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@therealjayber
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People think I'm lying when I say I have a high body count (250+). And people also think I'm lying when I say I never settle for anything less than my place for the first date. Here are the receipts. 👇. (You're welcome to reverse search these, you won't find them anywhere.)
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Want to leave a real legacy?. Contribute to science, the arts, literature, or politics. And maybe you'll be remembered for real. Thinking you're "leaving a legacy" just because you popped out a couple of kids is so narcissistic and self-delusional. Be like Nicola Tesla, Isaac.
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Translation:. "I lost my beta orbiter, and I'm pissed about it.".
Today I lost a dear male friend to the Redpill. This is the second I have lost in just 2 years. Redpill ideology is destroying men and it’s sad to see. It’s not helping them understand women. It’s making them more lost. It’s not helping them be less alone. It’s making.
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Women secretly look down on men who go to therapy (while publicly urging men to go).
Dude hit the gym after a breakup thinking their body is the issue, bro you have the emotional Intelligence and maturity of a door nob. Go to therapy.
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Here's how you know if you're alpha or beta:. What are 5 unpopular opinions you have that will get you killed by both the Red Pill and Blue Pill camps?. If you don't have any, you're an NPC who's obviously unsuccessful with women. In trading, this is called "alpha" or "edge.".
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It goes deeper than that actually, but that's the abridged version. A more accurate explanation of frame is:. Whose biological imperative are we serving?. If I say that, I'll have to explain the concept of "biological imperative.". A guy like @RationalMale can probably explain.
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By the way, I use the word "frame" a lot. "Whose frame" basically means who's calling the shots?. Who's primarily benefitting from the other?. Who's qualifying to whom?. Marriage, monogamous relationships, and public dates are in the woman's frame. House dates, non-monogamous.
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"What if she pays for the date, would you go then?". No, I wouldn't. In fact, even if she pays for the date, PLUS an extra $200 to sweeten the deal, I still wouldn't do it. This is how much I hate public dates. Because:. 1. I'm still entering her frame. 2. I'm still jumping.
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And of course, @WorldWingman has a solution to sniff out time-wasters. I haven't tried it myself, but damn it does make sense:.
We all hate public first dates that don't go anywhere or she refuses to come back at the end or comes back and blue ballses you. I found this to be the most effective screen to see how down she is without killing the intrigue or scaring her off:. When she says she's getting.
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Let's put aside the kids thing for a moment. I'm not necessarily even talking about having kids per se. I'm talking about the concept of increasing responsibility vs. reducing it. Why would I strive to INCREASE it instead of DECREASE it, if I'm seeking to optimize my life?.
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You're right, why would I want responsibility?. It's not even logical. Why would I choose a hard life instead of an easy one?.
@therealjayber Yes, youre going insane. If you don’t want the responsibility just say that. This sounds like red pill rage to me. The point of having kids is nurturing and developing something bigger than yourself. It’s purpose over pleasure.
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I can accept that there are 2 kinds of girls we end up fucking on the first night:. 1. The ones who are ready to go from the start. 2. The ones who need comfort-building and seduction to do it. The problem is there's a 3rd category of women:. 3. The ones who are just out for free.
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I can unequivocally say that I've solved the career and women Red Pills. I'm still working on the politics Red Pill. Right now the US government still has tremendous leverage and power over me. And that feels distinctly uncomfortable, to put it mildly. I'm working on creating.
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RT @therealjayber: "I'm looking for a man who knows how to communicate.". I know this is vague for a lot of guys, so let me decode the woma….
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1. Career Red Pill:. You have to run your own remote scalable business, working a job or even freelancing is for the birds. 2. Women Red Pill:. Marriage is a terrible sexual strategy and will often be the worst financial decision a man can ever make. 3. Politics Red Pill:. You.
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RT @therealjayber: Just scheduled my Red Pill newsletter for this week. Subject: "Her body count was way higher than mine". If you want to….
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The fact that these straight-to-home dates are possible leads me to think that "seduction" is a psyop. She either likes you or not, you can't charm her way into her pants. If she likes you, she's ready to go (house dates). If she doesn't, then essentially "seduction" is just.
@therealjayber Different preferences. Perfectly fine. I need this kind of seduction narrative to play out for me to genuinely enjoy it.
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RT @therealjayber: Mate-guarding is literally beta male behavior, never do this. Notice how he's on the verge of tears towards the end?. M….
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