My view is straightforward: Surrey Police abuse women.
If my friend cannot speak after tomorrow, then I'm going to continue to draw attention to their abuse before eighteen thousand followers.
They cannot arrest us all.
I’m going to do a thread and limit replies. You’ll see why. Please do not speculate with names. But I think what is happening to me is important. I am not prohibited from talking about things in general terms.
Anyone remember when we could have short hair, play with mecannno, climb trees, ride Choppers, and no-one would try to "transition" us?
One reason I'm in this debate is because I simply grew up to be a lesbian and now fear that menaces like the Mermaids butcher, Susie Green,
1999: Out, lesbian-ing in London, at least three women only bars, living openly without fear.
2023: In coded FB groups, heavily vetted WhatsApps, we meet in secret.
All because MEN don't understand NO.
At 16, I *did* report my rapist (the neighbour who I escaped to from a violent alcoholic father). Here's what happened:
- "You can't recall dates" (having given an interview about events spanning 9-13).
- "You might have had boyfriends" (following a medical exam)
So, the CPS
@EamonnHolmes
Before there's any whinge about homophobia this lesbian is Team Eamonn. Most of us see the abusive, grooming, lying, manipulative predator for just that.
Asking women to call their abuser "she" is another manifestation of the power, control, and autonomy that was stolen from her. It is not merely a word.
I'll take prison.
Reminder that, if my friend Caroline Farrow cannot speak after this morning, then we are all going to, and we'll continue until she gets her voice back after being a victim of duplicitous behaviour intended to prevent her from mounting a defence.
What's more likely?
That multiple, unconnected, women have somehow "co-ordinated" a "vendetta" knowing they will, in some circles, be vilified?
Or that a rich, powerful man has used his status to abuse and legally threaten women?
#RussellBrand
After 3 years speaking under my own name, having lost my research post, been sued 4 times (I just never publicised the last 3), my wife dropping down dead and TRAs - aided by some "feminists" - weaponizing the death to distress, I need to sleep and rebuild now. I. AM. EXHAUSTED.
@metpoliceuk
@PeterTatchell
@PT_Foundation
Have you been inhaling drugs from the evidence locker?
The man endorses child abuse. As a lesbian who you have failed to protect from a male stalker, my confidence in you is already low. Now it's at the same level as your ability to convict rapists, i.e. non-existent.
Now that "Dr" Adrian Harrop has resurfaced, a note that he was:
(A) Suspended by the GMC for abusing six people online (incl. me).
And:
(B) Shared the confidential case bundle during his tribunal with the result that it appeared on a WordPress blog.
Abusive men don't change.
CAROLINE FARROW UPDATE: A source who has made an enquiry with the court has said that the hearing is being adjourned with a return date to be set and give Surrey Police's counsel an opportunity to consider evidence.
Coming out after having affairs, grooming teenagers, and lying to your family for years isn't "brave." It's a self-serving gesture designed to cover up your abuse. One case might be high profile but I know of another. These people are abusers. Their downfall is deserved.
I wanted to respond to this with something HIGHLY PHILOSOPHICAL about how being a woman just IS whereas being a lesbian involves summat called INTENSIONALITY (a mental state directed at things).
But it's late, I'm a glass of red down so will just say: BILLY BRAGG HAS THE IQ OF A
In which the figurehead of the Men's Tights Movement, David Hayton, thinks it "unrealistic" to treat men as always being men since "chromosomes and instinct" can diverge.
Having actually *met* Hayton, it was impossible to perceive him as anything other than the Jolly Giant
@jk_rowling
This rather does demonstrate why we need to protect single - sex spaces. KJK is, I am sure, bounce-backable but no woman should be endangered like that for speaking the truth. THANK YOU for using your platform to condemn this.
1. Since Surrey Police have ignored all costs correspondence for over a month, I can say that the cost to the taxpayer over their failed Stalking Order against Caroline Farrow is just over:
SEVEN THOUSAND POUNDS
And increasing because now a costs hearing has been listed.
The case failed the evidence test because THERE WAS NO EVIDENCE.
Surrey Police have, in my view, confused offender and victim. Their stalking order FAILED and now the entire case has FAILED.
My friend deserves an apology and recompense.
