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just like that one batch of brandon blackwood bags, my life is also falling apart at the seams.

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@siiddartha
gautama.
7 months
Taking a small break from social media as I buckle down with studying for licensure. Text me if y’all looking for me!!
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@siiddartha
gautama.
5 years
My daddy had opened a laundromat and put my momma through law school. My brother bought my SIL a brand new house as his wedding gift. My BIL regularly balls out on my sister. Don’t tell me my standards are unrealistic when the men closest to me are doing these things.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
We really must be used to these skinny plastic surgery noses because none of their noses are “big” to me.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
Alot of men love the idea of a highly educated woman on paper. It’s an ego and status booster. Many are not emotionally equipped to deal with one.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
2 years
I’m sorry but whoever twote about y’all being 2hrs late to brunch only to show up wearing a FashionNova wrestling fit needs an Emmy.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
3 years
They said my sister would be vegetative, but she just blinked, squeezed a hand and smirked on command. God is absolutely good.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
3 years
Man high self esteem is a life saver. Cause in the face of rejection, bad news, things meant to break me down, I really think I’m still worthy and going to win at this thing called life.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
5 years
My sister and I had to share a hotel room like this, and all she did was write “nigger” in the steam and wait for me to see.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
3 years
I literally do not care what folks do at their wedding as long as there is an open bar. Also y’all wouldn’t leave a Jewish or Indian wedding if the folks started breaking out the Horah or Bhangra so plz
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@siiddartha
gautama.
2 years
It’s crazy that y’all are soft blaming PnB Rock’s gf for a common social media practice, and not the man with the gun.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
5 years
A man: OK, but you not my girl so I’m going to do me. A woman: Ok, then I’m going to talk to other ppl too... Man:
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
I wanna fight whoever said she was racially ambiguous when she look just like her momma.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
5 years
Folks are so accustomed to (and expect) Black women and girls being in positions of struggle and labor, that seeing them being “spoiled” is a huge issue.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
2 years
Being yourself either makes people feel at home or hyper-aware of how they don’t be themselves.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
9 months
“You’re intimidating” is such a classic way of gaslighting women into making your personal insecurities into their problem.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
5 years
Smells like broke in these replies. Don’t worry about what I’m bringing to my future husband. Just know you have 0 chance of ever recieving it.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
2 years
Not “twote” being the only thing y’all taking away from the gospel.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
2 years
(No seriously, why do men who not een checking for BW suddenly concerned when they date out they race??)
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@siiddartha
gautama.
11 months
Women who never fully experienced the level of male validation that they *wished* they did in their youth/young adulthood, turn into desperate predator aunties. Very no foundation and red lip energy.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
2 years
Why would I take marriage advice from a woman who’s husband has her in Goodwill couture. Poor thing.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
5 years
All these non-Blacks retweeting and liking this, talm bout they wish their sibling would do this. Tf is wrong with y’all?
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@siiddartha
gautama.
5 years
This new generation of men really grew up watching their mom slowly lose her sanity to keep stomachs fed and ashy feet in J’s. Now they expect some young lady to continue the legacy. A tragedy.
@KCARMOUCHE
𝖒𝖔𝖚𝖈𝖍𝖊
5 years
This new generation of females depend on niggas to much anyways. I watched my moms work her ass off to do everything she wanted to do, get what she wanted to get , with or with out a nigga. That’s what real independent women do, but ya know ... y’all wouldn’t know bout that. 😂
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
We hear paradoxical rhetoric and virtue signaling about educated women being seen as “good girls”, yet we still see concerns about being emasculated by some letters. Smh.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
Men like polyamory in theory, but there are so many stories about open relationships ending in horror when the women are more desired.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
3 years
Cheaters really be possessive of some shit they barely want. Either way, she finna scrapbook this moment as evidence of their love.
@nottodayyoubum
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You gotta be fucking kidding me 😭😭😭
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@siiddartha
gautama.
