Kira J
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My daughter found my passport today & she thought it was paperwork to show I’m an alien 👽😂. Shoulda never let her watch MIB
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One of y’all son’s has a crush on my daughter and gave her his glasses today. His prescription glasses that he cannot see without. Just like a boy doing anything to impress a girl. Giving up the gift of sight is crazy 😂😩
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Mariah Carey sings like she wanna make sure nobody can remake her songs 😂
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Take more pictures of yourself this year. Your anxiety is lying to you. You’re really beautiful and all those insecurities are in your head.
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You absolutely HAVE to become ok with not being liked. No matter how loving or kind you are, you will never people please your way into collective acceptance. You could be a whole ray of sunshine and people will hate you cuz they’re used to rain. Be ok with shining regardless.
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I called my man today about something that was bothering me from yesterday & the first thing he said was “so this has been sitting on your heart all day? Why wouldn’t you tell me I need to know I’m making you feel safe enough to tell me these things” I immediately started crying
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Date romantic men who like to plan dates and buy flowers instead of dating nonchalant men and trying to force them into something they think is pointless and unnecessary.
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Y’all be beating yourself up about the mistakes you’ve made in the past as if you been here twice or something. This is your first time living this life. Give yourself some grace as you’ve learned to navigate through it. You don’t know what you don’t know til you know better.
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BLACK TWITTER QUIZ
If you can correctly answer all of these questions, that means you’re a consistent and active member of black twitter. Let’s begin!
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I remember when my nigga wanted a PS5 for Christmas but they were sold out everywhere. So I booked a flight round trip from NY to ATL to go pick up one from a reseller just so he could have it in time. I got him the PS5. He got me absolutely nothing. Happy Holidays 😌
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The highest form of love is consideration. When someone thinks about how things would make you feel. Pays attention to detail. Holds you in regard when making decisions that could affect you. In any bond, how much they care about you can be found in how much they consider you.
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Motherhood is such a beautiful experience when you create life with a man who truly loves you.
Oomf shared this on her page and I just had to share it on mine…
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Being mean is so weird to me. I genuinely don’t get no pleasure from embarrassing, belittling, or just overall hurting people feelings. Something wrong with some of y’all spirits fr. You gotta be in a very dark place to feel good by making people feel bad.
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Normalize saying “that’s none of my business” when people present things to you or ask you about things that have nothing to do with you.
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I used to test batteries on my tongue to feel that sting and I think that’s why I’m a lil slow and be choosing the wrong men.
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Anxious girls need patient men. I’m relaxed in every area of my life, but love. In love I am always worrying, always uneasy, always unsure. The way he’s able to calm my thoughts and bring me back to stillness with ease is nothing short of everything I prayed for.
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Advice to all my late 20-somethings, be open to making new friends. You’re trying to force friends you’ve grown apart from to fit with who you’re transitioning into. It’s ok to meet new ppl that align with who you are now & who you’re becoming instead of just who you used to be.
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Last year I lost my 2 br luxury apt & had to downgrade to a small studio with me & my daughter. With my bed in the kitchen/living room, I was embarrassed. I thought my old place is what God had for me & couldn’t believe I lost it. Today, I got approved for a 3 story townhome.
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Never again will I deal with men that make me feel like I’m hard to love, men that make me feel like I’m not worthy of affection, or men that make me feel like I’m doing too much when I require more than the bare minimum.
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My last break up hit me so hard because I’ve had a man who I had friendship with, a man who I had pure lust & sexual chemistry with, and a man who I had adoration & admiration for. I never knew you could find all 3 things in one person until him. And that hurt like hell to lose…
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This my first time seeing a white dress bridal party & omg they killed this! 😩
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I’m bisexual but hetero-romantic. Meaning I am sexually attracted to both men and women but I’m only interested in being in a relationship with a man. Like girl we could bump coochies but I’m not cuddling and watching movies with you 😅😅😅
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At some point you just gotta want it bad enough. The money. The body. The lifestyle. The success. Whatever that “it” is for you. You just gotta want it so bad that you wake up one day & work harder than you ever did. Then one day, you’ll look around & realize you finally have it.
