its always the guys u dont even remember having conversations with, kinda just talked to him when u were bored but he was the most consistent & kind so when u finally give him a chance he ends up treating u as if YOU were the one chasing him ew bye😭😂😂
1st born daughters in a brown family never get to act their age. ur literally carrying everybodies problems on ur bare back, all while being forced to play the middle man in ur parents problems, & never having ur younger siblings know how to comfort u. its a whole JOB omg
rich brown mean girls make me wanna throw up bc ive come across so many i physically will throw up. the condescending tone, the fake sisterhood act, the fake niceness, the ~better than u~ demeanour, the whole classist bs, pls kiren i WILL throw up
u ever just waste an entire day & then say ok tomorrow but then all ur days start blending into one & your perception of time continues to shift....haha what r u guys watching on netflix
losing ur youth to mental illness & then ur 20s to a pandemic is wild. my 30s better b worth it or ima be pissed for forcing myself to be alive this long r u crazy
i parent my parents. yes they’re grown but im emotionally light years ahead of them & it an exhusting job, bc they will still try to invalidate u until they realize ur hitting them with facts about THEMSELVES lmao i love to see it
the most soul wrenching moment of adulthood was realizing my life isnt going to consist of longterm “4ever” type connections unless ppl r also steadily growing WITH me, otherwise i am only here 2 experience ppl until tht date expires, simply enjoy the moments & know when 2 let go
at this era of my life where im i need more friends of SUBSTANCE. ppl that inspire/motivate me to be a healthier, stronger, happier person. ppl that ask me to go for a runs, do yoga or create art with them.
i love girls that are their authentic selves, no matter how chaotic, dramatic or emotional it might seem to others. i wanna kiss them so bad. they r for me.
i just know that if i ever moved in with my significant other i would make sure we both have 2 bedrooms, ofc most nights we’d share the same bed but i just need my own bedroom too, my own lil sanctuary with everything that is just ME
i am convinced a relationship with ur younger sibling is basically them never giving a fuck to maintain any sort of friendship/closeness with u, meanwhile ur begging for their love or simply trying to engage with their life bc u always wanted someone to care about u like that😫
when you become extremely attached to something or someone, u begin to want to control things out of ur reach that’s why u have to step back sometimes & just let things flow so that why ur not revolving ur life around something/someone. Still trying to grasp that myself
im obsessed with my solitude, i dont think i’ll ever know how to connect fully with ppl that constantly need ppl around them to feel fulfilled or stimulated, i find alone time so important idk maybe its cus its necessary for me
“do u think shes prett-“
Yes.
“no like-“
i think shes stunning.
a real conversation i had with someone that has insecurity issues like nope im never gonna validate ur internal competition with another woman bc of a man, ew.
i get sad when i see ppl pride themselves in overworking or never spending their money so they can “grind in their 20s & enjoy life in their 40s” like ew lmao. enjoy ur 20s too!! everything should be a balance. who knows how long ur gonna live for...
i wish i could fast forward to my forever home already so i can make my space everything i want it to be...but ik life is about the journey getting there
imagine u followed me cuz im hot but everytime i tweet it floods ur tl bc its a long thread of a tangent or my feelings LMAO this is MY void yall just choosing to be in it
i dont think i can enjoy being around ppl that arent self assured enough to make their own decisions & always needing/seeking validation from other ppl. nothing wrong with yall, its just very tiring to witness
me at 14: *working out for thigh gap*
me at 18: *working out for a fat ass*
me now: *working out so i can be strong enough to beat up men & for my mental wellness*
one thing i realize more n more is if ur insecure about something u just have to force urself to embrace it that much more, & if u care too much about what other ppl will think, literally what r they gonna do, we’re floating on a ball in space, pls
Idk why i enjoy being messy on my closefriends list i’ll be wanting to post pics of ppl im dating & create a poll saying “do you think we’re gonna last”
The experience ive had as a child & the trauma i carry could have very easily turned me into a mean nasty person but i choose love everytime, its all i’ve known & im proud of myself for having a kind heart when my circumstances couldve pushed me to be the opposite.
im not dimming my light or waiting around for anyone when i have the world to see, lovers to meet, soul tribes to create. ive finally accepted ppl as experiences rather than permanent place holders in my life <3
brown guys be in my dms like “omg finally a brown girl that’s comfortable in her skin & sexuality” are u living under a rock? & besides what are u gonna do with someone that owns her sexuality when it comes to your no back bone having ass in ur traditional family pls sir 😭
some ppl just hate to see brown girls form an identity outside of our families & cultural norms & i will never shut up about speaking on this bc most if not ALL brown girls deal with this kind of shit unprovoked
i wish we were still at the part of quarantine where absolutely everything was shutdown n everyone was forced to pick up hobbies at home, cause this shit is not it