2 years
Hey twitter fams, I passed my Dissertation defense. I’m now officially Dr. Siiddartha.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
3 years
Like y’all Black luxury bags, my life too is falling apart.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
Please go let that white woman’s family call you a nigger and leave us alone.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
5 years
From friends that tell you your standards are “too high” to strangers on the internet insulting you, your significant other and/or your family, because they choose to love you out loud with material things...the reciepts are there.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
5 years
Nothing sucks more than really healing from an awful experience with one person, working yourself up to really feeling good about yourself ...to just end up feeling small, stupid and insignificant again.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
1 year
When I said that’s exactly what these tweets be about. Feminist language as a guise of one-upsmanship through a man, making the full circle back to misogyny.
@ceciATL
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i can’t impress upon y’all enough how much your “monogamous” relationship would not stop your man from fucking me if that’s what i want lmao. but they know that. and that’s why women are desperate for other women to take responsibility for making sure their man doesn’t get fucked
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
Thank you for all the men literally proving their emotional fragility re: educated women with their responses, red herring arguments and projections. As you go to type a response, just know the jokes literally write themselves 😂
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
So they admit they just casually use AAVE cause it’s trendy lmao
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@siiddartha
gautama.
5 years
“You bitches are fatherless” - a nigga who’s 3 generations deep in fatherlessness and poverty, and is now passing the gift on to Man Man, whom he hasn’t seen since the child was in utero.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
2 years
We owe @TheBrookeAsh alot for that greatness. It was the day I became a stan.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
3 years
I want y’all to stop creating polarizing sociopolitical theory in order to give personal opinions legitimacy.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
I ended my first year of college with all D’s and F’s. I was depressed, and isolated being 1,000mi from home. I spent the remaining yrs pulling up my GPA, & graduated with a 2.9. In 2022, I’ll be Dr. Siiddartha. GPA on it’s own is not an accurate measure of future success.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
3 years
If I could drop my nails and scalp off at the salon and pick em up later >>>
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
Look, as much as I want a life partner, the mens don’t be stable. Not fiscally, emotionally, mentally, nor genetically.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
7 years
@StateFarm What's hilarious is folks screaming anti-race mixing while their male ancestors had no problem making mulatto slaves 💀
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@siiddartha
gautama.
6 months
I feel sorry for my fellow survivors who have to read y’all insensitive & very unsmart takes.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
Black people calling it the “Rona” and “Roni” has been the most hilarious development thus far
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
The peer pressure part to “give someone a chance” is the worst. I used to really hate it in high school & college, because I don’t have to force myself to like anyone back because they “like” me.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
One day y’all will stop projecting inherent evilness on to women who have lifestyles, looks, opportunities; etc that you wish you had.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
2 years
99% of my social outings is niggas not even looking my way until a non Black is in my face. And then they morph into Dr. Umar.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
This is it.
@tamikanewhouse
Tamika Jamison (Formerly Newhouse) ಠಿ_ಠ
4 years
Omg my ex is the poster child for this. Narcissistic and manipulative.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
I see folks in my mentions tryna argue with me on an entire Monday and ... what part of “to me” do you not understand?
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@siiddartha
gautama.
3 years
I’m especially sticking around for a money dance.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
3 years
IG did see em first but I mean
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
I insinuated that many men are not emotionally mature nor intelligent to process their own feelings re: education, intelligence, power and what that means for their masculinity. Cussing and acting crazy in my mentions proving that right there lmao.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
By the way, I passed my comps/qualifying exams and now am a PhD candidate. Brb, changing all my signatures & bios.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
5 years
Also, the original tweet was taken out of it’s original context. One of your fellow black mens said y’all were all poor, uneducated & incarcerated, and unable to be “breadwinners”. I came in with examples to defend my black kangz. Y’all niggas so unappreciative.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
2 years
I present the gender that values sex over education, upward mobility, and stable housing:
@CerromeZONE
Water Technique
2 years
Women be havin degrees, good jobs, nice place to live and NO man lmaooooooo
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@siiddartha
gautama.
