I compiled a list of Patrice O'neal's insightful advice on relationships. Here they are:
1. Prioritize yourself.
-"Never love anyone more than you love yourself. I love me. You have to."
-"I can only love someone 90%. I need to save 10% in case that person ain't shit."
@ShadayaKnight
This and other similar photos are not coincidental. There is an agenda being pushed.
Rihanna infront holding Asap's hand leading him figuratively shows women as leaders in the home.
Asap holding the baby while Rihanna is free symbolizes change of roles in the family i.e Women--
@JacobBogle
@UnchartedFather
No. Your wife or husband owes you sex. The contract you signed(marriage) obligates that you owe each other many things including sex.
If you deny him sex, where do you expect him to get it from? Cheat?
@amerix
Keeping your life private doesn't mean that you become antisocial at work. Engage with your colleagues but know what to share and what not to share.
That's how "connections" are made.
Also, to avoid disappointments, have no expectations from anyone.
@guideforlovers
They can be friends if the woman is benefetting from the "friendship."
As soon as she sees that this hopeless suitor is going to be a threat to her other potential mates, she cuts him off.
It's always a matter of time.
@omwambaKE
My opinion of men who propose like this and get rejected is that they know the woman has no mutual feelings for them. So, they do this to gaslight the woman into accepting.
But this female gender shows them dust.
@Shadaya_Knight
All this feminine events such as baby showers, wedding to a woman, is her saying to her fellow women and her exes, "Look, after hoe-ing around I got myself a simp."
"You dumped me, but here I am."
A wedding is for a woman, marriage is for the man.
@itsSh0la
When you detach yourself from her, it sends a message that you know your value/worth and that you are capable of pulling a better girl than her.
On the contrary, if you persists, you send the message that she's the best you can have.
@honestwamen
When men have boundaries and expectations in a r/ship, deluded women label them controlling, authoritative, insecure.
But the good thing is, we men possess the key to the r/ship. If she can't keep up with the expectations, let her go.
@Shadaya_Knight
That's why as a man you need to stop dating a woman who's recently been heartbroken by her partner.
Most times she's using to get back at her ex. It's never genuine.
That's why most r/ships don't last. People jump into r/ship without healing completely from previous r/ship.
@honestwamen
As Rollo Tomassi says in his book, women have 2 mating strategies: long term and short term. Short term mating with the good genes male and long term mating with the male who'll provide for her and her good genes baby daddy.
It's rare to find a man with both qualities.
@Shadaya_Knight
Disadvantages of taking in a baby momma:
●The baby momma won't respect you
●Her children won't respect you
●Her baby daddy won't respect you
●Your family won't even respect you
●Close friends won't respect you
●You'll always be worried when she meets with baby daddy.
@Shadaya_Knight
A key that unlocks many padlocks is called a masterkey and it is valued.
A padlock that is opened by many keys is deemed useless and discarded.
The same analogy resonates with the image above.
Men and women are not the same.
Nontheless, let's shun promiscuity, & embrace chastity
@honestwamen
Funny thing is women will get mad when the guy they friendzoned, gets a new woman.
They don't want you and they don't want you to get another woman.
They want to keep you to themselves and suck the resources out of you.
@Shadaya_Knight
Thanks to the redpill, most men are awake. They have learnt the truth though it's tough to swallow and are now living based on that truth.
It's only a woman who doesn't see the value in you that'll 'play hard to get' but if a high value man appears, she'll break her rules for him
@BravinYuri
Some men are shaming men who learn from Amerix by saying, " Mnafundishwa kuishi na bibi zenu na mwanaume mwengine," as if this method is new.
Not so long ago, each community held an initiation event where young men were taught the way of manhood.
What Amerix is doing is --
@Rich_Cooper
I'm glad the Supreme Court in Kenya revisited the divorce law.
Supreme Court: In divorce, each person should leave marriage with what they acquired individually.
@honestwamen
They both need to grow up and start writing properly. Who writes a sentence without punctuation marks? I just had a migraine from reading those texts.
@Its_Roddie
One guy once said, "If I take a lady out on a high end restaurant and she acts surprised like she's never been there, then I become worried. This means other men hit it for way less, yet I'm here trying to break the record."