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I truly dislike the notion that “most of the wins you see posted online are fake so you should be happy with your life”. That’s coddling insecurity instead of addressing it. The truth is, some ppl really are winning and you need to learn to be happy with your life regardless.
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My daughter just referred to her dad as my “ex husband”. I said girl that is my ex boyfriend I was never married to him. She gon look at me and say “well that’s weird for you to have a baby with somebody you wasn’t married to”. Not you judging me for making YOU 😂
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Not Jlo said “all my pride is all I have” and this nigga LL said “pride is what you HAD baby girl I’m what you have” lmaoooo why I didn’t realize this was a toxic nigga song when I was a kid 😂
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She get on my nerves I’m tryna explain to her we giving it back tomorrow cuz he can’t see without them she like “well he saw what he was doing when he gave them to me” 😂😂😩
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Too many women with dark energy and ill intentions organize and run a lot of these “empowerment” retreats, events, and conferences. Most of those spaces do nothing more than exploit vulnerable women who are looking to feel accepted and included.
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It’s men out here loving their lady out loud. Spoiling her with affection & appreciation for the world to see & behind closed doors. And you over there tryna act like you don’t want that cuz the man you want don’t wanna give that to you. Girl if you don’t leave him already.
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Daily reminder that you’re probably not depressed you might just have a vitamin deficiency
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Please do not try to talk to me if you know you don’t got a big dick. I have been through enough.
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You ever felt like a placeholder? Like somebody was only dealing with you until they could get the person they actually wanted? Using you as a filler to fill the time until they could go where they rather be?
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So much of the pain I’ve experience in my life was due to my own choices. My lack of self love and lack of firm boundaries had me going through stuff I was better than. But I’m better now. I love me now. I stand my ground now. And nobody gets to hurt me anymore.
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Social media has made a lot of y’all meaner than you realize. Under the guise of “just sharing your opinion”, y’all pick apart peoples looks, critique their creativity, and post reaction videos to snippets of their life (out of context) to push whatever narrative that you want…
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I want my future husband to see me and feel relieved every time. Like when I walk into any room, the comfort it brings him makes him feel like you feel when you walk in your house after a long day. A safe space love. The type of love that feels as good as coming home ❤️🏡
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I’m really done with making excuses for my procrastination and lack of discipline. In this next chapter I really owe myself the upmost dedication!
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If you watch a man hurt another woman, PARTICIPATE in helping him hurt her, laugh and make a mockery out of her pain because you think he’s gonna treat you differently, then please do not expect sympathy when it’s you. Because one thing about them tables....
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My daughter told me her and her friends call themselves “the baddies squad”. I said girl bye do you even know what a baddie is? She said “yea like the girls on baddies East”. I said wth I never let you watch that show. She said “I know but my friend mom lets her watch it and she…
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I’ve had sex with people and still didn’t give a fuck about them after we was finished. Sex ain’t never brainwashed me into thinking someone was a good person so either I need therapy or y’all do
omg you mean to tell me sex gives people a false sense of attachment to a person bc of the oxytocin released after sex? the hormone makes you make decisions you usually wouldn’t make? like they can be the worst person but this hormone has convinced you that’s your soulmate? wow.
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The Grandmothers gave the mothers bad advice out of survival. The mothers gave the daughter’s bad advice out of pain. The daughter’s must take what they’ve been told and unlearn what doesn’t fit. Breaking generational curses sometimes looks like not listening to your elders.
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There’s so much grief involved with growth. We often associate grief with death when it’s really any hard emotional loss. Once you commit to entering a new season, prepare to mourn the past versions of yourself.
What realizations have you gained from attending therapy?
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The side effects of dealing with men who don’t like you is you thinking everything you do is annoying & doing too much. You’ll find it hard to do simple stuff like even callin a man cuz that last one always made you feel like you got on his nerves when he just ain’t like you 😩😅
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My love language happens to be all 5 love languages. I need you to physically touch me. Do acts of service for me. Spend quality time with me. Give me gifts. Give me words of affirmation. The love I’m after is multilingual. I need all that good shit & more ❤️
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To all my fellow single ladies, the rule for romance this year is simple. Either date new men or date no men. All your old situationships have officially EXPIRED.