8 months
In an attempt to say femme humor is stupid, now y’all getting ate tf up in these boy math tweets. Shoulda sat there & ate ya food with one of them two forks and bowls you own.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
3 years
Remember when we said some men literally wait until “moments of weakness” to try and get at women.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
2 years
My favorite Twitter scam was the féminité coaches. Wigs glued askew, always in Rainbow but had the gworls PAYING to learn to walk and dress like a Grand Theft Auto street walker.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
5 years
Anyway, I’m stepping into my identity where spoiling is my love language. I’ve been spoiled my whole life. I will be spoiled by a man who loves me. I will spoil and upgrade my parents. I plan on (reasonably) spoiling my future kids & grands ‘til I lay in my spoiled rotten grave.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
2 years
It’s always someone with a YT momma and wife.
@oldmanebro
the Old Man Ebro
2 years
I’m not against inter-racial relationships, clearly. But am I the only one noticing lots of commercials with Black women in relationships with white men? Wonder what the targeting is for that? I watch mostly sports TV… 🤔
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@siiddartha
gautama.
2 years
I’m seeing tweets insinuating she set him up & should d*e… Very unwell that an innocuous post by a woman is bearing more blame & anger than the senseless violence, an act that could’ve been enacted with or without a social media post. RIP and blessings to his fam.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
I just had this convo with my best friend today. We’re tired of everyone orienting every single thing around men, dating and relationships.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
7 years
I guess miscegenation wasn't wrong when it was 150+ years ago, and involved a wealthy white man, coersion & chattel. But this tea.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
@___bba I didn’t miss anything? Afrocentric features are beautiful, but I mused out loud (on the wrong ass platform) about how the prevalence of tiny noses in the media has us thinking these noses are big. They’re average Black noses to me.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
2 years
I remember that lady said every conventionally attractive person was an antagonizing sociopath, and y’all just agreed lmaoooo
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@siiddartha
gautama.
2 years
@bball3r The gorls were bragging about being 2+ late to brunch and @TheBrookeAsh was on they ass about being late but looking a hot mess
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@siiddartha
gautama.
3 years
The way y’all casually joke about sexual abuse of enslaved women is odd.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
9 months
People who think everyday is an episode of Joseline’s Cabaret <
@hausofsyy
The Purse Dealer ✨
9 months
She cut right into her 😭😭
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
Men: I wanna be able to give my kids anything and teach em they deserve to be spoiled Also men: Y’all dads spoiled you into thinking you deserve things
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@siiddartha
gautama.
5 years
I thinking bragging about having sex with any man is weird. It’s even weirder to brag about having sex with someone who is in a relationship, because it’s almost always said in a context to down or hurt another woman. Just weirdo behavior all around.
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@siiddartha
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8 months
Baby, you are the visuals #RENAISANCEWorldTour
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@siiddartha
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4 years
To round this bad boy off, idc what unhinged internet strangers think. The ones upset, are the very ones I’n describing. Step ya self-esteem up, broke bwoi
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
Tbh, every guy I have dated has been at the same educational level as me (at the time we dated), or financially comfortable enough to never have to go to school. So the “your poor judgement” tweets not hitting. I have eyes and tweet on what I observe lmfao
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@siiddartha
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5 years
I believe the obssesion with being head of household stems from families being one of the few places some men can exert power. Can’t do it in the workplace, or social settings, so home life gets the brunt of lost feelings of control. Don’t @ me idc idc idc
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@siiddartha
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4 years
Spark notes: folks are/were arguing that she could code as another race because of her facial features. She has her mom’s facial features. People mean to say ethnically ambiguous, which I don’t disagree with. The problem = calling her racially ambiguous when she is not.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
My unofficial theory is that some YT women wanna cash in on the mixed baddie aesthetic so bad. The ones with money transform themselves into it. And the ones who can’t/don’t just seek to procreate and live vicariously through them kids.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
Men don’t even slap like that. It took me a few years in my 20s to realize many are playthings you pick up + put down when they no longer serve you. You do this until there’s one that compels you to stop playing with toys.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
5 years
@OhEmmeG Sex can disrupt the lining. So if ya uterine lining is already thin/ready to slough off for ya period, a paynus knocking into your walls will disrupt it and make it fall off —> “early period”
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@siiddartha
gautama.
