As someone who was homeless for a few months I personally find it very disappointing that you think someone who’s is struggling isn’t allowed to do little things to find happiness in what is already a difficult situation for them mentally, physically, and emotionally.
call me old fashioned but I was raised to serve my man. I was taught to fix his plate first, clean up after him, do his laundry, massage his feet. If he cheats on my dusty ass, it’s all on me. he caught ME slipping.