I'm delighted to have received notification from the CPS via Surrey Police that following my arrest in October 2022 and then again in April 2023, I will not be prosecuted for either malicious communications or harassment.
The CPS consider that the evidential test has not been
We all told you but have been dismissed by some as being "prudish", "conservative", "intolerant of GNC behaviour" etc.
So, we now have a situation whereby this degenerate is opining the "stigmatization" of paedophilia.
You sort this one out. It's not on us.
Behind every other AGP is a traumatised, abused ex-partner. Why not invite THEM to your events to speak or otherwise participate? Because when you befriend their abuser you are signalling your contempt for the women left behind and, yes, many of us will judge you for it.
Both TRAs and some left - wing feminists owe KJK a retraction and apology.
Will she get one?
Of course not. But we can make clear that SFW did not, and have not, encouraged a far-right presence at their events.
@stephenwhittle
@blindinGC1
You need to distinguish between sense and reference. Plainly, "male" & "female" are cognitive descriptors to refer to *different* kinds of things out there in the world. Your post is trivial since *all* words are "constructs" and have no causal bearing on the reality of things.
Today, I learned that the police simultaneously think that an unhinged man threatening to kill an MP is NOT a crime and that my friend telling the truth about the abuse she's been subjected to IS one. I can only conclude, again, that the police facilitate abuse of women.
The number of TRAs who think Elaine Miller actually flashed before Scottish Parliament really reveals just how many of them have actually been with a woman, doesn't it?
"Trans" women embody the ultimate manifestation of patriarchy. What could be a bigger F^^^ you than parodying womanhood whilst usurping and demolishing all our achievements and boundaries in the process?
The application for this relied upon one side of the story. The court, quite rightly, said that the other side should be allowed to make submissions. Following review, the case for the order has collapsed.
Binned. Trashed. Rubbished.
Time for Pimms to celebrate 🍷🍓
I am relieved and delighted to announce that having reviewed the significant evidence, Surrey police have decided to withdraw their application for a stalking protection order against me. 🎉🥳🍾
Our Bessie has been suspended for a week for this. I merely attach the screen without commenting for acct. preservation purposes, but everyone knows what I think.
Woken up to find a heterosexual woman, whose qualifications from bubblefuck nowhere weren't even recognised until 2019, proclaiming that butch lesbians are turned on by dressing as men. And THIS is who is platformed? We need to publicly challenge the dangerous homophobe.
It is considerably more likely that blonde, blue eyed, Eddie Izzard would have been a member or supporter of the Nazi party than one of its victims. To appropriate traumatic events for sympathy is appalling.
#IStandWithRosieDuffield
@Gathersources
This was 1997 and the officer said they believed me but that was the CPS feedback. I absolutely cannot face a second time round, but seeing his life now and seeing mine, I know I've got the much better deal. I *won*, even if that wasn't legally.
You may dislike some women but you leave their personal lives and jobs alone. We now have a single mother who has lost her income before Christmas because of what? Someone's vendetta.
And gloating about it reveals just how despicable you are.
@bbcpress
Why anyone is paying for a TV licence (and I bin your ridiculous letters without opening) is beyond me given numerous other offerings. Bye Beeb!
If you call a man "she" you are both facilitating a delusion and signalling, even if you think you're not, tacit acceptance of said delusion. Language shapes thought and if you claim to defend reality then you had better *speak* of reality. Anything else is selling out.
As a working class, deaf, lesbian I fought for a long time to have a voice. The brilliant thing about
#LetWomenSpeak
is that EVERY woman is equal. Your platform doesn't depend upon who you know, background, or if you're book smart. Every woman speaking can make real change 💛
I think, after being sued four times, losing my academic post, being stalked (that is what it is) by a lunatic, and having my wife of a decade drop down dead, I've done my bit, no? I feel very different now and need life calm (it is). It's OK to lay low and rebuild for a bit 💛
A man performing what he thinks being a woman involves - dresses, makeup - is exemplifying regressive norms. If you applaud this as "brave" or "different", then you are reinforcing stereotypes. It's not gender critical. More gender idiocy.
If childhood sexual abuse, or other trauma, caused women to be lesbians as this specimen thinks, then lesbians would VASTLY outnumber heterosexuals (and my dating life would have been considerably easier).