3 years
Thank you everyone, truly. Today has been a busy but good ass day.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
3 years
Ok, after 17 applications, interviews, rankings, and lots of tears + perseverance, I matched with my #1 choice for my psychology doctoral internship. I’ll be at one of the top pediatric hospitals in the country. God is gewd.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
Ok, just finished Little Fires Everywhere and I hated all the characters in some unique way. Which just goes to show they put they FOOT into character development.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
3 years
I’m not surprised. Him and Vinny were vocal about liking the NC45 queens.
@AmeriKraut
in charge of the girls
3 years
i had no pauly d had found himself a kesha?!
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
Yesterday, Hanifa’s marketing team messed up the release time for their sale and today there’s an open position for social media marketing manager. I am screaming.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
5 years
I literally wear a NC42 LMAO THE JOKES WRITE THEMSELVES
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
Another day of broke men feeling upstaged and angry that a man with money spent it on a woman. Typical.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
5 years
An entire graduate
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@siiddartha
gautama.
11 months
The chokehold “will you date someone who makes less than you?” has on Black men with mics. Put that energy into making more money, my god.
@The1stGentleman
Logic
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Can't argue with her logic 🤷🏾‍♂️
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@siiddartha
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4 years
I now profoundly dislike when people tell women to date outside their type. If they’re gonna be disappointed, let it be with someone they find attractive. Nothing worse than going out of your comfort zone to be played by Shrek.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
And since we’re here:
@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
I insinuated that many men are not emotionally mature nor intelligent to process their own feelings re: education, intelligence, power and what that means for their masculinity. Cussing and acting crazy in my mentions proving that right there lmao.
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@siiddartha
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3 years
Welcome to Wisteria Lane.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
6 years
@shayfromonlin3 Plz make a thread of the best DMs
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
I can’t believe y’all (men) harassing that woman for getting a Tesla. Like something is actually wrong with y’all. And it’s both scary & sad.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
I think a large part of Bey’s visuals (in general), is unfamiliarity with southern Black Creole/Catholicism & spirituality, and how damn syncretic it is with the religions of the various West African groups we descend from. I think ppl think this only exists in Caribbean.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
5 years
I NEVER forget how someone made me feel.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
Why y’all be so plain and so pressed over what other women choose to do??
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@siiddartha
gautama.
3 years
My stylist did the damn thang lawd. Birthday hair ✔️
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@siiddartha
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3 years
Living the life the gworls make hashtags about
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@siiddartha
gautama.
1 year
Idk those years were light work compared to 25 and 27-29ish.
@gIowiny
Glow✰
1 year
if u survive 19 and 23 u can survive anything
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
Last thing: negative comments on Black/Afrocentric noses will get you blocked, muted and/or avi enlarged & publicly lit up, depending on my mood.
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
I’m all for Black girls in luxury. I hate that it has become a dogwhistle for either men who believe we should represent struggle, and women who think only certain types of BW should be in luxury.
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@siiddartha
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4 years
This too. Stop being purposefully obtuse and asking pointless questions and what ifs.
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gautama.
4 years
You and I both know this isn’t a question about us, and more about some men’s inability to cope with feelings & thoughts re: status, intelligence and power that educated women elicit
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@siiddartha
gautama.
5 years
@amr_ita Girl. Just look at how they act
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gautama.
5 years
I literally wear a NC42 LMAO THE JOKES WRITE THEMSELVES
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@siiddartha
gautama.
4 years
They’re afraid if he is involved and a provider, he’ll have to live up to it.
@PersnicketyK
Coach Ashley
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What is this obsession y’all have with women’s fathers? 💀
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@siiddartha
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3 years
I really don’t care enough to lecture other women about their “choices”. When all is said and done, folks get wrapped up in fairytales, and learn hard lessons. However, the usual glee y’all have in pouring salt into a wound is alarming.
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