staunch hedonist 🇭🇹
@becomingsj
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We lost the plot when we started viewing homes as investment opportunities and not as places to live
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Flirting is becoming a lost art due to the decline in literacy. Those who can flirt the best are usually very witty and know how to engage in banter!
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People think things don’t bother me because I don’t act erratic over any & every transgression. Whole time I just have good emotional regulation skills [& sane]
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i would rather be known as the one who do too much and very combative instead of the one who was easy to manipulate and play with.
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The gym will just never be fun or enjoyable for me and I’ve come to terms with that. Ima still go but ima complain everytime 😭
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I used to read those erotic books when I was younger and just knew I was gonna be freaked out when I got older. Whew 😭
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girl, if you are trying to up your sexy and whimsy, you have to start dancing and stretching. all those stored emotions need a channel for release. put on your favorite album and start dancing in front of a mirror as often as possible.
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Murderers, drug dealers, thieves, rapists…shit even snitches get a second chance at life, but hoes 🙂↔️ nah. Yaw hate when bitches swim up stream and pass your miserable BLACK ssa.
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sometimes u miss church in a cosmic ancestral catharsis kind of way and not #that way
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Unpopular opinion: Trust can’t be rebuilt
Unpopular opinion, I don’t believe you should have to pay for the same mistake 1,000 times. Rebuilding trust takes time. But you gotta learn the difference between earning someone’s forgiveness vs being put through a humiliation ritual out of spite.
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currently 30% into this. it's heavy and complex and I love every bit of it. she wrote this with deep care.
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i’ll never apologize for being sensitive. bitch that hurt my feelings and fuck you as well. i don’t care
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Unfortunately I do enjoy being ruder to someone who was rude to me first
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You can’t even buy “beater” cars for a decent price anymore.
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it’s always a good idea to rewatch: insecure, sex & the city or gossip girl.
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Just finished both seasons of Love Life on Netflix. Very realistic depiction of the ebb and flows of various relationships. 10/10. No notes, just wished there were more seasons.
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