Hello! I’m THRILLED to announce that this fall, I will be joining
@NorthwesternU
as a graduate student in
@NorthwesternMed
’s Clinical Psychology PhD program! Even more exciting, I’ll continue working under the mentorship of
@JSchleiderPhD
in the Lab for Scalable Mental Health !!!
I am honored to announced I received an honorable mention from the
@NSF
for my
#GRFP
application I submitted last October!!! I’m excited and look forward to getting the feedback to make my next application even better 🤩
#NSFGRFP
And at 12:18am, I finally submitted my last application to PhD programs in clinical psychology! 🎉🎊 Huge thank you to everyone in my lab, everyone rooting for me, and to my friends and colleagues for reviewing my apps-in-progress. now... we wait and hope I don't get ghosted :)
Hey! I’m moving to NYC this July to join the team at the Lab for Scalable Mental Health at
@stonybrooku
! I will be joining their research into developing single session interventions (SSIs) for QTPoC youth. Thank you
@JSchleiderPhD
for believing in me & granting me this chance 🥳
it’s been two days but just wanted to remind y’all that I AM GRADUATED!! Officially a first-gen & poor as shit USC GRADUATE!!! it worked y’all!! finessed the system for TWO bachelor’s degrees!!! the system was not built for people like me & im one step closer to taking it down 😌
i’d like to take a moment to be proud of myself for (during my first semester back from studying abroad)
- working 32+ hrs/wk every week
- helping run/redo an entire hip hop team
- GETTING ALL As FOR THE SEMESTER
- learning to stick up for myself
Our results are out! Does racial discrimination cause psychological distress?
Check out an infographic on key findings, and link to the new registered report paper! Data were collected when we were
@SMUPsychology
in Dallas and across the US.
#VR
#diversity
#OpenScience
YOOOOOOOOOO
While surviving a pandemic, applying to 9 graduate schools/phd programs, working 24+hrs a week, multiple doctor’s visits, undergoing surgery, AND dealing with various mental health breakdowns,
a bitch still got all As 😌💅🏽
YOOOOOOOO y’all i got my first invite for a preliminary interview for my phd program 😭😭😭😭 THIS YEAR WILL BE DIFFERENT! plz pray for me y’all. pray i get into grad school this cycle 😭🙏🏽
OMGOMGOMG OH MY GOD Y’ALL I ALMOST MISSED MY PHD INTERVIEW TODAY BECAUSE I DIDNT REALIZE THEY WERE ON EST!!! 😭 my dumbass forgot this school is in New York 😭
BUT MY INTERVIEWER TOLD ME I WAS AN EXCEPTIONAL PERSON BRB I GOTTA GO CRY
y’all have GOT to give this paper a read!! it really changed how i think about digital mental health tools for people of color and i’m so excited
@El_GioRamos
is getting the attention he deserves !
I'm super proud that my work on digital interventions for racially/ethnically minoritized groups is the most cited paper in
@ABCTNOW
C&BP!
This is a pre-pandemic article, and the clinical/implementation guidelines provided are only becoming more relevant:
do you care about the mental health of Black, Latiné, and other racially/ethnically minoritized groups? Come check out our panel at
@ABCTNOW
! If you also care about LGBTQ+ youth, you’ll def wanna stay till the end 😉 (wink wink, self-plug)
“someone who looks similar to the real one” and by real one you mean white.
damn white people are hella uncomfortable when they don’t see themselves represented in media... wonder how they would feel after decades of no representation 🤔
Went to bed at 6:30am last night/yesterday. It is now 4:11am, and I have to wake up at 6:00am, but I have just written a 16 page paper in one day. IB had me scared of writing a “4,000 word paper”... but ya boy just wrote 5,518 in a day so I would say I’ve grown
pray for me y’all one of my coworkers (who i am in contact with) has tested positive for covid-19; my job is providing free testing rn
if ms rona takes me out, tell the rich i hate them and that they’ve should donated more. those are my last words.
IM DOOONNEEEE IM DOONNNEEE IM DOOONNNEEEE WITH UNDERGRAD!!! I JUST SUBMITTED MY LAST FINAL PAPER (which of course i started and finished today) AND AM OFFICIALLY FINISHED WITH MY BACHELOR’S DEGREESSSSSSS!!!! (yes plural 😌)
Dear God,
my prayer today is to simply thank You for making me queer. being bisexual has truly been my privilege, thank You for letting me walk this life.
in Jesus’ name, Amen.
y’all i finessed my job into giving me benefits (including health insurance) this year and when i tell you... receiving genuine healthcare really hits different 😭
starting my 23rd rotation around the sun today 😌 practicing peace-making
and resiliency towards stress. lost my wallet at six flags yesterday but i’m not letting that kill the vibes. to me, a good life is not one without stress, but one where i respond to stress well.
i wonder how many people from my old southern hometown/high school see me now and think either
“Wow look at him go living his best life”
or alternatively
“Wow he became one of those raging queer liberals trying to burn the world down and take down Jesus”
eh, oh well 🤷🏽♂️
heavy on the wfm being a bit lonely! my spirit felt ignited and warmed my heart when i got the chance to spend time and share space with all these lovely humans! i could never thank everyone in these photos enough for welcoming me into their community :’) 🥹🫶🏽
#lsmhteamforlife
!
@ABCTNOW
was a blast! I’m so grateful for the opportunity to work remote, but it can be a bit lonely, so getting to spend time with these brilliant and kind people in-person was fantastic. Much love to LSMH!
