Building Great Marriages
@dovidfeldman
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Husband, Father, Licensed Marriage Therapist. Let me show you how to Build a Great Marriage in 12 short weeks! https://t.co/Qqgllo8S53…
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Joined April 2009
The backbone of your relationship is not love. It's commitment. Because love waxes and wanes like the moon. But commitment keeps you together, till the brighter day around the corner.
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Men: "All she wants is my money-what I provide for her!"😠. Women: "All he wants is sex-how I please him!"😠. When did masculine provisioning and feminine intimacy become toxic? . These used to be called our "strengths"–gifts we willingly, lovingly gave to partners.🙏❤️.
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Gents, text her this instead:. "I'm so proud of the efforts you make to help support the family. It's really up and beyond what you contribute to making our life special. Thank you for being the best wife! 🙏❤️ ". DM me and LMK!.
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RT @dovidfeldman: Today's #gratitude award goes to one of my favorite friends, committed to reframing her relationship with her man. She i….
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RT @Clarabell045788: My husband and i have a secret to making our marriage last. Twice a week we go to a nice restaurant,drink a little win….
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RT @mtnhousewife: Daily reminder, dear ladies , to be kind to your husbands. Love on them. Be warm and soft. If you find this difficult, fo….
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No, you're not getting it. Everyone has standards. Yet average women (looks, intelligence, character) are not attracted to average men because of "standards.". Yet why do "average" women find "average" men so unattractive?.
“Women are delusional and think they’ve 10s who deserve 10s”. No, you’re still not getting it. Women would rather be alone than with someone they’re not into. We aren’t men: most of us won’t have sex with just anyone or anything, we have standards.
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The angst of love - the ebb and flow of closeness and distance - can be so frustrating. Why can't we always just get along and feel the love we have for each other? 😞.
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Most marriage issues can quickly and easily resolve with increased kindness, patience, support, acceptance, and boundaries. And sex. Often, we overcomplicate life and love to the point of sabotage. 😢.
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Happy Wife, Happy Life #2:. While they may be difficult to handle at times, her emotions are not your enemy. Rather, her strong feelings are a gift to your relationship, crafting you into a more compassionate, empathic & wise man. And when she’s in a good mood, Wow! Is she fun!.
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If you give her a chance, with an open heart, acceptance, and patience, your wife will bring you the most joy, pleasure, and adventure you could ever wish for. And then some. 🙏💚.
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Kudos to the wives who, in addition to everything else they do for their families, help keep their hubbies from porn. 🙏💪.
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It's a life of torture sharing a bed with a partner with whom your relationship is skin deep. Share your visions, your goals, your values. If you're not connecting to her heart, her mind, and her soul, she's not the one.
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When the pattern of your intimacy breaks, you both must do what you can to repair. No, she's not "withholding" like it may feel. No, he didn't just " lost interest.". You both want and need each other. Make the first move to reunite as husband and wife. 💚🙏.
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Having solid boundaries of what behaviors are unacceptable in your marriage is critical. Because most emotional abuse isn't at the hands of ill-meaning narcissists or BPDers, but merely via your spouse's coping mechanisms for their childhood wounds.
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Some people waste entire years of their lives because they believe they're not ready for marriage. While you can work on getting married, you cannot prepare for marriage because it's a lifelong journey of personal change and learning. Get started, today!.
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Good morning Gd! Good morning World!. You can't have a good marriage without being good at marriage. As you get better at connecting with and supporting each other, the love you two share comes to the surface. 💚🙏.
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Noticing all she does for you is a great start. Now we must learn to express our appreciation and gratitude:. "Honey, you've been such a caring wife recently. I appreciate all the attention you are giving me and our marriage. Thank you." ❤️😘. Cut-n-paste. LMK how it goes.
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I love how some people rush to explore their sexuality after they get divorced. It's like:. "Wow, if you would have done 1/10th of that during your marriage, you'd have had a great relationship.".
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Loving habits form the foundation of a loving relationship. Kindness, gratitude, affection. Start increasing in these three, and you are guaranteed to bring love back! 😍.
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