihopkc
Here is a brief definition of Trauma Bonding on the
@MisconductAbuse
website.
Nothing was stopping the godly leaders of
@IHOPKC
from either learning about this or developing their own wisdom tradition from careful observation about this phenomenon.
@TheYouNoWhos
Two families destroyed. Both Luke and her marriages ended in divorce. She was called out as a liar by Luke's daughters on social media. She is still involved with the Bickles. Can you think of any reasons she'd be putting these statements out?
"moral ambiguities and process ambiguities and Matt 18 doubletalk and the way evidence wasn't considered evidence" - on Luke in affair with wife of staff that MB previously had years of inappropriate behavior with & then MB covers the affair up.
#IHOPKC
@skooziest
@HLA394760838
@ACInvestigator
@allenshood
@bozlawpa
The fact that when asked to share the engagement agreement by Boz, the lawyer had to check with her client implies that she’s not fully independent and that
#IHOPKC
does have control. When does a person you have no control over have to ask you for permission to act?
@CourtneySt89976
@blaiseforet
That is the issue. There's all this really troubling behavior confidentially provided to the ELT b/c it is inconsistent with pastor behavior and IHOP has turned it around as "how dare you call these women victims, that is abuse" in an effort to discredit and avoid the truth.
@starcazm
I wasn’t a victim until someone suggested I was a victim which made me a victim except the fact that I wasn’t a victim means there are no victims except for me.
"[A “Betrayal of Trust”] rubric requires full trust without knowing details or transparency. I could not give that ... because it was abused by the founder of IHOPKC. Healthy relationships are built on trust, not blind faith. If trust is broken, it has to be mended before given."
Here is the beginning of my personal story. I've been on staff and a leader at
#ihopkc
for many years. I felt that it was important for those that I know to hear some of my thoughts.
#ihopkc
#MikeBickle
@abele_amy95291
She didn't even reach out to one ex-husband. Didn't even give him the opportunity to refuse to talk to her. So that says something about how thorough she was trying to be in finding truth.
🧵Hey
#ihopkc
- let’s talk about clergy s*xual abuse.
1. What is it?
Clergy s*xual abuse occurs when a member of clergy uses his or her position and power to exploit, harm and sexually abuse a member of their congregation.
@IdlemanShane
@Joel7Richardson
Ms. McNamara literally didn’t even reach out to interview a primary person whose allegations about MB are in the AG doc, but presented his ex-wife’s “not a JD” claims as credible. She’s made claims before where they both testified & a judge dismissed her case as not credible.
@Joannathelee
He was so abusive he respected her privacy and didn't read the many emails a day that MB sent her and asked her to delete. And so controlling he allowed her to spend hours alone with MB behind closed doors nearly every day for years.
It is 100% natural to struggle with the fallout of this disaster bc it is an abomination. Those speaking out have wept and wrestled over it and take no delight in it. But to keep the evil hidden so people don't have to confront their beliefs would be the real damage.
@EricVolz
@bozlawpa
He has been praying for truth and justice for traumatized victims of decades of clergy sexual abuse and spiritual manipulation. Not for you to throw him a bone.
@ihopkc
@YouTube
Does the scope of the engagement specify that Lathrop is a neutral investigator not in an attorney-client relationship with IHOP and conflicted out of one for the future? Will IHOPKC commit to release the full report, not just "A" report?
"moral ambiguities and process ambiguities and Matt 18 doubletalk and the way evidence wasn't considered evidence" - on Luke in affair with wife of staff that MB previously had years of inappropriate behavior with & then MB covers the affair up.
#IHOPKC
@CourtneySt89976
@blaiseforet
100% And that he felt very entitled to special treatment and felt he should not have to have accountability for his decisions and couldn't just set healthy boundaries but resorted to sneaking around.
@rachaelannsteel
@EricVolz
All I know is he’s admitting that he posted a tweet carefully and precisely worded to knowingly mislead most of its readers while sending a hidden message to one or a few parties and now is complaining people did in fact interpret it as expected.
@ihopkc
Why is a law firm not the best option for both parties when there are allegations of clergy sexual abuse? According to the ABA's Rules of Professional Responsibility, Lawyers are not allowed to represent both parties if there is an inherent conflict.
@SolarChildX1
@bozlawpa
No, an attorney hired to act in capacity as an attorney has a duty to their client and takes instruction from their client. You can lose your license if you don't fulfill those duties, at least an employee can get another job. The attorney would have to get a new profession.