@moneyacademyKE
In America they have very strict laws on sexual harrasment. You could easily lose your job if your colleague complains of sexual harrasment. Working zones are designated as no sexual zones.
But in Kenya, working zones are sex zones. If its not bosses wanting sex, it' colleagues
I compiled a list of Patrice O'neal's insightful advice on relationships. Here they are:
1. Prioritize yourself.
-"Never love anyone more than you love yourself. I love me. You have to."
-"I can only love someone 90%. I need to save 10% in case that person ain't shit."
@honestwamen
Women will blame anyone and everyone but themselves.
That's why you need to avoid a woman who tells you her ex boyfriend was toxic.
Good at playing the victim card.
@Kazungu01
@amerix
If you can last for 15 minutes then you're good.
Another tip of making the sex last long is to take breaks in between sex.
Don't have sex with your woman with the aim of ejaculating, rather use sex as a tool of conquering your woman.
@Shadaya_Knight
One thing I noticed about such men is that they grew up not having a good r/ship with their fathers. They harbor disdain for their fathers for "abandoning" them.
They tend to overcompensate by being more "romantic" not knowing they're relinquishing their frames.
@jerr_rrej
Jerr, you're the best figure in the manosphere who's doing great work in teaching the male positive lessons.
Unlike other figures who always blame the female, you teach the male that by controlling their behavior & actions, then they control the behavior of those around them.
-"You're better than her."
-"A happy man is a happy relationship. A happy woman is a miserable man."
2. Don't stop playing the game.
-"If you don't talk to bitches, you lose the ability to talk to bitches."
-"Women love more when they see there are chicks that'll replace 'em"
@ShadayaKnight
By marrying a woman from a poor family you are not only marrying her but you're marrying her entire family.
Your wife will expect you to feed them if they have no food or worse she'll steal from you and send the money back home.
It will derail you. Marry a woman from same class
@MadridXtra
@KiyanSo
I think he once said that the board betrayed him. After Ramos departure, he expected to be a starter but then the board signed Alaba and later Rudiger.
Nacho and Vasquez really put their heart out but are not appreciated enough.
@jerr_rrej
A man is his work. A man should work. A man should despise welfare and everything handed to him for free.
Welfare is for women and children.
@amerix
A friend of mine who's a doctor says women who engage in anal sex have problems when giving birth. They can't push the baby out since the anal muscles are loose. They have to be stuffed with cotton wool in their anuses.
@honestwamen
Yes. Men, your attention is like currency. The more you make it scarce, the more it's valuable.
Finally, wirhdraw your attention from women who are not interested in you.
@honestwamen
Islam is unapologetically patriachal. Much power has been given to the men, which is right, due to the weak nature of the womenfolks.
Leave a woman by herself and she'll harm herself and blame you the man.
Every pre-modern society put limited freedom to the women.
@johnndungu723
@amerix
You dont ask a lady to be your girlfriend.
Let her figure it herself.
And if she asks you, "what are we?"
Just smile and ask her "what do you think?"
@Shadaya_Knight
What a man should seek from his woman is RESPECT not LOVE.
A woman who doesn't respect you will disobey you, humiliate you and not sleep with you.
Respect is love.
@Salim_the_don
@ShadayaKnight
This is what I tell people, there is nothing like a girl playing hard to get. If you approach a lady and you try to get her number or set a meet up and she refuses, just know she doesn't like you and it's okay. Not everyone will like you. Once men put this im their head,
@Ebube_gram
@Shadaya_Knight
"It takes split seconds to disvirgin a woman, but her attitude and femininity last forever" Wake up and stop dreaming. Every r/ship a woman has that doesn't translate to marriage leaves her in a worse stage than the previous stage. That includes her femininity and attitude.
@honestwamen
A 🚩 Rollo claims men ignore is not looking at her past type of boyfriends.
If she was with biker badboys and is now dating corporate men, know that the party is over and she's looking for someone to go home with.
@amerix
Tattoos and unconventional piercing are indicative of rebellious or impulsive behaviour.Rebellious and impulsiveness are attractive traits in men (according to women's selection habits), and unattractive traits in women (according to men's selection habits).