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My friend was upset cuz her man was out all day. She like he not tryna spend time with her. Was this man not in the car dealership all day buying her a new car cuz hers broke. He pulled up to my pool to give her the keys. I looked at her like “so what did we learn today?”😂
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Don’t let nobody spin the block on you. They went where they wanted to go. Make ‘em stay there.
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Men are warned to look out for gold diggers. As women we need to be on the look out for soul diggers. Some men are only interested in you to steal your light so they can escape their own darkness.
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I like seeing y’all cook, graduate, get new jobs, start new businesses, find new partners,, marry old partners, get new apartments, have babies, or just buy things that make you happy. Everybody on social media not miserable. Thanks for posting your good news!
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I left my last situation cuz I woke up and realized the love we had, wasn’t the love I wanted. It takes a lot of honesty with self to admit you’re not being loved the way you need to be loved. Then it takes a lot of strength within to leave until it finds you.
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Currently negotiating the return lol Now I gotta get her some cute glasses of her own
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If I gotta tell you something hurts me more than once before you fix it, that means you’re choosing to hurt me. And I don’t want nobody in my life that’s ok with hurting me anymore…
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On December 21st 2020, what were black people waiting around to get?
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I be quiet as hell when y’all be having that “black women we need to date outside our race” conversation. That’s a fight y’all will have to face on your own cuz I’m not doing it 😂😅
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How you report to the group chat when you finally get some good dick
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Sharing this so the algorithm can keep me on this thoughtful side of twitter 💚
In 2016 my boyfriends baby brother died by suicide.. He always talks about the dreams they had that they can’t achieve now.☹️ This Christmas I had some stickers made for him so that as we travel the world together he can leave them behind as a symbol of his guardian angel🥹👼🏿
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Humiliation is not discipline.
Humiliation is not discipline.
Humiliation is not discipline.
Some of y’all don’t need kids y’all need therapy…
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Being lonely but not desperate is a rough combo. Because it’s like I really wish I had somebody romantic in my life but I also don’t want just anybody for the sake of having somebody. What’s it called when you’re tired of being alone but still waiting until it’s the right person?
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You finally get the woman of your dreams. She’s beautiful, compassionate, & everything you prayed for on them nights when you was entertaining women that ain’t give a fuck about you. You finally get her & you ruin it because you think it’s something outside you’ll be missing…
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I don’t take joy in knowing that every ex-friend or past lover is doing bad in life since we parted ways. I take joy in not knowing what anybody who’s not in my life anymore is up to. Good or bad, I can’t tell you shit bout them people. I love that for me.
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Can we start a petition to make it mandatory that every man have to wear this before speaking on women’s issues?
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I thought I knew what pain was. Then I fell in love with an Aries. You have no idea what pain truly is until you try to love one of those…
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If someone says “excuse me not to be disrespectful or rude but could you please delete this. this is my sister who was hit by a metra train & this post is very disrespectful. idk who you are or if you even know or have seen her but i need you to delete this” How must you respond?
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One thing about me I’m a habitual leaver. I do not fight for love, relationships, friendships any of that. I will leave you alone so fast idc how much I love you 😂
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I gotta stay single until I work on this temper. Men of this generation have normalized playing in women’s faces. My “get sad and cry” days are over. I’m liable to beat one of y’all tf up that’s why I stay away from y’all 😂😂😂
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I want a man who adores me. I want a man who speaks his love for me out loud. I want a man who is affectionate. I want a man that knows how to communicate. I want a man who protects me. Y’all can front & act like y’all don’t want this shit too but I know what I want out of love.
