Building Great Marriages
@dovidfeldman
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Husband, Father, Licensed Marriage Therapist. Let me show you how to Build a Great Marriage in 12 short weeks! https://t.co/Qqgllo8S53…
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The backbone of your relationship is not love. It's commitment. Because love waxes and wanes like the moon. But commitment keeps you together, till the brighter day around the corner.
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You will keep facing the same relationship challenges, over and over again, until you get it right. 90% of the time, the first step to success is humility. This is Gd's gift to you, to help you become a better partner and spouse. 🙏💚.
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For emotional relief and clarity, ask yourself: . "What actually happened?". vs. "What story am I bringing to this situation?". Most often, you will find the most straightforward solution answering the first, .and the most profound pain when answering the second. 🙏💚.
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RT @dovidfeldman: Don't be stingy with your love. Because underneath the fear of heartbreak is the desire to be accepted, loved, and seen.….
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Many people have issues that go way, way beyond their spouse. It's called "childhood wounding," and rarely has to do with him. No matter how trustworthy, kind, consistent, and patient he is, if she doesn't do her personal work, it won't help - she will always feel unsafe.
The softest parts of a woman only come out when it’s safe to. So many men say they want a soft woman, a feminine woman, a gentle woman. But softness isn’t a trait, it’s a response. You don’t get it by demanding it. You get it by earning it. You create it when you give her a.
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3 Simple and Easy ways to Increase Love & Affection:. ✅ Praise your partner, daily.✅ 5-second hug, 1x day. ✅ Eliminate criticism. This will snowball into more joy, positivity, and intimacy! 😍.
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Most women I work with, when loved, accepted, appreciated, and honored are naturally GREAT WIVES! 🙏💚.
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Spend a moment gracefully contemplating your most precious relationships. Having compassion and love for another, even if only in thought, arouses that person's innermost powers and strengthens your connection.
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Men don't want to be loved for their money, as women don't want to be loved for reproduction. We all want to feel honored and respected for what we traditionally bring to the table, but not used for it.
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For example, in addition to prioritizing and scheduling family time, she makes sure we call our older children as a family and shares family pics and stories on our group chat. Ladies, how do you encourage family closeness?. LMK below! 👇.
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One of the most beautiful kindnesses my wife shows me is encouraging my relationship with my children at every turn. It's so easy to be concerned with business, work, and helping others that I may not prioritize the little moments with kids. So thankful she helps with this! 👇.
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I know it's hard. I've been there. But I promise you, she's much more than what your heart is telling you right now. Much more. Don't let the goldmine of her love go to waste. Sometimes, we don't get a 2nd chance. 💚🙏.
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"Great sex doesn't make a marriage great. A great marriage leads to great sex." ~ @salmahayek.
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Don't ever take her for granted. All that love, affection, giving and kindness isn't something easily replaceable. Better for you both to recognize what is unique and special about each other, and love those things dearly. 🙏💚.
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My lovely wife, @miriam_racquel, dropping bars on marriage, love, intimacy, and connection!.
Soulmates, marriage, and the imperfect. Rabbi Manis Friedman, Rabbi Shais Taub, Rivka Krinsky, and Eda Schottenstein, and I discuss marriage. As a Somatic Healer, Marriage Coach, and Trauma & Anxiety Specialist, I help empower women to enjoy a peaceful marriage and home.
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I promise you, she's much more than what your heart is telling you right now. Much more. Don't let the goldmine of her love go to waste. Sometimes, we don't get a 2nd chance. 💚🙏.
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Her pain doesn't disappear just because you say, "I'm sorry." She doesn't work that way. Her heart only mends when she feels heard, understood, and honored.💔.
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The happiest couples I work with are average in every way. Except for how well they treat each other. 🙏❤️.
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Men: "All she wants is my money-what I provide for her!"😠. Women: "All he wants is sex-how I please him!"😠. When did masculine provisioning and feminine intimacy become toxic? . These used to be called our "strengths"–gifts we willingly, lovingly gave to partners.🙏❤️.
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Gents, text her this instead:. "I'm so proud of the efforts you make to help support the family. It's really up and beyond what you contribute to making our life special. Thank you for being the best wife! 🙏❤️ ". DM me and LMK!.
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No, you're not getting it. Everyone has standards. Yet average women (looks, intelligence, character) are not attracted to average men because of "standards.". Yet why do "average" women find "average" men so unattractive?.
“Women are delusional and think they’ve 10s who deserve 10s”. No, you’re still not getting it. Women would rather be alone than with someone they’re not into. We aren’t men: most of us won’t have sex with just anyone or anything, we have standards.
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