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Morning! I was encouraged to share my thoughts on Whitney Houston, Niecy Nash and the importance of community as survival. I don’t share my writings publicly, but here we are 😩✨♥️
“Where Do Broken Hearts Go?: A Lesson on Sacred Community as Survival”
There was a tweet that said something like Black folks put Comet in the tub and let it sit like it’s a seasoning. As I was walking away from putting it in both tubs, I thought about that tweet and fell out laughing at my damn self! While its marinating, ima go do something else😂
My sleep wasn’t good. I can’t stop thinking about Alexis Crawford. She did the right thing & still ended up dead. When women say we are fearful to speak out about sexually assaulted/violated, please know that we aren’t making this up. Alexis should be graduating in May; not dead.
It is 11:08am EST and my mama is still asleep! My, how the tables done turned. Let me blast this gospel music like it’s 1999 so she knows it’s time to get up!
When cleaning, there are just certain staples you gotta have: Bleach, Lysol wipes, Fabuloso, Comet, tub cleaner, pine sol, toilet bowl cleaner, carpet freshener, Windex, multi surface cleaner, etc. Let the fumes consume you!
Talking with a professor today reminded me of a convo I had with
@HeyFranHey
who said, “Fearing how I’m being perceived means I’m not minding my business.”
I’m going back to writing, but wanted to share that.
Be
#bless
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Because most preachers aren’t clinically trained to diagnosis mental health issues. Everything cannot be “prayed” away. And just because someone is a preacher, doesn’t mean they’re a pastor.
I told my partner this last night. There are a lot of people who have RT’d this & commented elsewhere that Tanqueray is lying. Either you’ve never talked to the older women in your family OR think gay & drag lingo was created in the last decade or 2.
This was my Papa. And now I see why Granny had 8 babies by him🤣 She loves to talk about how she ain’t know nothing about getting up in the middle of the night to fix no bottles because he would be do it.
I did have to open up the windows in the bathrooms because the fumes are FUMING! Also didn’t realize cleaning would take so long. But we will be good to go when we get all moved in this coming weekend🙌🏾
The older I get, the more I’m turned on by practical gestures. When I got back last night, floors were vacuumed, new sheets on the bed, etc. This morning, I realized she filled my tank up while I was away.
Time to impregnate her.
As an alum of 1881, I would’ve never imagined I’d host an event for National Coming Out Day through the Chapel! Whew. I overheard a student say, “this is healing my religious trauma” as she walked the space.
I CAN RUN ON AND SEE WHAT THE END GONE BE! 🥹😭🙌🏾💗💙💜
And who said not to speak ill of the dead? Like. Why is speaking ill (usually speaking the truth about what they did while they lived) such a bad thing?
Hey all you cool cats and kittens! I woke up a PhD Student and I’m now a PhD Candidate!
#BecomingDrBond
is really happening and I’m actually contributing to the field of practical theology as I write about the faith formations and spiritual journeys of Black Queer Millennials😩🙌🏾
“It’s just a test! Remember that God gives the toughest battles to the strongest soldiers! Don’t let the enemy come in and destroy what God has ordained!”
JR Smith’s wife is the reason I keep a coupla athiest bitches on standby. Your Christian friends will have you out here lookin foolish talkin about “the Lord said”...absolutely NOT
I think I’m gonna name her Crystal Clear but I’m not settled on it.
•3oz blanco tequila
•white 🍑cranberry juice
•topped with Sparkling Rosé Margarita x Jose Cuervo
•splash of cucumber mint simple syrup
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It’s not MY calling. But, I want someone to do a deep teaching on why grieving is necessary. Too many folks “praise” their way through and never deal with their grief. And now their lives are in complete turmoil because they didn’t deal with their grief & process it.
And celebrating her 22nd birthday in a few weeks. And registering for her last semester of classes. And enjoying senior year spring break. And attending all the parties during Senior Week.
All because she should’ve been safe in her own home.
Oh yeah. I’ve done a terrible job of sharing this news. But as of July 6th, I’ll officially be known as Rev. Whitney 🎉 It’s been a long time coming, but we outchea! The ordination is in Atlanta. If you’d like to come and celebrate with me, let me know and I’ll get you the deets!
For 365 days we have journeyed together in marriage. While the time has truly flown, I’m so grateful to have you as my partner and person. An answered prayer. I’m so excited about our future! Here’s to a couple of forevers 🥰 Love you
@TheJazzyBelle
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#TheGayAgenda
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I’ve watched this about 10x yesterday. When I say my eyes become FULL each and every time?! I haven’t fully named why it’s causing me to have the reaction that it is, but there’s a nostalgic yearning that’s hitting me in my chest.
You should already know this, but just in case you don’t, here’s your reminder. When you see “Black women,” I mean ALL Black Womxn. Trans. Bi. Lesbian. Queer. ASexual. Gender Non-Conforming. Disabled & differently-abled. ALL OF US.