I do hope that the MET Police put as much effort into protecting Shuminrun Nessa from threats as they do protecting rapists and murderers. That way, she might actually be kept safe.
#IStandWithShumirunNessa
After J died, I went on a mad widow-learns-DIY-and-changes-house-spree (which I learned is common!). This month, I've made "our" room "mine" which was the last project. I feel able to look forward and make room for other things now and that's OK. 💜
Have just left the breast clinic with Fred the giant cyst drained! I cannot praise York clinic enough: examined, scanned, and popped within the hr with everyone being reassuring (many worried faces as you'd expect). Happy sunshine walk now after Googling self into grave!
Dear Men,
Since it is women who are primarily affected by gender ideology, it is your place to be allies and listen.
It is not your place to resolve women's disputes, monetise our work, assume we need help, and can learn *from* you.
That's part of the entitlement that got us
I don't feel more "correct" with my implant - indeed, I feel "correct" *without* it having genetic deafness and being used to largely silence. It's a sophisticated device that helps me better navigate the world but doesn't make me feel more human.
Please stop exploiting
If your response to a woman saying FUCK NICE is a sharp intake of breath and OPTICS, then think about your female socialisation and probable classism. NICE never appeased TRAs who will loathe you anyway.
FUCK. NICE.
*Sings*
On the 1st day of Christmas, the High Court sent to me, a lawsuit from an AGP.
On the 2nd day of Christmas, my lawyer sent to me, an injunction from the same AGP.
On the 3rd day of Christmas, Surrey Police sent to me,
Three Officers,
To arrest me.
*sings*
SOMEONE, despite TEN YEARS of wisdom, has yet to establish that there is a HIGHLY RELIABLE connection between scoffing things under hedgerows on walks and digestive upsets. Perhaps Twitter might tell Matilda off.
This afternoon, Surrey Police have established that person X is involved with, or behind, an acct. that has made 4500 tweets about
@CF_Farrow
, and to a lesser extent me and
@AdrianYalland
.
Consistency presumably demands the abuser is arrested and investigated.
We'll see.
@JeremyVineOn5
Whilst it's accepted there are fraudsters (e.g. ppl. who travel everywhere independently whilst claiming disabling conditions), the sums involved are dwarfed by tax fraud. Start with MPs and the Prime Minister's circle before targeting vulnerable groups.
This is a man openly mocking and dehumanising women ("joking" about not contributing to running the house whilst posing in Marigolds) whilst his wife subsumes her own needs because he is "happier."
And he's lauded for it.
WPUK and friends are propping up a domestic abuser.
Quite surreal to watch my wife's cisheterotwat "friend" announce that all "terfs" are "right wing" whilst he sits there posting photos of himself sporting his wife's clothes now saying he's a "they." HOW did I ever get mixed up with these misogynistic degenerates?
Imagine arresting a woman for supposedly not paying for a bus ticket but failing to protect victims of stalking and harassment leaving us to defend ourselves from men with documented violent pasts. Yes,
@metpoliceuk
, I mean YOU.
If a woman strolled into a conference dressed like that AGP smurf, the same ppl. claiming it's harmless would be deriding her as "trashy" & "asking for it." Yet we're supposed to applaud said AGP for being "brave"? It's NOTHING to do with being GNC & about respecting boundaries.
Just a reminder that
@SurreyPolice
have abused my friend
@CF_Farrow
by way of wrongful arrest, a failed stalking application, and having had to drop the case because it was deemed hopeless, they now won't return devices or bother to show up to their own costs hearing.
@SuellaBraverman
Listen to
@CF_Farrow
who is awaiting a CPS charging decision by Fri based on complaints by the same man who has sued her twice and is currently doing so a third time (I've been sued three times by him). The police have enabled someone we consider our abuser. Will you help?
This month I have: replaced the boiler, fixed the Terf mobile (a Mini), fixed a lock, some bricks, painted the living room, and am about to build a fence. I do NOT recommend learning adult-ing via one's wife dropping down dead but it's OK to feel proud I've got this, right?
Quick Philosophy Lesson:
If A (motherhood) is a consequence of B (sex), it does NOT follow that A and B are the same kind of thing.
Compare:
If Lachlan is the product of two sane, intelligent people, it does NOT follow that Lachlan is sane and intelligent.