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because I can count how many men I feel EMOTIONALLY safe with. Physically yes I know I got alot of men that won’t play about me. But to just be able to call your man and tell them something is making you sad and they listen brought me to tears 😭
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Y’all stop liking people at the first sign of difference of opinion and you wonder why your friendships and relationships don’t last. If you need ppl to agree with all your views in order for you to want them in your life, then you not looking for bonds you looking for yes men.
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I need to take better care of myself. My body. My money. My spirit. My energy. I owe me that much to be better. To be more disciplined. To be more kind.
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When you’re ready to call love into your life again, be very specific of the type of love you want. Call for a partner that affirms you, a partner you feel safe with, a partner that always handles you with care.
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What 7 words caused an all out internet race war between the black and Indian community?
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You’re not really evolving until you begin to question everything around you. Until you reexamine every relationship in your life. Until you revisit all your wounds. Until you reevaluate your own behavior and patterns.
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I’ve never went on a date with somebody I ain’t like just to get a free meal. I ain’t never flirted with somebody I wasn’t attracted to just because he had a bag. I ain’t never slept with somebody that didn’t turn me on just to gain something out of him.
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A nigga ever fucked you so good he reprogrammed ya coochie to not get wet for nobody but him 😩🫠💦💦💦
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I don’t think I’m ever gon fall in love like that again. I genuinely don’t even want to anymore. I’m glad to have experienced it but I think I’m done I just wanna be by myself.
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Getting online on MOTHER’S DAY to celebrate your joys of not being a mom, brag about your freedom, and exclaim how happy you are that you aren’t tied down with kids like everyone else around you…I just want you to know your pain is clear & VERY loud. It’s going to be ok 💐
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Pussy is amazing. Titties are amazing. But romantically speaking women do nothing for me and that’s ok. Just lemme eat your pussy and go home to my boyfriend 😂😂😂
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This is not currently y’all lol I have been man free for a long time now. In part because of shit like this in my past lol showing love to ppl that barely even like you was the story of my life. I don’t show love to nobody no more 🫠
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Like imagine falling in love with your bestfriend and having the best sex of your life with someone you really look up to… Shit was so good until it wasn’t 😔
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but idgaf baddie culture will not consume my 7 year old! Little girls need to be protected from adult agendas it’s nothing about the baddies show that they need to be watching I’m so mad 😩😩😩
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You gon miss a lot of experiences waiting until you have somebody to go with you to do things. The trips. The dates. The adventures. You can still enjoy it all. Go by yourself.
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Every happy couple you see on your timeline is not miserable behind closed doors. If you have to tell yourself that in order to not feel jealous then you have internal issues that need to be healed. A lot of those couple are truly happy and that’s ok.
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A social media coach was captured on video berating a woman who attended her retreat. This prompted black twitter to further make a mockery out of the now viral clip. What do you call a plate of hefty food you’re about to enjoy?
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So I had to sit with her and talk for hour after school about behaviors not appropriate for kids to emulate and how instead of calling themselves “the baddies squad” why don’t they call themselves “the beautiful black queens”. She said she’s going to convince the group to change…
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Not to be dramatic or nothing but I’m never getting into a relationship again. Men are so hurtful. It’s actually crazy the way we’ve normalized the pain they be inflicting 😩🥲😅
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Virgo, Sagittarius, and Capricorn women are an acquired taste lol Everybody is not gon like them but none of them are going to care 😂. The dope part is this though, once you like them, you LOVE them ❤️
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It’s ok to distance yourself from friends that are in toxic relationships. It’s very draining to be friends with someone that calls you crying & emotionally dumping every other day about someone they refuse to leave.
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May this be the lowest you ever feel again and have the highest of days ahead of you.
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This year I pray for detachment from all those I’ve given my love and energy to that weren’t deserving. I pray to make quiet exits and have loud boundaries. I don’t pray my absence is missed, only respected. I pray to reclaim my heart as my own.
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Y’all boyfriend’s be a huge part of the reason I ain’t want no boyfriend. They be embarrassing omg
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It cost $0.00 to hit share and support a black child author ✍🏾📚☺️
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Biggest mistake I ever made was trying to prove to certain men I was worthy of their love when they weren’t even deserving of mine.
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