having your “firsts” in your 20s is nothing to be ashamed of. first kiss, first date, first partner, first time having sex, etc. it’s actually very normal to experience those things for the first time in your 20s. there’s nothing to be ashamed of!! it’s more common than you think
men are like “so I know I created this whole painful situation for you, & really hurt your feelings but i’m actually also hurt by the situation I caused, & we should discuss that instead, while simultaneously putting the blame on you”
I really dislike the “your negative thoughts manifest” idea, because it makes people feel unsafe in their own mind. in my opinion, that’s a really horrible thing to do to someone. you’re safe to think freely, no matter how positive or negative those thoughts are. you are safe.
I actually can’t ever imagine hurting people the way they’ve hurt me. I have such a hard time understanding & grasping how it happened or why it happened, because I simply would never do that to someone else. it’s hard to accept that some people are just cruel.
small observation but, when someone has libra and cancer in their big 3, i’ve noticed they’re very gentle and angelic people. like they genuinely have a pure heart & wish the best for others
it’s really heartbreaking to see that so many people beat themselves up, or feel ashamed for not having experienced certain things yet. especially feeling ashamed for not having experienced it as a *child*.
there’s nothing wrong with waiting, or even just not having done it yet
i’ve noticed a lot of people with abandonment wounds, grow up feeling like they need people to need them. when you’re constantly abandoned, it feels like no one wants or needs you around. I think it turns people into people pleasers
I hope all the women who carry more masculine energy due to trauma, heal in 2022 & learn how to embrace their feminine energy. maintain a balance between the masculine & feminine energies within you. don’t chase, don’t over give — it’s time to *receive*… the love you deserve
some people start doing these things earlier as children because either 1- they were ready or 2- also felt the pressure to get it out of the way.
experiencing these things for the first time, beyond your teen years, is 100% normal. you’re ready when you’re ready, there’s no rush
filming ppl without consent and then allowing hundreds of thousands of people to make fun of them is actually insane. especially if they’re not doing anything wrong… just existing. I can’t imagine how that must feel
maybe you think about them 24/7 because they traumatized & hurt you, not because your intuition is sensing that they’re coming back. maybe your brain has been slightly rewired, because you’ve been non stop thinking about & obsessing over them due to your anxious attachment style.
- please remember to be kind when responding to this thread. a lot of people have also had their “firsts” taken from them, & have decided to, or need to, wait to experience them in their own time — which may be well into their adult life. being kind goes a long way.
aries, leo, sagittarius ❄️
I see you becoming at peace with uncomfortable situations from this last year. you’re ready to walk into a new year, and create a new story for yourself. karma will be served, don’t spend time worrying about that. you’re on a new path now! embrace it.
pisces, cancer & scorpio ❄️
you’ve been over-giving your energy for a long time. it’s time to receive. for the rest of december I see you focusing on self care, & on what you value in life. giving more to yourself is what will make you feel liberated at this time.
I’d like to talk about how sometimes some people are obsessed with tarot/spirituality bc they use it as a compulsion to soothe their anxiety & it “helps” them feel more in control of their reality, since they feel they’re getting the answers/explanations to their anxious thoughts
does anyone else feel like because of childhood trauma, that you could’ve been a different person but, it altered you before you even had a chance to decide who you wanted to be
ignoring an aquarius placement to get a reaction out of them is literally just setting yourself up for failure. they don’t care & they will move on like you never existed
I think aquarius placements don’t restrict their emotions, they just have emotional control, which a lot of people don’t have. so in turn, they get labeled as emotionless or cold
watching aquarius placements realize they play a huge part in their own problems is always interesting. they’re one of the most stubborn signs in the zodiac imo
it’s actually kind of crazy how there are people who can’t comprehend that you’re unfazed by their insults & critiques because you have like, a shred of self awareness
gemini, libra, aquarius ❄️
you’re tired of the mind games & just want honesty. I see someone coming to you, being very honest about their true feelings for you. there will be no more guessing whether they’re into you or not. clarity only. spoiler! they want you all to themselves
healing is not something you are meant to do fully on your own. there are parts of it that will need to be done alone, but not the entire journey. you will have connections & environments that naturally heal you. you will have people who will go out of their way to remind you
let’s cut the false narrative. aquarius doesn’t move on fast. they can’t stop thinking about it, and it consumes their mind. they just don’t talk about it. let’s be real please
I feel like air moons (gemini, libra, aquarius) are constantly having their emotions not taken seriously, simply because they aren’t sobbing in front of everyone, being a blubbering mess. just because they express emotions differently doesn’t mean they don’t have them
do any other sagittarius placements find that a lot of people try to ruin things that you’re excited about, looking forward too or just in general make you happy? i’ve noticed people try to shut down/ruin sagittarius placements excitement & future plans
spirituality can become very isolating for some people. especially people who deal with anxiety or paranoia. we constantly see posts about “your friend is sending you evil eye”, “don’t tell people your plans, they don’t want to see you succeed”. remember that what’s meant for you
people call aquarius placements closed off, when in reality, they’re tired of opening up and being misunderstood. when someone understands them, they’re an open book
pisces, cancer, scorpio ❄️
your dream partner is on their way. any manifestations you’ve been making for your love life over the last 6-8 months, are coming in over the next two months. this person seems to make you feel very safe & accepted. try to let your guard down a bit.
i’m always amazed when scorpio and aquarius placements end up together, but then I remember aquarius placements secretly love when someone’s obsessed with them
wanting better for yourself is a good sign that you’re headed in the right direction. acknowledging that the things you’ve been through, weren’t fair, is a good sign. be gentle with yourself & take the time you need to take action towards bettering yourself. there is no rush.