ALSO think it’s iconic that as i was telling my best friend about coming out as bi to my dad, one of the first things she says is:
“and on father’s day what a savage”
Also: I GET TO BE THE BEST MAN AT THEIR WEDDING which really just means I am about to PLAN THE BEST. GODDAMN. BACHELOR’S PARTY which will be all inclusive (groomsmen + bridesmaids) because f*ck gender divides AND ITS ABOUT 👏🏽 TO GO 👏🏽 DOWN 👏🏽
Communities of color, queer communities, and low-income communities experience many disparities in negative mental health outcomes and access to care. I hope I can dedicate my research to helping close the gaps between people who need mental health care and people who receive it!
i’ve been having a hard day but i just read an email where a prof in clinical psych who sits on an admissions committee for a grad school said i wrote one of the best personal statements she’s ever read & “[she’s] not being hyperbolic” and now i wanna happy cry myself to sleep
realized my go to coping mechanism for a bad day has become to try and have a better day by reminding myself of how hot i am and that i got two degrees for the price of one from USC
earlier today when i told my coworker i’ll be quitting my job soon, her only response was that i remember to text her the link to my onlyfans if i ever make an account. and honestly there’s power in that
When people talk about how their parents are always stalking their grades in college, I can’t relate. My mom literally thinks I go to Stanford. She just knows it’s somewhere in California 😐
in the past 48hrs
- got cut from work 3 days and am losing MONEY
- almost broke my ankle and am sorta limping still
- got (shamed) for being queer & told i’ve been called to celibacy
- left my church
- got my foodstamps delayed
BUT GUESS WHAT
IMMA A BADASS, YOU CANT KILL ME
Bi culture is constantly reminding [fighting] your friends that people can be more than just straight or gay because apparently those are the only two options people can fathom
"Efforts to prevent depression [in children] might ultimately need to demand less of teachers and kids, and focus more on poverty, violence, homelessness, food insecurity & other structural problems that affect children’s mental health".
I can’t express my appreciation for community more than when an old best friend calls me, I feel like I am thriving & that life is truly a beautiful journey. Even in the midst of finals, from across the country, my best friends breathe so much life into me. Thank you.
MY BEST FRIEND PROPOSED TO MY BEST FRIEND AND I’m honestly feeling an overwhelming amount of joy and excitement for them filled with peace and serenity.
In other news, YO WHAT THE FUCK THIS SHIT IS CRAZY AND I AM LIIVVIINNGGG FOR THEM THIS IS AMAZING
You ever just want a girlfriend? and then a boyfriend? and then a girlfriend? and then a boyfriend? and then just decide you actually just wanna be single forever? oh no? that’s just me? oh okay got it.
Hit a bandwidth wall today but still needed to make one last slide-deck. This is all my brain would produce, which I've decided will have to be fine.
Anyway, happy 4th birthday LSMH! We've gone from reaching 0 to 30K+ folks with our SSIs. Grateful/excited for what's to come 😊
after setting off the security alarm, my best friend thought we should wait for the cops but i had to kindly remind her she got me FUCKED up. cops in this part of the south wanna deport people like me and nothing less 💀
I am both v excited to get married & have someone know & love me more deeply & intimately than any other person, but also trynna get to that place where I tell myself “Can j really get married? Will anyone really treat me as well as I treat myself?” Ya know?
currently sitting outside doing work on my mac, it’s golden hour, and if i’m honest, i KNOW i look good with this sun, this brown skin, and the fact that i am glowing.
y’all i’m getting closer and closer to maybe loving myself.
clownery part 2:
tripped and almost broke my ankle just now but kinda don’t have health insurance to get checked out soooo lemme just pray and hope my foot is okay LMAO
thinkin of all the people going thru it rn! all the people without family, without homes, without food, without safety & security, and with a little too much trauma from the holidays
may we be still in our ‘seasonal pain.’ may the stillness remind us that this too shall pass.
told my coworker i’ve only been eating once or twice a day because money is tiiiigghhtt right now and she deadass brought me a bunch of homemade meat pies the next day 😭
crazy swiping thru snapchat stories of people i knew in high school (down in Florida). these people are at PARTIES. FULL-BLOWN PARTIES. you woulda thought the pandemic never happened. mfs in a crowd trynna do the macarena while holding their corona beers 😭😭😭
i just wanna know where the police were with their tear gas, rubber bullets, and military equipment? crazy how marching for Black lives results in the persecution of protestors but when these crazy yts do it, nothing
Thank you to all the people, communities, and individuals who have supported this goal. My dream of becoming a clinical psychologist has officially commenced :) Thank you especially to
@JSchleiderPhD
@keanan_joyner
for all your mentorship and help with BIG life choices!
just heard a white person say that although diversity is good for colleges, accounting for race/ethnicity in college admissions is NOT beneficial but “dilutes the intelligence” of the school...
bro what 🤡
This cute woman at the retail store told me I should get a large hoodie instead of an x-large because the large showed off my “cute butt more” and is that flirting because I don’t know what flirting is and I was confused for a second and she said that was just her opinion
i think... i just got all As... for my last semester in college... but i’m kind of pressed because... i definitely took everything as Pass/NoPass because i was afraid i’d fuck up my GPA... and now... I’M MAD
absolutely HATE when i meet a cute boy and then spend the next 24hrs horrifically obsessed with them like wtf why are you living rent free in my mind, we just met, i didn���t say you could move in yet 😭
So many prayers/conversations/pleas of desperation have to led to this! exciting to know that Jesus DOES see this career in the cards for me and my spirit feels enthralled to begin this work—improving mental healthcare for all people living in an oppressive world (aka all of us!)