I realized that I'm struggling with my Christian faith because I want to critically analyze the religion. And once you do that, you realize how nothing adds up.
Fun people. I wanna laugh until it hurts. I wanna 'rock, paper, scissor' to decide where we eating. I wanna have dance battles and play fights. I wanna sing in grocery stores. Life has enough problems. I just want a joy-filled relationship.
My only goal is to get closer to God, no matter how I feel about religion. He gives me peace & I feel my most fulfilled when I live in His presence. And I know like the prodigal son's father, He will embrace me when I return to Him. I know I can never remove myself from His love.
Your man will innocently like a picture of a girl. When she finds out it's YOUR man then she starts running around telling people he wants her. Women can be so delusional. That's why a lot of women don't want their men interacting with other women's content.
I've been talking about wanting a car. My little cousin surprised me a with a donation form and donated R7 for infinite rides. Kids are so pure 🥺🥺🥺🥺🤍🤍🤍
Having sex for money or to fund your lifestyle is indeed sex work. Sex work is work and I wouldn't never shame people for it. But let's call a spade, a spade and stop trying to act like it's something else please.
You can't teach thoughtfulness and consideration. Small acts of love and kindness matter too. They might even be greater than grand gestures. Always showing up for your person is beautiful. It's a shame that people are too materialistic and shallow to see that.
I have so many, but Proverbs 3:5-6 has been carrying me through life since high school.
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.
You know how white people want to be black when it benefits them and don't have to deal with oppression? Straight women do that. Act like they're into women for the male gaze or whatever reason, but don't have to experience homophobia. Also, queer baiting is problematic.
Having your own person, letting your guard down and placing your heart in someone's hands is such an amazing experience. Companionship is sweet. Love is beautiful.
Remember that Coloured lady and her daughter that were murdered a few weeks ago? Her family says that she went to the local police station to request a restraining order and they turned her away because they weren't dealing with "those types of matters" at the moment.
700 doctors facing unemployment. Hundreds of LLB graduates working in any field but their own due to lack of opportunities. Graduate unemployment rate still above 30%. Education is allegedly the key to success, but the ANC changed the locks. Now what?
I'm not saying don't record your friends drunk, we need to sit and laugh about it together the next morning in the debrief. But at no point should those videos ever touch the internent.
You have survived every single bad day you've ever had. Every single one. That's a 100% pass rate. You will get through this season too. I'm proud of you for making it this far. Your tenacity is extraordinary.💕
My friends have shown me what it's like to be loved intentionally. To be accepted with the same enthusiasm on my bad days that I receive on my good. They've shown me grace and constantly remind me that I am not my mistakes, but I have to do better when I know better. So grateful.
The first place God says something is not good in the Bible is in Genesis. "It is not good for man to be alone." We are social beings. We need companionship, connections, and love. No amount of self-love can change that.
Last Monday I had an interview.
Last Tuesday I got accepted for training.
Last Wednesday I started training.
Today I finished training and was offered the job.
I start tomorrow.
I miss having a person and being someone's person. Sharing the mundane details of my day, my wins and my losses. Knowing that there's always someone in my corner. Doing life with someone is so fulfilling.
TADIWA GOMBA IS A RAPIST
TADIWA GOMBA IS A RAPIST
TADIWA GOMBA IS A RAPIST
TADIWA GOMBA IS A RAPIST
TADIWA GOMBA IS A RAPIST
TADIWA GOMBA IS A RAPIST
TADIWA GOMBA IS A RAPIST
I really feel bad for Thando. She really got ridiculed for loving her partner loudly and celebrating him. Then she finds out her partner is cheating via the tl, in attempts to embarrass her and then the whole situation is turned into a joke. That's really unkind.
Friendships that provide soft landings are so amazing. No jealousy, competing, judgment or animosity. Just love, grace, encouragement, acceptance
and speaking life into each other. Life is so cruel, it's a blessing to be surrounded by kind people.
One thing I learned is that you should never be scared to have expectations of God. He won't just meet them but surpass them completely. There's nothing too big or small for Him. He is a present father. He is a faithful God.
My thing is you go from section to section in the club with an empty glass begging for alcohol and pulls from other people's hubs. Instead of thinking of ways to get your money up, you decided to fix your fingers to spread homophobia. Your priorities are outta order. Change that.
I watched all 50 parts of Who TF Did I Marry. Here are my thoughts:
1. Never be so desperate for love that you compromise all your beliefs.
2. Listen to your intuition.
3. If you're unhappy, leave. It's okay to start over.
4. You cannot love someone in the comfort of your mind.
I might get dragged for this one, but I love seeing men having fun. Like it warms my heart when I see a male friend group that can just enjoy each others' company without always needing women around. Just the boys having silly chats that occasionally get deep and just bonding.