@honestwamen
She's, in other words, telling women to commercialize sex. Don't open your legs for him unless he buys you that iphone 15, or pay your rent.
@amerix
Here at the Coast, youths as soon as they get employed:
- Get married in hope of getting unlimited sex, take a loan, build a house and basks in his marriage.
@ShadayaKnight
--can be breadwinners and that men can take the role of nurturing the kids while the woman is the breadwinner.
It's only men who use fluoridated toothpaste that can't see what's wrong in this picture
@amerix
If she is wasting your time, she doesn't deem you as important.
Assuming she had a flight to catch, do you think she'd be late?
No, she wouldn't. Infact she'd be there an hour before departure time.
@Its_Roddie
They are mad. They will be like, "You should be happy that she chose you as the father of her kids."
Mara, "Kids are a blessings," why did the father run away from his blessings?
@honestwamen
Her father is the problem here. He expects the future son in law to do this for his daughter in exchange for what?
Has he taught his daughter about her roles and duties towards her future husband?
@Shadaya_Knight
As Rollo says, women have 2 mating strategies: short and long term.
Short term with the good gene man and long term with the good dad gene. She exercise the former during her prime and the latter during her epiphany phase.
Men, don't be a woman's retirement plan.
@Shadaya_Knight
If she has pictures of herself in exotic vacation spots but no pictures of her hustle, office, or working station, then that's a red flag.
@evenmaina
I saw your comment on the saloon post and you were wrong. Everybody knows saloon are a gossip zone for women. If it's not the salonist and the customer gossiping, it's the salonists gossiping.
"Anataka corn rows na ako na kichwa ka waru." I once overheard two salonists.
3. Always be ready to walk away.
-"Always be ready to flip the board and go out and start a new game."
-"As soon as you have the mentality that you will leave, she will stay."
-"Don't attach yourself to anything you can't walk out of in 30 seconds or less."
THE BROKEN WINDOW THEORY:
If a building has ten windows and
nine are shattered, then it will illicit less guilt and fear in shattering the tenth.
The same can be said of a man attracting disrespect. The more disrespect he absorbs the more he will be given.
#MasculinitySaturday
BONUS:
-"A good relationship is always the one where the girl is a little bit insecure."
-"A good relationship is one where the girl thinks you'll be comfortable if she leaves."
-"If she thinks you'll be ecstatic if she leaves, she will never leave."
What do you think?
@Osama_otero
They will be proud stepping up for children whom they're not related to, but stepping up by empowering their nieces and nephew is where they draw the line because of a long time beef with their brothers or sisters.
@amerix
When a woman fails to manipulate you, she resorts to shaming you and tries to stain your dignity.
Be stoic, don't waver, don't argue with her, ignore her.
@jerr_rrej
Redpill: "If she doesn't sleep with you on the first date, drop her."
Also the same redpill: "Marry a woman with a low notch count."
Who's going to marry the women you slept with and didn't marry.
This is an irresponsible behavior that's expected from toddlers.
@jerr_rrej
On point 10, many men fail this with their women. They think asking for a woman's opinion is romantic. It isn't.
A woman doesn't want the burden of making decisions. Loading that baggage on her only gives her anxiety.
A woman is a loyal follower.
@DyeAnna7
I've also heard of the same with those Upperhill NGOs. Once you say you're gay, you get hired pronto. But the difference between the two is that at Upperhill they'll try to confirm.
@amerix
Not being able to escalate within the shortest period and making your intentions known earlier is the reason most men end up being friendzoned.
Avoid texting a woman asking her what's her favorite color is, or what tv shows she likes.
Have the courage and tell her what you want.
@honestwamen
She's honest.
Your wife is not your accountant.
Your wife is not your therapist.
Don't burden her with your work problems, or financial problems or mental problems.
You have to figure your shit out. Telling her about your problems just makes her anxious.
@BeLimitlesscom
@gchahal
Motivation will get you started, but discipline will make you keep moving. At some point your level of motivation will be low and you might wanna quit but if you're disciplined you'll reach far.
@amerix
Most youths lack financial literacy and don't know how to "behave with money" and that's why they are broke.
How do you take a loan to buy a car worth 2M without even having another source of income? The car doesn't generate any money. You use it to go to work,clubs,carry women.