@abele_amy95291
@alterofinquiry
Was having this conversation as an attorney with another attorney last night- we agree this wouldn’t have gotten a passing grade in law school. I’m shocked she’d put her professional reputation on the line like this.
@EricVolz
Are you stating that you believe testimony is not evidence? 🤔 There's no shifting of burdens of proof outside of a legal proceeding. No Fed. Rules of Social Media Procedure. & NO evidence has been released to debunk JD's allegations, only a fauxpology threats and gaslighting.
@matthewb252
@_epictweetus_
@benpanders0n
@ihopkc
Please note, they brought in GRACE to investigate Brad Tebbutt and didn't like the results, refused to release the report and didn't follow any of the recommendations. It is not surprising now that they refuse to involve a similar organization altogether.
@Sam32593736
@ihopkc
It’s possible he loaned his car sometimes but I’ve been there when he drove over for a visit and required us to have the door open and space for him. And it was explained to me that was his regular requirement when visiting. So loaning definitely doesn’t explain all instances.
@natehagerty
@Joannathelee
Also, punched a wall WHEN SHE WASN'T IN THE HOME. The man punched a wall in response to his wife having improper relations with his boss. Most men... well let's just say most would've solved the MB problem.
Some bible thumpers need to start reading their bibles, and they can start with Eph. 5:11. The Lord does call us to discern evil from good and to call out evil. Yes, there may be a proper time and place but the time in this situation has long passed.
#ihopkc
@BrumbackMike5
@blaiseforet
If she wanted to have a nationwide platform, then why has she done her best to stay anonymous? (Unlike the women claiming not to be Does who keep making public statements and starting social media accounts).
@Joannathelee
@ChandiHeenan
Oh Joanna. All these good people asking for truth & justice are aware of their own sin and need for a savior. They just want their daughters and sisters and wives and mothers to not be the victim of a predator who has been idolized from a pulpit for decades.
@JenniferVerdery
@EricVolz
IHOPKC has referred to them as a 3rd party investigator which implies they are an organization like GRACE, but that is a purposeful mischaracterization. It's a national law firm, bound to serve its clients. Not the neutral 3rd party that the advocacy group has been asking for.
@ChandiHeenan
@Joannathelee
A married person at church is effing the pastor's son (also married) & you think it's weird that the pastor would be asked to ... PASTOR? That says a lot about you and very little about this situation. Don't say this is about women, that's an insult to true victims out there.
@jessie_thinker
@abele_amy95291
It's such a joke. "Lying" as a lawyer if it's in defense of your client, well that's arguably part of the job 😆 But the bias demonstrated here should seriously call into question whether she was operating as an independent investigator or a lawyer.
@LucaBrasi_
@PeterParker2176
@benpanders0n
@TheTruthWins247
Would love to see what you would do if your wife was spending time alone with your boss every day behind closed doors, spending more than you could afford, while he sent her emails all day that you never saw. It would be pretty abnormal for a spouse not to object in that scenario
@EricVolz
You say we need an independent 3rd party investigation but an independent 3rd party investigator has not been engaged, a defense attorney has. When you commit to working with a true independent 3rd party, the advocate group will feel safe to cooperate.
@cstick232
@WillCab8
I know that others searched for records of her being licensed to practice therapy in the state and couldn’t find any record with her name(s). Licensed professionals can be searched in public records.
@matthewb252
@_epictweetus_
@benpanders0n
@ihopkc
Yes, there are organizations founded exactly for this sort of purpose. To come in as neutral 3rd parties, investigate, assess truth and then put forward their recommendations on moving forward. IHOP has privately stated they will not use such an organization.
@Joannathelee
You can have mercy, forgiveness, kindness and still hold sexual predators accountable + stop them from victimizing others. Jesus is a jealous bridegroom and will not stand by and watch his bride be sexually & emotionally abused by those that are supposed to be tending the flock.
@matthewb252
@_epictweetus_
@benpanders0n
@ihopkc
IHOPKC wouldn't agree to that b/c that attorney would have a duty to its client. Lawyers are not neutral but adversarial and cannot represent the interests of both parties. A neutral 3rd party would NOT be ANY law firm but an organization with a mission similar to GRACE.
@et48443
@matthewb252
@dmoney19028
@reachjulieroys
@ihopkc
It’s possible for someone to be groomed and not recognize they’re being groomed and therefore not believe themselves to be a victim. There are those that have been groomed that are even right now protecting him.
@louispjohnson
One of the stories the AG has been talking about, in the document a little and in their recent videos is the story of my family. I’ve walked through hell for years and personally witnessed things I can’t un-experience no matter how much DARVO IHOP and its trolls employ.