Endeth Lesson.
Being on the two week pathway to rule out (or in) breast cancer is, frankly, - although I'm probably fine - terrifying.
My anxiety is somewhere in the vicinity of Mars.
"Trans" women will NEVER have to deal with these sorts of experiences.
Anyone would think them men.
@elonmusk
Does that mean you'll fund me suing
@UniOfYork
after they removed five Research Associate positions under the guise of an admin cleanup all because I called a cognitively subnormal man a cognitively subnormal man online?
@DuncanHenry78
We're back to the whole argument of passing but even if, in the very rare instance of doing so (e.g. as when at a gathering of the blind), there's still no justification for entering women's spaces.
We swim away from sharks, don't drink the poison, and don't walk into the burning building. Yet now, we're not only supposed to ignore our survival responses but are being shamed for them by the very orgs that purport to safeguard us. Why? For profit.
I'm happy with my disgust.
Before this debate, I trusted the police. I assumed, naively, that they would take seriously women's concerns. Now? I won't engage without counsel, and not everyone has access to that. They are failing the vulnerable whilst enabling abusive, criminal, men.
A man wrote a book calling HIMSELF a AGP and his graphic sexual comments have seen him evicted from groups. Calling him "she" enables the paraphilia. If you, like other self-identified "thought leaders" wish to participate, that's your choice. We're allowed to judge you for it.
1. Here, we have a situation whereby someone who reported my friend,
@CF_Farrow
to
@SurreyPolice
for harassment finds it normal to dine minutes away from her home having given a witness statement.
This is not the first time.
For the first time, since everything, I am happy, smiling, excited, and making plans for the New Year.
It is no longer an endurance event.
Some know why 🧡
If a man is on a dating app. claiming to be a lesbian, advertises female sportswear, steals medals whilst plainly unfit, and does things like posing semi-naked in a pink bra before the world, then yes, we ARE going to laugh.
The ridiculous deserve ridicule.
I won't apologise.
Personally, I don't care if someone works in a bar or is a professor. None of us know another's circumstances, and I'd wager the former job involves meeting diverse people. If you sneer at someone working, whatever their role, that speaks poorly of your character.
I've been hiding event wise since *everything* and social anxieties (despite how loud I am online) but tomorrow this big-footed ginger shall be at LWS Leeds. I'll be in a corner quietly photo-ing. Please say HELLO 💜
There is, quite plainly (or visually), a difference between men who subvert (meaningless) gender norms and men who publicise their degeneracy to the entire world. Most all of us are justifiably criticising the latter. You don't need to be "right wing" to do that. Just have eyes.
Anyone with integrity and basic moral decency should feel appalled, if not publicly condemn, the violent mob in Auckland. If you feel the need to victim-blame or use caveats ("Yes, but ...") about what is self-evidently abusive behaviour, then you are part of the problem.
The endless spectacle of middle-class-dim-witted Guardian-reading-men who cloak their misogyny in I AM DEFENDING A VULNERABLE MINORITY (who happen to closely resemble them) whilst never having spoken on anything LGB-"T" related until this debate. Sweartogod, at risk of aneurysm.
Imagine boasting that you won a £115 parking fine whilst failing to mention that you currently owe:
- The Daily Mail £29,000
- Adrian Yalland £3000
- The Family Education Trust £15,000
- Glinner several K
- Ex Landlord several K
Real hotshot lady lawyer.
This thing, which has purportedly achieved advanced obedience levels, THIEVED one donut chew, one biscuit bone, and a toothbrush chew in the pet shop today in manner of klepto-dog. I did not correct the assumption she was a young lively pup.
She's ELEVEN.
This denigration of Kathleen Stock and delusion that I AM THE ONLY QUALIFIED WOMAN to speak really is astonishing but, I think, provides insight into the mind of a narcissist angry at not being seen as THE VOICE.
You lied, trashed women, and got some pushback. That's all.
@MaxiMumMother
I don't know.
She was informed of this with 72 hours notice. She's supposed to have two weeks. It's extremely unorthodox and cynical me suspects it's deliberate to thwart any proper response.
Today, women have been surrounded, verbally abused, and placed in fear by a mob for nothing more than speaking the truth and telling their stories. I hope that everyone with basic decency, irrespective of their views, condemns this.